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       Our father died peacefully, surrounded by family, in comfortable hospice care near his home just outside Chicago. Drew's family gathered with friends and a few nearby relatives a few weeks later on Thanksgiving weekend in New York to reminisce. The following summer, the entire family gathered to share a meal and honor Dad's last wish, to scatter his ashes in the waters off Breezy Point, like we did for Mom back in 1997.
       Video clips from both events viewable at this link. 

Much love to all of you — Steve, Drew & Kevin
    Contact: tribute2john1931@gmail.com

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August 22, 2014
August 22, 2014
This is Eileen (Connolly) Daily, daughter of Mary Lynch (Johns sister) who married Bill Connolly. Our mother Mary Lynch passed away last November as well on the 15th. Unfortunately, we could not make it down to Breezy Point. The videos are beautiful and the tributes are lovely. Our sincerest condolences to all the family. We are thinking of you all and We hope to be able to reunite with cousins and relatives at some point in the future if there is another reunion (I remember the last at a park in CT which was lovely).  May they all be resting in peace.
January 12, 2014
January 12, 2014
This is so wonderful! I just found out about all of you...I am a Lynch cousin, Terry Lynch Brennan, daughter of Tom and Doris Lynch (Tom was Uncle Joe's youngest brother). Loved hearing about your Grampa/Father and seeing your pictures...many of you resemble our branch of the family! Looking forward to seeing Drew in NYC next Saturday!

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August 22, 2014
August 22, 2014
This is Eileen (Connolly) Daily, daughter of Mary Lynch (Johns sister) who married Bill Connolly. Our mother Mary Lynch passed away last November as well on the 15th. Unfortunately, we could not make it down to Breezy Point. The videos are beautiful and the tributes are lovely. Our sincerest condolences to all the family. We are thinking of you all and We hope to be able to reunite with cousins and relatives at some point in the future if there is another reunion (I remember the last at a park in CT which was lovely).  May they all be resting in peace.
January 12, 2014
January 12, 2014
This is so wonderful! I just found out about all of you...I am a Lynch cousin, Terry Lynch Brennan, daughter of Tom and Doris Lynch (Tom was Uncle Joe's youngest brother). Loved hearing about your Grampa/Father and seeing your pictures...many of you resemble our branch of the family! Looking forward to seeing Drew in NYC next Saturday!
His Life

1 ~ Family Background

February 10, 2019

       April 26th, 1931 — John Francis,  first son of Easter Hore and Joseph Lynch, residing at Bailey Ave in the Bronx, was born at St. Elizabeth's Hospital in Manhattan, in a neighborhood just north of the George Washington Bridge, still under construction at that time. The world's longest suspension bridge would open to traffic for the first time later that fall. 
       Two years earlier, Joe had married Easter at St. Joseph's Church in Greenwich Village near the neighborhood where both were raised, and where his new father-in-law owned and operated a prosperous grocery. A daughter, Easter (Essie), arrived in January ’30 followed in quick succession by John (’31), Robert ('34), Martha ('36) and Mary (’38). †
       When the stock market crashed in 1929, Joe had been an associate professor of  pharmacology at Fordham, nursing a dream to open his own Apothecary (drug store) in Riverdale. Sadly, the economic collapse that cost Jeremiah Hore (father-in law and chief financier) $85,000 on one day, put Joe’s dreams on hold as well.
       As the Depression worsened, Joe moved his growing family back from the Bronx to the West Village, into Jeremiah and Martha's large 3-story brownstone at 107 King Street, whose backyard adjoined his childhood home at 289 W. Houston, just around the corner from the Hore's grocery business at 564 Greenwich Street.
       In search of more stable employment, Joe reluctantly decided to join his brother and father in the NYPD where his college education—a rarity in those days for a cop—would fast track him for promotion in the ‘Bomb and Forgery Squad’ setting him on a new and ultimately tragic course.*

*James Mauro's ‘Twilight at the World of Tomorrow’ offers an interesting view of the time.

† Martha passed in '86 (a few years before her mother Easter). Robert, John, and Mary all in 2013, Essie in 2018.

2 ~ Tragedy

February 10, 2019

November 25th, 1937 — Joe and Easter were back in the Bronx in their own apartment at 230 Naples Terrace enjoying a meal over Thanksgiving weekend with Easter's parents, as they celebrated their growing family and Joe's recent offer of a posting to the Bronx DA's office that would soon allow him to begin working closer to home.
       The following day the first of two successive tragedies struck that would have repercussions for all our lives. Martha Hore was working alone in the the family's grocery store (Jeremiah was on jury duty a few blocks away) when a troubled youth from the neighborhood came in and made a grab for the cash drawer. In the struggle that ensued, 17-yr-old Joe Healy grabbed a butcher knife and turned it on 65-year-old Martha with lethal effect.
       The family was still working through its grief when the World's Fair opened its gates to visitors with great fanfare on April 30th, 1939. But the ‘World of Tomorrow’ never quite lived up to its promise as news of escalating conflict in Europe filtered across the Atlantic, countering its optimistic theme and dampening the mood.
       The Fair, barely breaking even, soldiered along to midway through its second year. A month after Dunkirk, days before the Battle over Britain would commence, an electrician working in the fan room of the British Pavilion discovered a small, tan-colored canvas bag, and heard ticking.
       The bag was moved to a nearby field in the late afternoon of July 4th, 1940. Detective Joe Lynch arrived with his partner, Freddy Socha. He took out his pocketknife and carefully began cutting away a two-inch strip off the bottom of the bag. “This looks like the real goods,” were his last words.
       Babe Ruth (among other NY Yankees) visited the Lynch apartment on Naples Terrace, where Joe was waked before his funeral service. A detective leading the investigation, present at the wake that day, remembers Mayor Fiorello La Guardia, near tears, urging him, “[Have] your boys give all their spare time to this case.” The crime was never solved.
       At nine years of age, John had become the man of the family.

3 ~ Work & Study — in the Bronx and at ‘The Point’

February 10, 2019

       1940 to 1953 — With a small stipend from the NYPD, Easter managed to get the kids out of the hot city and into a summer bungalow at 89 Reid Ave, Rockaway Point. At a young age, Dad began working to help with family expenses. He sold magazines (Colliers), jerked sodas (look it up), and meandered up and down the concrete walkways between the myriad bungalows of Breezy and Rockaway Point calling out his trade, “Tailor! Shoemaker!” collecting items in need of repair each morning, returning them that evening.
        In between those pickups and deliveries, if not serving soda, he could be found at the beach, often in the company of a group of young people that included a certain dark-haired Irish girl from Brooklyn whose family, living at 32 Olive Walk, owned the local liquor store.

       Catherine Murnane was the love of John's life, who would eventually win her away from her other suitor(s?). Mom's only real competition was the Almighty himself, who tempted his servant John to consider, briefly, a life of celebate ministry. But in the end, he came back for his girl.
       In spite of the Depression, family tragedies, and an ongoing World War, Dad (and Mom) always referred to those Halycon summer days at Breezy Point in hushed tones, as if something sacred had been shared by the few lucky ones who got to experience that time and place together.

       And so, when the time came in 1997, John did as he had been directed and scattered Mom's ashes into the waters off the beach beside Breezy Point's Surf Club; an act to be repeated soon, from a different urn.
       Finally, the '40s was also the decade John finished his time at Fordham Prep, quickly moving on to the college which shared the same Rose Hill campus, while making the most of ongoing scholarships offered him by the school in deference to his hero father's sacrifice and his own stellar academic record. 
       In '53 he graduated on the Dean's List (English) with the following epithet recorded in the school yearbook: “John ... tall and talented ... a master of all trades ... writes well ... assistant editor of Dun and Bradstreet magazine ... ‘Wake up, Jack!’ ... next stop law school.”
       As it turned out, the next stop was at the altar.

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Hearing from friends and family ...

December 5, 2013

       Many of you passed along fond memories of our Dad (& Mom), and kind thoughts toward those of us who survive them. Here's just a smattering...

       Dad had a special love for his younger sister, Martha, who died at 50, way too young. He transferred that enduring affection to her children, one of whom wrote, I loved Uncle John deeply, and I cherish the memories I have of all the time the two of us spent together in NYC, as well as when he visited me on Long Island, I will miss him so much.”
       Robert's daughter, Jenni, remembered her Uncle John's “intuitive wisdom [adding] I have loved and respected him. My father and mother loved him too.” Her mom, Aunt Sylvia, was “so glad that Robert [John's brother] and he spent a day together before he moved to Chicago ... [remembering that] John also called me and Jenni every day for 2 to 3 weeks after Robert died.”
       Anne was our parents first babysitter in White Plains and along with her husband, Dick, became lifelong friends. She wrote to remind us that John “got me my job at G. M Basford advertising in 1959. He was in the PR Dept ... the only place we missed visiting was Mich ... other than that, we never lost touch ... [John] was unique and filled my family and me with wonderful memories ...”
       Sr. Catherine wrote from her mission base in Africa, “I was fond of your Dad and always appreciated how he and your Mom took in Grandpa Molloy. Your Dad always thought Grandpa was the best.”
       One of Mom's best friends, Celine, remembered John as “...really a ‘great’ guy...handsome and fun.” 
       John and Katy's Maplewood buddies, the Taylor's, wrote, “John was such a good friend.” And the son of John's best man, Joe, also wrote to say, “It was a pleasure to have known your Dad and had him close to us. He was as a father to me when I was young and will be greatly missed.”
       Another couple, the Welter's, also used the ‘U’ word in remembering Dad to us. “He was our friend for many years, and always made us laugh + listen! His mind was sharp & Unique & we enjoyed him. Also, your Mom was a darling...”
       Finally, this just came in from a woman named Vicky, whom we've never met. “I am your second cousin! My dad was Joe's [i.e. our grandfather's] younger brother, Tom
. We thought Easter moved the family to Florida after Uncle Joe died. It is so exciting to find that you were all actually close by. I wish we had known growing up. Our dad ... had such great stories of how ... he and Joe shared a bedroom at the top of 289 W. Houston Street, where in winter the water in the sink basin would be frozen solid by morning! [He] was always so proud of his older brother, and when he became a dentist, always treated policemen free of charge. He was an honorary ‘police surgeon’ and had police honor guard at his funeral. When my oldest son, Colin, was in 8th grade we visited Washington DC with his class and found Uncle Joe's name at the police memorial there. We have all, always, been so proud of him.”

       Thanks to all who wrote, or emailed, and remembered!

Thanksgiving 2013 reminiscing ...

December 5, 2013

       Aunt Sylvia and Cousin Jenni joined Drew's family in New Rochelle last Friday night, gathered together for the holiday (1st chance since Dad's passing). A few local friends stopped by for support (and free beer!). It was nice to have an audience for the funny stories, and some teary-eyed remembrances. 
       Sylvia, one of our last good contacts with the ‘The Greatest Generation’ didn't disappoint with, (1) a story of John barging into her apt to abscond with Jenni for a quick, unscheduled baptism, and (2) another tale of John and Katy's heartfelt intervention to save her budding romance with Dad's little bro.
       Drew, Lynn and the kids (now aged 32 down to 17) all weighed in with memories of food shopping for Grandpa, various experiences of seeing John's diminishing interest in bodily attire on display, John's attempt to name Shannon's 3rd daughter, etc.
       Video clip highlights of the evening are viewable by clicking this link, or navigating on the web to ...
       https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCjGBNWL2LFetLLVjhhZu3XA/videos

A toast at the 21 Club in NYC - Nov 21, 2013

December 5, 2013

       Lindsay and I met at NYC's famous “21” Club tonight to “take a drink ... and remember the Man” (Waking Ned Devine quote). We had fun reminiscing, but mainly I told her about her grandfather's days as a high roller, the maddest of the Mad Men in Manhattan of the late 60s.
        I flashed Dad's special “21” money clip at the door which got me street cred with the bartender (who gave us a gift coin minted for the Club's 80th birthday in 2010) and maître d (who brought us a book about the club's early days as a speakeasy).
       Wandering the back dining room (from whose ceiling hung hundreds of toy planes and trucks representing post-war American business boom years), we found a Sea-Land truck for a photo op — perfect!

— Drew 

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