A story from Austin
It has been 8 years since Maggie and Frank moved out of Austin, where we spent 9 years together. During those years, we were a group of young fresh outs just starting our careers at Dell and building our lives in the U.S.. Maggie was among us and we met almost every weekend to hang out. We jogged around the Town Lake, played poker, BBQed, partied, learned ski in Vail, Colorado, and went to NYC to spend Christmas together. It was a fun time in life and unforgettable. Four years ago, I had a brief reunion with Maggie in North California while I was on a business trip, when she just joined Alibaba. We had a dinner that evening, and we talked till the restaurant told us they had to close for the night. She was so proud of working for Alibaba and very much looking forward to the future. I never thought that would be my last time to see Maggie in person. About one year ago, my husband passed away due to an unexpected heart attack. Maggie called me immediately after she learned about my loss. We cried together over the phone for a long time. Since then, she has been sending me encouraging words, sharing songs and making donation to help me and my family stay strong until she couldn't do it anymore a few months ago. She didn’t mention anything about the suffering she personally went through with her disease and treatment while she was trying to cheer me up and keep me going.
I will always remember Maggie as a most genuine friend, a loving wife, daughter and mother, and a role model who relentlessly pursue her dreams and passion. She will continue to inspire me and many of us with a life of long legacies.
To Frank, I want to share the words Maggie left for me last year:
On May 21, 2018, Maggie wrote:
“They “the kids” now need you more than ever. So you should take of yourself. Do whatever to make your life a bit easier, try your best to find something to make you happy, even though it might only last for a few minutes. You need it!”
To Sophie and Alexander, you should know you mom loves you more than anything else in her life. She went through so many surgeries and unbelievably amount of pain in her treatment process to survive for you. She has always been so proud of you, and I know you will always make her proud.
Shelley Xie
A friend from Austin