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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, John Grayson, 88 years old, born on December 28, 1925, and passed away on November 28, 2014. We will remember him forever.
December 28, 2023
December 28, 2023
Happy heavenly birthday. I think and speak of you often. You will always be with me in my memories and my heart until we meet again
December 30, 2022
December 30, 2022
Mr. John - I know you are still with many of us..where Angels live. I believe you would be proud, in 2+ years, I've finished 2 CD recordings of original songs. A lot of what I experience today was nurtured & shaped while with Rainsoft. Just think of all those conventions where there was no song that captured the spirit of that event..until I got there and started writing what I saw & experienced. That pressure and experience instilled those skills and added to my growth as a songwriter. For this, I have you to thank. You allowed me to share my musical creations with the entire Rainsoft family....without any audition, or, preview. You trusted me! That's the mark of a true leader. We sure could use more of that rare quality today. Continued blessing from here & thank U for being a trusting Angel.
December 28, 2022
December 28, 2022
Thank you John for believing in me and giving me so many opportunities to grow. Your kindness and love helped me become a better person. You are always with me and always in my heart.
December 28, 2022
December 28, 2022
Thank you John for providing myself and my family with so much of what we have today. Your generosity will always be remembered!
December 28, 2021
December 28, 2021
John was a wonderful generous caring man and he treated us like his RainSoft family. I think and talk of him often as one of the most important influences in my life. I remember in my early years as a dealer and times were tuff. Him taking his time to talk to me and make me feel anything was possible. I always wanted to make him proud. Through the vehicle he started call RainSoft he has helped many families that have provided for their families through the years. All the homes bought, all the kids through college and dreams that came true. Then there are the thousands of families that have been helped around the country and around the world with our charity projects. I would call or email him every few months and update him on the people we had helped and thank him for making that possible. He would always say it was all me but I would tell him we would not been able to do these things without him and his amazing company he started.

I got to spend a day with him and his lovely wife not long before he passed. That was one of the greatest days of my life. It ended with a big hug (which John was not much of a hugger) and a kiss on the cheek and told him how much I loved him. We both shed a tear and said goodbye. He will always be with me in my heart. Happy heavenly birthday my special friend.
December 28, 2021
December 28, 2021
"All know the way, few actually walk it!"
JOHN GRAYSON, founder of RAINSOFT, showed so many of us the way to be successful and gave us an incredible vehicle to accomplish anything, even if it seemed impossible at the time.

He did not walk ahead of us, he did not walk behind us, he walked with us!
Today would have been his 96th birthday and every day still feels to me as if he is daily with me, walking by my side.

John, you are loved today and every day until one day we meet again!

Happy B'Day, Mr. G. - you are never forgotten!! You always have and always will be THE GREATEST. Thanks for the wonderful memories...
December 28, 2021
December 28, 2021
Well John, still going strong selling your RainSoft Water Treatment Equipment. We have your story posted in our office for all to read and, appreciate how your beautiful company came to be.... RainSoft, the way water was meant to be....Thank you so very much!
November 29, 2021
November 29, 2021
Mr. John, Now out of Rainsoft and basically self-employed with music & performing, I'm realizing (every day) how the two sales stages are similar. In Rainsoft, I went out on Sat., knocked doors, and usually got a couple of leads for the next week. In self-marketing & performing songs in the Atlanta area, when I get tired of the same audiences, it's time to do some 'door knockin' @ the Senior Homes & Wellness centers for new ears to hear GiveBack Music. The objections are the same, the routine is similar - it's striking! All of this Dan Dan The Water Man told me years ago. Now pursuing songwriting, 'rejection' is what all songwriters bathe in! It washes off like water from a Duck's back. Thank you for all the vision, sound leadership, calm demeanor & warmth. Your life lessons have continued with me for decades. Now @ 81 yrs. young, it's a delight to let the music take the audience away from their troubles cares & see the smiles of JOY.
December 29, 2020
December 29, 2020
John – I think about you often and I miss you and your green pen notes very much. I will always remember the love you showed me. I am truly blessed to have shared in a part of your life and legacy.
December 28, 2020
December 28, 2020
Dear John,

Its hard to believe you have been gone this long already. It seems like yesterday that you were calling me often to see how I was doing and what I was doing. You lived the Rainsoft Family life right to the end. You would of been 95 years old today. You often told me and others that the mandatory retirement age at Rainsoft was 95. Well John, you can retire now. Job well done! Im sure God has you where you are already benefiting others in heaven just like you benefitted so many here on earth. I miss you. May God continue to bless you. Love, Robbie.
December 28, 2020
December 28, 2020
Remembering you today.
Thanks for everything you did for so many.
December 1, 2020
December 1, 2020
Dear Mr. Grayson,

I often think and talk about what a unique culture and company you created. It will never be duplicated, only envied. Thank you for the life I have today and all the great memories that come with it. Continue to RIP!
November 29, 2020
November 29, 2020
I remember Mr. Grayson once mentioned that before he died, he would "fade into obscurity..." I can confirm that he has and will never fade from the hearts of mine and many others. We miss you, John. Love always.
November 29, 2020
November 29, 2020
Mr Grayson, you were truly a force to be reckoned with!
RIP!
November 29, 2020
November 29, 2020
John, I've been out of Rainsoft for several years, however, I often wondered, if you were here, your leadership approach to handling the challenges of covid-19. I stay in touch with some of the 'old-timers' and it seems that the response & actions are wide and varied. After all this time, all the miles, the changes - I feel you are still missed. I miss your vision, wisdom & calm style. I'm in awe of what you built, crafted & shaped. It is a lasting testimonial to your legacy & enduring memory.
December 30, 2019
December 30, 2019
John, your legacy is still felt daily by the people you touched and gave so much to. I am forever grateful to you for allowing me to join your RainSoft family. What a unique company and culture you created.....Thank you!
November 29, 2019
November 29, 2019
Dear John, although you have been gone for five years our memories of you still remain in our thoughts and hearts. Although many of your RainSoft family have gone different ways and followed different career paths, many of us have kept in touch through the years because of the strong bonds you helped create when we worked for you. Thank you for everything you did for us.
August 13, 2016
August 13, 2016
John - Fitting this month, while unpacking items at my new pad, North of Atlanta, I find 'The Balladeer' Gold record from RainSoft. This was presented to me, Dan Hager & Roy Dixon for our musical contributions at various conventions. It's a treasured memory, like so many of the RainSoft memories and the incredible people you seemed to attract. For all the 'doors you opened' - thank you so much, Mr. Grayson..RIP, until we meet again & hopefully, I'll still have a catchy tune to share with you. Now, that will be a 'hoot'... sitting there together, singing old RainSoft Songs!  Heaven won't be the same!
August 11, 2016
August 11, 2016
Mr. Grayson, I cant seem to put in words the great respect & wonderful memories I'll always have of you. You believed in me when I didn't / couldn't even believe in myself. I have never forgotten you or your fatherly kindness, Thank you so much for the wonderful letter of recommendation you wrote for me. It has opened many doors, I personally love the part that reads " Wendy is a joy to have around"
        I cherish that letter and have read it many times over the years...
December 28, 2015
December 28, 2015
Dear John,

You are still in our thoughts and in our hearts, and always will be . . . Happy Birthday . . .
December 28, 2015
December 28, 2015
Dear John,
You're in our hearts and minds everyday.
God bless you for all you did for us.
Until we meet again.
Bob
December 28, 2015
December 28, 2015
"All know the way, few actually walk it!"

You showed so many of us the way to be successful and gave us an incredible vehicle to accomplish anything, even if it seemed impossible at the time.

You did not walk ahead of us, you did not walk behind us, you walked with us!

Today is the 90th anniversary of your birth and every day still feels to me as if you are daily with me, walking by my side.

You are loved today and every day until one day we meet again!

Peter Waelti - Denver
November 30, 2015
November 30, 2015
It's hard to believe it's been a year since we all said our tearful goodbye to you dear John. Although you are no longer a part of our everyday lives, you still hold a special place in the heart of each persons life that you touched throughout your lifetime.

Memories last a lifetime, you are still remembered by so many of us, and you will remain in our hearts and memories forever . . .
November 28, 2015
November 28, 2015
John - You will continue to be in our hearts, and will remember all the special times we had with you forever! You are man we will never forget! Love ya my friend.... Wayne Jensen
February 19, 2015
February 19, 2015
John had that gift of touching peoples life’s in so many different ways. He had one of the most complete set of skill tools and an extremely cunning way of using them to bring out the best in others. In my 52 years of knowing him he was truly the pinnacle of salesmanship.
January 12, 2015
January 12, 2015
My family and I thank you for your friendship and support for so many years. I imagine you will be swapping stories with my father Jerry. God bless!
Kurt and Sharon Peterson
December 28, 2014
December 28, 2014
Today would have been RainSoft founder JOHN GRAYSON's 89th birthday. Sadly for all of us, he passed exactly 1 month before his birthday.

I not only had the good fortune to spend quality time with him over the last 31 years of my RainSoft career, but was in touch with him via e-mail over all these years.

John Grayson was "greater than life" on this earth and beyond. One of the few people that leaves a mark on everyone that met him and had the pleasure to work with.

I cherished his Christmas cards every year or little notes, always written with a green sharpie. I cherished so many moments, like when I visited the factory and he himself drove me to O'Hare. At the airport I spontaneously hugged him and he looked at me and said: "Oh, you're a hugger". Or when I proposed to him the idea of a video for consumers (and later on a second one for sales people / dealer recruiting), he trusted me completely, gave me free range - even in choosing an actor - and never saw the end product until the evening before the general session at a convention. Or the memories when we went with some sales people and regional directors to a Super Bowl in 1992. I will never forget when my wife Donna took me for my 50th birthday to Las Vegas and he heard about that, he spontaneously came to Las Vegas too, took us to a fine restaurant at the Mirage and then to see the "Siegfried & Roy" show together. How awesome is that!! To have the founder (and engineer with sales know-how) of RainSoft sing "Happy Birthday" is an unforgettable moment!

And, and, and - John gave so many people a platform and tool for success. Never selfish, always good-hearted!

Every day I thought of him, as I looked at his picture at the office. And every day since November 28th, 2014 have I thought of him. He is and always will be part of my life.

John Grayson - we salute you and may you rest in peace, knowing how many people love you and will never forget you!!

You left your mark - now it will be up to us to carry the torch, one consumer at a time.

Respectfully,
Peter Waelti
President
RainSoft Of Denver
December 28, 2014
December 28, 2014
Happy Birthday John!
Your memory and legacy will live on in so many for years to come. Thank you for all you did for so many of us.
December 23, 2014
December 23, 2014
I will always remember working for John Grayson in the early days of my employment at RainSoft. I quickly realized that John not only welcomed me to his company as a new employee, but as a part of the RainSoft family. John's strong leadership, kindness and generosity truly touched my life in so many ways.

Merry Christmas dear John, may you rest in peace knowing how many lives you touched in such a positive way during your lifetime. Our memories of you will live on forever within our hearts.
December 22, 2014
December 22, 2014
John leaves us with a mixed heavy and also joyful heart. What great memories, with such Champions from around the world that we got to know and love because of the brilliance, work ethic, coaching and friendship of John. In England they would say 'Well played.' Nice job, John. Generations will speak highly of you.
December 12, 2014
December 12, 2014
He was a great man who impacted many, many lives and has truly left a legacy! He is now back together with our greatest RainSoft legends. May God bless him and his family.
December 10, 2014
December 10, 2014
I read all these tributes and feel we all can do better in life because we knew John. I know that I am forever grateful to have known Mr G RIP and some day we will all be together again. Thanks John.
December 9, 2014
December 9, 2014
He was my mentor and in time he was my friend. John repeated his philosophy to us often which was "Help enough people get what they want in life and you will recieve everything you want in life." He certainly accomplished it while leaving his mark on the world.
He will be missed.
Marty
December 8, 2014
December 8, 2014
John's appreciation and belief in his staff and dealer network will always be inspiring. Thanks for changing my life and so many others.
December 8, 2014
December 8, 2014
Mr G. left us on earth but will forever be with us all. I am very thankful that my life path crossed with his. The best mentor anyone could ask for. May he forever rest in peace.
December 8, 2014
December 8, 2014
20 years ago I did meet John the first time, He did chance my live
on this planet. I had a very warm welcome to the RainSoft family
my sincere sympathy for everyone.
December 7, 2014
December 7, 2014
John was the a wonderful man who had huge impact on my life. His loving memory will remain in the hearts of me & I am sure in all the lives he touched. He will never be forgotten & I feel blessed to have known him.
 
Dave Pettinato
December 6, 2014
December 6, 2014
A man who touched so many lives in a so many wonderful ways. 
Rest in peace, John.
December 6, 2014
December 6, 2014
John was a wonderful all round person and business leader, . May he influence as many people in the world he is going too.

This world will miss him dearly.

I am blessed to have known and worked with John.
December 5, 2014
December 5, 2014
I shall always remember how John Grayson befriended me shortly after I started with the WQA in the early 1990's. We became great friends and he helped the new WQA Technical Director a great deal. John was a true genius in our industry. I shall forever have warm and respected memories of him!
Joe Harrison
WQA Technical Director (retired)
December 5, 2014
December 5, 2014
John was a great person and recognized business and people. He is direly missed and we wish him peace. They don't come any better.
December 5, 2014
December 5, 2014
Mr. G, Was an inspiration to everyone he touched. A true leader in every sense of the word. We all have many great stories about our experiences working for and with John, all positive and often funny. Gone but never forgotten. RIP
December 5, 2014
December 5, 2014
Heaven has a new Saint. I'm sure John ran through the tunnel and into a cheering stadium with his fists high over his head to a standing ovation as he was welcomed into Heaven. I, for one, look forward to being with him again some day. Well done Mr. Grayson !  Very Well Done !
December 5, 2014
December 5, 2014
John was the most professional business leader I have ever known.
He opened many doors for people to become successful. He was a true leader and confidant. 
Rest In Peace my Friend. You will never be forgotten.

Wayne Jensen
December 4, 2014
December 4, 2014
In my 30 years with RainSoft Mr. Grayson was the inspiration for me to strive to be successful. He was a busy man but he always took a call from me. That showed me the character of this great man. If one was to look up integrity in the dictionary. ..Mr. Grayson's picture would be there. RIP. Mr. Grayson. .you have earned it.
December 4, 2014
December 4, 2014
I met him once at a convention and I still get chills thinking about it. He was a wonderful person and touched so many. May God Bless his family and may his memory live in all of us at Rainsoft. RIP Mr. Grayson
December 4, 2014
December 4, 2014
Sorry to hear about Mr. Grayson's passing. He allowed me to experience the best twenty years of my life.
December 4, 2014
December 4, 2014
John was a wonderful man, who gave many a great opportunity.
RIP Mr. Grayson."

Art Anderson
December 4, 2014
December 4, 2014
Mr. Grayson was a father figure to us as well as our fearless leader. Words cannot describe his wisdom and kindness. 
God Bless John from all of us."

Terry Bonik
December 4, 2014
December 4, 2014
Mr. Grayson gave us all a wonderful
Opportunity!
He was a blessing to many. God rest his soul."

Donny W Beasley
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December 28, 2023
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Happy heavenly birthday. I think and speak of you often. You will always be with me in my memories and my heart until we meet again
December 30, 2022
December 30, 2022
Mr. John - I know you are still with many of us..where Angels live. I believe you would be proud, in 2+ years, I've finished 2 CD recordings of original songs. A lot of what I experience today was nurtured & shaped while with Rainsoft. Just think of all those conventions where there was no song that captured the spirit of that event..until I got there and started writing what I saw & experienced. That pressure and experience instilled those skills and added to my growth as a songwriter. For this, I have you to thank. You allowed me to share my musical creations with the entire Rainsoft family....without any audition, or, preview. You trusted me! That's the mark of a true leader. We sure could use more of that rare quality today. Continued blessing from here & thank U for being a trusting Angel.
December 28, 2022
December 28, 2022
Thank you John for believing in me and giving me so many opportunities to grow. Your kindness and love helped me become a better person. You are always with me and always in my heart.
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Dear Friend and Mentor

December 30, 2019
John,
It's been several years since you have passed on, but I think of you often. I owe much of the success if have realized in my career to you. Hardly a day goes by that when I am faced with a problem or challenge that I don't ask myself; "How would John handle this?" I really appreciated all those times that I was able to spend with you one on one. You always seemed to have some piece of advice or wisdom to share with me. My only regret is that I didn't spend more time with you.
May you rest in peace my dear friend.
Bob R

The Birth Of RainSoft Water - 1990 Convention

February 9, 2015

Written & performed at my first RainSoft Convention, 1990.  (Then I was with Hager's RainSoft, Stafford, Va.)

We'd like to sing a song about,
this man we call John Grayson, 
An' ex Navy man and a pilot too,
loves his golf, roots for Purdue,
Started out with his father,
The Birth Of RainSoft Water.

Yes, he started with his Dad,
and for this we're mighty glad
There's a job to be done,
for this Father & his Son,  in water.

From a humble cigar store,
he would go 'door to door.'
sellin' the model 'Thor' -
it would do so much more,
The Birth Of RainSoft Water, clean soft water !

Then in '63 (or) maybe '64,
 he would show the world
we could do so much more -
set the course for all to follow..
Eight cycles and the Apollo!

It's quite an honor to sing about,
a man who's lifes been water, RainSoft Water.
From the Elk Grove office through
the regions,  to me an you..
We salute our RainSoft father and RainSoft water.

Later came the Q1 and then the Q2
top product lines for me and you, to fix water.

Now three decade have come and gone,
what he has done is alive and strong
John Grayson, we salute thee...
and, 'What Water Was Meant To Be.'
So, from Bensenville in a small cigar store,
He showed the world, ours will do 'so much more.'
Forever RainSoft Water, Clean RainSoft Water..

              - Lyrics to song written / performed at 1990 Convention  -

                       Submitted in loving memory of Mr. Grayson.

Jerry Gilmore
Roanoke, Va.

Ronnie Raindrop

December 8, 2014

John always knew exactly what to say to show us how much he loved us.    

I remember a time when I spent an entire weekend drawing several cartoons of Ronnie Raindrop for Newt Davis for a RainSoft Convention at John's request. When the convention was over & John returned to the office, John said "Thanks - Ronnie Raindrop was a big hit". I had hoped John would have shared a little more about the convention highlights or the cartoons I worked so hard on but John was a little pre-occupied with all the office construction we had going on at that time.

A few days later, John called my desk and told me he wanted to give me some good news. I actually thought he was going to tell me that one of our state approvals was accepted when he announced he was giving me a raise. I was speachless and asked why & John's response was "Because you do a great job here & I wouldn't want to lose you to Walt Disney"

John's comment to not want to lose me to Walt Disney was the greatest compliment anyone could have ever given me & of course it was John Grayson who said it to me.    

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