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This memorial website was created to commemorate the wonderful life of Jiun Ying Chao. Jiun was the firstborn in a family of eight children.  It was a time of great strife -- the family was constantly on the move to stay ahead of the advancing Japanese army.  At different times, the family lived in Nanjing, Hangzhou, and Tongren.  

Nevertheless, Jiun was an excellent student and went to Zhejiang University. There she met her future husband, Kwang Chu Chao (KC), who was also a student there. They both eventually moved to Taiwan and both went on to win scholarships to study in the United States. Jiun went to the University of Washington St. Louis where she received her masters degree in zoology working under the reknowned Rita Levi-Montalcini, who later won the Nobel prize.

Upon her return from the US Jiun married KC, had her first son, Howard, and taught at Taiwan University.  When she and Howard eventually joined KC who had been working in the United States, Jiun chose to dedicate her life to her family. Jiun and KC had two more sons, Albert and Bernard, and the family eventually settled down in West Lafayette, Indiana.

Jiun had many interests. She was an accomplished ballroom dancer, regularly played ping pong with her friends and was a great cook. She also loved singing and travelling. She regularly published stories about her international travels in Taiwanese newspapers.

Jiun was the gentlest of souls. Her family will always remember Jiun for her kindness and patience. No matter what the problems Jiun's love and support for her family never wavered. She was the peacemaker, the reconciler. We will miss you.

Jiun is survived by her sons, Howard and Bernard, their wives, Dana and Cara, and six younger brothers and sisters. Howard and Dana live in Menlo Park, California and have two sons, Andrew and Daniel.  Bernard and Cara live in Denver, Colorado and have a daughter, Chloe, and son, Zander.

Memorial service will be held for Jiun on Saturday, March 8, at the home of Howard and Dana Chao in Bonny Doon, near Santa Cruz.  If you are able to come, pls contact Howard Chao at howchao@gmail.com for details.  Instead of sending flowers, please consider making a donation to the Purdue Foundation in our mother's name.  We hope to start a scholarship named after both Jiun Ying and Kwang Chu Chao.


Purdue University
School of Chemical Engineering
480 Stadium Mall Drive, Room 1060B
West Lafayette, IN 47907-2100

February 20, 2017
February 20, 2017
天上人間,別來不覺已三年。舊日普渡四對華人夫婦,一起參加社交舞俱樂部活動的情形, 記憶猶新。 常在除夕夜為我們伴奏的  Gentlemen of Note 樂隊, 主持人 Robert Slater 於一周前歸主, 享壽九十四歲。 也許你們在天上見面。 祝你與 KC在天永享安寧。 本銘
February 20, 2017
February 20, 2017
Mom, you will forever be in our hearts. When life is hard, when we are not generous, we should think of you and we will return to the even balance that you always had. 

Love

Howard
February 20, 2016
February 20, 2016
Mom, we so miss you. You were gentle but strong, and always loving. We yearn to be like you. You will stay in our hearts always.
March 2, 2014
March 2, 2014
輕風扶細柳,淡月隱梅花.
R.I.P. Aunty Jiun, you would be greatly missed.
February 27, 2014
February 27, 2014
You and KC were such a lovely couple. You brought so much fun, inspiration and wisdom to us at each gathering. We'll remember your smile and intelligence and will miss you dearly. -- Daniel and Kee
February 24, 2014
February 24, 2014
從小印象中的大姑姑,永遠都是講話細聲細氣,甚至表哥表弟調皮時也是ㄧ樣的! 當我第一次看到她和大姑父跳舞的情景,到現在都還在我的腦海裡,他們兩人的默契和美妙的舞姿,讓我對大姑姑的印象又有一層認識.來了美國後,每次和她在電話裡聊天, 我都可以感覺得到她好愛她的家,丈夫和孩子們!雖然很捨不得她的離去, 但想到她和大姑父在天上又能翩翩起舞,保佑她的孩子和孫兒們, 只有將對她的思念放在心裡了!!
February 24, 2014
February 24, 2014
I'm thinking of Mrs. Chao today with love and appreciation-remembering her serene strength, and the beautiful and fun home she created for her ambitious, energetic, talented sons. I remember standing with her and Bernard at the stove at their house, at a debate club party in the '80s, as they made scallion pancakes together-and showed me how. We must have made 100 of them to fuel the ravenous debaters in games of ping-pong and Uno. Sending love and remembrance to the whole Chao family--Liesl
February 24, 2014
February 24, 2014
I grew up right across the street from the Chao family and was good friends with Bernard from the age of 6 years old. I spent many days over at the Chao household playing Atari and basketball and honing my ping pong skills. The basketball hoop at the old Chao house is still up although it has seen better days. My parents still live right across the street and every time I go home I am reminded of days gone by and the Chao family. I particularly remember Mrs. Chao's wontons and excellent cooking. She was always very inviting and welcoming, and I have very fond memories of spending time in their home. Best wishes to Bernard and Howard, but you can reflect and feel joy that both your parents had such long and rich lives together.
February 24, 2014
February 24, 2014
Dear Howard and Bernard,

It is a mixed feeling to hear the passage of your dear mother Jean. She was such a wonderful person and I had a lot of affection and admiration of her. I felt painful when I visited her a year ago to witness such a lively, witty, sweet, and friendly person succumbed to the cruel old age disease and lay in her bed unwilling to open her eyes when we told her that we were visiting her. All she said was that 'I wanted to sleep'. Your father was still alive and we had a good and somewhat 'sad' visit with him. When he was gone, my first thought was about your mother. Now she is sleeping forever. I hope that her last days were peaceful and comfortable. I am sure that in her consciousness she had prepared for the closure of her good long life. I wished this time that I had faith in God and after life so I could feel happy for her to be with her beloved husband again and to enjoy her blissful eternal life in heaven. However, even without religious faith, I still feel like to celebrate the completion of the rich and beautiful lives of your parents in the wake of the passage of your mother, my friend Jean Chao. I am also happy for them that they had good children like you to continue their legacy.

Both your parents and our good old time at Purdue when we were all young and happy will remain alive vividly and warmly in my memory,

Please accept my sincere condolences of your family's profound loss.

An old friend of your parents since the Lafayette years,
chia-hui shih
February 24, 2014
February 24, 2014
Bernard, I am sorry for your family's loss and grateful for your Mom's life. She was always kind and peaceful and indeed the greatest of cooks. I recall the burrito-sized egg rolls she'd make for you (us) before your parents went on trips abroad. Her onion pancakes are second to none (even yours) and I've been sampling onion pancakes now for over 30 years. Her survival in troubled times is yet another testament to the greatest generation. May Jiun rest in peace and continue to live in our hearts. Sincerely, Ed

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天上人間,別來不覺已三年。舊日普渡四對華人夫婦,一起參加社交舞俱樂部活動的情形, 記憶猶新。 常在除夕夜為我們伴奏的  Gentlemen of Note 樂隊, 主持人 Robert Slater 於一周前歸主, 享壽九十四歲。 也許你們在天上見面。 祝你與 KC在天永享安寧。 本銘
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Mom, you will forever be in our hearts. When life is hard, when we are not generous, we should think of you and we will return to the even balance that you always had. 

Love

Howard
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Mom, we so miss you. You were gentle but strong, and always loving. We yearn to be like you. You will stay in our hearts always.
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A tribute to my beloved Aunt Su

March 5, 2014
by Sam Zhu

   Thirty years ago, a young man worked at a small factory in Northern China, he dreamed to change his life in every aspects, he studied  and worked in the best of his ability and effort to anticipate his unrealistic goals in return.  As many others,the disappointments were inevitable.

     In mid of 80’s, his mother was invited to a first ever Zhejiang University international reunion. She unexpectedly met many alumni from oversea  after lost in contact for more than thirty years. The one that she specially mentioned who was her sister’s (deceased in college) best friend in high school and college from Indiana, USA. After the reunion they kept in touch by mail.

   I was the young man, and the couple from Indiana, USA was Aunt Su and Uncle KC Chao.

  My mother may have mentioned to her in their mails of my situation that I have a desire to study abroad.But it was a long shot, a delusion. As I recalled when I was growing up  that other than books, we don’t even have a decent furniture in my household.

  Surprisingly but surely, Aunt Su had generously promised to be my sponsor if I am accept by an university in US.

    A year later, I was on my way to the first ever airplane trip to a place which was almost unknown. I remembered the notarization of sponsorship documents all the way up to the U.S. Department of State.

    For me,  travel to the U.S Consulate in a bigger city to be granted a visa was a bigger challenge. There were stories of rejection with many different reasons that I constantly heard from who had attempted. I was no difference than them, a poor student with broken Chinglish, only advantage was a piece of paper in my pocket that encouraged my inadequate confidence.

     Here I was,  face to face with the consul, she casually asked few questions and seems insouciance. I knew what I should do, I pulled out the envelop and handed  it to her, said: “Ms. consul,  here is a letter from my sponsor, would you mind to read it?” She did, in the end, she said to me with smile, keep the letter in a safe place, your visa has been approved, you will receive an official letter from US embassy in a week, welcome to The United States of America to continue your study, good luck! I didn’t remember how did I get home on that day.

      Three months later, I was on the journey to study in US with the newly exchanged 2 "Benjamins". Aunt Su told me to concentrate in school, don’t worry about the funds,  as soon as I have a bank account let them know right away. When I returned the money after a year later, she almost blamed me on the phone and make sure I was financially secured.

    After graduation of my master’s degree and worked in NYC, she introduced me to their alumni’s daughter whom l married later.

   For the last thirty years, we have never lost touch, my wife often chatted with them on the phone, sometimes last hours.  The most memorable events were, visited them in Purdue University, my mom from China had a classmate and friend reunion in Lafayette, Indiana, Zhejiang University alumni annual reunion…..

  Those indelibility good old days and time, full of endless happiness and enjoyment.

 Certainly, Aunt Su’s journey is carrying on. Although, we have lost a lovely and kindly aunt, a great mother, a scholar, a poet and prose writer, a liberal world traveler…… She and Uncle Chao would be embraced together in Elysium.

 May you and uncle KC Chao forever jolly dwell in eternity永享天年!

 

Sam Zhu and family 

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