October 29, 2022
October 29, 2022
Missing you today as I do every day. You are my love. Then now forever Love always your wife Diane
This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, jeff rother, 64 years old, born on September 19, 1947, and passed away on October 29, 2011. We will remember him forever.
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September 19, 2021
September 19, 2021
Happy birthday hon. Miss and love you as much as I did before you went to heaven
October 28, 2020
October 28, 2020
Tomorrow will be the day you’re suffering stopped. I still miss and love you like crazy. As you and Ronnie know you are going to be a great grandpa and Ronnie a grandpa. Our Paigers is having a boy. He is very spunky. Please watch over us especially Paige. R I P my love
September 19, 2020
September 19, 2020
Happy birthday my love. I hope you’re up in heaven with no pain and with your family and friends
September 19, 2019
September 19, 2019
Happy birthday my love. I hope you are fishing and golfing with all our loved ones that are up in heaven with you. I love as much as I did when you were here with me. Love always your wife Diane
October 29, 2017
October 29, 2017
ITS 6 YEARS SINCE I WAS ABLE TO HOLD YOU AND HEAR YOU BREATH. I MISS AND LOVE YOU NOW AS I DID THEN, YOU ARE MY ONE AND ONLY,IM SURE YOU SEE HOW PAIGE AND AUSTIN ARE DOING THEY ARE GREAT.YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN MY LOVE,
September 19, 2016
September 19, 2016
happy birthday my love. im really trying to go on,but I sure do miss you.i love you now as I always have.
September 20, 2015
September 20, 2015
Happy belated birthday Jeff... I only realized this morning that yesterday would've been your birthday... we miss ya down here... but sure you, Ron, Larry went fishing...State fair was fun with Paige, Austin, Maria and DI....boy the kids are growing up too quickly...Paige is 17 and Austin is taller than me now...I know they all miss you....take care and keep watching over them all
September 19, 2015
September 19, 2015
JUST TELING YOU HOW MUCH I MISS AND LOVE YOU ISNT ENOUGH.YOU ARE AND WILL ALWAYS BE THE LOVE OF MY LIFE.I HVE COMFORT IN KNOWING YOU HAVE NO PAIN.HAPPY BIRTHDAY MY LOVE. TILLWE MEET AGAIN
May 4, 2015
May 4, 2015
ITS BEEN A WHILE SINCE IVE BEEN ON THIS. I HAVENT FORGOT YOU ,I TALK ABOUT YOU EVERYDAY.I NEED YOU TO LET ME KNOW IF YOU WANT ME TO SEND YOUR ASHES TO THE EARTH TO GO TO HEAVEN, GIVE ME A SIGN PLEASE. I MISS AND LOVE YOU SO MUCH.LOVE ALWAYS AND FOREVER YOUR WIFE DIANE
December 25, 2014
December 25, 2014
MERRY CHRISTMAS HON.MISS AND LOVE YOU SO MUCH.I FELT YOU WITH US OVER ANGIES. SEE HOW BIG THE KIDS ARE GETTING. I HOPE YOU ARE HAPPY AND HAVING A GREAT TIME WITH RONNIE JASON LARRY AND YOUR MOM AND DAD. LOVE YOUR WIFE DIANE
December 13, 2014
December 13, 2014
well my darling husband today is the day 4 years ago our son Ronnie went to heaven. I didn't know how to tell you.but I did. I miss and love you so much. my world stopped when you went to heaven. I miss Ronnie so much too. give him a hug from me . show us you are around. love your wife
December 8, 2014
December 8, 2014
Got to spend Thanksgiving with Di, Maria, Austin and Paige...did Christmas shopping Saturday...know how much fun we had over the years doing that...kids growing up too quickly...lol . . . Miss ya and Ronnie as much today as the days you passed... Watch over them all...DI really misses ya...hope all is well up there...sure you n Ron have some good fish tales to tell....lol Until we meet again... :)
November 22, 2014
November 22, 2014
HAPPY ANNIVERARY MY LOVE. THE WEATHER IS CLOSE TO WHAT IT WAS IN 1989. I LOVE AND MISS YOU
November 20, 2014
November 20, 2014
Well Thanksgiving is just around the corner and it's been unseasonably cold here....Heading up to Cambridge Thanksgiving day to spend it with Diane, Maria, Paige and Austin.....will be thinking of you and Ron that day for sure....you both loved Thanksgiving :) ...missya....hard to believe 3 years has passed .... Take care and keep watching over Diane and the kids...sure Ronnie is too..Hi Milo!!
October 29, 2014
October 29, 2014
It is 3 yrs today you went to heaven. I miss you now like I did when you first passed on.Ilove you so much. Ican not see myself moving forward. I try but I cant. I want to feel your touch,i want to hear your voice, smell your smell.i want it all back.....
October 23, 2014
October 23, 2014
Hi Jeff...long time since I posted....wish you and Ron had been here recently ...I finally have come to terms with the past baggage...had the True Spiritual Awakening the Program talks of... could NOT have done this without you or Ronnie....Grateful for having known you both when you were alive...know you and Ron would be smiling and Happy for me....Know Di is..... A lot of tears shed but you know that.... take care.....someday we shall meet again :) Hard to believe it's been almost 3 years :(
September 19, 2014
September 19, 2014
HAPPY BIRTHDAY HON. I MISS YOU TODAY LIKE IT JUST HAPPENED. I LOVE YOU MORE THAN WORDS CAN SAY. I HOPE AND PRAY YOU ARE PAIN FREE AND WITH RONNIE, LARRY, MILO, AND JASON. I ALSO HOPE YOU ARE WITH YOUR PARENTS..I LOVE YOU JEFF TILL WE SEE EACH OTHER AGAIN
September 1, 2014
September 1, 2014
wow hon its been a long time since I wrote but I think and talk to you everyday... our little girl paigers is 16 years old today... hard to believe... I love you and miss you still
April 20, 2014
April 20, 2014
HAPPY EASTER MY LOVE. I LOVE AND MISS YOU MORE AND MORE. YOU ARE ALWAYS ON MY MIND. I TALK ABOUT YOU ALWAYS....
April 12, 2014
April 12, 2014
hello hon I haven't been on because my computer wouldn't let me . I miss you so much. our love is so strong then now and forever.
December 26, 2013
December 26, 2013
merry Christmas hon. sorry this is a day late but this computer is really bugging me I love and miss you
December 13, 2013
December 13, 2013
been trying to send messages on here but it wasn't working. happy anniversary on the 22 of nov. I miss and love you so much. its 3 yrs today I had to tell you our son Ronnie passed away that was the hardest thing I thought I had to do but it wasn't the hardest thing was losing you and Ronnie in just 10mths apart... I love and miss you
November 1, 2013
November 1, 2013
Hard to believe it's been 2 years Jeff . . .been down in Havana for Halloween . . .get back to Mn Nov 4 . . . Hope you, Ron, Larry and Milo all having a great time . . .miss you and Ron terribly . . . take care . . . :)
October 29, 2013
October 29, 2013
well my darling its been 2 yrs today since you went to heaven without pain. that's what keeps me going is knowing your not in pain any more. I miss you so much .. I love you more than anyone knows
September 29, 2013
September 29, 2013
well hon its 23 mths since I touched you and seen you. I miss you today more than yesterday. I love you so very much.. my heart is shattered. hon austins grandpa Lenard is in hosp, not doing very good, please watch over him and talk to god in keeping him here with wendy and Austin.miss and love you
September 28, 2013
September 28, 2013
Hard to believe it's gonna be 23 months tomorrow when you passed . . . I know Di and the kids really missya... so do I . . . Hope you, Ron, Larry and Milo all doing well Jeff . . I lost my 1 friend I could talk to when I was struggling... that's why I still hit meetings . . .bowling 4 leagues/week this year . . . Watch over Di and the kids . . . Bo turns 4 Oct 2 . . . take care...
September 19, 2013
September 19, 2013
happy birthday my love. its been very emotional today.. I miss you so very much. love you forever and always
September 11, 2013
September 11, 2013
happy 26th sobriety day my love I miss and love you so much
August 23, 2013
August 23, 2013
hello my love..... I speak of you and talk to you every day. I love you today like I did almost 22 mths ago. I miss you so much my life is revolved around you then and now. the fair is started so I will feel you with me down there... I love and miss you
August 22, 2013
August 22, 2013
Finally back in Mn after a looong summer in Illinois . . . been thinking of you now that the State Fair is starting today . . .you always enjoyed working the booth, the food and bringing Paige n Austin down for a fair day . . . Missya my friend . . . hope you, Larry, Ronnie n Milo are at Peace w/no more pain and enjoying the time together . . . we shall meet again someday .
July 29, 2013
July 29, 2013
hello my love today is 21 mths... still miss you and love you like it all happened today.. I love you so much, I hope you knew and felt how much I did and still do love you. I hope my believes are true and you and Ronnie Jason and larry your mom and dad are all together and happy with no pain.remember me and guide me
July 9, 2013
July 9, 2013
well its been a while hon, and I still miss and love you just as much as I did before. paige and maria are going to ohio for 10 days or so, ill be walking back and forth to work so watch over me.i cant believe im getting screwed yet again..... im thinking about getting rid of phones cant afford them....what do u think? well best go love and miss you
June 27, 2013
June 27, 2013
your my love my life you are the breath I take.... I miss you and I love you
June 25, 2013
June 25, 2013
Things are so different without you! Come visit.
June 16, 2013
June 16, 2013
happy fathers day hon. I hope you Ronnie and larry are having a great fishing day up in heaven I miss and love you.
June 5, 2013
June 5, 2013
hi hon. having one of those angry days. I miss you so much I don't no how to go on. I lived so long with you that now that your gone I don't no what to do. HELP ME I love you I miss
June 4, 2013
June 4, 2013
Hard to believe it's been 19+months since you left us Jeff.... know it's been awhile since I posted...just got back in Twin Cities...spending almost all summer down in Illinois . . .Looking forward to August when I get to take Paige, Austin and Kaylee to the State fair.... keep watching over Di, Maria, Angie and all the kids...Miss ya.
May 26, 2013
May 26, 2013
hello hon. was trying to leave you alone so you can do the work you need to do up there.i miss you still like it was losing you today. I love you so much. you are my one and only. love always your wife diane
April 13, 2013
April 13, 2013
hello the love of my life.. its suppose to be spring. I love this weather. I saw 2 robins today ,, I thought of you and Ronnie. I sure miss you hon. I wish I could hold you and you hold me one last time. I hope you felt me holding you while you were going to meet god at the gates of heaven. I love and miss you always your wife diane
March 27, 2013
March 27, 2013
hello my love just sitting here knowing you are smiling down at paige as you know shes in washington d c. our dream was to go there but now your paigers is there. cool isnt it.. i love and miss you dearly love always your wife diane
March 9, 2013
March 9, 2013
hello my love,,, finally got your auptopsy report... im sorry you had so much pain.. i have comfort knowing now you are pain free.. i love you so much and i miss you too....i wish i had you here pain free my love...miss and love you always your wife diane
February 23, 2013
February 23, 2013
hello my love.... not a day goes by i dont think about you or talk about you.. i love yoy today as i did yesterday maybe more.
February 8, 2013
February 8, 2013
hello hon.having real bad day bad life dont know what to do any more i dont no where to turn..... i need you so much.... its not right im sorry im not strong enough to go without you... i need your strenghth i have so many questions and dont know where to get the answers......i thought i was stronger than this i guess im not... i love you so much
January 1, 2013
January 1, 2013
Well 2012 is gone and now its 2013. ive been having strange dreams of you. i tried to understand them and i kinda figured some of them out. you want me to go on with out you. at times i think i can but then the other times i just cant. my heart is broken losing you and ronnie is to much. HAPPY NEW YEAR MY LOVE
December 31, 2012
December 31, 2012
Well as 2012 passes to 2013 tonight I just wanted to say it's ard to believe 14+ months have passed since you went to meet your Maker . . .Miss the times you stayed in Oakdale when you had early appts at the U . . . Please watch over Di, Maria, Angie, Becky, Teri, all of Ronnie's kids ...they all missya... I know I do . . .Thanks for watching over me when I had pacemaker implanted . . .
December 26, 2012
December 26, 2012
Well Jeff...I turn 51 today . . .it's been almost 14 mos since you passed away . . . know you, Ron and Milo will be at my 51st b-day party tonight in SPIRIT . . . you n Ronnie BETTER come see Diane, Paige, Austin, Becky n Bo sometime soon . . .they need to know all is well up there w/ya both . . .missya Jeff . . .
December 25, 2012
December 25, 2012
MERRY CHRISTMAS MY LOVE. I MISS YOU LIKE CRAZY STILL. HOPE YOU ARE WITH RONNIE JASON LARRY YOUR MOM AND DAD AND OF COURSE MILO. I LOVE YOU AS MUCH NOW AS I DID WHEN YOU WERE HERE. I WISH I COULD FEEL YOU ONE MORE TIME. REST IN PEACE MY LOVE
December 13, 2012
December 13, 2012
well my love its 2 yrs since our ronnie passed away and it still hurts so much i wish you were here to hold me my heart is broke into so many pieces. i miss you my love
December 5, 2012
December 5, 2012
hello my love wow rick really gave us a scare. i know you and ronnie was there with him along with his parents. i miss and love you so much. its not getting any easier its getting harder.
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October 29, 2022
October 29, 2022
Missing you today as I do every day. You are my love. Then now forever Love always your wife Diane
September 19, 2021
September 19, 2021
Happy birthday hon. Miss and love you as much as I did before you went to heaven
October 28, 2020
October 28, 2020
Tomorrow will be the day you’re suffering stopped. I still miss and love you like crazy. As you and Ronnie know you are going to be a great grandpa and Ronnie a grandpa. Our Paigers is having a boy. He is very spunky. Please watch over us especially Paige. R I P my love
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Jeff in Toledo Ohio around high school graduation time for him.
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Diane, Jeff & Ron
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Ted Tim hug Sue Linda Jerrime at table
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Nancy and Bednar inlaw Mark with fork
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3 yrs
October 29, 2014
by diane rother
WHEN THE DRS CAME TO US AND SAID THEY WANTED TO HAVE A MEETING ON YOUR CARE,THEY SAID IF YOU CAME OUT OF THE COMA YOU WOULD BE A VEGTABLE AND BE ON A RESPIRATOR.YOU SAID YOU DIDNT WANT TO GO ON LIKE THAT SO I MADE THAT TREADFUL DECISSION TO LET YOU GO.I CANT STOP WANTING YOU BACK. I LOVE YOU SO MUCH. I CANT MOVE ON. I DONT KNOW HOW. ITS BEEN YOU AND ME ,ME AND YOU,NOW ITS ME. AND I DONT LIKE ME WITHOUT YOU.LOVING SOMEONE SO HARD SO MUCH THAT EVERY BREATH YOU TAKE IS FOR THAT PERSON AND THEN ALL OF A SUDDEN YOU ARE GONE , HOW THE HELL AM I SUPPOSE TO GO ON?PLEASE HELP ME... I LOVE YOU AND I MISS YOU SO MUCH.
HAPPY ANNIVERSARY
November 22, 2014
by diane rother
WELL TODAY IS OUR ANNIVERSARY. I REMEMBER THAT DAY IN 1989 WHEN WE GOT MARRIED. YOU WERE AND ARE MY WHOLE BEING. I LOVED YOU SO MUCH THEN AND OUR LOVE GREW AS THE YEARS WENT BY. I LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU LOVE ALWAYS AND FOREVER
BIRTHDAY
September 19, 2014
by diane rother
HAPPY BIRTHDAY HON. AND HAPPY ANNIVERSARY YOU HAVE 27 YEARS OF SOBRITY AS OF THE 10TH. I MISS YOU SO MUCH. I FEEL YOU AROUND ME AT TIMES. I JUST WISH YOU COULD HOLD ME. I NEED YOU SO MUCH. I FEEL LIKE I WEAR A MASK AND PRTEND ALL IS GOOD , WHEN INREALITY ITS SO PAINFUL. WELL MY LOVE MY LIFE REST WELL ... HAPPY BIRTHDAY LOVE.