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CELEBRATNG THE LIFE OF
JOOSEP EEDI JUHKAM
22 MARCH 2000 - 13 MAY 2021

You always lived in the moment and enjoyed life in full.

You are in us, you are part of us, you are in our hearts forever Joosu...

Head ja toredat seilamist ükskõik kus sa ka ei viibiks, me oleme sinuga, kallis Joose...

Born a millennial baby on a cold but sunny winter snow-covered day in Estonia and then…..

  • A New Yorker and survivor of 9/11
  • Thailand elementary school, sailing, swimming, boats and beaches 
  • Bangladesh middle school and rickshaw races, tiger searching, python hugger, coral reefs
  • USA high school, friends, football, skiing, camping, biking, boats yards in Rye Neck, New York
  • California Love - the ocean, the air, marine science, boat yard work in Monterey Bay, his close close friends and roommates
Did you know this about Joosep?

  • As a baby had a family nickname of ‘konn’ (Estonian for ‘frog’), and ‘banaani mees’ (Estonian for ‘banana man’, for his love of bananas)
  • Could play the drums, bass guitar, baritone horn, piano and recorder flute.
  • A drummer, guitarist and singer in a rock band from age 11-13 while living in Bangladesh; sang at the boys honor choir with performances in Bali and Hong Kong…. And also suffered Dengue fever not once but twice
  • A sailor and not afraid to manage his own boat, sometimes in rough waters in Thailand.
  • Chosen to be one of two team captains of the Rye Neck football team in his senior year, after having played only one year of football ever, during his junior year.
  • Lighting manager,  then stage manager in Rye Neck High School theatre productions
  • Declared ‘MOST HUGGABLE’ and with the ‘BEST LAUGH’ in his high school yearbook.
  • A brother of the Kappa Sigma Fraternity at Cal State Monterey
  • An excellent cook and provider of nourishment by the best of hugs
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May 17, 2021
May 17, 2021
Dear Robert

It is so very sad to hear this news and our prayers with you and your family at this trying moment which I am sure is unbearable to go through. Seeing the photographs of your son made me realize what a happy and joyful person he was and seemed to live life to the fullest! No words can express what you and your family is going through and it is the hardest thing for a parent to accept. But we have to move forward and be happy and cherish the full life he led as I am sure he made the most out of it!!! 
According to the Buddhist philosophy we are all going to the sansaric journey in many forms may his travels on this journey be great and may he attain the blissful state of nirvana where there is no suffering only bliss and contentment!!!

Our Prayers with you

Dinali
May 17, 2021
May 17, 2021
Dear Robert, Tiia,
Words fail to express my deepest condolences on the untimely loss of Joosep.
Although I had not met Joosep, his pictures and the story posted by Angelo, tell about a gentle, caring and compassionate young man who loved nature, music and sports. Joosep has touched so many lives, all of which will be incomplete without him around. 
I hope you find some peace from the beautiful memories that you shared together and draw strength to carry on.
During this difficult time, please know that I am here for you.
You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. 
Faiza Effendi
May 17, 2021
May 17, 2021
Dear Robert and Tiia,

I am so shocked and saddened by your loss. My prayers and thoughts are with you both and your family. May his soul rest in peace.
May 17, 2021
May 17, 2021
Dear Robert and family

As you all mourn at this devastating time, take courage and console yourself knowing Joosep is at a better place with His Creator. My prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time and heartfelt condolences. May the strength of God be with you always.

"The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit." Psalm 34:18

Nuwan
May 17, 2021
May 17, 2021
Dear Robert and Tiia,

In the face of sudden loss and tragedy it is hard to find the right words if they even exist. I cannot imagine what you are going through. Just a few days ago, Robert, you and I spoke briefly about our mutual families..... While I have never met your son, he sounds like the kind of boy that every parent would love to have and be extremely proud of. 

I hope that his soul is somewhere with the corals that he wanted to save.

Frank
May 17, 2021
May 17, 2021
Dear Robert,
I was devastated to hear the news of your son’s passing. I can only imagine the pain you and your family is going through right now and wish you all the courage you can gather to stay strong for your family and for the sake of Joosep’s memory. I will have you all in my prayers. Levan
May 17, 2021
May 17, 2021
Those we love, don't go away, they walk beside us, everyday...may you rest in peace Joosep, and prayers for Robert and family to find strength in the days ahead until you meet again.
May 17, 2021
May 17, 2021
Dear Robert,

I was shocked to hear this sad news........It is extremely difficult to accept this situation.... kindly accept my deepest condolence...
May 16, 2021
May 16, 2021
Dear Robert,
I’m so saddened to hear about your son’s passing. We are sincerely sorry for such a heartbreaking loss. Please accept our deepest sympathies during this very difficult time. Losing a loved one is very difficult. I know from experience that it takes a very long time for this pain to subside. I hope the memories you have with your son comfort you.
Buddhika Udayajith
May 16, 2021
May 16, 2021
Dear Robert,
Words of comfort or prayers cannot remove the pain you and your family will go through with the loss of your handsome son. May he get closer to God in heaven and may God give strength to all of you to remain in faith and hope till you meet again.
Please accept my deepest sympathies
May 16, 2021
May 16, 2021
Dear Robert ,
I was shocked and saddened to hear the devastating news. I have no words to console you, except pray that, Almighty gives you and your family the strength to come over this loss. It's not easy to accept your son has left you so soon, but this world is a testing ground, our life here is temporary. He has left early we'll follow him soon or later. Rest in peace Joosep, May Almighty be pleased with your soul. Aameen
May 16, 2021
May 16, 2021
Robert, Tiia, Kaalep and Leenu,
We are heartbroken over the tragic loss of Joosep. He was an angel on this earth, and had the kindest soul. We will always remember him as a special, kind, loving person. We cherish our memories of Joosep on our trips to Spain and Vermont and our times at your home. He was always the protective big brother to our kids. Caring about others was the essence of who Joosep was.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all and Joosep will always be in our hearts.
May 16, 2021
May 16, 2021
Dear Robert and Tiia,
I am so deeply sorry to hear loss of your beloved son. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May his soul rest in peace. Stay strong during this difficult time.                                                         Thurangani
May 16, 2021
May 16, 2021
Dear Robert and Tiia,

We are saddened to hear of this sudden loss. Please accept my heartfelt condolences on the loss of your beloved son. Someone so special can never be forgotten, may his soul rest in peace.

-Buddhima
May 16, 2021
May 16, 2021
Dear Robert,
I was saddened to hear about this great loss. I offer my heartfelt condolences to you and your family. May his soul rest in peace!
- Gayan
May 16, 2021
May 16, 2021
Dear Robert and Tiia,
We are saddened with the news. We cannot begin to imagine what you are feeling but let us share our heart-felt condolence. Now and always, may loving memories bring you all peace, comfort, and strength! Our thoughts and prayers are with your family.
May 16, 2021
May 16, 2021
We will always be bonded by the thing that brought us together. And for that, we are truly thankful. 
Joosep touched so many lives because of the special human he was. 
God bless our Captain, Joosep. God bless the Juhkam family. God bless his friends and his teammates. 

Julie and Nick Ianello
May 16, 2021
May 16, 2021
Dear Robert,
It is very sad to learn that your son has passed away. I would like to extend my deepest condolences. May his soul rest in peace.
May 16, 2021
May 16, 2021
Dear Robert,
My deepest condolences on the loss of your son. May your beautiful memories sustain and bring comfort to you during this difficult season. Please accept my deepest sympathies. ... May your memories of Joosep and the love of your family surround you and give you strength and peace in the days ahead.
Regards
Mugunthan
May 16, 2021
May 16, 2021
Lobo,
I can't begin to tell you how sad I am about this. it doesn't seen all that long since I saw you and the two boys up at Peter's lake in Canada. We were swimming across the lake with the boys' help. It just does not seem possible. I am so deeply sad about this that I can not find the words, even as a writer.
May you find some solace and peace. I'm always with you.
Roger Bradshaw
May 16, 2021
May 16, 2021
Dear Robert and Tiia,
We are devastated to hear the news of Joosep's passing. Please accept our heartfelt condolences and warmest hugs. Our memories went right back to Dhaka, with Nikki in Joosep's class, seeing Joosep perform in band and seeing you all at the Nordic Club. Our memories also went back to our visit at your house here in Westchester County shortly after our arrival in the US in 2015. It was so wonderful to see you all again and for Nikki to be able to reconnect with Joosep and for them to share their experiences about entering US high school after years in Asia... We are thinking of you and sending you lots of warmth. Love, Ellen, Arthur, Nikki and Tara Erken
May 16, 2021
May 16, 2021
May memories of Joosep and the love of your friends from Rye Neck and beyond surround you and give you strength in the days ahead. Our deepest condolences to your family. May Joosep's soul rest in peace! 

With love,
The Heaton Family
May 16, 2021
May 16, 2021
Dear Robert,
I am so sorry to hear about your great loss. I cannot begin to imagine how you and your family are going through right now and cannot even find a word of comfort. Please accept my sincerest, heartfelt condolences. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Regards, Chiyo
May 16, 2021
May 16, 2021
I've known Joosep since he was a tiny one when we visited Brooklyn in 2001 for New Years. And for all the years following, in Estonia, Toronto and Lac Simon, and Bangladesh, what always struck me was his smile. His smile is Goodness and he shares it still with everyone.
May 16, 2021
May 16, 2021
Joosep was a very special friend loved by everyone. Not a single bad bone in his body and he always brought a smile and a laugh to everyone he was with. The memories I have created with Joosep will never be forgotten. May he rest easy and in peace. Sending my deepest condolences to the Juhkam family. ❤️
May 16, 2021
May 16, 2021
Dear mr. and mrs. Juhkam
I’m so sorry for you’re loss I can’t imagine what you guys are going through. Joosep touched so many hearts, one of them being mine. He was always there for me when I needed him and just one of the funniest kids I ever meet. May he rest easy and in peace ❤️. He will be forever missed.
May 16, 2021
May 16, 2021
When I remember Joosep I think of the funniest, most unforgettable memories throughout high school. Joosep always had the best intentions and made sure the people around him were doing well. Whether it was during sports, class, stage crew, or simply hanging out he always knew how to put a smile on everyone’s face. He was truly a great man and I’ll forever be thankful that our paths crossed in life. Sending my deepest condolences to the Juhkam family.
May 16, 2021
May 16, 2021
Words could never describe how great of a person and friend Joosep was to me and everyone around him. Such an amazing soul who we all strived to be like in a form. We will always remember Joosep every step of the way.

Best,
Jackson Haugenes
May 16, 2021
May 16, 2021
I want to start off by saying I’m terribly sorry for your guys loss, I can’t imagine what you guys are going through. Joosep touched the lives of many in Mamaroneck and quickly became one of my best friends by the end of high school. I couldn’t believe it when I heard the news and still don’t. I’m going to miss him, but I’m glad I got to be apart of his short life and I’m glad he blessed mine.

Best wishes,
Nick Stenroos 
May 16, 2021
May 16, 2021
We are all heartbroken with the loss of Joosep. He will always be remembered as a wonderful and sweet young man! I still remember when you Tiia were afraid he couldn’t find a girl to wear his jersey..... I asked Luisa for help.... and she said every girl in school would love to wear his jersey ❤️❤️❤️❤️ We are thinking and praying for you all my dear friends. Maria Tito
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March 23
March 23
We think about you often, Joosep. We were so lucky to have known you, and to be inspired by your passions of kinship, laughter, and caring for the earth. You are forever missed, and I will always remember your belly laugh and your gentle herding of boys through the streets of Barcelona...we love you! --Bruce, Sarah, Owen & Henry Robertson 
March 22
Happy birthday buddy, miss you. Had a long drive today from LA to monterey, thought about you and stopped at places I thought you would stop. You'd always be infatuated with how beautiful sceneries are... the skies and landscape were a lot more beautiful today than other days. Love you buddy. Miss you lots.
His Life

Celebrating Joosep on his birthday

March 22
Joosep has always been our angel, Joosep came into our lives on 22 March 2000, 24 years ago today, always smiling, hugging and infectiously giggling

We are remembering Joosep in celebration of that day and every day that he was with us here. We have just shared many new photos and videos of young boy Joosep just doing his thing, always bringing joy to family and friends. 

Please share more of your own photos, videos and stories :-)

warmest wishes to all, Tiia and Robert

Sharing Memorials

May 15, 2023
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Coping the past two years has been indescribably painful and difficult. And we think back to 2021 when we bade our farewells to Joosep. We would now like to share a few things from that time.
We would to share with everyone the video recording of Joosep's Memorial Service on 25 May 2021 which took place in Monterey, California USA where Joosep lived for nearly three years. The service began with the sounds of the ocean waves that Joosep loved. The service offered prayers and eulogies from his cousin Daniel, his Godfather Ants, from his aunt and Godmother Monica, his friend Ryan, his sister Leenu and brother Kaalep, and us.From his loved ones to all, on everyone's behalf. It is rich with music we associate with Joosep. Althought the video remains for us both a painful reminder of our deep grieving at the inconceivable loss of Joosep, it also represents testimony to our joyful memories and pays tribute to Joosep big heart and for the extraordinary life he lived.
The Memorial Service programme is also here.
Here also are the announcements for the Celebration of Joosep's Life at the Monterey Beach on that same day organised by Joosep's friends Calvin, Ryan and his fraternity brothers.
Finally we share the announcements and programme for Joosep's funeral in Vigala, Estonia. In July 2021, two months after his passing, we brought Joosep's ashes back to Estonia, where he was born, for his funeral service and for his burial place beside his great great grandparents Jüri and Mai Juhkam.
With our prayers and warm wishes, Tiia and Robert

Joosep Juhkami Matusetalituse leht / funeral leaflet - Vigala, Estonia

May 15, 2023
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May 16, 2022
I think of Joosep often, and pray that you all find comfort in each other's support.
One of my all time favorite memories of Jossep is of course Spain!!! He was a protector, yet had this kindness about him that was so serene. It's as if you could see this "blanket of love" just wrapping his family and those around him. Especially Tiia, you could see this connection of souls, as if they were one. He's with you all in the most powerful sense!

We love you all,
The Pereira Family

May 13, 2022
Dear Robert, Tiia, and family,
It seems that Joosep was known by so many for his beautiful, big smile...and his beautiful huge heart.  Thinking back to both times I saw Joosep, when he was still a baby, that's indeed how I remember him.  
I still can't imagine the loss you've experienced...I think about you all, so often, hoping for your well-being.
Steve Miron, Catskills, NY

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