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This memorial website was created in memory of Jim Silver, 67, beloved husband, father, grandfather, and great-grandfather. Born on October 25, 1944, Jim passed away on October 12, 2012. We will remember him forever.

June 14, 2013
June 14, 2013
Celebrating what a wonderful father, grandfather, and great grandfather you were. You have left behind a legacy of love...every day I hear from, at least one of them telling me how they know you are watching over us, celebrating, laughing, sometimes crying and always there with love. Happy Father's day! Love and miss you so much.
May 18, 2013
May 18, 2013
Oh Em, I too am so sad that Bompa wasn't here to celebrate your birthday, but believe me he did plenty of celebrating in Heaven....he was always so proud of his Stretch!
May 17, 2013
May 17, 2013
Hi Bompa(: I turned 13 today! I'm sad you can't be here to celebrate with me, but I know you are celebrating up in Heaven. I've been thinking of you lots! Love you forever and always
April 27, 2013
April 27, 2013
Went to Ben's game today and thought about all the games we went to, and how you had to sit in the car and watch for a few of them when you just didn't feel well enough to get out but still wanted to see him play. Remember all the games we have gone to over the years! Love and miss you so very much!
March 22, 2013
March 22, 2013
Hi honey,
Just a note to say it isn't getting any easier....I don't expect it ever will! Some good things you have missed and of course that makes me sad, but know you are here in spirit. As always you would be so very proud of our kids, they are truly wonderful, caring adults, as are the Grands!
March 22, 2013
March 22, 2013
I know you are sitting up there and grinning from ear to ear to know Jenn has quit smoking... She has done a great job. Jane and Terri are trying to quit too, with your help maybe they will get there too! Got a beautiful straw and flower arrangement, in your honor, from Barb and Bruce.  I love you, now, always, forever and beyond!
March 3, 2013
March 3, 2013
Hi Honey,
Well here we go with the starting of repairs!!!! Jeff installed a new hot water heater yesterday, I hope this doesn't mean the appliances are all going to start to go! Our children, grandchildren and great grands continue to make us proud and the little ones entertain! We love and miss you...always and forever!
February 28, 2013
February 28, 2013
Hi Bompa. Im having a bad day and talking to you always makes me feel better. I just wanted to say I love and miss you. Talk to you soon! - Stretch.
January 29, 2013
January 29, 2013
Emily told me the other day, she used to call just to talk with you... not me... you! Of course we knew that, she is so funny. You would be so proud of all the kids and grandkids and how they are growing. Flu season has hit but they are all getting through it. We love and miss you every day.
January 29, 2013
January 29, 2013
Hi Honey,
Just stopping to say I love you. Not having a good day today, I miss you so much, but know you are in a better place and are getting to do all the things you couldn't do anymore on earth. I just wish you were here to do them with me. The kids are all fine, we laugh and talk about you and how you liked or didn't like things.
January 6, 2013
January 6, 2013
"Perhaps they are not stars, but rather openings in heaven where the love of our lost ones pours through and shines down upon us to let us know they are happy" -Eskimo Proverb - love you Grandma
Your grandaughter wrote this for Mom! So beautiful!
January 6, 2013
January 6, 2013
Good Morning Honey,
Well now, I hope you are having fun up there playing cards with the rest of them! I know you were there to welcome Mom and hold her weary body tight.
December 23, 2012
December 23, 2012
Well, here we are honey, another 12/23... But this one is much happier for you than the previous 36. I am sure you and your Mom are sitting together enjoying being together. I love you.
December 11, 2012
December 11, 2012
Since I was ten years old, I have looked up to Jim. Thought if I waited a while, this would be easier but it isn't. I continue to pray for him each night, as well as his family whom, all miss him very much. Continue to keep Jim in your hearts.

Jon
December 4, 2012
December 4, 2012
Dear Silver Family: My best memories are of the five years that Jim and I spent as classmates and best friends from 2nd through 6th grade at Sherman School in Ogdensburg. He was always a person of integrity and joy. I understand your pain of this great loss. God bless his soul and yours too.
December 2, 2012
December 2, 2012
Part3...Ok..don't know if it was me or autocorrect, but should have been memorable Thanksgivings...not memorial!!!!
November 30, 2012
November 30, 2012
Hi Honey,
7 weeks...I miss you so, but know you are watching over all of us. We celebrated our first Thanksgiving without you...you would have been proud of all of us, we managed to laugh and talked about how much you liked your turkey and mayo sandwiches much more than you liked the original dinner. Your favorite part of Thanksgiving dinner
November 30, 2012
November 30, 2012
Part 2 ..was the turnip....for some reason I only fixed turnip on Holidays..maybe because I sure don't like it! We did have some memorial Thanksgivings...our 1st one, the turkey "roll" never cooked as the oven wasn't working (in MN)... A "few" other times the turkey fell off the bone when you tried to carve it!... Happy times...I miss and love you always.
November 22, 2012
November 22, 2012
Happy Thanksgiving, love you always. We are all missing you, but are so very thankful for all the love you gave us. You were such an example of love, strength, kindness and courage. You showed us how to live and how to always be there for each other..we will always try to honor you with our lives! Love forever.
November 16, 2012
November 16, 2012
Part 2 You can remember him only that he is gone, Or you can cherish his memory and let it live on. You can cry and close your mind, be empty and turn your back. Or you can do what he'd want: Smile, open your eyes, love and go on.

We will miss you greatly, dear friend...Love,The Bakkers
November 16, 2012
November 16, 2012
Part 1 You can shed tears that he is gone, or you can smile because he has lived. You can close your eyes and pray that he'll come back, or you can open your eyes and see all he's left. Your heart can be empty because you can't see him, or you can be full of the love you shared. You can turn your back on tomorrow and live yesterday, or you can be happy for tomorrow because of yesterday.
November 11, 2012
November 11, 2012
Happy Veterans Day! I know how proud you were of your 9 years in the Navy! You were an honorable man always, and when you saw someone in uniform you always thanked them.... Love you.
November 4, 2012
November 4, 2012
It didn't let me finish.... My heart and soul forever.
November 4, 2012
November 4, 2012
Well, I am here back at our home honey, missing you, but do know you are in a better place ... Up there watching over all of us and able to walk and sail and do all the things you were denied doing the last few years. I love you and miss you everyday, but I am going to be ok, because your love is always with me, and I know you would want me to be ok. You will always be my hero.
October 28, 2012
October 28, 2012
The Fallen Limb
A limb has fallen from the family tree.
I keep hearing a voice that says, "Grieve not for me.
Remember the best times, the laughter, the song.
The good life I lived while I was strong.
Continue my heritage, I'm counting on you.
Keep smiling and surely the sun will shine through.
My mind is at ease, my soul is at rest.
Remembering all, how I truly was blessed.
Continue traditions
October 27, 2012
October 27, 2012
Uncle Jim, I will MISS your Smile your witt and your sense of humor!! You could always make someone smile and feel special! You did that for me and a lot of other people! Our loss is GOD'S gain!! We love you and we will all miss you! I know you will be watching over Aunt Janice as you had a beautiful life together! Love Always Dawn
October 27, 2012
October 27, 2012
I miss you Bompa, your laugh, your smile. I miss that snore of yours. You will always be my superman, and I will never forget the times we spent. I would do anything to see you again, to talk with you and listen to all the years of knowledge your sweet head held. To get a bagel together like we did on my way to daycare. I love you, and am looking forward to seeing you again. Love, Big Mac
October 25, 2012
October 25, 2012
Happy birthday, Bompa, I love you always and miss you very much
           - Stretch
October 25, 2012
October 25, 2012
Happy Birthday, I love you more today than yesterday and less than tomorrow! Rest in peace my love.
October 25, 2012
October 25, 2012
68 years ago, God chose to place a very special soul among us. Dad shared his unshakable faith, intelligent insight, unfailing strength, unending patience and unconditional love for a while before God called him home. Happy Birthday, Dad. I miss you. Thank you for being my father. I love you.
October 22, 2012
October 22, 2012
My Love,
We had 50 wonderful years together, I was not ready to say good bye, never will be ready, but I know you are now free. You can walk without pain, sail until you are ready to take a break and will always be watching over us from your seat in Heaven. God wanted you to come home, he knew you were tired. You fought such a brave battle.
October 22, 2012
October 22, 2012
Those we love don't go away,
They walk beside us every day,
Unseen, unheard, but always near,
Still loved, still missed and very dear.

Jay, Maggie, Silver Family,
My deepest sympathy to all of you at this difficult time
October 20, 2012
October 20, 2012
Jim was one of the great ones, he didn't say a lot but when he did if you payed attention you would be a better person when he was done. I miss talking to Jim a mentor, friend, and great father in law. Look over Jan, Jay and Jeff and all the others.
October 19, 2012
October 19, 2012
Hopi Prayer: Part Two: "Do not stand at my grave and cry: I am not there, I did not die." ~with deepest sympathies, Dianna & Jason Hyland.
October 19, 2012
October 19, 2012
Hopi Prayer: Part One: "Do not stand at my grave and weep, I am not there. I do not sleep. I am a thousand winds that blow. I am the diamond glints on snow. I am the sunlight on the ripened grain. I am the gentle Autumn's rain. When you awaken in the morning hush, I am the swift uplifting rush of quiet birds in circled flight. I am the soft stars that shine at night..."
October 18, 2012
October 18, 2012
You will be forever missed in the hearts of all...you were a great father and friend......Peace be with you Bompa.
October 18, 2012
October 18, 2012
Silver family, I am sorry for your lost. I met Jim only a couple times but enjoyed the experiences. Please accept my thoughts and prayers to all of you during this difficult time.
Kevin Roberto and family
October 18, 2012
October 18, 2012
Dear Jay,
I never met your dad but I know he must have been a wonderful man to have a son as great as you. I know you have traveled a long road with him and my thoughts are with you.

Peggy
October 18, 2012
October 18, 2012
Jay and family, I am so sorry for your loss. There are no words that seem enough right now, but know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. 
Laura
October 18, 2012
October 18, 2012
I will always be there for you Memaw and I know that you will always be there for me. It will never be the same without Bompa. I love you both so so much, and I miss you lots.
      I love you, Bompa! - Stretch
October 17, 2012
October 17, 2012
Your strength through everything has been an inspiration to everyone. Paul and I are going to miss you more than anyone knows. We're going to miss your teasing and also the quiet times we've had. We've had so many good times together, when everyone got together, and when just
the four of us were together. You've been my brother since I was 13 and I love you.
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October 12, 2022
October 12, 2022
10 years, so long yet so short a time. Miss you so much every day, went to your grave last weekend but I know you are not there, just a remembrance!
Our kids, grands and greats are doing so well, I know how proud of them you are. I love you always.
August 22, 2022
August 22, 2022
Where do I start my love! I know that Terri is now in Heaven with you and what rejoicing there must have been. My heart is now cracked even more but also is ok because I know you are taking care of each other. Her struggle was so hard, but through it all she remained like you, steadfast in her beliefs that Jesus was waiting for her, did not want anyone to know the horrible pain she was in, was concerned for her loved ones…. We are all grieving but are also rejoicing in the fact that you are together with God in Heaven. I will try to post more often but you know that you are never out of my thoughts and prayers. I miss you every second of the day along with Terri. ❤️❤️❤️
October 25, 2021
October 25, 2021
Happy 77 my love. I can’t believe you are celebrating your 10th birthday in Heaven. I miss you every day, but know you are now basking in The love of God and are reunited with your parents and brothers. I will always miss you but I thank God everyday for putting us together for the beautiful life we shared. I am sure you are looking down on us and are so very proud of our kids, grands and greats, and all they have accomplished. I feel you with me every day and still talk to you. Thank you for watching over and protecting us. Love forever
Recent stories

Jeff Promotion 1-28-2014

February 1, 2014
Jeffrey Silver, 36, who has been a town police officer for nearly 15 years, has been promoted to the rank of sergeant, in which capacity he will oversee the activities of patrol shifts at the police department. After interviewing three candidates for the position, Police Commission members on January 28 unanimously selected Mr Silver for the post, according to Police Commission Chairman Paul Mangiafico. “[Silver] has quite a ranking on his written/oral [test] scores,” Mr Mangiafico said. “I think we have an absolutely superb person … He’s got 15 years of solid service behind him,” Mr Mangiafico said. Commission members soon will consider filling another sergeant’s vacancy at the police department, Mr Mangiafaco said. The two sergeants’ vacancies were created by the recent retirements of Darlene Froehlich and John Cole. “It’s still very fresh,” Sgt Silver said on the morning of January 29 of his promotion the preceding night. In his new role, his police uniform now bears arm patches with three bright blue chevrons, signifying the rank of sergeant. Becoming a sergeant marks a “logical progression” in his police career, he said, noting that he has received much specialized law enforcement training over the years. Since 2006, Sgt Silver has specialized in commercial truck inspections for the police department. In that role, he would conduct thorough federally sanctioned inspections on all types of commercial trucks in seeking out safety violations. He estimates that he has made full written technical safety inspections on about 400 trucks, plus many more less detailed truck inspections. For the past three years, Sgt Silver has worked as a member of the of the police patrol division’s traffic services unit. In that capacity, he and others would conduct traffic enforcement projects, as well as prepare reports on traffic issues, involving subjects such as traffic counts, motorist sightlines, and traffic signs. In his role as a traffic accident reconstructionist, he would assist at investigations of fatal accidents. Sgt Silver also has worked as a training officer at the police department, providing instruction to other officers on the use of force, including rifles, pistols, and tasers. Also, the sergeant is a child safety seat technician who works to aid the public in properly installing such devices. He also instructs other police officers in the use of intoximeters in DUI cases. Sgt Silver noted that working in the patrol unit teaches a person much about how to best handle various situations. No two days in patrol work are the same, he said, noting that the variety of situations that are encountered keeps people fresh. As a supervisor, Sgt Silver said he would work to aid patrol officers perform their jobs, making sure that their equipment is suitable and safe. During his initial training as a sergeant, he would “shadow” another sergeant on the job, observing how that person performs their job, Sgt Silver said. He would later receive certain formal training on the supervisory work of a sergeant. Of his role as a supervisor, Sgt Silver said, “I’d like to have the confidence and respect of the [police] officers in the agency, while bridging the gap between patrol officers and management.” The police department’s full complement is 45 members, seven of whom are sergeants, including six patrol sergeants and one administrative sergeant.

His 40th Birthday

October 25, 2013
Well, to say Jim enjoyed his 40th birthday, would be a lie! It was the only one, that I know of, he loathed! Of course not knowing this, I sent him a huge bouquet of flowers with several, and I mean several!, balloons attached. Well, of course, as fate would have it....the one balloon that said "Happy 40th Birthday" on it was the one that stayed full of helium for at least a week! So every day he would go into work and see that Happy 40th....needless to say it didn't start his day off in a "Happy" mood! I did not know this until several months later when he mentioned how very much he hated turning 40! Today he would have been 69.... A man God needed back home! Love you forever Jim, and Happy Birthday! Balloons are coming your way!

Mother's Day

May 14, 2013
Well, Sunday was a mixed day, a great day because Jenn, Terri, Arber, Cameron and Ramiz were all here. But, a sad day because Mom was not, but I know she was celebrating with you and Dad, your Mom and Dad and her Mom and Dad and all the rest! It was a wondefful weekend, Terri came down with Cam and Jenn came with Arber and Ramiz and spent the whole weekend. We all went to Jeff and Melanie's, including Jay, on Saturday and had dinner. I remember all the great Mother's Days we spent, first with just Jane, then we added Jay and then Jeff.....great times! Now we have 3 children, 7 Grands and 3 Greats....what a nice, nice family. So proud of all of them? Love you always.

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