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This memorial website was created in the memory of our loved one, Jeffrey Carruth, 59, born on May 1, 1952 and passed away on December 30, 2011 at Stanford Hospital after a long Illness.

Please join us in "CELEBRATION OF JEFF'S LIFE" at his memorial Service on Jan.28,2012 at The Church of the Immaculate Heart of Mary, 1040 Alemeda De Las Pulgas, Belmont, CA 94002 at 11:00am........Refreshments and a chance to exchange memories will follow immediately after at The Highlands Rec Center, 1851 Lexington Ave, San Mateo, CA 94402

May 1, 2022
May 1, 2022
MY BITHDAY CANDLE FOR YOU MY LOVE, JUST IMAGINE 70 OF THEM TO BLOW OUT. NOW MAKE A WISH.............love Joanne
May 1, 2022
May 1, 2022
Well it's 2022 and you've been gone 11 years and my heart never stops longing for you to be here with me and our kids and grand kids. Life isn't the same without you. Yeah we've had our ups and downs ( what married couple doesn't) but we always managed to keep it together and best of all we stayed together. One day we'll be together again and I'll feel whole again. I feel you with me occasionally and it feels good. HAPPY BIRTHDAY Honey, or should I say happy 70th. Wow you would have been 70 and I'm 65 now, we would have been married 32 years! AMAZING ...BY FOR NOW BABE, HAPPY 70TH AND I'LL SEE YOU ONE DAY ON THE OTHER SIDE. LOVE YOU, JOANNE XXOO
May 1, 2018
May 1, 2018
THIS CANDLE IS FOR YOU, PRETEND ITS ON YOUR CAKE LIKE WHEN YOU WERE HOME. XXOOO LOVE JOANNE
May 1, 2018
May 1, 2018
HAPPY BIRTHDAY BABE, WOW 66YEARS OLD TODAY !! I WISH YOU WERE HERE TO SPEND IT WITH ME. IVE NEVER STOPPED LOVING YOU AND LOOK FORWARD TO THE DAY I WILL SEE YOU AGAIN. GOD I MISS YOU :(
May 1, 2017
May 1, 2017
HAPPY 65TH BIRTHDÀY BABE!! I LOVE YOU SO MUCH AND LOOK FORWARD TO THE DAY I WILL BE WITH U AGAIN. YOUR LOVING WIFE , JOANNE. I CANT BELIEVE ON OUR ANNIVERSARY THIS YEAR, DECEMBER 22ND WE WILL HAVE BEEN MARRIED 27 YEARS!
June 19, 2016
June 19, 2016
happy fathers day dad. Ill be thinking of you, always. Miss you so much
May 2, 2016
May 2, 2016
we were all together for your birthday. It was nice seeing the girls. Think of you always
December 22, 2015
December 22, 2015
Happy holidays dad. I miss you still. Wish u could share these great times with us. I feel like ur missing out on some of the specialist times. My boys sure would've gotten a kick out of u. And the other way around too I'm sure. Can't believe it's been almost 4 years already. Think about u always.
May 1, 2015
May 1, 2015
happy birthday dad. i miss you everyday, but i sure am glad you are not living the life you were before. and you free of everything.
Everything has changed since you left, but the best part is gina is so much closer now. She has turned in to a amazing woman, with a good head on here shoulders. We all have. I know you know that already. you can see everything. love you and miss you everyday xo
December 10, 2014
December 10, 2014
i cannot believe its been almost 3 years. I remember how frustrated I was around Christmas when you were no longer able to talk. I miss you so much dad, I wish my boys could've gotten to know how fun & special you were, but I also know you are still with us to watch over things.
I love you and will never stop missing you Dad
xo
May 1, 2013
May 1, 2013
HAPPY 61st BIRTHDAY HONEY!!I wish you were here with w/Gina & I in Maui today. We are going to Kanapalai to celebrate in ur honor today. Last nite I felt U next to me under the Maui moon listening to the Ocean waves. It brings tears to my eyes as I write.U know I miss u in so many ways and I cant wait to see & hold u once again.Happy Birthday & I'll see U on the other side.Love Your Joanne
January 2, 2013
January 2, 2013
dad, missing you still. I cant believe its been over a year since you were freed of your pain. Gina heather & I had a nice time remembering you this weekend. you will be forever loved & missed xoxo
June 26, 2012
June 26, 2012
Hi Hun, well its almost 7 mnths since you left us & I still feel you with me on a daily basis. Sandy said you sent someone to me to repair things around our house you were unable to fullfill since you got sick and he's done a great job, thank you. I miss you more than life itself& I still lay in bed & cry that I'll never feel you hold me or your touch& it doesn't seem fair.miss u&Lv u,Jo
June 17, 2012
June 17, 2012
Happy Fathers Day to you dear brother. I know a lot of people are missing you today. I spent the day with your children & many others at Adrienne's wedding yesterday. She was positively breathtaking. You would have been so proud. It was very hot but a good day for everyone, the only thing missing was you. (Mom, Dad & Carol too.) I'm sure you guys were there on some level.
June 5, 2012
June 5, 2012
dad, I havent stopped missing you. I just want to be able talk to you. Wish you would've made it to my big day. I know you'll be there in spirit, but it still makes me sad. I love you xoxo
May 1, 2012
May 1, 2012
Happy Birthday to you dear brother. I spent the day on a field trip today on the Russian Ridge Open Space off of skyline. You would have loved it, and I thought of you often. We even held a rattlesnake skin, brought back memories of you when I was young. Who knows maybe you saw us, I hope so.
May 1, 2012
May 1, 2012
happy birthday dad!!! thinking of you, & hope your having a wonderful time.... celebrating with the rest of your family you havent seen in awhile. miss you & love you always
May 1, 2012
May 1, 2012
I know I'm a few hours early to be saying this, but Happy Birthday dad. Been thinking about you all day. I'll sing happy birthday to you tomorrow. I love you.
March 2, 2012
March 2, 2012
missing you dad. Thinking of your sweet funny soul makes me smile, but the pain of not being able to talk to you is hard...
love you always
February 27, 2012
February 27, 2012
As sad as we all are, your body and soul are at peace. I am sorry for the pain you went through. You had such a great appreciation of children and it shows in your own. Jeff, your loss has brought us all closer, and if there is a silver lining, I guess that is it. I love you, my big brother.
February 16, 2012
February 16, 2012
Brother Jeff......I am so sad I can barely get the words out, which is why I've taken so long. You are always in my thoughts, you're the best brother I ever had (insert smile) I have nice memories of good conversations and many laughs with you. You are such a good soul. Kind and easy going with good connections to people as well as animals. You will be missed. Love you, sister sue
February 10, 2012
February 10, 2012
Dad- Sorry it's taken me so long to write something on here, just following the Carruth tradition. I miss you. You always were good at making me laugh. Thanks for never being a grouch, even in the end. You are one of the sweetest people I ever met. I love you.
Your girl, 'Heath-doo-wah'
February 6, 2012
February 6, 2012
Dad, been thinking of you alot lately. Sue & I talk about you alot, & laugh. We've got alot of good memories. Your definetly VERY loved & missed my angel. xoxo
January 27, 2012
January 27, 2012
Jeff was one of the kindest men I ever knew. He so loved his girls. They are all the better for knowing his love. We are all better for having Jeff in our lives.
January 25, 2012
January 25, 2012
Now you are my Angel, so spread your wings out wide,
please wrap them around me whenever you see me cry.
Our time together was memorable and God took you way too fast,
But the most precious thing to me was you being there for my first breath, and me being there for your last.
i didnt write that but its beautiful. love you dad xoxo
January 23, 2012
January 23, 2012
I know your sole surrounds us all with unconditional love. I will miss your physical being but your spirit lives on. You are one of the kindest, gentlest funniest people I know and feel fortunate you are my brother. With four younger sisters growing up, you always had enough love (and tickle tortures) to go around. Love you, bro
January 23, 2012
January 23, 2012
My Dad, My Angel
© Jamie Cirello
Your battle is now over, no more tears flowing down your cheek,
no more pain, no more suffering, now you are no longer weak.
I still do not understand why this had to happen to you,
but I am proud to say you are my dad, the greatest man I ever knew.
Although you will not be here to walk me down the aisle,
when that day comes I know you will be by my side wi
January 22, 2012
January 22, 2012
Dad i think of you every day, your always in my heart. I know your with me still, but I miss you so much. love you
January 21, 2012
January 21, 2012
I knew earlythat morning God was going to call your name, It broke my heart to loose you, but you didnt go alone, for part of me went with you the day God called you home..Your love is still my guide and tho I cannot see you your always by my side,Emotions are heart wrenching things are not the same but you blessed me with our children to carry on your name...i love you jeff, your Joanne

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MY BITHDAY CANDLE FOR YOU MY LOVE, JUST IMAGINE 70 OF THEM TO BLOW OUT. NOW MAKE A WISH.............love Joanne
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Well it's 2022 and you've been gone 11 years and my heart never stops longing for you to be here with me and our kids and grand kids. Life isn't the same without you. Yeah we've had our ups and downs ( what married couple doesn't) but we always managed to keep it together and best of all we stayed together. One day we'll be together again and I'll feel whole again. I feel you with me occasionally and it feels good. HAPPY BIRTHDAY Honey, or should I say happy 70th. Wow you would have been 70 and I'm 65 now, we would have been married 32 years! AMAZING ...BY FOR NOW BABE, HAPPY 70TH AND I'LL SEE YOU ONE DAY ON THE OTHER SIDE. LOVE YOU, JOANNE XXOO
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THIS CANDLE IS FOR YOU, PRETEND ITS ON YOUR CAKE LIKE WHEN YOU WERE HOME. XXOOO LOVE JOANNE
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