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This memorial website was created in the memory of our loved one, Joanne Fradkin AKA Nile Cartouche, 62, born on September 21, 1948 and passed away on August 8, 2011. We will remember her forever.

August 12, 2012
August 12, 2012
Somehow I think if anyone could read these thoughts in the after life, you could! I still feel as if you are only a phone call away... needless to say I miss you dearly.  You were a light in my life that will burn in eternity!
August 8, 2012
August 8, 2012
My darling Joanne, Hi Baby!! You're on my mind on this day, as you are EVERY day. I feel your presence so often, and think of how greatly you enriched my life. You were and are a magnificent gift to all of us, and I don't think I ever really thanked you for helping me through the hardest of times, and being so loving and generous in every way. Love always, Margot I'll C U soon!
August 8, 2012
August 8, 2012
Thinking of my Darling Joanne today...Missing her very much, With Love from Fayette
August 8, 2012
August 8, 2012
Joanne, I have a photo of you in my room when I presented you with a Moon sculpture for your birthday...years ago...I see the picture every day and speak to you and wish I'd said Hello last time I was packing up and escaping from L.A. So I hope you hear me, and imagine we are still in touch...and you are at the Party in the Sky with Steven and Dali...Still in my thoughts, Love, S.
August 8, 2012
August 8, 2012
Probably a day doesn't go by that I don't think of Joanne. She had so much wisdom and was definitely an old soul. My talks with her inspired me and changed my life. She was my makeup artist for years, and I recommended her to all of my friends, even out-of-state, that went to her and also loved her like I did. I miss you, Joanne, and we'll meet again some day.
May 6, 2012
I still remember that late evening 8 years ago when you walked in to the salon(I need a blowdry!)as exhausted as I was after a full days work I agreed to blow out your long locks and signature bangs that I grew to cut and style with my eyes closed.ohh and that Spritz Forte and Aveda anti humectant a must! Hypnotic poison(our perfume)All these scents will forever remind me of you.
May 6, 2012
Joanne as I'm preparing for my big day you constantly crossed my mind..I have been consumed in my own wedding craziness, I noticed you hadn't come in..I hadn't felt ur absence as I now used your very special color formula on several of my blondes(Clairol 24 & 36) It's my favorite combo..I only stocked that color for you...
December 31, 2011
December 31, 2011
Joanne and I were friends 45 years ago. It was before her makeup career, before Haight Ashberry. We were hippies, some of the first in our high school. Even though we were burning holes in our jeans and playing the spoons to jug-band music, Joanne did wear glamorous makeup. She was a radiant spirit who I never forgot. Thanks for creating this site.
September 25, 2011
September 25, 2011
Darling Joanne, I miss you so. Memories of our days at the Russian Embassy will live in our collective Astral Plane forever. God Bless you, my beloved friend.
August 25, 2011
August 25, 2011
Dear Joanne!!! I was so blessed to have you in my life. Your laughter, and your creative make up always made me feel special...You were a great friend, and I will miss you.....Hugs
August 24, 2011
August 24, 2011
Joanne,
You will be missed and cherished forever. My mentor you taught me so much about life and makeup artistry that I apply everyday in life and business. Thank you for the time we spent together and the gift of you.
August 22, 2011
August 22, 2011
Dear Sweet and Beautiful Friend:
May the beauty and love found in the "Place Of Light" embrace you and keep you for eternity.
Thank you for gracing my life and making me much of who I am today as an artist. We shall meet again someday.
August 22, 2011
August 22, 2011
To my sweet cousin. May you rest in peace. You taught me so much about make-up and we shared so many good family times together. You will be missed.
August 20, 2011
August 20, 2011
Joanne, you were a shining light, a sweet, gentle, generous, gorgeous soul. As Fayette said, you longed for the ether. I hope it's soft for you, my friend. Say hi to Mommy Fradcakes & your marvelous aunts. Love forever, Ilene
August 18, 2011
August 18, 2011
we will forever keep in contact though the astral. This is not a good bye. This is a hi honey!
August 17, 2011
August 17, 2011
Dearest Joanne,
You appeared in my life to show me another way I will forever be grateful.... You changed my life.You were my guiding angel. Thank you for your light.
We will meet again. Love you forever.
August 14, 2011
August 14, 2011
Joanne, You changed my life. You were always there to show me the way. I can't believe it's been 25 yrs. I will miss your voice. The "hi honey" on my answering machine. Birthdays won't be the same without you calling. Your in my heart forever. I'll see you again my friend.
August 14, 2011
August 14, 2011
Fly high Joanne. Your kindness to me 35 years ago is memorable. Thank you for being utterly fabulous. xoxo
August 14, 2011
August 14, 2011
Memories of conversations on astrology, Egyptology, music and just about any subject your mind could wander to, Joanne would keep your interest piqued...What a great soul
August 13, 2011
August 13, 2011
I just learned that my precious friend, Joanne, got her wings. i quickly set up this page so people could post memories, pics--whatever you feel. I'll see you upstairs, dear friend.
August 13, 2011
August 13, 2011
Much, much love to my dear fabulous Joanne! I know you're having such an amazing time back in pure positive energy but thank you for the time you spent here with us. Now I don't know who I'll call on Hallowe'en, though. Kiss.
August 13, 2011
August 13, 2011
Good Bye Dearheart.. Funny, lovely and forever remembered.
August 13, 2011
August 13, 2011
Thank-you to Stephanie Farago for submitting the beautiful photos and text about Joanne and Steven Arnold, located in the above section entitled "Her Life"
August 13, 2011
August 13, 2011
TO ALL JOANNE'S ANGELS : I've upgraded this site so you can upload unlimited full-sized photos, videos, and music. Also feel free to add stories, bio, etc. please contact me if you need help. Thank you all so much!!
August 13, 2011
August 13, 2011
I think Joanne was born September 21 and she was a Libra. I will try to find some photos to share of our adorable friend.
August 13, 2011
August 13, 2011
Dear Joanne, I miss you already my dear sister. Remembering all the laughter we had, the fun smoking bidis and endless storytelling about our karass, but I can't get used to the idea that I won't see you for awhile. I imagine you in the best company in the party in the sky!
August 13, 2011
August 13, 2011
Precious Joanne
"Keep shinning your light so I can see you over here, you showed me how to live sober, I would not be here if not for you, I'll see you in the universes of the universes, precious precious Joanne"
August 13, 2011
August 13, 2011
Thanks honey for all you gave me. We went through so much together on so many levels, crying, laughing, growing. You were the keeper of my history.
I would not be who I am if you hadn't been who you were.
August 13, 2011
August 13, 2011
It was a blessing to have shared this lifetime with you Joanne. Spirit blessings and peace be upon you and your loved ones. I will always cherish the memories of the times we spent together!
August 13, 2011
August 13, 2011
Our Dearest Joanne, Your wings are filled with blinding light, you soared into bliss. You are one of the sweetest souls that ever graced this planet. Thank you for sharing your gifts with us. I will love you throughout eternity.
August 13, 2011
August 13, 2011
Dear Joanne!
I see you flying in the most fabulous wings! I know you are free and sharing your beauty and glory in inspired release through the forever-heavens. God bless your sweet soul always; and thank you for showing up in my life!

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August 12, 2012
August 12, 2012
Somehow I think if anyone could read these thoughts in the after life, you could! I still feel as if you are only a phone call away... needless to say I miss you dearly.  You were a light in my life that will burn in eternity!
August 8, 2012
August 8, 2012
My darling Joanne, Hi Baby!! You're on my mind on this day, as you are EVERY day. I feel your presence so often, and think of how greatly you enriched my life. You were and are a magnificent gift to all of us, and I don't think I ever really thanked you for helping me through the hardest of times, and being so loving and generous in every way. Love always, Margot I'll C U soon!
August 8, 2012
August 8, 2012
Thinking of my Darling Joanne today...Missing her very much, With Love from Fayette
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beach gal

October 16, 2011

Joanne was such a help for me -- livilng in manhattan beach and working for an airline and hateing make up and the bev hills lifestyle she showed me how to do a very simple make up that would only take me minutes -- if i was not in my uniform i was werning shorts and sandles. So sorry just a great lady is gone

good buy Joanne

August 15, 2011

I looked everywhere for photos of Joanne who I first met in San Francisco in the late 60's. But I seem to have misplaced or lost much memorabalia given frequent geographical moves in the past years. At that time in San Francisco in the late 60's she wore only black and lived in a covenant of "witches" in Haight Ashbury. She identified as a "white witch" Her hair was wild and dishsheveled. She was a frequent visitor to Steven Arnold's 17th Street Studio in The Mission District and on the set often when we filmed Luminous Procuress,  even appearing in a scene tucked inside an Egyptian Coffin dressed as an Ancient Egyptian (she loved Egyptian Mythology and Culture). This experience and Steven Arnold's magic inspired Joanne to  return to her Los Angeles birthplace and study cosmetics and become a make-up artist. 

Later, both Steven Arnold and I also moved to LA eventually founding another warehouse studio together. Joanne was always "in the mix". Joanne was my "Eskimo" - meaning the person who introduced me to the  AA 12-Step Program. Today I have almost 28 years of continuous sobriety. 

I worked as an actor periodically during those years in LA and Joanne did the make up on me for the vampire character Lestat from "Interview With The Vampire" when I learned a film was to be made and wanted photos to submit for casting. Needless to say I did not get the part. Hard to compete with Tom Cruise and Brad Pitt! She had the most delicate healing touch. I beleive she was a healer and make-up was her vehicle. 

I will always cherish my memories of Joanne. I posted this photo of a pair of decorative Egyptian Screens I created to capitalize on the mania surrounding the Los Angeles County Art Museum's King Tut Exhibiton many years ago. Joanne LOVED these screens and so I post a photo of them in her memory.   

Joanne interviewed by Stephanie

August 13, 2011

 Joanne's interview for "Heavenly Bodies" book and documentary

Joanne was interviewed by Stephanie Farago in the late 90's for the soon to be published book and documentary entitled "Heavenly Bodies," an auto-biographical art book and documentary about the surreal life of Steven Arnold.  Pandora and Nikki Nichols were there assisting with the filming and styling of Joanne telling of her meeting and adventures with Steven.  The interview for the documentary was later transcribed to be included in the book and here it is:


JOANNE FRADKIN

At the time she called herself “Nile Cartouche.” With the guidance and exposure to Steven Arnold during the filming of Luminous Procuress she was inspired to become the renowned and talented makeup artist of Pigments Cosmetics. She describes her first contact with Steven Arnold as an initiation.

 

Joanne: I walked into the studio where Luminous Procuress was going to be filmed. On an oriental rug—spread out in the middle of the studio floor— was an assemblage of objects…of magic, of Tibet, of the circus, of the scary clowns, of the harlequins, of The Commedia Del Arte, of all the old carnival imagery. I said “Oh my Lord. This is just incredible.” Because all my life, those archetypes were in me, but they were so strongly, at that moment, just realized. And in walks this creature, this being, carrying a box. He looked like the Maxfield Parrish or the pre-Raphaelite Angels with the halo of hair. Tall and thin and just the most beautiful face I ever saw. It just knocked me over. I mean it just literally knocked me over. It was a moment in my life that I knew it was the kind of meeting, that kind of energy hit, that just practically knocks you over and enlightens you, but you don’t know it yet. And he was so gentle and so graceful and so beautiful. And we talked a little bit and he said, “Well, after I get set up, come visit me.” And I was just in love—more in love than I ever had been in my life. And thus, I met Steven Arnold and became a part of this magical troupe of beings that changed the very course of my life. I probably wouldn’t be alive today if it hadn’t been for that.

 

The studio, when it was really finally ready, was a huge space with bigger than life-size Egyptian statues surrounding it…with a barge with leopard skins and pillows on it. Everywhere you looked there were symbols that were archetypal, that anybody could relate to on their level and it would affect everybody differently. But that’s the kind of teacher he was. He was almost like a Sufi teacher or a Western hermetic magus, because not much is spoken and the main imagery that I saw, that came alive within me from Steven, was the pure face, the God of Silence, the trickster. That’s what all that symbolizes—that mask. I know that he was very influenced by George Mellies and it was that face on the moon’s and the Trip To The Moon, that kind of scary, fabulous, beautiful, leering moon face, clown face, that was so prominent for me. It was like Halloween but better, everyday. We would be there for hours and hours. Time would disappear, literally. People would be there all day and all night. It would be like 12, 15 hours in hair and makeup. I would just be observing all of this.

 

The dressing room area was where all the madness and magic took place and it really looked like the backstage of an old vaudeville house—with all the other elements of the carnival, of magic and the imagery of almost every great religion of the world. I would be downstairs painting props and I’d go upstairs and I’d watch Nikki and Pandora and Koelle do these incredible fantasy makeups and hair and costumes that were just out to here and up to here. I never saw anything like it. It rivaled anything in any Fellini movie that you could ever think of. I didn’t know it at the time, but that was leading me—planting the seed within me of what my will in this life was to be. It was to realize that I was an artist too.

 

I will never forget the night that he shot the banquet scene with all of The Cockettes. He did have a very mischievous side. For the banquet he had invited the grand madame and her daughter—the most elegant prostitute—who had a beautiful daughter who I think was going to be working with her if she wasn’t already, but they were very elegant blondes and he wanted them in that film and they were in that shot. He could be so perverse and so wicked and he knew it, you know, sometimes he would laugh with that funny laugh.

 

Finally we’re ready, and Steven, who we haven’t seen all day, slowly comes downstairs. The music, the beautiful, strange music that he always played comes up as he comes down the stairs. He looked liked the captain of a spaceship. He was wearing this high neck black jumpsuit with this huge triangular, silver buckle. He really was the captain of the ship and the minute he came down it was like, silence would fall. His energy and his presence just changed everything. It always changed and elevated the energy a lot. He was so still within himself always, and there’s all this madness going around and he’s like this still guardian guide, master, magus and he would begin to shoot. After Luminous was over, the very course of my life changed, as did everybody’s who met Steven.

 

Steven was my teacher—my great teacher. The way he taught was never with words. The power of his presence was the teaching. It was an honor—such a privilege. I had lost myself, or I had been born lost. Being involved in the process of Luminous—to have a gift of a mentor and to know or to realize that you better take advantage of it and you better accept the teaching because it is a gift. And the more I think back about Steven, in retrospect and the way he was, the more I’m convinced more than ever that he is, was and is, a true Bodhisattva being and a magician and not necessarily from this dimension. That’s more real to me now than it even was then. I remember people—usually straight people that had business dealings with him. They would come into the studio and it was like the door would disappear. When they went to leave, they’d have to be shown the way out because immediately the energy vibration was just shot up and out and into other dimensions, and it affected everybody—those that could absorb that energy and play with it like all of us mad, crazy, gypsy beings, angels and devils and clowns and all of us. People don’t realize—they think of hippies, but we weren’t hippies.

 

We were magical beings like the manifesto says and it was the most uninterrupted, undiluted, creativity on one of the highest levels I’ve ever experienced. In the intervening years, I would just get such a kick out of watching people, when he moved down to L.A. —how his presence would affect the next generation coming up. The younger kids that were coming over to the studio attending the salons—I was watching the ones that were going to be his students. He still taught by creating a situation. He didn’t teach with words. He would create a situation like the puppet master that he was. It was like the cosmic puppet master that he was on the higher plane, you know, as above, so below. I would just watch it happen all over again. Those that got it—people I’ve spoken to that got it, feel the way that most of us do that he affected us so deeply and each in our own way. The force of his being was very, very strong and very high.

 

I’m really honored that my path went to his path. I know I’ll see him again and I know our group will be together again and I now that we’ve been together in many lives. We miss him, but he’s so here.

 

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