Let the memory of Jeffrey be with us forever
  • 47 years old
  • Born on November 1, 1964 .
  • Passed away on November 5, 2011 .
This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Jeffrey Clark 47 years old , born on November 1, 1964 and passed away on November 5, 2011. We will remember him forever.
Posted by Judy Clark on 16th August 2018
on August 7 ,Asher Reid Clark came into the world ,your second grandson , he weighed 7.8 pounds and was 20 inches long ,he had fluid in his lungs and stayed in nic u for 3 days ,he was born on Tuesday and was taken out of nic u on Friday , they were able to take him home on Saturday , Noah loves his baby brother so much , wish you had been able to see them both , Noah was born on Mike Newsome's birthday and they had a daughter born on August 7 just like your grandson, Kinlee Newsome,she was 6 the day that Asher was born, wish you could know what a coincident it is that so many of our loved ones have the same birthday, we still have the house that you were supposed to live in ,but you left this world before being able to move into it , Asher looks like Ashley and Noah looks just like Tony and he looks just like you , I see you in Tony every time that we are able to spend time with him, he calls us often ,we have not seen Chris in 5 years , he said he has his own family and does not need anybody ,miss him , I know that you cannot see what I write but just being able to write it helps me to accept your death which is so very hard on us ,did not get to say good bye to you ,you died alone and we are so sorry that we were not there with you ,praying that God has given you riches in heaven that you did not have on earth , rest in peace Son until we meet again ,we love and miss you more that you could possibly know ,love you ,Mom
Posted by Judy Clark on 8th July 2018
Jeff, today we celebrated our 62 anniversary ,we had breakfast with Cindy, Coach , Tony , Ashley and Noah at Denny,s , Tony;s vacation was over today and they had to go back to North Carolina, miss that little grandson of your;s so much , Cindy and Coach took us to Cracker Barrel for dinner ,it was a good day except you were missing and I was teary eyed all day just thinking of how much you are missed and loved, will never get over your death at such a young age , you were and still loved so very much and missed even more, rest in peace Son until we meet again , love you Mom
Posted by Judy Clark on 24th May 2018
Your grandson Noah called us on New Years to tell us that he is going to be a big brother,Ashley is pregnant again,and on March 19 Noah called us again to say he is going to have a baby brother,you are going to have a second grandson, August 12th, wish you were here to be able to see your grand children,Noah is finishing kindergarten and he has done very good, he loves math and has won several awards for math along with good conduct and perfect attendance,you would be so proud of him, Tony has him playing baseball,basketball and football, he is really good at sports, Son you are missed and loved so much,just wish you were here so we could tell you how much,we still have the house at Myrtle Beach,not sure how much longer we can keep it,your Dad is 80 and I am 77 ,our health is not to good,but we keep it in order to see Noah and pray that God will give us time with this new little boy.Noah knows that you are his grandfather and Tony will make sure that this baby will know you also, Rest peacefully Son until we are all together again,we love you,Mom
Posted by Judy Clark on 25th December 2017
another Christmas without you ,it is so hard to get through, missing you so much, wish you were here to have the day with us ,we have just about gotten the house back to normal since the hurricane ,it did so much damage to it ,we had to have a new roof put on ,Mike sent a wonderful guy from West Virginia to do it for us and we got him a lot of work here ,he put a metal roof on the house we bought for you and did it for free, reminds me of you ,you always would help anybody that needed help ,your grandson is in kindergarten this year and he loves math ,won the math ,good conduct and perfect attendance awards the first 9 weeks ,he is so smart ,loves anything to do with math and computers ,you would be so proud of him as we are, Tony is a good Dad ,we are not cooking again this year ,going to the church for dinner ,it is not the same without you here helping me cook ,so we just don't cook on Christmas day anymore, love you and miss you so much Son, rest until we meet again, love Mom and Dad
Posted by Judy Clark on 26th November 2017
Son ,you were missed so much this Thanksgiving,we came to the beach house we bought for you ,cannot let it go ,we had dinner with Cindy ,coach , Mike and family ,then Friday Tony ,Ashley and Noah came down to spend the weekend with us ,they had to leave today around 4 pm to return to North Carolina ,your grandson is in kinder garden this year, he told me he wished that Thanksgiving would return so he could stay with us longer ,he already wants days off from school,he will be 6 this Saturday ,you would love him so much ,he is so much fun to be around ,always happy and adores his Daddy, he is smart ,funny , always laughing ,always seem's to be happy, I wish you could have known him ,I know how excited you were to be a grandfather only to pass away 24 days before he was born ,Tony is such a god Father ,you would be so proud of him ,Son we love and miss you so much ,the hurts never goes away ,rest until we meet again, Mom
Posted by Judy Clark on 6th November 2017
yesterday was the 6th anniversary of losing you ,a very sad day ,missing you so much especially now as the holidays are near ,we always did holiday dinners together, we went by the cemetery to remove your birthday balloons, it was raining lightly , made it even sadder ,Tony called on your birthday and again yesterday , he misses you as much as we do , it is so hard having a missing plate at the table, like losing you all over again , the hole in our heart will never heal until we meet again , love you so much Son and missing you even more , rest in peace until we meet again , love you , Mom
Posted by Judy Clark on 1st November 2017
Son ,today would be your 53rd birthday ,instead you will be 47 forever, cannot tell you how much you are missed or loved, it is so hard going on without you, today we will visit the cemetery ,but wish we were visiting you here instead , wish you could see your grandson , he is such a little character ,loves the ocean and any kind of water as much as you did , Tony has him playing baseball , football and now starting basket ball , he can throw a ball better than I can and has your eyes, hurricane Irma did major damages to our home ,Mike helped us to get a new roof quicker that anybody else , I know you would have done it if possible ,miss all of the help you always gave us ,but not as much as we miss you ,you were gone to soon and we did not get to say good bye to you ,but part of us went with you the day God called you home ,a major part of our heart is with you in till we meet again ,love you Son with all of our hearts rest in peace until we meet again . love you Mom and Dad
Posted by Judy Clark on 25th July 2017
we just had a wonderful week end with your grandson,we took him to Virginia to dinosaur land,he loves them, then on to the transportation museum,he was thrilled with the model train collection,he is such a joy to be around ,always happy,Tony is teaching him to swim and he loves to surf on a boogie board,he loves the water as much as you did,wish you could see him ,you would love him so much ,we still have the house we bought for you ,cannot seem to let it go even though you never had the chance to move into it ,feel closer to you at it ,and we get to see Noah more by keeping it ,he knows that you are his grandfather ,Tony has made sure of that and when he was smaller he called your picture Daddy,Tony looks so much like you and Noah looks just like him with those long eye lashes, they are in for trouble when he is a teenager just like we were with all of the girls chasing you ,they will chase him too, we love you Son and miss you so much ,did not know something could hurt so much until we lost you ,life will never be the same again ,rest in peace until we meet again, love Mom
Posted by Judy Clark on 14th May 2017
Son ,I am sitting here on another Mothers day with tears in my eyes missing you so much,wishing I could get that phone call saying Mom ,happy Mothers day ,you always called on every occasion and I miss them so much ,but nothing as much as missing you,it has been so hard on us since losing you so young,if only it was possible to turn back time ,how wonderful that would be ,especially if you could have seen your grandson,he is a handful ,they have him playing T-ball again this year ,it is so hard to believe he will start kinder garden this year,you would have a ball with him ,he is so smart and funny,we still have the house that we bought for you ,do not know how much longer we can keep it as our health is not very good, both with heart problems,but we feel closer to you since this is where we last saw you,cannot believe this November will be 6 years since we had to say good bye to you ,the hardest thing we will ever have to do ,we love you Son ,rest in peace until we meet again ,love you so much ,Mom
Posted by Judy Clark on 5th November 2016
today mark's the fifth anniversary of your passing ,it has been a long hard 5 years without you here ,but it seem's like only yesterday that you left us without saying good bye,we miss you so much ,life changed forever that day when we received that dreaded phone call that no parent should ever have to receive, if only I could have another day with you to tell you about your grandson,and how much you were loved and missed,when I go into your room ,I have a hard time just looking at all of your belonging that you left behind ,cannot remove them ,maybe one day I will be able to let go ,but not yet ,you were so much help to us ,rest in peace until we meet again Son , Mom.
Posted by Judy Clark on 1st November 2016
Happy Birthday Son,wish you were here so we could celebrate it with you ,it has been a long ,hard 5 years since losing you, did not know something could hurt so much ,the night's are really bad,you are always on my mind, we spend as much time as possible with your Grand Son, he is so loving ,look's just like Tony ,he is such a good Dad ,and of course we have spoiled him just like we did to your Son's,and he love's us as much as we love him ,trying to do for him all that you would have done if given the chance to do ,you would be so proud of him ,he is in pre school now and doing good ,your Dad and I are doing fair,a lot of health problems ,missing you is the worse though , time does not heal the wound's like we were told it would do ,will never get over losing you ,wish I could have just one more day with you to tell you how much you were loved and to hear Mom let me do that one more time ,and one more hug.rest in peace until we meet again,love Mom
Posted by Judy Clark on 18th April 2016
Do you remember me ,I know my Mom does,she cries every night when she goes to bed,I know she is sad,I had to leave ,I was called home ,She is afraid no one will remember me,no one mentions my name to her ,they are afraid it will upset her,but she longs to hear my name from anyone else,just to know they haven't forgotten I was here ,I wish I could have stayed but that wasn't in the plans for me ,just let my Mom know you remember me ,she may smile once in a while but I know the truth,she can fool a lot of people buy she can't fool me or Jesus,we both know she is sad all of the time ,wishing for me to be back home,I watch over her all of the time ,I know she can feel me with her ,she talks to me all of the time ,she is always telling me how much she loves and misses me ,so please let her know you remember me ,ease her pain,and mention me once in a while,it would mean so much to her and Mom I love and miss you too, we will be together again one day ,I love you very much
Posted by Judy Clark on 5th November 2015
today is a sad day for us ,you left us four years ago today, we did not get to say goodbye to you ,you will never know how much it hurts that we lost you so young ,or how much you were loved and missed, the pain will never go away,so many times we have cried,so many sleepless night's ,waiting for the time that people tell us the pain will go away ,but it seems as if it only gets deeper with each passing day,so sorry that you did not get to see your grandson,he is so precious and we love him so much,trying to do all of the things for him that you would have done if possible,Tony is such a good Dad ,you would have been so proud of him ,we still have the house we bought for you and try to see your Son;s as much as possible,but it is not the same without you being with us ,Son we love you so much ,but life has to go on ,until we meet again ,rest peacefully ,you are in our prayers every day asking God to take care of you , love forever , Mom and Dad
Posted by Judy Clark on 1st November 2015
Son. another birthday has come and gone without you,it is so hard for us not to celebrate it with you, we went to Charlotte and had dinner with your oldest Son and Wife,saw their new home ,you would be so proud of Michael and Heather ,they have worked so hard and accomplished so much . Your Dad and I are having an especially hard time this year without you , we miss you so much ,only pray that you knew how much you were loved and needed,life will never be the same for us ,you are never out of my thought's and prayers,not a day goes by that we do not think about you, I know you cannot celebrate your birthday ,but wishing you a happy birthday in our heart's, until we meet again,we love you ,Mom and Dad.
Posted by Judy Clark on 14th February 2015
another special day as come,you always called on every holiday ,big or small, miss those call so much, or just hearing you say Mom,you were such a help to both of us and we have needed you so much ,but we know that you were suffering from the diabetes so much ,so many finger pricks and shots ,we still have the house and spend a lot of time there in the summer,Tony brings Noah down as much as possible ,wish so much that you could see that special little boy,he is so sweet ,you would love him so much ,Happy Valentines day son ,you can now have all of the chocolate that your heart's desire, we love you so much and still having a hard time with you not being here with us.miss you every day ,still waiting for the time that everybody tells us that will heal our broken hearts ,afraid for us that day will only come when we are reunited.rest in peace our precious Son.
Posted by Judy Clark on 5th November 2014
Son ,I cannot believe it has been three years since we lost you,it seems like only yesterday ,the pain never goes away,still look for you every time I walk into your room , expect to see you sitting at your computer ,life will never be the same for your Dad and I,we miss you so much ,just hope you knew how much you were loved,and needed, rest in peace Son until we meet again, Love you so much Mom and Dad
Posted by Judy Clark on 1st November 2014
Happy Birthday Son ,I know you can not celebrate it ,but I could not let your special day go by without telling you how much your Dad and I love and miss you,not a day goes by that we do not think of you and wish we could bring you back ,life without you has been so hard,tears still flow often,wish we had just one more day to spend with you and say all of the things that we want to tell you ,just know we love you so much and spend all of the time possible with your Grandson,he is special,wish you could see him ,you would love him so much ,he is so full of life and seems to love us so much,you are in our prayers everyday, we still have the house that we bought for you,cannot let it go,just wish you were here to enjoy it with us,rest in peace our precious Son until we meet again. Love you , Mom and Dad
Posted by Cindy Newsome on 1st November 2014
Happy Birthday Jeff. We all miss and love you very much.
Posted by Judy Clark on 5th November 2013
Son, today marks two years with out you, it has been so hard, a million times we have needed you and a million times we have cried, you did not go alone, because a huge part of our heart went with you.your Dad and I will never get over losing you, we did not get to say good bye ,you left so suddenly ,and only God knows why,Rest in peace our precious Son, we love you and miss you so much.
Posted by Judy Clark on 1st November 2013
today would have been your 49th birthday, it has been almost 2 years since you left , and we never got to say goodbye, I cannot tell you how much it hurt to have to let you go, you were my right hand ,doing so much to help me around the house, and every time I did something to mess up my computer , you always knew how to repair it, Sunday we are dedicating your monument at the church,
Posted by Judy Clark on 23rd January 2013
Jeff left behind his parents ,Marvin and Judy Clark ,sister Cindy Newsome and Brother Matt Clark, Son's Michael and wife Heather,Jeff ,Anthony and Chris,Ben was killed in a traffic accident in 2005,he did not get to tell Ben goodbye ,Jeff and Ben both suffered from diabetes,at his parents request ,all wishing to remember Jeff, please donate to American Diabetes Association in Jeff's name.
Posted by Judy Clark on 22nd January 2013
Son,your Dad and I will never get over losing you so young,it was not supposed to be this way,you were supposed to out live us ,but God had other plans for you.our hearts are broken and I cannot see a way for them to mend.Wish you could have seen your Grandson,he has your eyes and killer lashes ,Tony is such a great Dad ,you would have been so proud of him.love you forever ,Mom and Dad

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