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.Joseph “Joe” Ruekberg, 68, passed away at home in El Cajon, California, with his family by his side, on August 18, 2019.  He had a strong will to live and fought valiantly against cancer for almost a year.

Joe was born in Cleveland, Ohio on October 3, 1950 to Henrietta (Browarsky) and James Ruekberg.  He left Cleveland to go to college at University of Arizona in Tuscon, where he received his degree in Business. He then moved to Los Angeles and finally San Diego, California, where he worked as a Real Estate broker. Most of his career was spent purchasing and managing properties.

Joe had a passion for the outdoors. He took up skiing and spent many days each season on the slopes. He belonged to several ski clubs and he also became a “blind ski guide”, which he really enjoyed. He also enjoyed camping, hiking, fishing, etc. This came in handy, as he became very active as a volunteer in one capacity or another, with the Boy Scouts once his son was old enough to join. He continued to volunteer with the Order of the Arrow Lodge until he was too ill.

Joe strove to be healthy.  He watched his diet (except for brownies and ice cream) and was always active. For at least 40 years, he ran three miles a day, usually four days a week. He continued to walk those miles while he was in chemo and radiation.

Joe was preceded in death by his parents, Henrietta and James, of Florida; and his Uncle Monte and Aunt Madeline of Dallas, Texas.

He is survived by Judy, his wife of 31 years; his son, Jared of Reston, Virginia and daughter, Janae of El Cajon; his sisters, Kathy Ruekberg of Cleveland and her son, Zachary of Oxford, England and Renny (Greg) Silver of Indianapolis and their children Sara Silver- Lee (Craig) of Indianapolis and Scott Silver (Katelyn) of Vancouver, Canada; cousins Brad and Paul Ruekberg of Dallas and multiple other cousins, nieces and nephews.

Joe requested that no services be done for him. His ashes will be spread in Mammoth Mountain, California, where he and his family had many good times.

October 3, 2021
October 3, 2021
Another year has passed, you would be a year older, and I still miss you everyday. I am still trying to learn how to do this without you, but I will get it one day. Love you lots and always,
October 3, 2021
October 3, 2021
Happy Birthday Joe! We are thinking of you today and every day. You were greatly missed in Cleveland! 
October 3, 2020
October 3, 2020
My dearest Joe, Joe. Thinking of you all day today and wishing you were here to celebrate your Birthday with us. Boy, you are getting OLD - 70! We will eat your brownies without you. Just listen for our singing.

It has been a tough year and I really wish you had been here to help us through all of it. You are still a big part of each day and I hope you hear me talking to you. We love you!
August 21, 2020
August 21, 2020
Joe, you are greatly missed. Family reunions will never be the same. I remember sitting around the table going through the family tree when even my husband found people from his past. What a wonderful afternoon. You are always loved and deeply missed. Janie
August 20, 2020
August 20, 2020
Hi Joe .... we miss you.

We had the chance to visit with Jared a while ago, and there is much of you in him. He has turned out to be the fine young man that we had always knew he would be. For Judy and Janae, our love and our prayers. I hope to see you waiting for me on that mountain one day. Always your friends and our love and our prayers from Sam and I.
August 19, 2020
August 19, 2020
Joe my buddy - I think of you every time I see a Montana plate - which is quite often now that we're in Idaho. No sadness - only happy thoughts of our great times together in the OA. I pray your family is well. Godspeed.
August 19, 2020
August 19, 2020
It doesn’t seem like a year you’ve been gone! I can still remember your smile as if we were just talking yesterday! This has been a very difficult year for everyone and I’m grateful you didn’t have to experience CoVid 19
Rest in peace, my friend.
August 18, 2020
August 18, 2020
Well, my dear Joe, it has been a year since you passed and we still miss you just as much now as then. It has been a trying year with this silly pandemic but I am so glad you did not have go to through it as you would not have liked it at all. We have been blessed with many friends being here for us. They also miss you and have many wonderful thoughts to share about you. You are a very special person and as this year has moved on, we realize how you completed our family. We love you and always will. 
February 9, 2020
February 9, 2020
I was so sorry to hear from my good friend Judy in her Christmas card that her husband Joe had passed away from cancer last August. Judy I am so sorry for your loss and my sympathies go out to your kids and his family as well. I never got to meet him but I am sure he was a great guy. I hope we can be in touch in the near future.
Sally
November 21, 2019
November 21, 2019
Not hearing from Joe since June, I ran his name on google and found this. My condolences to Judy, Janae, Jared and Joe’s sisters. I met Joe on my initial visit to San Diego in 1975 and connected with him again when I lived there from 1977-1980 and 1984-1989. We helped each other with moves in ~1978 and I nicknamed him “Bekins.” I saw Joe on two of his visits to Colorado and a few years ago when I returned to San Diego State University. Joe brokered my first residential real estate purchase in 1984 – he loaned me his thick multiple listing book and I bicycled through San Diego neighborhoods until I found a place. Joe wrote the offer, negotiated the transaction and taught me how to fix it up. He was a talented racquetball player and a good friend. When I think of Joe I envision his beaming “I’ve got it made” smile.
September 25, 2019
September 25, 2019
I will always be so grateful for my friendship with Joe. We met during my ordeal for Order of Arrow; Jared and I were in the same clan.

Joe's smile and easy going personality made him someone I looked forward to seeing at the Chapter and Lodge events. We even ran the 5K together at NOAC in 2009. He was always there to lend a hand with ceremonies or anything else that was needed even when I moved and changed chapters.

I will miss his hugs and jovial spirit. I hope my legacy is as strong as the one he has left with us.

May I be a blessing to others as he was to us here on earth.

Rest in God's peace my friend,
Kelley Sedgwick
September 24, 2019
September 24, 2019
Just thinking about Joe brings his quiet voice and smile to my mind. He was a friend through Scouting for a long time, helping from time to time with both our boys, and then with their memorials. When we lose someone, we lose more than a person to talk with and interact with, we lose a part of a much bigger piece of the puzzle. My prayers and positive thoughts go to everyone touched by this great man, and especially to his family.
September 12, 2019
September 12, 2019
I'm very fortunate to have met Joe years ago. He had a smile that would light up the room instantly. Thank you Joe for making an impression in my life. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your wife. God Bless you and your family.
September 11, 2019
September 11, 2019
Quiet Joe. Always thoughtful. Always willing to help.

My memories of Joe center around the OA. Jared & DJ were in it together - so Joe & I were in it together. So many Ordeals & Fellowships & Encampments & Conclaves. Always ready to lend a hand and pitch in wherever needed.

I cherish the many sideline discussions we had about living life outside of the big city. I remember being a bit jealous of his Montana plates on his truck. Now I'm off to Idaho - leaving California - and heading to the mountains. Godspeed Joe.
September 5, 2019
September 5, 2019
There are so many memories of Joe that we cherish ... treks at Joshua Tree, Philmont, and on the Pacific Crest Trail ... hanging with Joe and Jared, climbing San Jacinto Peak, San Bernadino Peak and White Mountain Peak, and years of service to Scouting. Most of all, we cherish his friendship and dedication and his love for his family. We will deeply miss him. From my family to all who knew and loved Joe, our love and our prayers.
September 4, 2019
September 4, 2019
Joe was an indomitable figure. He was stalwart and trustworthy as an adult leader in our troop. He provided example and support in the mountains of Alaska as well as in the Sierras in the snow. His encouragement and guidance enabled others to find determination and will within themselves to succeed. He will definitely be missed and his legacy will long be remembered.
September 4, 2019
September 4, 2019
Joe was a true friend and mentor to many scouters. I will always remember the fun times we had at Mataguay Scout Ranch working the OA Ordeals and work parties with the new OA candidates and members. Joe will surely be missed by many who followed the scouting trails.....
September 4, 2019
September 4, 2019
Joe was a wonderfully calm, strong man it was a pleasure to have known and skied with -- he will be missed. His contributions to scouting are certainly noteworthy and he was always eager to share his experiences with young scouts. It'll be nice to know his ashes will be on the slopes of Mammoth where I ski regularly. Condolences to Judy, Jared and Janae. Remember and savor the good memories.
September 4, 2019
September 4, 2019
Joe was one of my best blind skier guides for 5 years !! He was great with the kids ... calm, dedicated, ethical, an outstanding skier & a real stud muffin (which really mattered to the low vision girls!!). I simply couldn’t have run the program without dependable guides like Joe. 
On a personal note, i just loved & respected him & valued our longtime friendship. He will be sorely missed!
September 3, 2019
September 3, 2019
Uncle Joe!! What a brilliant guy - always with a smile and a witty comment. Very lucky to have gotten to know him. His passion for his family and the outdoors was inspiring. His story about getting stranded on a rock in the middle of a river kayaking with Uncle Danny will live in infamy.

Here is to an all LA Superbowl my man!
September 3, 2019
September 3, 2019
Joe's calm, soft-spoken voice always reminded me of my dad, Monte, his Uncle. I remember when Joe was in college and I was a kid visiting my grampa in Tuscon, Joe made time to see us, sometimes even just my mom when she was there alone. Similar to my dad who suffered the same form of Cancer, they both spoke to me about the value of family in their final days. I will miss Joe very much and pray for healing for his wife and children.

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October 3, 2021
October 3, 2021
Another year has passed, you would be a year older, and I still miss you everyday. I am still trying to learn how to do this without you, but I will get it one day. Love you lots and always,
October 3, 2021
October 3, 2021
Happy Birthday Joe! We are thinking of you today and every day. You were greatly missed in Cleveland! 
October 3, 2020
October 3, 2020
My dearest Joe, Joe. Thinking of you all day today and wishing you were here to celebrate your Birthday with us. Boy, you are getting OLD - 70! We will eat your brownies without you. Just listen for our singing.

It has been a tough year and I really wish you had been here to help us through all of it. You are still a big part of each day and I hope you hear me talking to you. We love you!
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September 3, 2019
Joseph “Joe” Ruekberg, 68, passed away at home in El Cajon, California, with his family by his side, on August 18, 2019  .He had a strong will to live and fought valiantly against cancer for almost a year.

Joe was born in Cleveland, Ohio on October 3, 1950 to Henrietta (Browarsky) and James Ruekberg.  He left Cleveland to go to college at University of Arizona in Tuscan, where he received his degree in Business.  He then moved to Los Angeles and finally San Diego, California where he worked as a Real Estate broker.  Most of his career was spent purchasing and managing properties.

Joe had a passion for the outdoors.  He took up skiing and spent MANY days each season on the slopes. He belonged to several ski clubs and he also became a “blind ski guide”, which he really enjoyed.  He also enjoyed camping, hiking, fishing, etc.  This came in handy, as he became very active as a volunteer in one capacity or another, with the Boy Scouts once his son was old enough to join.  He continued to volunteer with the Order of the Arrow Lodge, until he was too ill.

Joe always strove to be healthy.  He watched his diet (except for brownies and ice cream) and was always active.  For at least 40 years, he ran three miles a day, usually four days a week.  He continued to walk those miles while he was in chemo and radiation.

Joe was preceded in death by his parents, Henrietta and James, of Florida; and his Uncle Monte and Aunt Madeline of Dallas, Texas.

He is survived by Judy, his wife of 31 years; his son, Jared of Reston, Virginia and daughter, Janae of El Cajon; his sisters, Kathy Ruekberg of Cleveland and her son, Zachary of Oxford, England and Renny (Greg) Silver of Indianapolis and their children Sara Silver- Lee (Craig) of Indianapolis and Scott Silver (Katelyn) of Vancouver, Canada; cousins Brad and Paul Ruekberg of Dallas and multiple other cousins, nieces and nephews.

Joe requested that no services be done for him.  His ashes will be spread in Mammoth Mountain, California, where he and his family had many good times.

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September 4, 2019
Joe was always a very special person. We had fun in Lorain as children and reconnected as adults. I am so grateful for all the time we spent together.  We all enjoyed dinners in San Diego, an event in Winnipeg, and family reunions in Indianapolis. Those were always very special times.  I feel very blessed that we had Joe in our life 

Joe will be missed

September 4, 2019
What a wonderful tribute to a wonderful man.  It is hard to imagine him gone, but the memories of Joe will always remain.  He always had a grin and a sparkle in his eyes and was just waiting to hear what you had to say.  He was a great example of a father and husband and we will always love him dearly.  Chuck and Beth Howell, next door neighbors.

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