This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Joseph Michael Costanza 33 years old , born on January 30, 1976 and passed away on November 13, 2009. We will remember him forever.
There isn't a single day that your not missed and loved so much. I just wished you were here to enjoy your family. Happy heavenly birthday. ♥️
Happy Birthday Joe. Another birthday without you here with us. I guess your Dad will have to celebrate with you. It's now 5 months that he left us. Missing you both very much ❤️.
Love you
Mom
Love you
Mom
Joe I can't believe it's been 10 years since you left us. I miss you so much. Tell your Dad I am missing him terribly the house is too empty and quiet. Hopefully your both with the rest of the family. The holidays won't be the same. Love and miss you. Mom
hi Joe
I guess you are now with your Dad. Dad left us on Friday, August 30th to be with you. The two of you will have to look down on the rest of the family and take care of us. We miss both of you so much. I don't know how I am going to do it without your Dad. I loved him very much. Alyssa hopefully will give me a call once in a while. I miss her and your Dad did too. Please help your Dad adjust to life there. Miss and love you both more than I can say. Love you both Mom
I guess you are now with your Dad. Dad left us on Friday, August 30th to be with you. The two of you will have to look down on the rest of the family and take care of us. We miss both of you so much. I don't know how I am going to do it without your Dad. I loved him very much. Alyssa hopefully will give me a call once in a while. I miss her and your Dad did too. Please help your Dad adjust to life there. Miss and love you both more than I can say. Love you both Mom
HAPPY BIRTHDAY Joe! We've had quite a bit of snow lately and just the other day Stephen told the kids and I another story about you and him sledding. The kids have had a lot of fun sledding and they have no fear! You're always remembered and truly missed!!
Another year has passed and you are missed more and more everyday, a lot has changed in the past years. Love Mom and Dad.
Another year has gone by and there isn't a day that goes by that I don't don't think of you and there will never be one. We miss you so very much. Dad
Another year has passed. I think of you often and know how much differant life would be with you here.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY JOE!! The kids are growing way too fast and we had a surprise birthday party for Alyssa with all of the family. It was a lot of fun, we wish you were here. We love and miss you!
Happy Birthday Son, Mom and I miss you so very much and wish you were here. Everyone is growing up so fast and Alyssa is turning into a fine young woman. Love Mom and Dad
Oh my how the time has passed. A long 8 years. You are missed everyday by the ones that love you. Wish you were here. Love forever !!!
Hi Joe,
We took our family vacation to the outer banks, you would've really enjoyed it. All of the kids had a blast! You're always in our hearts, we love and miss you!
We took our family vacation to the outer banks, you would've really enjoyed it. All of the kids had a blast! You're always in our hearts, we love and miss you!
Hi Joe
Been sick for a couple of days so that is why I am late wishing you a Happy Birthday. You would have been 41 this year. Sure do miss you very much.
Love Mom
Been sick for a couple of days so that is why I am late wishing you a Happy Birthday. You would have been 41 this year. Sure do miss you very much.
Love Mom
Another year has passed and your mother and I miss you so very much and always will, we will see each other again someday, a lot has happened and a lot will happen and I hope it all works out.
Dear Joe,
Another year has passed and we just celebrated Jocelyn and Gavin's birthday a couple weeks ago. They had a dinosaur themed party, they all love playing with dinosaurs. It's so funny to see Colton follow Gavin around the house making dinosaur noises... LOL! Jocelyn has been taking horseback riding lessons since April and competed over the summer, which she did very well. Gavin and Colton have been taking swimming lessons for the past 3 months and love being in the water. Gavin and Colton are like two peas in a pod, monkey see monkey do, they are quite the little daredevils....Stephen says they're going to get into a lot of fun and trouble like you and him did! You're always in our hearts!
Love,
Stephen, Jennifer, Jocelyn, Gavin & Colton
Another year has passed and we just celebrated Jocelyn and Gavin's birthday a couple weeks ago. They had a dinosaur themed party, they all love playing with dinosaurs. It's so funny to see Colton follow Gavin around the house making dinosaur noises... LOL! Jocelyn has been taking horseback riding lessons since April and competed over the summer, which she did very well. Gavin and Colton have been taking swimming lessons for the past 3 months and love being in the water. Gavin and Colton are like two peas in a pod, monkey see monkey do, they are quite the little daredevils....Stephen says they're going to get into a lot of fun and trouble like you and him did! You're always in our hearts!
Love,
Stephen, Jennifer, Jocelyn, Gavin & Colton
Another year has passed, seems like yesterday. You are loved and missed so much by all your family and friends. I know that there isn't a day that goes by that your not looking down and watching your children grow up. We want what is best for our children, and they will make many mistakes, and we hope that they learn from them. You are forever missed.
Hi Joe, we are going to Coltons one year birthday party, he is going to to his cake what you did to yours....smash it to pieces. Someday I'll see you again and I will always love you.
Dad
Dad
Happy Birthday Son, mom has said it all for both of us, we are retiring this fall, maybe travel some who knows. You are always in my heart.
Love Dad
Love Dad
Happy birthday to one of Gods Angels. You are loved and missed like it was only yesterday. Happy 40th. <3 <3
Hi Joe
Well tomorrow would have been your 40th birthday. You have missed so much. Alyssa is a teenager now and very smart and Tony is learning to drive with a baby of his own. Steve has two sons now that you aren't getting to see and Jocelyn is getting so big and she is very smart too. Just so unfair that you were taken at such a young age. You were such a good person - those that are bad people are the ones that should be taken not the good ones. Dad and I miss you so much and will love you forever. Happy Birthday Joe
Mom
Well tomorrow would have been your 40th birthday. You have missed so much. Alyssa is a teenager now and very smart and Tony is learning to drive with a baby of his own. Steve has two sons now that you aren't getting to see and Jocelyn is getting so big and she is very smart too. Just so unfair that you were taken at such a young age. You were such a good person - those that are bad people are the ones that should be taken not the good ones. Dad and I miss you so much and will love you forever. Happy Birthday Joe
Mom
If only heaven had a stairway And you could walk right down and just spend one more day with your family.And you would be very proud of Alyssa and Tony have grown. I can't believe that Tony Graduuates next year.And Alyssa is a very smart young girl. We all love and miss you so much.
Hi Joe,
Wish you were still here! Your cousin Julie now has 4 children - 3 boys and now a little girl. Zack is married to Amy, and is very happy. Alyssa is growing up and is very smart in school, and Tony has turned into a handsome young man. You are missed.
Wish you were still here! Your cousin Julie now has 4 children - 3 boys and now a little girl. Zack is married to Amy, and is very happy. Alyssa is growing up and is very smart in school, and Tony has turned into a handsome young man. You are missed.
Hi Joe, six years have gone by, we all miss you so much. Tony has his first vehicle and Alyssa is growing up really fast and doing well in school. Mom and I will retire soon and maybe do some traveling, not sure on that. You will always be with me Joe, always.
Love Dad
Love Dad
Hi Joe, Jocelyn and Gavin have a little brother, Colton is now 5 months old. Colton is growing way too fast just like the rest of the kids, they're all going to be tall. We wish you could see Gavin and Colton interact, Gavin is such a good big brother. Gavin gives Colton hugs and kisses every day and gives him his pacifier when he cries. Stephen says they're going to be best buddies and get into trouble like you and Stephen did. You're always in our hearts and missed very much!
Hi Joe
Can't believe it has been 6 yrs with out you. Miss you so much. Thanksgiving is around the corner and Alyssa will be coming to the house. You have missed so much with the kids. You would be a grandfather now and Alyssa will be a teenager this year. Hard to believe. Love and miss you. Mom
Can't believe it has been 6 yrs with out you. Miss you so much. Thanksgiving is around the corner and Alyssa will be coming to the house. You have missed so much with the kids. You would be a grandfather now and Alyssa will be a teenager this year. Hard to believe. Love and miss you. Mom
Hey Joe your an uncle again. Colton William was born 6/09/15. You would love him. Dad and I and Grandma Daisy are going to go and see him tonight for the first time. Wish you could be with us.
Love you
Mom
Love you
Mom
You would have been 39 today Joe, your mother and I miss you so much but someday we will see you again.
Joe I can't believe that 5 years are gone already. We miss you so much. You have missed so many things. Gavin is a year old already and you would have loved him. Gavin is going to get a brother or sister next year too. Alyssa is getting so big and is very smart and doing good in school. It hurts me to see her growing up without you. You are always in my thoughts. Love Mom
Joe, You don't know me, but I wish you were here so I could know you in person. I feel a part of me knows you because of all the wonderful stories I hear from your parents and Stephen. Stephen misses you so much. When you left us, he not only lost a brother but he lost his best friend as well. You're such a huge part of our lives and always will be. I wish Gavin could meet you but Gavin will definitely hear all the incredible stories about his uncle. I hope Jocelyn, Gavin and their sister or brother get to experience the same amazing bond you and Stephen share. You're always missed and loved by all of us.
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Way too soon
Joe Joe, that's what your mother and I called you. You had another fifty years to go, what went wrong? There are a lot of questions and too few answers.
I remember teaching you how to drive, I think you found every pot hole there was to hit. The time you were little and stuck your finger into the third seat latch lift hole, and couldn't get it out.
Meeting you at Harrisburg Airport when you flew in from South Korea. You liked to fix things and you were very good at woodworking and computers, you could fix most anything.
We have a million memories of you and even though you are gone, they will always be with us as will you.
Mom & Dad
One of the best sons in the world
Joe Joe we knew you from the moment of your birth untill the day you passed on to a better world. We remember everything about you, things you were not supposed to do but did anyway, you and your brother playing and going places with us and the one time at Ocean City when you were small and on the beach and turned around to see a wave coming in fast, your little legs ran like the wind to keep from getting swamped. In the pool at the Dunes with a life jacket on and so very very young, you had no fear of anything
It's little things like that that we will always remember.
I would gladly have traded places with you.
Way too soon son way too soon, you had so much more to do in life.