For some reason today many people sent messages asking about Irvine and the boys and what a coincidence on 6 October 1995 when Irvine`s father collapsed whilst teaching and he was pronounced dead. You all sent your messages as if you knew he is going through a memorial ceremony.I recall my father in law was quite a great man who talked to everyone and dedicated his life to teaching.I got married traditionally on a Sartuday and had promised to visit Friday and thats the day he died.Of course on Wednesday we had shared scan results that a baby boy was coming.Everything happened so fast.It was so sad for my mother in law as the two had lived together all their lives and now separated for 16 years . So sad !!!