Jeffrey and I had a years long friendship that began when I was just in middle school. We would talk frequently online or on the phone, and he would even send me CDs through Nikki at school. He became one of the best friends I had, and I miss him every day. When he told me he was sick, he promised me that there was nothing to worry about and that he'd beat it. He never, ever let on to how sick he truly was, because he always cared more about others' well-being than his own. He was the most selfless, genuine person I have ever known. On days when he probably felt at his worst, he was always first to ask me how I was or how my day was going.
We spent a lot of time talking about music, and even attended two of the same concerts. The second one was the last time I saw him in person, because it wasn't long after that it seems that he got diagnosed and I left to go away for school. We still kept in touch online but when he got sicker, he stopped signing on and we didn't talk much.
I will carry with me always the regret I feel at not knowing how little time left I had with him. I would give anything to give him one last hug, to tell him I love him, to ask him what new songs I should be listening to, to let him tell me about good new movies I should watch, or just to hear him ask me how I am doing today and that he hopes I am doing well. If he were here today, I would squeeze him and never let go. I'd probably joke with him that his favorite band has become a source of a lot of laughter and joking in the music world (Nickelback). I'd watch Finding Nemo with him again, because that was the last movie I watched with him, and I can still remember him quietly singing "Just keep swimming" beside me as we laughed at the movie. And I would definitely ask him how he is doing and tell him that I hope he is doing well.
Jeffrey, I miss you every day. You will forever be one the best friends I have ever had, and I will never forget the way you always cared for me, the way you were always happy, the way you never let stuff get you down, or the gentle way you held my hand or hugged me. Every day since you've passed six years ago, we have all felt a void. But there is also peace, because if there was ever a soul bound for Heaven, it was yours. I know you are smiling, laughing, listening to your favorite music, watching your Georgia bulldogs play football, and being the amazing person you are in Heaven, where I promise I will again see you one day. I love you.
"I love you
I have loved you all along
And I miss you
Been far away for far too long
I keep dreaming you'll be with me
and you'll never go"
Love always,
Becky