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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, joseph mc arthur sr, 82 years old, born on March 27, 1918, and passed away on July 27, 2000. We will remember him forever.

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janet mc arthur
August 2, 2016
August 2, 2016
Hi Daddy, My birthday is coming soon. It's Aug 2nd today, in 5 more days I'll be 54. Good age. I lost weight daddy. Been in the hospital too with pneumonia. Now I'm on O2 at home. It helps. I love you, and miss you very much, your daughter Janet. HW 360 SW 252. Go Barix.
janet mc arthur
August 8, 2014
August 8, 2014
HI daddy, I miss you and mom very much. I'm sorry but I forgot your date you passed away this year, so much stuff has been on my mind. I'm going to be having Bariatric Surgery on Sept 9th2014 next month. I'm really excited. Tell mom, for me. I don't want to fail. I'm scared. a little. LOVE you daddy. your daughter, I turned 52 yesterday, and Joey fb'ed me. It made my day.
janet mc arthur
June 14, 2013
June 14, 2013
Daddy, I miss you and mom so much. I was in the hospital for the last 3 days. I'm ok just tired. I have an excellent doctor here in town. His name is Dr Szaraz. He is the nicest, kindest doctor since Dr Peppin. Dad the Strawberry festival is upon us another year. Happy Fathers Day dad. I really miss you and wish you were here. Tell mom hi and hugs to both of you.
janet mc arthur
December 24, 2012
December 24, 2012
Hi Daddy,
 It's your daughter, I miss you so much dad. Tomorrow is Christmas In my heart I am ready for it. The rest of the way I'm not ready. My best friend died 2 weeks ago. She's up there giving everyone hugs. It'd Dorthy. I really miss you all. Say a prayer for me dad. lov U  Janet
janet mc arthur
September 6, 2012
September 6, 2012
Hi Dad,
I am having a hard time today. They built a new High School, renamed N. and S. Jr High. but we don't care do we? We are Railsplitters. This is the 2nd day of school and in the paper they have all the buses lined up with the bus drivers inside. I MISS MOM!!!! and You. I wish you were here. Ja
janet mc arthur
July 28, 2012
July 28, 2012
Dad , Fr Paul a nd Corp Todd are my best friends, but I can't always go over to the police station and hang out. They have work to do, and Corporal Todd has been training a lady named Susan. I wish I could be a cop. I LOVE YOU DAD, AND MISS YOU SO MUCH. TELL MOM I LOVE HER AND WATCH FOR DORTHY TO COME HOME TO HEAVEN. YOUR DAUGHTER ALWAYS, JANET ANNE MC ARTHUR GOD BLESS YOU DAD!! AND MOM
janet mc arthur
July 28, 2012
July 28, 2012
I don't want to lose my best friend.Can you tell mom to watch for Dorthy as she will be entering the gates of Heaven soon? And my other friend Elizabeth is moving out. She is with she son right now. I'm losing everyone I care about, and I don't like it.
Dad please help me get back on the road to good health again. I'm lonesome. I feel I have no one. Fr Tom &Todd
janet mc arthur
July 28, 2012
July 28, 2012
I've been working hard on a diet that my primary doc and I are working on, but I feel down because he wants me to walk alot more or get an elliptical for my apt. THERE is NO DAMN ROOM in this 500 sq ft apt That is the other reason I feel down about.
 Dad Dorthy my friend is real sick. She now has been on Hospice for 3 weeks now. I don't want to lose my best f
janet mc arthur
July 28, 2012
July 28, 2012
Dad. I love you today and evryday. I have been feeling kinda down lately. Iwill soon be 50 yrs old, and I have noone to hang out with. I'd like to go out with Betty and Barb, but Barb said "turning 50is a day to forget. Your getting older and people at this age wants to forget their birthdays," I'd like to do something crazy and have fun.You only turn 50 once,.I don't have Joey anymore.
janet mc arthur
June 19, 2012
June 19, 2012
DEAR DADDY,
 HI I HAVE NEWS FOR YOU AND MOM. I HAD A HEART ECHO YESTERDAY. EVERYTHING IS FINE!!THEY ARE GOING TO GIVE ME A MEDICATION CALLED ATAPEX FOR WEIGHT LOSS. I CAN'T WEIGHT. I'VE BEEN TRYING BUT IT IS HARD, AND I LIKE MY SWEETS.RHE GIIRL THAT DID THE TEST L0OST 28LBS IN 28DAYS. I'M GOING TO TRY REAL HARD DAD. I LOVE YOU. JANET
janet mc arthur
June 17, 2012
June 17, 2012
HAPPY FATHER'S DAY DAD!!! I MISS AND LOVE YOU VERY MUCH.
I CAN'T BELIEVE YET ANOTHER STRAWBERRY FESTIVAL HAS COME. I AM DOING VERY WELL.. YOU'D BE PROUD OF ME. I'M HAVING SOME WELL ALOT OF TROUBLE WALKING. IT HURTS TO WALK.BUT OTHERWISE, I'M GREAT, HAPPY, HAVE POLICE FRIENDS.
janet mc arthur
June 6, 2012
June 6, 2012
De ar dad,
 I can't believe Father's day is just 2 weeks away.t I miss you so much.I was able to find Joey on fb but he doesn't want to talk. It has been 6 years now. It's ok. Your daughter is doing real well. You'd be proud of me. I love you. I'm getting my 1st mammogram test today. Not looking forward to it. I'll be 50 in August.lov u janet
janet mc arthur
May 19, 2012
May 19, 2012
DEAR DAD,
 HI, I LOVE YOU DAD. I FOUND JOEY ON THE FB INTERNET YESTERDAY. I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO CONTACT HIM OR NOT.LOOKS LIKE HE GOT PULLED OVER FOR DUI.I DON'T KNOW DAD. TELL ME WHAT YOU THINK. JANET YOUR DAUGHTER.
janet mc arthur
May 12, 2012
May 12, 2012
DEAR DAD,
HI I COULDN'T FIND YOU SO I HAD TO WRITE THE COMPANY TO FIND YOU. THANK GOD THEY FOUND YOU. I MISS YOU SO MUCH. I DREAMED OF YOU LAST NIGHT. IT IS MOTHERS DAY WEEKEND COMING AND I AM NOT LOOKING FORWARD TO IT. I CAN'T EVEN GO TO CHURCH THESE HOLI DAYS. I MISS AND LOVE YOU. JAN
janet mc arthur
April 23, 2012
April 23, 2012
DEAR DAD,
DADI IT'S JANET. YOU WERE ALWAYS REAL TIGHT ON YOR PRAYERS AND ALL. MY BEST FRIEND FR PAUL HIS MOM DIED, AND I WAS HOPING YOU'D KEEP FR PAUL HIS DAD AND SIS IN YOUR PRAYERS. THANKYOU DADDY. IT MEANS ALOT.I KNOW HE IS HURTING. I WANED TO GOBUT I WOULN'T BE ABLE TO MAKE IT, WITH MY WALKING NOW, I LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU. JANET
janet mc arthur
April 16, 2012
April 16, 2012
Hi Dad
How are you doing? I love you today. Dott your 4th grandchild (cat) is in my powerchair resting.She is a good girl. I miss you dad.Please keep Fr Paul in your thoughts and prayers, expecilly his mom. She is on hospice and very ill. THANKYOU DAD. your daughter.
janet mc arthur
March 31, 2012
March 31, 2012
Dear Dad,
 Hi,dad, i really could of used you to hold my hand yesterday between you and mom. We had such thunder boomers and lightening. I was afraid acouple of times. I miss you nd mom so much, you can visit any time. . I love you daddy. I really miss youmore than you'd know.
janet mc arthur
March 27, 2012
March 27, 2012
HAPPY BIRTHDAY DADDY.IMISS YOU SO MUCH. I HOPE YOU HAVE A WONDERFUL DAY WITH YOUR SISTER,BROTHERS GRANGMA,RELATIVES, AND GET QUIET TIME WITH MOM. i HOPE YOU GET ICECREAM, AND CAKE AND ALL THE TRIMMINGS. YOUR LOVING DAUGHTER, JANET ANNE
janet mc arthur
March 24, 2012
March 24, 2012
HI DADDY,
I WAS THINKING OF YOU TODAY AND TELLING CORPORAL TODD ABOUT YOU AND HOW YOU TAUGHT ME HOW TO DRIVE. I SURELY MISS YOU AND LOVE YOU.YOUR DAUGHTER , JANET ANNE
janet mc arthur
March 20, 2012
March 20, 2012
DAD HAPPY ST PATRICKS DAY TO YA!! IT IWAS A COUPLE OF DAYS AGO BUT I DIDN'T FORGET YA YOU IRISHMAN.  LOVE YA DAD
janet mc arthur
March 17, 2012
March 17, 2012
Dad I wish you could talke me outta here.I hate it here. I wouldn't leave becaiuse I like the city. I like Belleville. But as I said someone fell and everyone down stairs knows about it. I wish the new policeofficer would be trained to watch everyone here while someone is being taken out and they'd keep them in the room til ambluance staff has them outta here. TALK TO GOD ABOUT IT DADDY OK
janet mc arthur
March 17, 2012
March 17, 2012
DAD hi I miss you. DAD we had the sirens blasting today. DAD I HATE IT IN HERE. People are all fuckin nosey and even though we are not to be sitting downstairs they do. MEN AND A WOMEN. THEY ARE JUST AS BAD.Corporal Todd is training today and weeks to come. But no one makes these fuckin nosey people stay out of the way of police and fire.I went down and everyone talks they fell and left.
janet mc arthur
March 11, 2012
March 11, 2012
If you understand where I m coming from please help me daddy. EVERYONE I CARE ABOUT LEAVES.I  greatly miss you and mom. I just got off the phone with Dr Meadows,He said "we will talk in the office He said what makes things make you go off @ home? I said like talking like this makes me want to go off. HE SAID GO FOR A 1 HR WALK YOU KNOW W|HAT SCREW HIM IF I COULD WALK I'D BE GONE.
janet mc arthur
March 11, 2012
March 11, 2012
Dear Dad,
I wish you could of met a true friend of mine someone I really respect Corporal Todd from the Belleville Police Dept. I stop in once in awhile to say hi. Daddy I've been going through these rages that are out of control. I feel I could do great harm verbally. I could cuss out any sailor and win. My meds are all fucked up.HELP DAD
janet mc arthur
March 4, 2012
March 4, 2012
Dear Dad. P
 I need your help before I explode all over everywhere. I need help and there is no where to turn. The people in here are making me crazy.Patwho I trusted got me a $5.00 phone and charged me $20. bucks for it. I'm really angry and I can' t leave a message HELP ME DADDY PLEASE. 

janet mc arthur
March 2, 2012
March 2, 2012
Dad   everything is wrong dad.my power chair is dead and my new doc stent 25 min trying to do paperwork for it. I nolw have no means of travel around town.My kidneys are not working and the doc wan't me to go see a kidney doc. I'm anemic, have viramin B dificiency, and I can't talk to Pam who is a nurse we aren't getting along. I'm tired dad. Janet your loving daughter.and Dott
janet mc arthur
March 2, 2012
March 2, 2012
Dear Dad,
 Hi, I miss you so much. I wish you were here to give me a hug. I really need a hug from you right now.Sice to passed i've been calling you daddy instead of dad. Things aren't right. My friend Pam is not my friend anymore and is treating me like a bully would be treated. She is bullying me dad. I love you very much your daughter.
janet mc arthur
February 22, 2012
February 22, 2012
Dea Dad,
  Hi, how much I miss you I can't even express. I miss you so much I'm almost in tears. HAPPY ASH WEDNESDAY. This year dad I am hurting so bad physically I thought you and mom came to visit me the other day and I got scared and ran out of my room. I felt you guy touch my shoulder's. I didn't know if it was you guys or Jesus.LOVE YOU
janet mc arthur
January 27, 2012
January 27, 2012
Dad, I need you and mom please. I miss you both so much. I am so hurt today. I don't need humans anymore, just I want Tabby and Charley my boy back, and I have Dott. I wish we could run away far and not come back here. People hurt you so badly and I wanted to cut last night. You never knew I did this to cope. But I wanted to last night. I didn't it wouldn't work with a razor to shave with
janet mc arthur
December 30, 2011
December 30, 2011
Dad,
 Hi, it's your daughter, I love you and miss you so much. I hope you had a wondrful Christmas in Heaven. I just wanted you and mom to come be with me for the day of Jesus'Bithday.Then you could of gone back to HEAVEN. Your no missed. HAPPY NEW YEAR In 2012 in Heaven. Janet your daughter and Dott 1 you didn't meet.

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janet mc arthur
August 2, 2016
August 2, 2016
Hi Daddy, My birthday is coming soon. It's Aug 2nd today, in 5 more days I'll be 54. Good age. I lost weight daddy. Been in the hospital too with pneumonia. Now I'm on O2 at home. It helps. I love you, and miss you very much, your daughter Janet. HW 360 SW 252. Go Barix.
janet mc arthur
August 8, 2014
August 8, 2014
HI daddy, I miss you and mom very much. I'm sorry but I forgot your date you passed away this year, so much stuff has been on my mind. I'm going to be having Bariatric Surgery on Sept 9th2014 next month. I'm really excited. Tell mom, for me. I don't want to fail. I'm scared. a little. LOVE you daddy. your daughter, I turned 52 yesterday, and Joey fb'ed me. It made my day.
janet mc arthur
June 14, 2013
June 14, 2013
Daddy, I miss you and mom so much. I was in the hospital for the last 3 days. I'm ok just tired. I have an excellent doctor here in town. His name is Dr Szaraz. He is the nicest, kindest doctor since Dr Peppin. Dad the Strawberry festival is upon us another year. Happy Fathers Day dad. I really miss you and wish you were here. Tell mom hi and hugs to both of you.
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March 20, 2012
by janet mc arthur

Dear Dad,

wish you were here like you were when I was little, or when you taught me how to drive a car. I am so lonesome here. i can only imagine how lonesome you were when mom died. In hate my life here dad in this insane insylum.here at columbia court Ihate these people here and this FUCKING COMPUTET

I MISS YOU DAD

November 18, 2011
by janet mc arthur

I miss you lots dad. I wish I could get to the cemetery more but I get up there once or twice a year now.  NO CAR DAD.

I have so many regrets, but one that wasn't a regret was how much I loved you and I still love you and pray for you ATT.

                      Janet and Dott and you remember my cats you met and fell in love with Tabby and Charley (my boy). Things happen and they are gone, please keep them in your prayers dad.            LOVE YOU STILL 

                                                 Janet

            

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