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January 1
January 1
Hello John, miss you every time we have to perform in churches where we are invited to sing . 
Pamela Scott, do not blame yourself, John went home to be with the Lord because he had a blockage . If was bound to happen anytime , anywhere. The good Lord called him and it was time .
We love you John!
December 31, 2023
December 31, 2023
Still remembering you for your generosity and encouragement John.
December 30, 2023
December 30, 2023
Dearest John
I am still missing you and so sad you did not do as I asked that Wednesday night. After you played our service at the Christian Science church in Poway I saw how tired you looked and asked you to go right home and get some rest. You insisted that you needed to practice at St Patrick's. I said no you didn't because you were good enough and needed to take care of yourself first. I made you promise that you would at least get something to eat because you had not eaten all day. You said you would, but I have a feeling you didn't. Your passing was needless and the rest of us miss you terribly.  I wish I had followed you to St. Patrick's and made sure you had eaten something. I partly blame myself for your passing because I saw how weary you looked and didn't follow you to St. Patrick's. 

You are such a marvelous musician I hope you are playing wherever you are. The world and especially San Diego County is missing you so much. My dear precious friend I love you and know that God loves you too and is caring for you. I still have the practice tape you made for me to practice my solos. I love listening to you play and never tire of it.  I shall never forget you. 

Oh, and this year you would love my Christmas tree it has many instruments on it along with my purple treble clef. It has my harps, my angels a beautiful cello I found along with a banjo and violin. When I decorated it, I thought of you every time I put an angel or instrument on the tree.  You have blessed so many lives and we all love and miss you so much.  God Bless you my dear friend. 
December 30, 2023
December 30, 2023
I have now listened three times this evening to your recording of the Moonlight Sonata. Beautifully played and a lovely way in which to remember you dear John. 
December 30, 2023
December 30, 2023
Dear John
Just a short tribute this time. The anniversary of your passing is marked in my prayer book. Thinking of you most especially on this sad day when so many of us lost a very special and incredibly talented man. 
August 18, 2023
August 18, 2023
Dear John

So another year has passed. Today would have been your 73rd birthday.  Even though a number of years have passed since you accompanied many of us at Pandeli’s voice lessons on Kettner Blvd, San Diego, I still miss you and think about you. What a privilege it was to have benefitted from your masterful piano accompaniments.  Thinking of you most especially today. 
August 18, 2023
August 18, 2023
Dearest John, your love and precious presence is still felt in my heart. I hear your music in my head and see your loving presence on the organ/piano bench as if it were yesterday. Each time I think of you playing for me to sing the memory is sweet. You always made me sound better and never let me get down on myself. Your encouragement meant the world to me. God bless you wherever you are.
My love is with you. 
December 31, 2022
December 31, 2022
An honor to remember your incredible generosity over the years John.
Thank you again and again.
December 30, 2022
December 30, 2022
Dearest John, every time I sing you are with me and in my heart. You always made me sound so perfect even when I was slightly off. You would put my solo down a notch or two so that I could hit the high notes that morning. You always encouraged me to be my best at all times. You were my inspiration and my rock and always told me "You can do this."  This Christmas I was remembering the times you came to my home for a Christmas party and played Carols so we all could sing. The laughter and joy you brought to my family and to everyone around me will always be in my heart. You are such a precious man and so loved by everyone. Thank you for all the love you gave to everyone. 
January 2, 2022
January 2, 2022
Thank you for continuing to send the tributes to our dear John who I also appreciate to no end and miss tremendously. I still tune in to him and continue to receive his loving encouragement when singing solos. I am about to create a program singing the extraordinary songs from The Man of La Mancha - with John's support it is not an "Impossible Dream". Lovingly, Joy-See
December 30, 2021
December 30, 2021
Dear John, on this, the 6th anniversary of your departure from this world, I remember anew those wonderful evenings at Kettner Blvd, San Diego, when Pandeli would give some of us a voice lesson and you would accompany each student so beautifully on the piano and give us confidence and courage to do our very best. You also helped many of us, myself included, on an individual basis, for which I shall be forever grateful. You are greatly missed by so many and remembered by us all with so much affection and love. Thinking of you especially, on this 30th day of December, 2021.
December 30, 2021
December 30, 2021
Dear John, Still remembering and feeling gratitude for your many kindnesses to me. You always found time to work with singers with the gift of your wonderful accompaniment! I imagine you playing with the angels!
Love, Mai-Lon
December 30, 2021
December 30, 2021
Oh, John, I can't believe it has been six years since you became a resident in your next life. I do hope heaven's residents appreciate and love you the way we on earth did. You were such a gifted musician. I so enjoyed being a part of your musicianship. Now the angels can reap the rewards of that musicianship and the splendid person you were. I take comfort in knowing that you are being spared the tortures of COVID.

As always, fondest regards.
December 30, 2021
December 30, 2021
I was going through our CDs and found our incredible CDs we made with John.
Listening to them brought back so many wonderful memories of the fun we had making music together. I miss you John but know that you are in heaven making music with all the Saints and Angels. Encouraging those who need it and rising all to new heights with your God given talents. Love yah
November 4, 2021
November 4, 2021
Thank you, George Shaw for your truly beautiful tribute to our very dear friend, John Danke. How wonderful that you were able to attend six Catholic Masses where John was playing and then to have him, on another occasion play and sing Live and Let Die to you only a few months before he left us to go to his eternal home. A deeply moving and uplifting tribute. 
What great times you obviously had as young men playing in those two bands that you all put together. You certainly do go back a long way. 
November 3, 2021
November 3, 2021
John and I go back to Vista High School, where we and four other guys formed a working rock band, the Jagged Edge, that played a couple nights a week at Camp Pendelton, and again later when John and I and four other guys formed another band, The Gringoes, that played Herb Alpert and the TJ Brass music. Of the first six, three made careers in music. I am proud of them all!

John was a rare musical talent. He had perfect pitch; and when I sat at his piano and played complex chords, he would tell me the name of the chord and the order of the notes. His playing on his Leslie organ is an unforgettable memory. And he sang, as well. On key.

I visited him in August 2015 when I was briefly back in San Diego County. I attended six Catholic masses with him as he played for their respective congregations. While I was there he held a recital in Pacific Beach for his several students as he accompanied them on the piano. At the end of the student performances, he recognized me in the audience and played and sang "Live and Let Die" by Paul McCartney. He could always play with such muscular power and confident authority, and he did at the six masses and that night, with more power and authority than ever! I thought it was a bit strange that he would choose that piece, especially since it was not one we played together in high school; but it was magnificent and I appreciated his gift and his gifts as a musician and as a good Christian human being.

So it was with profound sadness when another old bandmate had to tell me in 2018 that John had passed on to a dimension we cannot yet go a few months after I visited him. I miss him. I miss his music. I miss his humor. But I and the rest of the surviving members of the two bands will remember him and his keyboard style and his ability to add LIFE to the music we played together. R.I.P. John.
August 19, 2021
August 19, 2021
I just the read the story of John's life posted here and enjoyed it so much then I wrote a long response about how I loved John dearly and had the honor of his friendship and expert musicianship being accompanied by him singing solos for three years before he tragically passed away. I still miss him to this day. I was not able to post it so am going this route. Joy-See Gotfredson
August 18, 2021
August 18, 2021
Dear John, another year has passed without you to brighten the world. Your birthday is clearly marked in my prayer book. Thinking of you most especially on what would have been your 71st birthday. Thank you for all the joy and happiness you brought to so many . 
August 18, 2021
August 18, 2021
John- thank you for the music!!! You are truly missed. I'm afraid that 2020 brought my Dad to heaven. I hope somewhere he's hearing your beautiful music!
August 18, 2021
August 18, 2021
Oh, John. I always think of you on your birthday. I can no longer visit your grave as I no longer live in CA. I will always miss your excellent musicianship and kind soul.  Your superb accompaniment brought me so much joy and brought out the best in me. I hope heaven's residents can appreciate your talents as all of us did. I always say that our loss is the angels' gain.  I will be forever grateful for having known you.
January 8, 2021
January 8, 2021
Dearest John, It seems like yesterday that you and I were talking and joking about one thing or another. Your voice and laughter still ring in my heart. You are not with us in person but your loving spirit and your Christlike character permeate our hearts and minds.  I look forward to seeing you again someday when I move forward into that "Secret Place" where God and good reign supreme. I miss your hugs. God Bless you my dear friend.
January 7, 2021
January 7, 2021
I agree Liz, I still miss John just as much as when he passed. With his marvelous support and encouragement, I sang my best. That is one of the main things I miss during this pandemic: SINGING. Sending you a heartfelt song John. Love, Joy-See
December 31, 2020
December 31, 2020
Dear John, it seems impossible that five years have passed since you left us to return to our Heavenly Father. You will be in my heart for ever. Thank you for all you did to help me with my singing. 
December 31, 2020
December 31, 2020
Lovely kind man who extended the singing life for many of us. Thank you dear John
December 30, 2020
December 30, 2020
Really nothing has changed--I still miss him the same! My husband just told me when John died the whole music scene in San Diego died with him, and of course I agree with him.
December 30, 2020
December 30, 2020
Dear John, Your generous spirit will always inspire me to keep making music.
Thank you always...
December 30, 2020
December 30, 2020
John,
It has been 5 years and we still miss you a lot. 
December 30, 2020
December 30, 2020
Dear John, I always think of you on this date. As we prepare to celebrate our New Year here on earth, I hope your next life is a joyous one. You are being spared the terrible COVID pandemic and the horrors being inflicted on millions if people all over the world. I would imagine that all those presently in heaven and those who will follow will rejoice in the music you are bringing them. A votre sante, dearest John. You will always be missed. This from a very grateful Marcia.
August 19, 2020
August 19, 2020
One day late, but still remembering what would have been your 70th birthday. You will be in my memory forever, dear John.  What a privilege it was to have known you. 
August 18, 2020
August 18, 2020
Dear John,
I'll never forget your many kindnesses and support of all singers, some of us so raw and new and others more advanced. Wherever you are, I send you love and hugs.
Mai-Lon
August 18, 2020
August 18, 2020
Dear John, of course I think of you on what would have been your 70th birthday. I remember all of the wonderful music we performed together and what a joy it was to work with you to benefit from your expertise and kindness. It breaks my heart that I can no longer visit your grave because I do not live in CA. I hope your soul is celebrating this birthday wherever it now resides in the universe.
December 30, 2019
December 30, 2019
At 8.30 this morning, I looked in my prayer book and there was the reminder that this was the day on which our dear friend, John Danke passed from the earth into his heavenly home. We are eight hours ahead of California, here in the United Kingdom. My thoughts went straight back to those happy days when John was the accompanist at Pandeli Lazaridi's voice classes on Ketner Blvd in San Diego. John also chose a great deal of music for me and generously gave me all the copies.  He was a most encouraging teacher and friend.  A unique being who is greatly missed by me and many, many others. Thank you, John, for your enormous generosity and endless kindness.
December 30, 2019
December 30, 2019
Dear John, you were my first concert accompanist. You were most kind and patient always encouraging young and inexperienced singer I was. I will remember your passion and dedication towards your students. Forever missed.
December 30, 2019
December 30, 2019
Dearest John, You were always the light in my singing. You made me sound wonderful even if I was out of voice a little that Sunday. You would lower the key at sight just to make me sound good and the service go smoothly. You are now and always will be a precious friend. 
December 30, 2019
December 30, 2019
John,
I wish you were alive to hear my singing improvement.
Rest in peace.
Lana
December 30, 2019
December 30, 2019
John,
Carol Anne, Georgetta and I were just thinking of you during our dinner together. We miss you so much my friend. 
Stephen
December 30, 2019
December 30, 2019
Of course, I remember John's passing at this time of year. Very often I will think of him when I remember the musical selections we worked on together. I am distressed that I can no longer visit his grave at this time of year and for his birthday on August 18 as I now live in Tucson. His musical input and piano expertise plus the superb human being he was simply cannot be measured or put into words. Be happy wherever you are now, dearest John. Hopefully, those who share the universe with you now have the opportunity to enjoy your music.
August 21, 2019
August 21, 2019
Dear precious John, you left us too soon. That night when you left our service I told you that you needed to get something to eat and to get some rest as you looked very tired and worn out. I asked you not to practice that night because it was too late but you said you would get something to eat and then go to practice. I begged you to just go home and get some rest, but you didn't and they found you the next morning on the floor of the church. I had left to go out of town and didn't know you passed on til I returned the following week. I keep you picture on my desk as you were to me one of my dearest friends. Every time I soloed you made me sound so good even when I was tired. You would tell me I'll just lower the key and you'll be fine and I was all because you cared for me they way you cared for everyone but yourself. You put everyone and everything before your own well being and now you are gone and we all miss you so much.  I know you are in heaven and probably playing for everyone there if they have a piano. I miss you so much. I miss our talks and our sharing of the Christ, Truth. You were the best example of a Christian as well as a Christian Scientist I have ever known. You were precious then and you still are my beloved friend. 
August 18, 2019
August 18, 2019
Dearest John. I add my prayers and loving thoughts to those of others who have so eloquently posted here. I shall always remember your incredible generosity and encouragement and count it a great privilege to have known you, albeit for a comparitively short time. You are so missed by so many people. 
August 18, 2019
August 18, 2019
My dearest John, it's that time of year that we remember your birthday on August 18, which would have been your 69th. You crossed the bridge into your next life much too soon. We miss your magnificent musicianship and your superb kindness. As I have said, our loss is the angels' gain as you play your music in the heavens. Georgetta chose the perfect words, those of a Lebanese philosopher, for your gravestone: "That which sings and contemplates in you is now dwelling within the bounds of that first moment which scattered the stars into space." Be happy wherever you are, mon cher ami.
August 18, 2019
August 18, 2019
John you were so special and thought about often.
August 18, 2019
August 18, 2019
I will never forget how generous you were to this fledgling singer! Over the years I would come back for help and you always came through. Thank you and love always.
January 1, 2019
January 1, 2019
John, you are really missed. You touched so many lives, including mine, with your kindness and encouragement. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. I am sure the Lord welcomed you with the words, Well done, good and faithful servant.
December 31, 2018
December 31, 2018
Well, I still miss John so much. I also miss all the nice people from the Opera Nights and Popera Nights. I've hardly sung any opera at all since he left us, and opera is my favorite thing. I hope someday I can get back to it. In the meantime, at least I'm still singing a little bit. 
As all of you know, John was the greatest!
December 30, 2018
December 30, 2018
This past week we were at the Spanish church choir practice....We thought about you.. Miss you John and we will never forget you... We finally came back to the church choir....One of your many recommendations.... You were a true blessing to our family...
December 30, 2018
December 30, 2018
I miss you much and wish that you would have stayed with us longer. I know that you had confidence in my ability to sing from the beginning because you told me so.  I can still feel your warmth and encouragement.
December 30, 2018
December 30, 2018
Our choir was in between masses this morning and we were chatting, talking about the organ and how it hasn’t been played really since John passed. We talked about how much we miss him and then we realized that today is the 3rd anniversary of his passing. We listened to a voice recording that was made at rehearsal just a few days before he died. We sure do still miss him. His talent, his wit, his laughter, everything. Please continue to watch over us from your heavenly home, John.
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