Dad was everything to me that a dad could be. My earliest memories of him include playing hide-and-seek. Searching the house for dad, or better yet, hiding in the shadows waiting to be found. Running back to the living room, or getting a playful tickle. Sitting on his lap, reading Uncle Arthur's bedtime stories, or My Bible Friends.
On our family's move from Baton Rouge to Shreveport, Louisiana--I rode in the U-Haul truck with Dad, plying him with questions, not the least of which, "Are we there yet?" Dad's patience must have been un-ending, because I think I spent the day doing nothing else but running the lift gate up and down on that moving truck.
He always believed in us. When I was five years old, Dad overhauled the V8 engine in the family's '78 Dodge Aspen station wagon. I was his right-hand man. He explained in minute detail how every part of the engine worked, and together we disassembled the entire engine, replaced the rings and bearings, and put it all back together. That was the biggest sense of accomplishment I'd ever had, putting in the last bolt and hearing that engine roar to life.
For my eighth birthday, Dad bought me a space shuttle Lego set. At the time, my family had just moved to Upper Columbia Academy in eastern Washington state, and we were living temporarily in an unused wing of the girls dormitory. I remember sitting with Dad on the floor of the dormitory hallway, working together to assemble the Lego set. It seemed so puzzling to me, because Dad seemed to be having so much fun with my new Legos. "Dad," I asked, "why are you sitting here putting together Legos with me? Haven't you outgrown Legos by now?" To which he replied, "No. I still enjoy them as much as you do."
Whether it was outdoor excursions, or woodworking, or just home projects, Dad always involved my brothers and me. He made us feel loved. When I was 10 or 11, he bought a 17ft canoe, and we would go on family outings to the lake. We soon realized, however, that it was difficult for all five of us (plus the dog on occasion) to fit in one canoe. So, like Dad was, he bought a set of plans, and set out to build his own canoe. It took nearly a year, but eventually all the strips were glued together, the canoe was covered with fiberglass and epoxy inside and out, and it was ready for its maiden voyage. Dad built a special rack for his station wagon, to carry both canoes side-by-side, and we headed to the Little Spokane River.
We laughingly called Dad a "walking encyclopedia." Before the days of Google, if we didn't want to go to the library to answer a question, we would just ask Dad. He was an avid reader, and his mind was amazing. You could ask him any question, on almost any topic, and like as not he would know the answer.
Most of all, throughout his life, Dad taught us that this life alone is not the object of our journey. For those who, like Dad, are faithful to the end, death is but a little sleep, before the dawning of eternal day. "Weeping may endure for a night, but joy cometh in the morning." Psalm 30:5