This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Jed Appleby, 50, born on August 7, 1964 and passed away on March 28, 2015. We will remember him forever as the heart warming man he was.
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Leave a tributeI miss you, Jed. I miss knowing you are in the world, that I never knew what you might say or do, that I would feel your warmth and love the moment I saw you or heard your voice. I wish I could have a whole day of memories of you when we were all kids. Warm, sunny summer days of backyards and daredevil bicycles. I wish I could reminisce with you for hours about things you remember and I have forgotten.
When I stop and think about it I am still devastated that you are gone.
On days of high skies and vaulted blue I look for you. God bless you, my dear friend.
The cemetery looks so beautiful this spring. Peter and I took some amazing aerial photographs of where you and Mommy are resting. I miss you so much. Hope you are happy there in the other dimension. I love you always.
I miss you every day. I pray my eyes can see some light and blue sky for you; I will always keep my heart open for you, through the familiar, warm connection we shared in our lives. God bless you, brother. The world seems less like home since you left us; I miss you. So sad.
Please I would like to hear from your boys too; if they see this.
God love you Jed. I miss you so much. Thanks for all the love and music.
"Don't worry about a thing, because every little thing is gon' be alright."
What a beautiful boy with such a wonderful smile.
I am so sorry you are not here to share your birthday with your family.
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Please be patient.
Alone Again (Naturally)
After my dad left us at Christmas 1971, Jed and I were pretty shocked and upset, Mom was very worried about how we were going to manage--but put on a brave face for us. My brother Shaun left town--and Mom and Jed and I tried to regroup. Poor Jed was just 7, and very became very sad--which saddened us because he was such a sunny kid. I remember he listened to the song "Alone Again (Naturally)" over and over again in his room. I think it comforted him to know that there was someone else in the world that was suffering from the "loss" of a parent. Thanks Peter for posting this song to Jed's audio gallery. It meant a lot to him in the old days--and I know he felt this way when Mommy died in 2013.
Jed and his Volvo
Many thanks to Aunt Mary Lou for sending this amazing picture. In the late 1990s, Jed had a head-on collision with a truck while driving his Volvo. It is a miracle that he survived. The dealership he worked for put this wreck on a pedestal in the lot--and Jed sold a record-breaking number of Volvos that year based on his incredible survival of this amazingly safe car. Leave it to Jed to make lemons out of lemonade. It was one of his great gifts.
the lilac tree
This is Matt and Jed and Amy (me) in Mommy's backyard at 60 Bayview. I don't know what year it was, but judging by Matt's age (6?), I would guess it is 2004 or so. The little dog is Bailey, and he is about two years older than Matt. This was a beautiful spring day--and Mommy's lilac bush behind us was in full bloom, so it was in May. After this picture was taken, I remember Jed turned around picked one of the lilacs and presented it to Mom with great flourish. We were all very happy to see each other--especially Mom.
My husband Peter and I dug this bush up when Mommy moved in 2010 and still have it growing in our yard in Connecticut. I will make sure to put a bouquet on Jed and Mom's grave next spring to remember this happier day.