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Please join us in celebrating the life and memory of Jean Paxton. We remember a mother, grandmother, sister, daughter, and friend. We miss and love her so much and will remember her forever.

Jean passed away Tuesday, June 16th. Her four children, daughter & son-in-law, two grandchildren, two brothers, and second husband were with her the day she passed away helping her pass surrounded by love and comfort.

Please share any and all photos and memories of Jean with us here. Due to these unprecedented times, we want to create a space to remember her and share our memories of the ways she has touched our lives. We plan on having a service and gathering in the future when safe to do so.
July 5, 2021
July 5, 2021
I was working a security job at a Verizon store, where I met Jean, doing cell phone business there. She mentioned that she owned a restaurant in Des Plaines, so being my home town, I asked her which one, she said The Choo Choo. Wow, I remembered that really well. Had eaten there with the toy train bringing the meals. I meant to stop in there to say hi and grab a meal, but my schedule with rotating shifts didn't synchronize with their hours. I just learned of her death recently and am shocked. She was so young and so nice! I am greatly saddened by this. Jean, may you rest in peace, and enjoy your heavenly Choo Choo for all eternity.
March 2, 2021
March 2, 2021
To Jean’s Family,
I am so incredibly sorry to hear about the loss of Jean. She was a big part of my kids growing up as we frequented the Choo Choo quite often. She was always so welcoming and my kids always loved going there to see Jean and Jamie. Hugs all around anytime she saw them. She will be so missed and I pray for your family. Jamie I’m thinking of you and wish there was a way to reach out. You and your mom really helped me through a hard time in my life and I wish I could do the same for you. May the modifies of her help you all forever and always.
August 26, 2020
August 26, 2020
Thinking of the great boss lady herself, dear Jeanie, today on her birthday. We used to say August is the best month because of our birthdays but honestly, no day can top hers. She truly taught me so much and brought many of the most important people into my life and I just want to say thank you! She gave her all into everything she did and touched so so many lives. I’ll never forget the last time I saw her. She was zooming past my parent’s house in her ChooChoo-mobile and slammed on the brakes when she saw me outside. She laughed at the few honks behind her as we hugged and quickly said a few words. That was just Jean. She was a legend and everyone knew her. We are missing her dearly and sending love to her family. Picked my neighbors flowers for you today Jean ❤️.
August 26, 2020
August 26, 2020
Happy Birthday to my dear friend who I pray for every day! You were a bright light in this world and will always be remembered with love. I miss our chats and your funny stories♥️❌⭕️
July 29, 2020
July 29, 2020
Sam, Jamie, David, Molly, family & friends!
My heart was crushed when I heard of Jean’s passing. She never told me how sick she truly was. I believe she thought she would beat this horrible disease! She was a light in my life and had so many stories to share about her family and work which were both her saving grace. We would talk almost every month or so and always tried with the best intentions to get together. On occasion I would pop into the Choo Choo and hang with her as we were both so busy. We would always be laughing and sharing funny experiences that happened to us or others.
Your mom was a fantastic friend and I pray she is at peace resting with our Lord and watching over us all.
May you all find Peace and strength in the loving memories of your mom.
July 26, 2020
July 26, 2020
Sending love and healing to Sam, Jamie, David, Molly, and Jean's entire family. Jean was such a light and will be greatly missed by all that knew her. <3

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July 5, 2021
July 5, 2021
I was working a security job at a Verizon store, where I met Jean, doing cell phone business there. She mentioned that she owned a restaurant in Des Plaines, so being my home town, I asked her which one, she said The Choo Choo. Wow, I remembered that really well. Had eaten there with the toy train bringing the meals. I meant to stop in there to say hi and grab a meal, but my schedule with rotating shifts didn't synchronize with their hours. I just learned of her death recently and am shocked. She was so young and so nice! I am greatly saddened by this. Jean, may you rest in peace, and enjoy your heavenly Choo Choo for all eternity.
March 2, 2021
March 2, 2021
To Jean’s Family,
I am so incredibly sorry to hear about the loss of Jean. She was a big part of my kids growing up as we frequented the Choo Choo quite often. She was always so welcoming and my kids always loved going there to see Jean and Jamie. Hugs all around anytime she saw them. She will be so missed and I pray for your family. Jamie I’m thinking of you and wish there was a way to reach out. You and your mom really helped me through a hard time in my life and I wish I could do the same for you. May the modifies of her help you all forever and always.
August 26, 2020
August 26, 2020
Thinking of the great boss lady herself, dear Jeanie, today on her birthday. We used to say August is the best month because of our birthdays but honestly, no day can top hers. She truly taught me so much and brought many of the most important people into my life and I just want to say thank you! She gave her all into everything she did and touched so so many lives. I’ll never forget the last time I saw her. She was zooming past my parent’s house in her ChooChoo-mobile and slammed on the brakes when she saw me outside. She laughed at the few honks behind her as we hugged and quickly said a few words. That was just Jean. She was a legend and everyone knew her. We are missing her dearly and sending love to her family. Picked my neighbors flowers for you today Jean ❤️.
Recent stories
November 20, 2020
I miss my friend and every time I think of her it's with tears in my eyes and a smile on my face.
July 29, 2020
I met Jean when I lived in Des Plaines and took my children to the Choo Choo for the first time with a family friend and his daughter. My children thought it was so much fun and exciting. The train, the bell, the happy birthday music and the food along with the owner and staff were all focused on making everyone have a good time. 
Flash forward to when I enrolled my Children  at Holy Cross School she was shocked. It was the Ice Cream Social and there was Jean with her apron in serving ice cream with a huge smile on her face. She truly was a woman of service with a smile! Our school and parish were extremely lucky and grateful to her and her husband Dale for their generosity through the years.
As we became friends, our laughter grew stronger with stories and situations we shared.
When she told me she needed to go through Chemo the first time, I went with her to buy her wig. It was actually a lighthearted event as we laughed trying on different looks. Her Chemo treatment stories were always positive as she met so many brave people throughout her journey. She kept me posted on her health and after the treatments were finished her hair began to grow back. No need for the wig, until I saw her wearing it again at the Choo Choo. I asked what was going on and she made light of it as I found out she was having treatments again. 
As I sit and reflect on our conversations and visits, I realize how much I miss my friend. I spoke to her in June and she never mentioned to me she was in the hospital. I told her I’d love to grab coffee lunch or dinner with her and she said that would be great. I never realized how sick she was until I found out she wasn’t doing good from her ex husband Dale while at a friends home.  I’m glad I told her I loved her every time we spoke. She and her whole family are in my prayers and I hope she knows she will be missed and loved

Choo Crew

July 26, 2020
I worked for Jean at the Choo Choo for three years. In that time, I learned many different arts from her. To name a few: the art of properly decorating for holidays, the art of talking to people and learning their stories, the art of deep cleaning (even if it was three hours post-closing and everyone really wanted to go home), the art of saving your spare change in a piggy bank (gifted from Jean) and cashing it out when it is full, the art of reapplying lipstick, the art of frosting a cupcake, and the very important art of giving. Jean went out of her way to do kind things for other people. She was everyone’s number one fan and would rally for her employees no matter what. She never shied away from confrontation, always spoke her mind, and was always there if you needed her. Jean worked to hold everyone around her accountable and if you were out of line, she would not hesitate to let you know. I learned how important hard work is and how going above and beyond makes a difference. Jean did a fantastic job creating a fun work environment that brought all of her employees together. The Choo truly felt like one big family and there was never a dull moment working there.  Some of my favorite memories included after work outings, listening to music very loud, inappropriate humor, and post-shift meals while discussing the day. Working in a restaurant can be stressful, but the Choo crew made it so much fun. Every time I haul way too many grocery bags from my car to my home (“lazy man’s load”), I can hear Jean say my full name in a lovingly frustrated tone. I truly enjoyed working for Jean and with the rest of the Choo crew and will forever remember my time there.

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