Lost in Translation
I seemed to have lost what I started. Basically, what I wanted to say was this: Josh never had a chance when he came into this world. By that, I mean in filling all the roles that were expected of him from all of us: me and Sherry; Pat and Don; Donna; and influencing it more than he should have, Gordon.
We all had a special place for him. Unfortunately, too many of those roles were mutually exclusive from what he, and the others, wanted. Or was good for him.
Like the story of the blind men describing the elephant, Josh held a special place in every life he touched. And to all of us, he gave some, but not neccessarily all. When all is said and done, he showed us all how much he loved his mother, and how he chose to leave by the same exit she took.
I'll try to add stories as they come to me, and maybe it will help to fill in some blanks. I know that when Casey and I finally got to talk about what all had happened thirty years ago, we both realized that it would have been better for all of us if we would have had those 'answers' years ago. Jack