Jody Gulsby, (1980 - 2017) - ForeverMissed.com Online Memorials

Let the memory of Jody be with us forever

37 years old
Born on January 12, 1980
Passed away on June 23, 2017

This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Jody Gulsby, 37 years old, born on January 12, 1980, and passed away on June 23, 2017. We will remember him forever.

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June 24

Yesterday brought a whole new sadness. 6 years and less and less friends seem to remember this heart shattering day. There are those that do and for those, I am forever grateful that those friends help to keep your memory shinning. I love you everyday and miss you every minute. This time just reminds me of how sharp that pain remains.

Last year, the pain of losing you was refocused. Your nephew, who was due in August decided he needed to be here early and Walker Vernon Gareth Pridemore made his entrance into our world on the 25th, but you already knew that, I’m sure. His namesakes (you and Papaw) both went to Heaven this week and our little Angel came to us in between those dates.

We’ll celebrate Walker’s big One birthday tomorrow and I’ll be celebrating you, too.

Keep shining bright! I’ll make sure your memory shines here on earth! Love and miss you forever and always!!!

June 23

Jody, we were just talking about you! I am visiting my mom in Uriah; your picture remains in the hall picture frames. We miss your beautiful spirit and smile.

December 25, 2022

Merry Christmas Mimi. Miss you so much.

January 12, 2022

Happy heavenly birthday "Jolene". I love and miss you!!

January 12, 2021

Time is passing so quickly! This is your 4th birthday in Heaven and still so hard to believe you're not going to come bouncing through the door. I know you're celebrating! Always & forever!

December 11, 2020

Another Christmas season! Hope you're throwing glitter all over heaven! Miss you EVERY day!

August 20, 2020

So much has happened this year but you're never more than a moment from my thoughts. Missing you doesn't get any easier. Always and forever, my son!

July 8, 2020

Forever on our minds and in our hearts.

Love Toowee!

June 23, 2020

It so hard to believe youre not here with us. I think about you every single day and i often wonder if you realized how much you mean to me and the impact youve made in my life. I love you my JoJo and I look forward to seeing your fabulous decorations you made up there in heaven. I have some wonderful memories we made in our short time here together on earth and i cant wait to make more in heaven with you.

June 23, 2019

I was wondering why I had a dream about you last night...then I realized. I cant believe it's been this long. I still kick .myself for not calling you more, texting you more, just being more for you. I miss you and love you so much. Youoved me unconditionally as I was and in the process made me a better person. Until we meet again Jolene.

August 7, 2018

JoJo I thank God for all the wonderful memories we made together. I think about you all the time can't wait to get a hug from you and see that gorgeous smile. I love you forever and always.

June 27, 2018

A year and has come and gone. My heart is as broken as it was a year ago but I've vowed to make your memorials be about your life and not about your death! You've only gone on before me.....and I will see that beautiful smile and feel that big ole' bear hug again, in time. I love you as much as ever....forever and always!

January 17, 2018

January 12,2018 Happy Birthday Dear Jody!!! I wish you could be with all your friends and family today but you had different plans. We still love you and miss you. You will forever be in thoughts.

June 29, 2017

you was a good friend and you will be missed Jody

June 28, 2017

"Jolene" I don't even know where to start. From the day we met at Montevallo we just clicked. You ALWAYS made me look AND feel beautiful outwardly and inwardly. We laughed at life and also shared some hard things. I'll never forgive myself for letting life get in the way of being a better friend when you needed one and not getting up there to see you. I can just pray you knew how beautiful and special you were and how precious you were to me. You adored your Mom which was something we both had in common. The joy you brought to everyone who knew was palpable and will be what keeps the rest of us going. I "lerv you as much as my Bassett" and I will mourn your loss for the rest of my life. I love you Jody.

June 28, 2017

Jody, when we first met you were are flurry of ever-lasting botanicals, glitter, and other extranious floral supplies. And attitude, attitude, attitude. There were maybe 20 certifiacates with your name on them in the break room and your got anything you wanted and away with mostly anything. I was oncredible intimidated and mostly scared. In my head I still picture you as Edward Scissorhands clipping and working madly at your productions, back at your floral counter, came into form out of nothing; getting stuff done for the ol biddies needing this or that on their custom arrangements. Don't even get me on the many holiday seasons or floral resets we worked. You grumbled your way through them with flare and sass like no other making it enjoyable and endurable. And then there was the fun side of work with goofing off and always depending on you to put that extra special flavoring on the perspective. And of course there was Jerrica, who was always ready for a party and super fun and magical to celebrate with. I always enjoyed hearing and seeing the eloborate detail you always put into everything that had to do with preparations for shows.
I was supportive when you ventured out for your other store escapades, knowing it was exactly what you needed at the time. I couldnt have been happier than to help support you when you took your break and went to the wonderful world of cosmetics. And then I was so wonderfully proud and excited when you came back to Michaels and was able to formulate a position meant for you within the corporate realm; and man did you rock it out my friend. And even though you left, we still remained in contact thru wonderful social media, phone and when you came in town.
You were team encourager as I worked through my Master's program, being one of only a few that were a cheerleader for me to have the courage to go for it at all truthfully. We talked a lot more after you had to come back to AL. We had more calls and messages. While you were different, your humor remained intact. Your heart never faltered. You were still amazing. You still are and I will maintain and continue to share this with my stories and wonderful memories. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for every opportunity.

June 28, 2017

Jody,
Thank You for being the friend that I could not. You are a beautiful soul. I will never forget you. Through this, I will remember to love harder everyday, live more open,smile even when its hard, and be there for those i love often all in your memory!!! Love Always! Rest in Paradise Sweet Friend!
" Your Wings Were Ready but, My Heart Was NOT !"

June 28, 2017

Jody, thank you so much for your friendship and for reconnecting with me after so many years. It was an honor to know such a kind, funny, and creative soul. I am missing you dearly and will remember you always.

June 27, 2017

I did not know Jody personally, but his granddaddy was my second cousin. Doodle and I shared the same initials J. L. Gulsby. My sympathies to all of his family. I know how sad it is to lose a young man. My stepson was murdered in Atlanta at age 37. God bless each of you as you try to start a new chapter in your lives without him. Prayers for your comfort.

June 27, 2017

Jody and Heath!!! Now that is a story within its self. Those two could get their selves into more trouble than they could get out of. Jody always referred to Heath as, HeMan and his oldest best friend. Jody could tell those stories of him and Heath so well. Especially about them smoking rabbit tobacco. But if Jody got a spanking, Heath would laugh and that would make Jody furious. He'd say, "Heath stop laughing" and Jody had this particular thing he'd always do when he was mad and that was he'd cross his arms. He'd storm off until he was over his maddness then him and Heath would be off together again. I never ask Jody who's idea all that stuff was that they got into but I have a pretty good idea. Maybe that's where Jody gave Heath the name, HeMan. The 4 of us we were inseparable. Heath and Jody talked 2 months ago and Heath told him, "your the first one I'm coming to see when I get out" My saying between friends has always been, "friends don't say goodbye we just say, see you soon!!!

June 27, 2017

I have always had a love for music and Jody had a eagerness for learning. I'd walk around at Greentree Apts singing this particular song. It probably wouldn't be a kind of song for everyone but I liked it and every time I'd start singing it, I'd notice how Jody would stop what he was doing to listen. So I decided I'd teach him this particular song. It didn't take long before every time I'd start to sing it Jody would cut in with me. Vickie would just laugh, she couldn't believe I was teaching Jody that song. Jody and I actually made a good duet as we sang, Members Only. (Smiling)

June 27, 2017

Little brother you will be greatly missed. So sorry the pain was so great you could not bear it any more. I love you then and I love you now. RIP. Your sister Loraine

June 26, 2017

Jodie, You have made our family laugh so hard so many times. You always had that beautiful smile. You and Jessica were such good friends and that is memories that we all were blessed enough to be given. You my friend will never be forgotten. No one that has ever had the honor of meeting you could possibly ever forget you. I will miss our little talks on FB even though they were here and there we always had a good laugh. Forever in our hearts and thoughts. Love you

June 26, 2017

Jody, you are missed so dearly. I'm so glad I got to talk and laugh with you every chance we had. Darlin, you could walk into a room and in less than 5 minutes everyone would be laughing so hard they would be crying. You ARE not only a special, but fabulous. You will never be forgotten because you are the nphamous1 in our hearts and memories. You are loved so dearly. I'm going to miss your likes and comments, but I'm going to miss your face more. I love you sweetness.

June 26, 2017

Jody my joy was you being my patient and bringing tremendous joy to my life. Jody was my ray of sunshine on a cloudy day. I will miss you my love. You have given me so many happy memories. I will cherish them forever. I love you Jody my Jody. Love always your favorite nurse Allisa

June 26, 2017

So many memories...not enough time! You will always be a part of me. Love you forever! Your sister, Ruby Jean

June 26, 2017

To my dear friend Jody,
I am so saddened to know now how much pain you were in and it breaks my heart to not have had the chance to laugh and cry with you.
As we both moved on with our complicated adult lives, I always smile when I think about how free and careless we once were together. You were my closest and dearest friend, running buddy and the Thelma to my Louise. I will forever hold you in a fond place in my heart and remember your sparkle. Truly and hopefully, you have found peace!
Love always, Alex (Poodle)

June 26, 2017

1985 is when I met Jody. This little blonde headed, full of energy, mischievous, carefree, happy little boy who would soon be known to me as, "my JoJo". Although Jody had grown up but I would still refer to him sometimes as, " my JoJo" and he didn't mind because he always said those were the happiest times with the 4 of us me, my son, him and his mom. I agreed with him .... Well Jody, I know you are once again happy. Just like when you were that little boy. You were, you are and will always be, "my JoJo"

June 26, 2017

I wish I had known you longer than the year I've been in Uriah. I will miss your presence at football games and your random visits up to the bandroom. You never failed to make me smile. Love you. ❤️

June 26, 2017

Jody, I am so happy to have had you in my life. You had a way of making everything and everyone special. I was remembering when we were sitting on the porch and you laid your head on my shoulder.you said , " Toowee, you and Jean are my sisters ". I will always hold you close in my heart.

June 26, 2017

My friend since our Belk days began . A definite light in a dark world . I will miss our chats ! You could always cheer me up ! Fly high my friend I'll miss you forever ! ❤️

June 26, 2017

my heart is broken knowing we won't ever get a second chance and work out our differences. from the very first time I met Jody we instantly hit it off and he became my brother, my friend, my compadre. I won't ever forget all of our adventures and our many laughs. I love you JoJo always my gorgeous man child.

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Jody, we were just talking about you! I am visiting my mom in Uriah; your picture remains in the hall picture frames. We miss your beautiful spirit and smile.

December 25, 2022

Merry Christmas Mimi. Miss you so much.

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July 3, 2017

I don't really know where to start. The honest truth is we grew up in a small town. We all looked out for each other. Often we hear people say our friends are chosen. I honestly disagree with that phrase. True friends find each other regardless of the circumstances. Call it fate or whatever you choose but it just happens. It was fate that brought us all together. The first time I met Jody I thought to myself, well here's another quite one in the crowd we'll have to wake up. I was flat out wrong! Jody spoke his mind and that is something I highly respected. Jody and I attended Poplar Springs Baptist Church on Wednesday nights. We watched over the children while service was held in the fellowship hall. If the front steps of that church could talk y'all would probably faint. It was probably more of an excuse to get out of the house than anything. However it led to us becoming closer friends than I could have imagined. One night we had a conversation that include several bottles of Boones Farm. I told him to be himself and not to hide behind the expectations of the small town judgement. Then he basically told me to stop chasing unicorns and just live life. After the hangover cleared or maybe it was from sleeping on the porch with our heads hanging off the edge upside down, we had reached a point of respect and trust. We never spoke about lifestyle choice or any of that nonsense. I didn't judge him and put several people in check that even tried. Now, He really didn't need much help with that though. He would chew you up and down so fast you probably didn't even realize what just happened. He helped reel me back in when I would start chasing those damn unicorns. It goes back to fate and being a good person. He will forever hold a special place in my heart for showing me that no matter what when you peel back the layers and get past the cover, it's what's on the inside that counts. Honestly after that our group became so large that his house became the go to place. Mrs. Vickie either really loved all of us or had some of the finest earplugs on the face of this planet. I'm going with love because her son inherited that trait from her. I could tell you a hundred stories but some memories are better kept to ourselves. What I can say is sometimes chasing unicorns is fun but we all need someone to reel us back in. We also need people to help us overcome our own inner fears. Jody, I thank you for the great friendship. I will miss you more than you will every know. ~ JLB

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June 28, 2017

Judy Mae,
I will never forget you. From the time we spent in JU Blacksher High School together to the late night phone call while i was riding in the Hood! I remember when you use to teach me all my Flag Corp rutines , even while I tripped on acid . You were always Fabulouslessness! You had a wonderful spirit. Just thoughtfulness and warmth. The very last time we talked, you were helping me through a low point. We got our Ghetto out and began cutting up. You told me I pushed you down once in the band room and for that " You probolly deserved it, but sorry not sorry" lol. I dont remember but we got a good laugh out of it. You were and have always been feirce! Im sorry that I took our friendship for granted and should have made time for you! I will live with that regret always. I will miss you dearly sweet friend. RIP Jody!
Love , Elaine

June 28, 2017

I met Jodi when he walked into The Home Depot in Inverness Alabama, he was looking for his best friend Brandon Lee. He was funny, handsome and from that moment on we shared hilarious times at the apartment they all shared and my daughter Alexandra had the most fun and giggles as Brandon and Jodi tried to die her hair in preparation for the Miss Apollo Ball where Jodi was crowned The Winner!!! From that time on we have had birthday Margaritas ( that looked like swimming pools!!) we have face timed and chatted for ages wherever he was living. We have FB texted and we even spoke via text on his last day on this mortal coil. He was kind and understanding and we have enjoyed many meals together. I hope he's having fun and laughing at us all now free from pain and unhappiness. Love ya kiddo!!