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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Jeffrey Clark, 47 years old, born on November 1, 1964, and passed away on November 5, 2011. We will remember him forever.
December 25, 2022
December 25, 2022
Son , another.Christmas without you and Matthew, praying that you are celebrating Christmas together this year, we miss both of you guys so very much and love you, it is so hard and lonely here just your Dad and I, you have a new grandson , Michael and Heather are finally parents and his name is Tatum,Merry Christmas guys, waiting until we can all be together again in heaven, until then rest in peace ,.we love you, Mom
December 25, 2022
December 25, 2022
Son, I am sorry to be late in wishing you a merry Heavenly Christmas , Matthew went into the hospital on November 18 and passed away on Saturday December the 11, we have been dealing with his affairs and death, it has been a very difficult time for us especially since we now have lost both of you guys, we love you and miss you both so very much, we are now alone and not doing good, we feel like it will not be long before we join you, we are having Matthew’s funeral service at our church on the 30th of December and putting his ashes in the bench the same day with you, love you miss you guys so very much, love Mo
November 1, 2021
November 1, 2021
Happy birthday Son , another birthday without you, it is so hard not having you here so we could celebrate with you, Cindy took us to lunch so we would not be alone, she misses you too, Tony makes sure that Noah knows who you are and he loves you to, he made the all star regional baseball team, we went to watch him play, his team won 4 out of 6 games, he made all A’s on his report card this semester, you would be so proud of him, he looks like you to, we love and miss you so much Son, rest in heavenly peace Son, Mom and
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October 28, 2021
October 28, 2021
Son , yesterday we sold the house in Myrtle Beach, we did not want to but our health has gotten bad, I am having trouble walking and your Dad is having trouble with his left leg, the long drive from Sebring was getting to be to much for us to continue to make, we will be sad to have to say good bye to it but it was time, if only you were here to help, missing you so much, it does not get any easier, love you so very much, will see you soon, love Mom and Dad
July 8, 2021
July 8, 2021
Son, today we are celebrating 65 years of marriage and it is supposed to be a wonderful day for us but it is not complete with out you, wish you were here to celebrate it with us, we miss you so much and the pain of losing you never gets easier, we love you so much, Mom and Dad
May 9, 2021
May 9, 2021
Son today was Mother’s Day, Cindy called me and your Dad took me to dinner after church, but the day was sad because the call that could not come broke my heart, I still miss you today as much as I Did when we lost you, I am sitting here with tears in my eyes having a hard time trying to write this , I love you so much Son, Mom
December 25, 2020
December 25, 2020
Son, another Christmas has come and gone leaving a vacant place in our hearts, we miss you so much, praying that you are resting in the arms of God and spending the holidays with the Angels free of diabetes and all of the pain that you endured, you had a heart of gold , wish that you would have had more time to pass it around , miss your help in the kitchen so much , your Dad is now helping me do all that you used to do ,we still have the house at Myrtle Beach but know that if God lets us live another year it will have to be the last summer that we will get to spend there , our health is getting bad and we have to face that our time is short on this earth, we will be joining you soon , until then rest in peace until we meet again, with all of our love , Mom and Dad
November 5, 2020
November 5, 2020
Son, it is another birthday for you and we are so sad that we cannot have you here with us, we miss you so much , we will be with you soon, wish you could come see your grandsons, you would love them so much, Noah is so much like you, he loves the ocean as much as you did and Asher is so loving, Rest In Peace our precious Son until we meet again, we love you and miss you so much, Mom and Dad
November 1, 2020
November 1, 2020
Son today is another birthday for you and we cannot celebrate it with you and it is so depressing, we love and miss you so much, wish you could see your beautiful grandsons, Noah is in the third grade and doing very good in school, Asher is a very active child and two years old, Noah loves baseball, he is doing great,we still have the house in Myrtle Beach, cannot say how much longer we will be able to keep it as we are getting older and our health is not good now , we love you Son and will never get over losing you so young, rest comfortably in the arms of God our precious Son , love Mom and Dad
August 6, 2019
August 6, 2019
Jeff , I know that you cannot see this but I wanted to let you know that tomorrow will be the first birthday of your second grandson , his name is Asher Reid Clark, we have so many birthdays on the same day , Noah was born on Mike's birthday and Mike and Tiffany had a daughter born on the 7th day of August ,she will be 7 tomorrow , she and Asher will celebrate their birthdays on the same day , you would be so proud of Noah, he is doing really good in school and will be in the second grade this year, he is also doing great playing baseball and loves it , I am so sorry that you did not get to know the joy of being a grandfather , just 24 days and you could have seen Noah , Son I keep you in my prayers every night that God has you in his loving arms ,your Dad and I miss you so much, just wish we could have you back so we could tell you how much you were loved and missed, Son we love you so much and everyday is a struggle to get through since losing you, until we meet again ,love Mom. 
November 23, 2018
November 23, 2018
Son another Thanksgiving has passed with an empty chair and plate at the table, we went to Cindy's in order not to be alone, Tony was supposed to bring the boys down , but he did not come ,do not know why ,he never returned all of the calls we made , we had dinner with Chris Monday evening , he decided that he does after all need family and I am happy to have him back in our lives, we are thinking about selling the Myrtle Beach house because the long drive is getting hard on us and we have trouble with the cold weather here, as we are getting older and our health is not as good as we would like for it to be, we have kept in so we could be close to your grandson's and Cindy and Mike's family ,but we never see Mike or his kids and only see Tony so seldom , we see Cindy and Coach often when we are here at Myrtle Beach ,she opened a tackle shop a couple years ago and was doing good until she had to relocate , and several hurricanes hit the area, I know this is getting long ,but it helps me to be able to write to you , know that you cannot see this , but just pray that you know how much we love you and miss you , rest easy until we meet again ,love you Son , Mom
November 1, 2018
November 1, 2018
Happy Birthday Son , another birthday that has come and goes by to fast ,wish I could give you a big hug and tell you how much you are missed and loved, we put new flowers on your grave , but it is so hard to leave the cemetery knowing that you are there and I can not give you that hug and talk to you , it is so hard knowing that you cannot know your Grandson's, Noah thinks he is a fish just like you did , he would live in the ocean just like you if possible , you would love him so much and Asher is so sweet ,he looks more like Ashley that Noah does ,Noah looks like Tony and I am seeing you more and more in Tony ,sometimes he makes me cry when I look at him ,he is you made over. rest in peach our precious Son until we meet again , love you forever Mom
August 16, 2018
August 16, 2018
on August 7 ,Asher Reid Clark came into the world ,your second grandson , he weighed 7.8 pounds and was 20 inches long ,he had fluid in his lungs and stayed in nic u for 3 days ,he was born on Tuesday and was taken out of nic u on Friday , they were able to take him home on Saturday , Noah loves his baby brother so much , wish you had been able to see them both , Noah was born on Mike Newsome's birthday and they had a daughter born on August 7 just like your grandson, Kinlee Newsome,she was 6 the day that Asher was born, wish you could know what a coincident it is that so many of our loved ones have the same birthday, we still have the house that you were supposed to live in ,but you left this world before being able to move into it , Asher looks like Ashley and Noah looks just like Tony and he looks just like you , I see you in Tony every time that we are able to spend time with him, he calls us often ,we have not seen Chris in 5 years , he said he has his own family and does not need anybody ,miss him , I know that you cannot see what I write but just being able to write it helps me to accept your death which is so very hard on us ,did not get to say good bye to you ,you died alone and we are so sorry that we were not there with you ,praying that God has given you riches in heaven that you did not have on earth , rest in peace Son until we meet again ,we love and miss you more that you could possibly know ,love you ,Mom
July 8, 2018
July 8, 2018
Jeff, today we celebrated our 62 anniversary ,we had breakfast with Cindy, Coach , Tony , Ashley and Noah at Denny,s , Tony;s vacation was over today and they had to go back to North Carolina, miss that little grandson of your;s so much , Cindy and Coach took us to Cracker Barrel for dinner ,it was a good day except you were missing and I was teary eyed all day just thinking of how much you are missed and loved, will never get over your death at such a young age , you were and still loved so very much and missed even more, rest in peace Son until we meet again , love you Mom
May 24, 2018
May 24, 2018
Your grandson Noah called us on New Years to tell us that he is going to be a big brother,Ashley is pregnant again,and on March 19 Noah called us again to say he is going to have a baby brother,you are going to have a second grandson, August 12th, wish you were here to be able to see your grand children,Noah is finishing kindergarten and he has done very good, he loves math and has won several awards for math along with good conduct and perfect attendance,you would be so proud of him, Tony has him playing baseball,basketball and football, he is really good at sports, Son you are missed and loved so much,just wish you were here so we could tell you how much,we still have the house at Myrtle Beach,not sure how much longer we can keep it,your Dad is 80 and I am 77 ,our health is not to good,but we keep it in order to see Noah and pray that God will give us time with this new little boy.Noah knows that you are his grandfather and Tony will make sure that this baby will know you also, Rest peacefully Son until we are all together again,we love you,Mom
December 25, 2017
December 25, 2017
another Christmas without you ,it is so hard to get through, missing you so much, wish you were here to have the day with us ,we have just about gotten the house back to normal since the hurricane ,it did so much damage to it ,we had to have a new roof put on ,Mike sent a wonderful guy from West Virginia to do it for us and we got him a lot of work here ,he put a metal roof on the house we bought for you and did it for free, reminds me of you ,you always would help anybody that needed help ,your grandson is in kindergarten this year and he loves math ,won the math ,good conduct and perfect attendance awards the first 9 weeks ,he is so smart ,loves anything to do with math and computers ,you would be so proud of him as we are, Tony is a good Dad ,we are not cooking again this year ,going to the church for dinner ,it is not the same without you here helping me cook ,so we just don't cook on Christmas day anymore, love you and miss you so much Son, rest until we meet again, love Mom and Dad
November 26, 2017
November 26, 2017
Son ,you were missed so much this Thanksgiving,we came to the beach house we bought for you ,cannot let it go ,we had dinner with Cindy ,coach , Mike and family ,then Friday Tony ,Ashley and Noah came down to spend the weekend with us ,they had to leave today around 4 pm to return to North Carolina ,your grandson is in kinder garden this year, he told me he wished that Thanksgiving would return so he could stay with us longer ,he already wants days off from school,he will be 6 this Saturday ,you would love him so much ,he is so much fun to be around ,always happy and adores his Daddy, he is smart ,funny , always laughing ,always seem's to be happy, I wish you could have known him ,I know how excited you were to be a grandfather only to pass away 24 days before he was born ,Tony is such a god Father ,you would be so proud of him ,Son we love and miss you so much ,the hurts never goes away ,rest until we meet again, Mom
November 6, 2017
November 6, 2017
yesterday was the 6th anniversary of losing you ,a very sad day ,missing you so much especially now as the holidays are near ,we always did holiday dinners together, we went by the cemetery to remove your birthday balloons, it was raining lightly , made it even sadder ,Tony called on your birthday and again yesterday , he misses you as much as we do , it is so hard having a missing plate at the table, like losing you all over again , the hole in our heart will never heal until we meet again , love you so much Son and missing you even more , rest in peace until we meet again , love you , Mom
November 1, 2017
November 1, 2017
Son ,today would be your 53rd birthday ,instead you will be 47 forever, cannot tell you how much you are missed or loved, it is so hard going on without you, today we will visit the cemetery ,but wish we were visiting you here instead , wish you could see your grandson , he is such a little character ,loves the ocean and any kind of water as much as you did , Tony has him playing baseball , football and now starting basket ball , he can throw a ball better than I can and has your eyes, hurricane Irma did major damages to our home ,Mike helped us to get a new roof quicker that anybody else , I know you would have done it if possible ,miss all of the help you always gave us ,but not as much as we miss you ,you were gone to soon and we did not get to say good bye to you ,but part of us went with you the day God called you home ,a major part of our heart is with you in till we meet again ,love you Son with all of our hearts rest in peace until we meet again . love you Mom and Dad
July 25, 2017
July 25, 2017
we just had a wonderful week end with your grandson,we took him to Virginia to dinosaur land,he loves them, then on to the transportation museum,he was thrilled with the model train collection,he is such a joy to be around ,always happy,Tony is teaching him to swim and he loves to surf on a boogie board,he loves the water as much as you did,wish you could see him ,you would love him so much ,we still have the house we bought for you ,cannot seem to let it go even though you never had the chance to move into it ,feel closer to you at it ,and we get to see Noah more by keeping it ,he knows that you are his grandfather ,Tony has made sure of that and when he was smaller he called your picture Daddy,Tony looks so much like you and Noah looks just like him with those long eye lashes, they are in for trouble when he is a teenager just like we were with all of the girls chasing you ,they will chase him too, we love you Son and miss you so much ,did not know something could hurt so much until we lost you ,life will never be the same again ,rest in peace until we meet again, love Mom
May 14, 2017
May 14, 2017
Son ,I am sitting here on another Mothers day with tears in my eyes missing you so much,wishing I could get that phone call saying Mom ,happy Mothers day ,you always called on every occasion and I miss them so much ,but nothing as much as missing you,it has been so hard on us since losing you so young,if only it was possible to turn back time ,how wonderful that would be ,especially if you could have seen your grandson,he is a handful ,they have him playing T-ball again this year ,it is so hard to believe he will start kinder garden this year,you would have a ball with him ,he is so smart and funny,we still have the house that we bought for you ,do not know how much longer we can keep it as our health is not very good, both with heart problems,but we feel closer to you since this is where we last saw you,cannot believe this November will be 6 years since we had to say good bye to you ,the hardest thing we will ever have to do ,we love you Son ,rest in peace until we meet again ,love you so much ,Mom
November 5, 2016
November 5, 2016
today mark's the fifth anniversary of your passing ,it has been a long hard 5 years without you here ,but it seem's like only yesterday that you left us without saying good bye,we miss you so much ,life changed forever that day when we received that dreaded phone call that no parent should ever have to receive, if only I could have another day with you to tell you about your grandson,and how much you were loved
and missed,when I go into your room ,I have a hard time just looking at all of your belonging that you left behind ,cannot remove them ,maybe one day I will be able to let go ,but not yet ,you were so much help to us ,rest in peace until we meet again Son , Mom.
November 1, 2016
November 1, 2016
Happy Birthday Son,wish you were here so we could celebrate it with you ,it has been a long ,hard 5 years since losing you, did not know something could hurt so much ,the night's are really bad,you are always on my mind, we spend as much time as possible with your Grand Son, he is so loving ,look's just like Tony ,he is such a good Dad ,and of course we have spoiled him just like we did to your Son's,and he love's us as much as we love him ,trying to do for him all that you would have done if given the chance to do ,you would be so proud of him ,he is in pre school now and doing good ,your Dad and I are doing fair,a lot of health problems ,missing you is the worse though , time does not heal the wound's like we were told it would do ,will never get over losing you ,wish I could have just one more day with you to tell you how much you were loved and to hear Mom let me do that one more time ,and one more hug.rest in peace until we meet again,love Mom
April 18, 2016
April 18, 2016
Do you remember me ,I know my Mom does,she cries every night when she goes to bed,I know she is sad,I had to leave ,I was called home ,She is afraid no one will remember me,no one mentions my name to her ,they are afraid it will upset her,but she longs to hear my name from anyone else,just to know they haven't forgotten I was here ,I wish I could have stayed but that wasn't in the plans for me ,just let my Mom know you remember me ,she may smile once in a while but I know the truth,she can fool a lot of people buy she can't fool me or Jesus,we both know she is sad all of the time ,wishing for me to be back home,I watch over her all of the time ,I know she can feel me with her ,she talks to me all of the time ,she is always telling me how much she loves and misses me ,so please let her know you remember me ,ease her pain,and mention me once in a while,it would mean so much to her and Mom I love and miss you too, we will be together again one day ,I love you very much
November 5, 2015
November 5, 2015
today is a sad day for us ,you left us four years ago today, we did not get to say goodbye to you ,you will never know how much it hurts that we lost you so young ,or how much you were loved and missed, the pain will never go away,so many times we have cried,so many sleepless night's ,waiting for the time that people tell us the pain will go away ,but it seems as if it only gets deeper with each passing day,so sorry that you did not get to see your grandson,he is so precious and we love him so much,trying to do all of the things for him that you would have done if possible,Tony is such a good Dad ,you would have been so proud of him ,we still have the house we bought for you and try to see your Son;s as much as possible,but it is not the same without you being with us ,Son we love you so much ,but life has to go on ,until we meet again ,rest peacefully ,you are in our prayers every day asking God to take care of you , love forever , Mom and Dad
November 1, 2015
November 1, 2015
Son. another birthday has come and gone without you,it is so hard for us not to celebrate it with you, we went to Charlotte and had dinner with your oldest Son and Wife,saw their new home ,you would be so proud of Michael and Heather ,they have worked so hard and accomplished so much .
Your Dad and I are having an especially hard time this year without you , we miss you so much ,only pray that you knew how much you were loved and needed,life will never be the same for us ,you are never out of my thought's and prayers,not a day goes by that we do not think about you, I know you cannot celebrate your birthday ,but wishing you a happy birthday in our heart's, until we meet again,we love you ,Mom and Dad.
February 14, 2015
February 14, 2015
another special day as come,you always called on every holiday ,big or small, miss those call so much, or just hearing you say Mom,you were such a help to both of us and we have needed you so much ,but we know that you were suffering from the diabetes so much ,so many finger pricks and shots ,we still have the house and spend a lot of time there in the summer,Tony brings Noah down as much as possible ,wish so much that you could see that special little boy,he is so sweet ,you would love him so much ,Happy Valentines day son ,you can now have all of the chocolate that your heart's desire, we love you so much and still having a hard time with you not being here with us.miss you every day ,still waiting for the time that everybody tells us that will heal our broken hearts ,afraid for us that day will only come when we are reunited.rest in peace our precious Son.
November 5, 2014
November 5, 2014
Son ,I cannot believe it has been three years since we lost you,it seems like only yesterday ,the pain never goes away,still look for you every time I walk into your room , expect to see you sitting at your computer ,life will never be the same for your Dad and I,we miss you so much ,just hope you knew how much you were loved,and needed, rest in peace Son until we meet again, Love you so much Mom and Dad
November 1, 2014
November 1, 2014
Happy Birthday Son ,I know you can not celebrate it ,but I could not let your special day go by without telling you how much your Dad and I love and miss you,not a day goes by that we do not think of you and wish we could bring you back ,life without you has been so hard,tears still flow often,wish we had just one more day to spend with you and say all of the things that we want to tell you ,just know we love you so much and spend all of the time possible with your Grandson,he is special,wish you could see him ,you would love him so much ,he is so full of life and seems to love us so much,you are in our prayers everyday, we still have the house that we bought for you,cannot let it go,just wish you were here to enjoy it with us,rest in peace our precious Son until we meet again. Love you , Mom and Dad
November 1, 2014
November 1, 2014
Happy Birthday Jeff. We all miss and love you very much.
November 5, 2013
November 5, 2013
Son, today marks two years with out you, it has been so hard, a million times we have needed you and a million times we have cried, you did not go alone, because a huge part of our heart went with you.your Dad and I will never get over losing you, we did not get to say good bye ,you left so suddenly ,and only God knows why,Rest in peace our precious Son, we love you and miss you so much.
November 1, 2013
November 1, 2013
today would have been your 49th birthday, it has been almost 2 years since you left , and we never got to say goodbye, I cannot tell you how much it hurt to have to let you go, you were my right hand ,doing so much to help me around the house, and every time I did something to mess up my computer , you always knew how to repair it, Sunday we are dedicating your monument at the church,
January 23, 2013
January 23, 2013
Jeff left behind his parents ,Marvin and Judy Clark ,sister Cindy Newsome and Brother Matt Clark, Son's Michael and wife Heather,Jeff ,Anthony and Chris,Ben was killed in a traffic accident in 2005,he did not get to tell Ben goodbye ,Jeff and Ben both suffered from diabetes,at his parents request ,all wishing to remember Jeff, please donate to American Diabetes Association in Jeff's name.
January 22, 2013
January 22, 2013
Son,your Dad and I will never get over losing you so young,it was not supposed to be this way,you were supposed to out live us ,but God had other plans for you.our hearts are broken and I cannot see a way for them to mend.Wish you could have seen your Grandson,he has your eyes and killer lashes ,Tony is such a great Dad ,you would have been so proud of him.love you forever ,Mom and Dad

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December 25, 2022
December 25, 2022
Son , another.Christmas without you and Matthew, praying that you are celebrating Christmas together this year, we miss both of you guys so very much and love you, it is so hard and lonely here just your Dad and I, you have a new grandson , Michael and Heather are finally parents and his name is Tatum,Merry Christmas guys, waiting until we can all be together again in heaven, until then rest in peace ,.we love you, Mom
December 25, 2022
December 25, 2022
Son, I am sorry to be late in wishing you a merry Heavenly Christmas , Matthew went into the hospital on November 18 and passed away on Saturday December the 11, we have been dealing with his affairs and death, it has been a very difficult time for us especially since we now have lost both of you guys, we love you and miss you both so very much, we are now alone and not doing good, we feel like it will not be long before we join you, we are having Matthew’s funeral service at our church on the 30th of December and putting his ashes in the bench the same day with you, love you miss you guys so very much, love Mo
November 1, 2021
November 1, 2021
Happy birthday Son , another birthday without you, it is so hard not having you here so we could celebrate with you, Cindy took us to lunch so we would not be alone, she misses you too, Tony makes sure that Noah knows who you are and he loves you to, he made the all star regional baseball team, we went to watch him play, his team won 4 out of 6 games, he made all A’s on his report card this semester, you would be so proud of him, he looks like you to, we love and miss you so much Son, rest in heavenly peace Son, Mom and
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November 1, 2018

Happy Birthday Son, another year has come and gone without you ,it is getting harder to have to live with such a loving member of the family missing , want you to know that you have another grandson ,Tony and Ashley have a second son ,carrying on the tradition of all boys born into our family, his name is Asher Reid Clark, born on August 7th of 2018. he looks more like Ashley than Noah does, Noah is just like you ,loves the ocean and pools ,would live in them if possible and he is doing good in school ,in the first grade this year , loves math , music and get good citizenship awards every 9 weeks. Your Dad and I went to the cemetery to put new flowers on your grave ,hard to leave it knowing that you are there and I cannot see or speak to you there, we miss you so much and love you even more if that is possible, we still have the house at Myrtle Beach that you were supposed to move into ,cannot seem to let it go ,had a water leak there in June and had to replace most of the floors ,think you would have liked them and would have loved to put them down yourself as you were able to do most anything, I try to not mess up my laptop since I do not have you to repair it for me ,think you would be proud of me since having to learn how to fix it myself , Matt still works for the prison system and we are both completely retired now , health not well enough to continue to work, the family will have Thanksgiving at Cindy's house ,will not be the same with you missing ,we try hard to make up to your Grandson's for your absence ,but we know that they would rather have you instead, Noah knows  who you are , Tony shows him your picture a lot and I know he will do the same with Asher, we will never let you be forgotten , love you and miss you so much Son ,goodbye until we meet again ,rest in peace , Mom

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