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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Juan Gonzalez Diaz, 80 years old, born on December 28, 1940, and passed away on March 5, 2021. We will remember him forever.
June 18, 2023
June 18, 2023
If there is any immortality to be had among us human beings, it is certainly only in the love that we leave behind. Fathers like mine don't ever die.
                                        ---Leo Buscaglia


March 5, 2023
March 5, 2023
Remembering today my good friend Don Juan.
Grateful to God that placed him in my path and touched my life, even if it was for a short tume. Always think of him when I go to work and waiting for him to ask me “Buenos días, alguna novedad”? I miss my friend he was definitely a mentor to navigate the difficult times in life. Saludos hasta al cielo Don Juan.
March 5, 2023
March 5, 2023
Misa Ofrecida para Juan Gonzalez en conmemoración de su Graduacion al cielo hace dos años será transmitida Marzo 5, 2023 a través de Facebook Parroquia de Nuestra Señora de Belén, Chiltepec en vivo a las 12 horas (hora de San José Chiltepec, Oaxaca, Mexico). Por el amigo y Cardenal, Felipe Arizmendi.
https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100070531896507

A mass for Juan Gonzalez in commemoration for his Graduation to Heaven two years ago will be transmitted life on March 5, 2023 through Facebook Nuestra Señora de Belén, Chiltepec at 10 am Pacific time or 12 noon San Jose Chiltepec, Oaxaca, Mexico time. The mass will be presided by Juan’s friend and Cardinal, Felipe Arizmendi.
https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100070531896507

A life mass will be dedicated at Padre Serra Church in Camarillo, CA for Juan Gonzalez to celebrate the beginning of his 3rd Celestial year on
March 6, 2023 at 8 am.

Una misa en vivo será dedicada en la iglesia Padre Serra en Camarillo, CA para Juan Gonzalez en orden de celebrar el inicio de su tercer año celestial. Esta será el 6 de Marzo 2023 a las 8 am.


March 5, 2023
March 5, 2023
Dearest Juan,
The most wonderful thing I decided to do was to share my life and heart with you. Together we took a very large breath, faced the world and worked hard as a team to build a good life full of love and dedication to each other, our family and those we served..
 
Then suddenly, two years ago everything we knew stopped existing. You were suddenly sent to your next destination and, no matter how hard it was to separate we had to let you go and you had to part without us there for you. We were no longer able to see you, touch you or hear you. So hard to do when we are humans. There aren’t any words that can express the sorrow we feel of not being able to share our life with you anymore.

However, I choose not to be sad to have lost my “half orange” or “better half”, I choose to be grateful and feel blessed by God to have had you in my life. You were a great husband, father, pet owner, minister and friend.

We find solace in remembering the many good times we shared with you, but especially your unwavering dedication to us. There was never anything too big, too small, too hard, too easy, too insignificant or too inconvenient that you were not willing to do at our first request. You were always there to listen, encourage, cheer, and support anyone with the exact tactful words needed for the occasion. Your palpable energy, enthusiasm for life and love of God continues to be felt and I’m pretty sure it continues to circle around with others..

The strength and character of your spirit continues to live in each one of us, especially in David and Eric, your sons whom you loved so much and were so proud of. I see your spirit in them every day. Your trees and plants continue to flourish abundantly. We suspect you are still tending to them, as they have given abundant fruits and flowers.
We often remember your words and prolonged speeches with a chuckle or statement “remember when dad used to say…”.

Heaven now finds you entering your Wonderful Twos,  I am pretty sure you are in good company surrounded with your loved ones there. No doubt you are spreading your charm all around. 
Missing you is now part of our life but we know your spirit has no boundaries and feel your presence all the time. Know we are good.
Thank you for all you are, all you gave and for being you. We love you Juan.  Happy 2nd Celestial Birthday! 

Marcella
3-5-2023



Querido Juan,
Lo más maravilloso que decidí hacer fue compartir mi vida y mi corazón contigo.
Juntos tomamos un gran respiro, enfrentamos el mundo y trabajamos duro como equipo para construir una buena vida llena de amor y dedicación el uno al otro, nuestra familia y aquellos a quienes servimos.
De repente, hace dos años, todo lo que conocíamos dejó de existir. De repente fuiste enviado a tu próximo destino y, sin importar lo difícil que fue separarnos, tuvimos que dejarte ir y tuviste que partir sin que nosotros estuviéramos ahí para ti. Ya no pudimos verte, tocarte o escucharte. Tan difícil de hacer cuando somos humanos.
No hay palabras que puedan expresar el dolor que sentimos por ya no más poder compartir nuestra vida contigo.
Sin embargo, elijo no estar triste por haber perdido mi “media naranja” o “mi mejor mitad”, elijo estar agradecido y sentirme bendecida por Dios por haberte tenido en mi vida. Fuiste un gran esposo, padre, dueño de una mascota, ministro y amigo.
Nos consuela recordar los muchos buenos momentos que compartimos con ustedes, pero especialmente su inquebrantable dedicación a nosotros. Nunca hubo nada demasiado grande, demasiado pequeño, demasiado difícil, demasiado fácil, demasiado insignificante o demasiado inconveniente que no estuvieras dispuesto a hacer a nuestra primera petición. Siempre estuviste ahí para escuchar, animar, alentar y apoyar a cualquier persona con las palabras exactas y elocuentes que se necesitaban para la ocasión. Tu energía palpable, entusiasmo por la vida y amor a Dios se sigue sintiendo y estoy bastante segura de que continúa dando vueltas con los demás...

La fuerza y el carácter de tu espíritu sigue viviendo en cada uno de nosotros, especialmente en David y Eric, tus hijos a quienes tanto amabas y de los que estabas tan orgulloso. Veo tu espíritu en ellos. Tus árboles y plantas continúan floreciendo abundantemente. Sospechamos que todavía los está cuidando, ya que han sido abundantes en dar frutas y flores.
A menudo recordamos tus palabras y discursos prolongados con una risita o una declaración "recuerdas cuando papá solía decir...".

El cielo ahora te encuentra ingresando en “Los Maravillosos Dos (años)”, estoy bastante segura de que estás por allá en buena compañía rodeado de tus seres queridos. Sin duda estás esparciendo tu encanto por todas partes.
Ahora, el extrañarte es parte de nuestra vida pero sabemos que tu espíritu no tiene fronteras y sentimos tu presencia todo el tiempo. Sepas que estamos bien.
Gracias por todo lo que eres, todo lo que diste y por ser tú. Te amamos Juan. ¡Feliz segundo cumpleaños celestial!

Marcella
3-5-2023
David Gonzalez
March 5, 2023
March 5, 2023
Hi Dad,

There is not a day that goes by that I do not think of you, remember a time we had together or apply a lesson you taught me. I often think about the times you took me to my extracurricular activities and the places we got to explore together while on vacation. As I get older I appreciate more the love and sacrifices both you and Mom gave to Eric and I to provide us the childhood we had.
As we enter your 3rd heavenly year words cannot express how much I miss you and how blessed I am to have had you in my life. Dad, your spirit lives on through the love for Mom, your books, the trees you planted and most importantly Eric and I. Every day Eric and I walk this Earth with a little piece of your soul and "enthusiasm" for life.

Thank you for being such a great father and such a great example. I love you Dad and we all miss you.

Love,

David Gonzalez
March 5, 2023

Hola papá,

No pasa un día que no piense en ti, en que no recuerde el tiempo que pasamos juntos o que aplique una lección que me enseñaste. A menudo pienso en las veces que me llevaste a mis actividades extracurriculares y los lugares que pudimos explorar juntos durante las vacaciones. A medida que envejezco, aprecio más el amor y los sacrificios que tú y mamá nos dieron a Eric y a mí para brindarnos la infancia que tuvimos.

Al entrar en tu tercer año celestial, las palabras no pueden expresar cuánto te extraño y cuán bendecido soy por haberte tenido en mi vida. Papá, tu espíritu vive a través del amor por mamá, tus libros, los árboles que plantaste y, lo más importante, Eric y yo. Todos los días, Eric y yo caminamos por esta Tierra con un pedacito de tu alma y tu "entusiasmo" por la vida.

Gracias por ser un gran padre y un gran ejemplo. Te amo papá y todos te extrañamos.

Con Amor,

David González
5 de marzo de 2023
Eric Gonzalez
March 5, 2023
March 5, 2023
Dear dad,

I think about you often. Usually as I’m outside walking around. You are always with me. You know that.

Thank you for being my dad. You were always there for me when I needed you and even in death you are here with me. What sticks with me the most is how proud you were of David and I. You were our best cheerleaders. 

It’s now been two years since you passed. It’s time that I’ve missed you tremendously, but it has also gone by very quickly, just as you always said time goes. I remember in your old age always commenting how quickly time flies and how it moves quicker with age. The speed at which time moves now reminds me of you. David, Mom Elmo and I have spent a lot of time together since you’ve passed and we all love you.

Miss you dad,

Eric
3.5.23

Querido papá,

Pienso en ti a menudo. Por lo general, cuando estoy afuera caminando. Siempre estás conmigo. Tú lo sabes.

Gracias por ser mi papá. Siempre estuviste ahí para mí cuando te necesité e incluso en la muerte estás aquí conmigo. Lo que más me queda es lo orgulloso que estabas de David y de mí. Fueron los mejores porristas.

Ya han pasado dos años desde que falleciste. A sido un tiempo de que te he extrañado muchísimo, pero también ha pasado muy rápido, tal como siempre dijiste que pasa el tiempo. Recuerdo que en tu vejez siempre comentabas lo rápido que pasa el tiempo y cómo se mueve más rápido con la edad. La velocidad a la que se mueve el tiempo ahora me recuerda a ti. David, mamá Elmo y yo hemos pasado mucho tiempo juntos desde que falleciste y todos te amamos.

Te extraño papá,

eric
3.5.23
December 28, 2022
December 28, 2022
A Successful Man
By Bessie Anderson Stanley
That man is a success –
who has lived well, laughed often and loved much;
who has gained the respect of intelligent men and the love of children;
who has filled his niche and accomplished his task;
who leaves the world better than he found it;
who has never lacked appreciation of earth’s beauty or failed to express it;
who looked for the best in others and gave the best he had.
                  ***********************
Un Hombre De Éxito
De Bessie Anderson Stanley

Ese hombre Tuvo éxito -
El que ha vivido bien, quien ha reído seguido y ha amado mucho;
que se ha ganado el respeto de hombres inteligentes y el amor de los niños;
que ha llenado su nicho y cumplido con su tarea;
que deja el mundo mejor de como lo encontró;
que nunca ha dejado de apreciar la belleza de la tierra ni ha dejado de proglamarla;
que buscaba lo mejor en los demás y dio lo mejor que tenía.
December 28, 2022
December 28, 2022
Buenos días Familia.
Agradezco la oportunidad que tuve de compartir algunos buenos momentos con Juan, y conocer en poco tiempo su enorme disponibilidad para hacerte sentir bien y protegido.  Dios lo tiene en un lugar muy especial.  Prima, ánimo y fortaleza junto con tus dos hijos que son la viva imagen de su amado padre.
gracias.
March 5, 2022
March 5, 2022
SALUDOS ESTIMADA PRIMA MARCELA. UN ABRAZO EN ESTE DIFÍCIL DÍA. ESPERO ESTÉN CADA DÍA RECORDANDO AL AMIGO JUAN. GRACIAS
March 5, 2022
March 5, 2022
Never Forgotten, always in our Hearts
We will always love you
We will never forget you
We will always remember you
We will always miss you

Our hearts will continue to feel the essence of your spirit. 
A spirit so large that it left a void and us wanting more

You affirmed your belief in the promise of an everlasting life
You prepared yourself for your journey to meet God up High
You asked us to let you go, to let you fly
And this we try, though it’s hard to say good-bye

Farewell loving husband, proud and dedicated Dad
Farewell optimistic uncle, empathetic brother
Farewell loyal friend, playful dog owner
Farewell inspirational teacher and learned writer
Farewell dedicated worker, enthusiastic leader

With heavy sorrow we will try to see your new springs and summers
As you are now with our Creator
We see you’re busy in developing your new role
You greet new souls and encourage others
And still, you have time to advocate for us

We pause our farewell to see your joy
For as soon as we looked up
We saw your celestial one year of age
Your spiritual image gets clearer every time we looked up

Your heavenly work has been prolific
In just a short year
The Angels’ wings are looking terrific
Since you shared your hydration plan to adhere

A First-year celebration is being held today at the heavenly Cathedral of Trees. 
Your fellow seminarians, school mates and close friends went with you on a beautiful hike
Later they’ll join your heavenly family and friends to celebrate
Your mother is baking your favorite Birthday cake and it’s just the way you like it
Your dad and brother, Isaac, are finishing the placement of heavenly balloons
Your Sisters, Nieces, Nephews and stepmother welcome and seat all those that arrive
Meanwhile, your father-in-law is busy rehearsing your favorite songs that will be played and sang by a choir of angels
Your mother-in-law has just finished the touches on your colorful birthday cloth that she has crafted.
Your other in-laws are joyfully assembling the party favors that include glimmering star dust

You are about to walk in, not knowing what is in store

And then all of a sudden, we hear your dad’s deep voice say: “Happy Birthday my son. We are so glad you’re among us. I knew you would also be loved up here!”

Happy First Heavenly Birthday our Love

You are invited to join us in prayer at 5:00 pm (pacific time). We have dedicated a Mass to him at Saint Ignatius of Loyola, Los Angeles, CA. A church to which he dedicated himself when he arrived to the United States.

Thank you all for your support and prayers. With unity in God.
March 5, 2022
March 5, 2022
Nunca Olvidado, Siempre en Nuestros Corazones

Siempre te amaremos
Nunca te olvidaremos
Siempre te recordaremos
Siempre te extrañaremos

Nuestros corazones seguirán sintiendo la esencia de tu espíritu
Un espíritu tan grande que nos dejó un vació y queriendo mas

Reafirmaste tu fe en la promese de una vida eterna
Te preparaste para la jornada al reencuentro con Dios en el Alto.
Nos pediste que te soltáramos y te dejáramos volar
Y eso tratamos de hacer, pero es difícil decir adiós

Hasta luego s esposo amoroso, orgullos padre dedicado
Hasta luego tío optimista, hermano empático
Hasta luego amigo fiel, amo de perro juguetón
Hasta luego maestro inspiracional, escritor conocedor
Hasta luego trabajador dedicado y líder entusiasta

Con tristeza pesada, trataremos de ver tus nuevas primaveras y veranos
Ya que ahora estas con nuestro criador
Vemos que andas ocupado en desarrollo de tu nuevo papel,
Dándoles bienvenidas a las almas que llegan y animo a otros
Y aun así tienes tiempo para interceder por nosotros

Ponemos en pausa nuestro “Hasta Luego” para ver tu felicidad
Porque en cuanto vemos hacia arriba
Te vimos cumplir un año celestial
Tu imagen espiritual se aclara más cada vez que volteamos hacia arriba

Tu trabajo celestial ya ha sido prolífico
En un corto año
Has logrado que las alas de los Ángeles se vean fantásticas
Desde que compartiste tu plan de seguir para tener buena hidratación

Hoy se celebrará un primer año en la Catedral Celestial de los Arboles
Tus compañeros seminaristas, compañeros de escuela y amigos cercanos de acompañaron en una caminata bella
Luego se reunirán con tu familia y amigos celestiales a la celebración
Tu mama te hornea tu pastel favorito y es exactamente cómo a ti gusta
Tu papa y hermano Isaac terminan de colocar tus globos celestiales
Tus hermanas, Sobrinos y madrastra les dan la bienvenida a los invitados que llegan
Mientras tanto tu suegro termina el ensayo de tus canciones favoritas, que serán tocadas junto con el coro de los Ángeles. 
Tu suegra termina en poner los últimos detalles en el vestuario colorido que usaras en tu fiesta
El resto de la familia política se encuentra juntos en alegría reuniendo los recuerdos de fiesta. Estos incluyen el polvo brillante de las estrellas 

Estas por entrar, sin saber lo que está por suceder

Y de repente, oímos la voz sonora de tu papa decir: “Feliz Cumpleaños mi hijo. Estamos muy felices de que estes entre nosotros. ¡Yo sabía que aquí arriba también te amarían!”

Nuestro Amor. Feliz Cumpleaños celestial

Les invitamos a que nos acompañen en oración desde su sitio, esta tarde a las 5:00 PM (hora del pacifico). Hemos pedido le dediquen una Misa en la Iglesia de San Ignacio de Loyola en Los Ángeles, CA La iglesia donde en donde se dedico al llegar a Estados Unidos.

Gracias a todos por su apoyo y oraciones. En Dios nos unimos.
December 28, 2021
December 28, 2021
Today would have been Juan’s birthday. Juan I hope you’re having a great time wherever you are. I know your shining light is bringing everyone a smile. Miss you friend. Rita
March 27, 2021
March 27, 2021
Hermano , tocayo : ahora que estas en las manos del señor , Intersede por nosotros, un fuerte y sincero abrazo Marcela Erick y David , dios les de fortaleza para estos momentos , era un gusto hablar por teléfono o mensaje con el y ya no se diga estando en persona , aunque fue poco lo que compartimos pero muy provechoso , gracias Dios por el tiempo que nos lo dejaste . Siempre te recordaremos 
March 27, 2021
March 27, 2021
Juan not only was a lovely coworker but a spiritual mentor. Always positive and full of life. He always had story or a passage to help you whatever difficulty you were having. Such a lovely person to help you and lift your spirits. Juan made you feel special and welcome. For the short time we new each other I felt that special friendship and I feel he felt the same. He will be missed, but I feel blessed and fortunate to have met him and have him as a friend. Not everyday you meet someone like Juan Gonzalez. Always spoke fondly of Marcela and his boys.
Francisco and I will have Don Juan and Marcela and boys in our prayers. God bless and may Juan be in Gods glory.
March 27, 2021
March 27, 2021
How do I describe a man who had the biggest heart and light to the fullest capacity. Juan is someone whom I will never forget, his jokes, encouragement, great conversations, and so many memories have been a blessing to have experienced. I will always remember the moments of laughter and the times he would tell me how proud he was of me and just happy to see the woman I was becoming. Always made it a point to say hello, give a hand shake and when I had my daughter she was blessed to get that same welcome greeting from him. Seeing how great of a person he was not just to myself, my daughter, and my mother, but to everyone single person was honestly heat warming because he made everyone’s presence known and appreciated. To see the admiration and love he had for his family was always so amazing to see. He was truly a good man. I am blessed to say I knew him from the age of being in diapers to now, and he always made me feel like family. Thank you Juan for always bringing in such open arms and treating us so kindly. For always going out of your way to be a friend. Marcella, Eric and David I am truly sorry for your loss and my heart goes out to you. Juan will truly be missed.
March 27, 2021
March 27, 2021
Hemos participado en la misa, lo que nos da plena esperanza y consuelo como humanos de que el hombre tiene ansias de regresar a la casa de donde vino. Damos gracias a Dios por el tiempo que nos lo prestó reciba Marsella,David y Erik, mi solidaridad y cariño y mi querido paisano Juan, nuestras oraciones, pidiéndole interceda ante el Padre por nosotros Descansee la paz verdadera de Dios. Hasta siempre.
Te extraremos siempre.
Juan Salcido Gutiérrez y Cony
March 27, 2021
March 27, 2021
Juan era una persona muy culta. Un ser humano muy lindo. Yo me siento muy orgullosa y especial de haber tenido a Juan en mi vida. Fue un buen amigo. Siempre te hizo sentir bien y especial. Cualquier conversación que tuvieras con el siempre tocaba tu corazón y terminábamos con un pequeño rezo. Se que Dios lo tiene en un lugar muy especial. Lo extrañaré mucho. Juan, gracias por ser una persona con un buen corazón y por ser parte de mi vida. Our Thoughts and Prayers go out to Marcella, David and Eric. Rita Baez
March 27, 2021
March 27, 2021
Juan siempre se recordara en nuestros corazones como lo alegre y vibra positiva que era. Nunca lo olvidare. Para mi se me fue un amigo sincero que para todas ocasiones se acordava de mandarme bendiciones a mi y a mi familia. Me siento orgullosa de haversido parte de su Vida. Tengo a su esposa Marcella y a sus hijos en mis oraciones.. Juan, lo quiero mucho y lo se en mi corazon que usted es un gran maestro en los cielos. Mandenos sus bendiciones desde arriba.
March 26, 2021
March 26, 2021
Recordaremos a Juan como un buen ser humano que se preocupó por servir a los demás sin escatimar esfuerzo. Fue un paisano, un buen amigo, un compañero en mi vida, hombre ejemplar e inteligente. Tenía la respuesta apropiada para cada caso. Que su recuerdo sea eterno por sus obras y que mientras tanto no sea olvidado, vivirá para siempre en el corazón de quienes lo acompañamos en el recorrido de su vida.
March 26, 2021
March 26, 2021
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March 26, 2021
March 26, 2021
Marcella, David and Eric wish to thank everyone for their support and kindness in this very difficult time when we experience the loss of the head of our Family Unit.

Thank you also for all the love and support you all provided him during this stay in this world. We are forever grateful for this.

Marcella, David y Eric quieren agradecer a todos por el apoyo y bondad que nos han demostrado, durante este tiempo tan dificil, donde nos encontramos con la perdida de la cabeza denuestra union familiar.

Muchas gracias tambien por el amor y apoyo que le brindaron durante su estancia en este mundo. Permaceremos agradecidos de por vida por esto.

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If there is any immortality to be had among us human beings, it is certainly only in the love that we leave behind. Fathers like mine don't ever die.
                                        ---Leo Buscaglia


March 5, 2023
March 5, 2023
Remembering today my good friend Don Juan.
Grateful to God that placed him in my path and touched my life, even if it was for a short tume. Always think of him when I go to work and waiting for him to ask me “Buenos días, alguna novedad”? I miss my friend he was definitely a mentor to navigate the difficult times in life. Saludos hasta al cielo Don Juan.
March 5, 2023
March 5, 2023
Misa Ofrecida para Juan Gonzalez en conmemoración de su Graduacion al cielo hace dos años será transmitida Marzo 5, 2023 a través de Facebook Parroquia de Nuestra Señora de Belén, Chiltepec en vivo a las 12 horas (hora de San José Chiltepec, Oaxaca, Mexico). Por el amigo y Cardenal, Felipe Arizmendi.
https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100070531896507

A mass for Juan Gonzalez in commemoration for his Graduation to Heaven two years ago will be transmitted life on March 5, 2023 through Facebook Nuestra Señora de Belén, Chiltepec at 10 am Pacific time or 12 noon San Jose Chiltepec, Oaxaca, Mexico time. The mass will be presided by Juan’s friend and Cardinal, Felipe Arizmendi.
https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100070531896507

A life mass will be dedicated at Padre Serra Church in Camarillo, CA for Juan Gonzalez to celebrate the beginning of his 3rd Celestial year on
March 6, 2023 at 8 am.

Una misa en vivo será dedicada en la iglesia Padre Serra en Camarillo, CA para Juan Gonzalez en orden de celebrar el inicio de su tercer año celestial. Esta será el 6 de Marzo 2023 a las 8 am.


His Life

A Celebration of Juan's Life

March 31, 2021
Juan Gonzalez, a longtime resident of Camarillo, CA passed away peacefully on Friday, March 5th at the age of 80. He was surrounded by his wife, sons and faithful dog.

Juan is survived by his wife Marcella, his twin sons David and Eric, and his faithful dog, Elmo. 

In addition to his immediate family, Juan is survived by ten loving siblings, an amazing loving caring; extended family, and a close group of friends that he has maintained over long distances and time. He will also be missed by countless people, whose life he touched, throughout his life.

Juan was a grammarian whose knowledge of English, Spanish, Latin, Greek and Italian mixed together to create an unidentifiable accent. As a result of his passion, he authored several books, including textbooks to teach English and Spanish that helped many be able to successfully overcome their fear of learning a new language. He is well known among his friends for his prolific writings and meanderings on the meaning of life. Many of his writings, written in the past and read now, give comfort to his family that he is at peace and lived a life filled with passion and purpose. 

If written as a screen play, Juan’s life would be made into an Oscar winning film. Juan grew up in a small rural modest town in Jalisco Mexico.He was the oldest son and second oldest of 16 children. His sons would hear stories of his adventures on the farm, including making friends with the pigs and playing foot races with his siblings in the fields. Juan loved watching and following Mexican soccer especially his beloved Chivas. As a young man Juan was known for being a very talented soccer player who was offered the opportunity to try out for the 1968 Summer Olympics in Mexico. A frequent comment heard by his family while watching soccer was “I played soccer with that player’s father.” 

Juan was very proud of where he came from.  He spoke about and never forgot his roots. He was grateful to have grown up in a healthy environment that was surrounded by beautiful people, nature, skies and plants.  He often connected to his roots by visiting farms and parks, as well as taking long walks and hikes throughout his beloved Ventura County.  He carefully tended to his garden and took time to appreciate every tree, flower, and fruit that came from his labor.  He marveled at the sunsets that the skies produced at the end of the day.

Juan entered the seminary at the young age of 14 and was ordained a priest. There he quickly gained the friendship and respect of his peers; he was well known for his strong soccer goals and for being the go-to person to explain a difficult class topic.

As a priest, he presided at his first mass at the Basilica of Our Lady of Guadalupe in Mexico City. Juan was a charismatic and outgoing man. His dedication and engaging sermons would turn attendance from a handful of attendees to a standing- room only crowd in a matter of months. He continued his active ministry for 10 years before requesting and obtaining a papal dispensation to step away from an active priesthood to become a lay servant of his beloved Roman Catholic Church Community. He did his best and succeeded at leading an exemplary life.

At the age of 35 Juan came to Los Angeles and fell in love with his future wife, Marcella. In his writings, Juan wrote of Marcella as his rock and thanked her for her love, dedication, and energy for allowing him to live a successful life. Juan was a loving, dedicated, faithful and dependable husband who stopped at nothing to support Marcella and their sons’ dreams and aspirations. The two were blessed to be married for 44 years.

Juan and his wife moved to Ventura County in 1980, where he went to work in the Insurance Industry in servicing accounts. He quickly saw a need for laborers and employers to work together and establish a cooperative approach to preventing accidents and controlling loses. From there on out he worked with companies in creating and implementing safety & loss prevention programs. His charismatic presentations were instrumental in educating laborers, encouraging peer and management teamwork and reducing injuries in the workplace. He then went on to become a producer with the sales team, where he continued his practice of providing excellent customer service to Companies. His focus on personal and unconditional service to his clients quickly was what led him to great success. He was legendary at working endlessly, with great success, to reduce loses and premiums for the companies he worked with. His clients always knew he was a phone call away to quickly take care of any need they had. He did this in a timely manner with a great positive, helpful attitude.


Together, Juan and Marcella had twin sons. Juan was a dedicated father who made sure to always be present in his sons’ lives. He was there to take them to sports practices, speech tournaments, lessons and very early morning skate boarding practices. He did this all the while passing to his sons all the important life lessons he had learned throughout his life. Then as his sons grew older, into adulthood, he wrote to them to let them know he was in awe of them and inspired by the life lessons they had given him!

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Para mí querido tio Juan.

March 27, 2021
Mí querido tío Juan....te extrañare mucho...hasta el cielo. Se quedan conmigo tus palabras siempre de aliento, de cariño a través de los años y de la distancia. Nunca te olvidaste de mí. Esa voz inconfundible, tus carcajadas, siempre atento, siempre cariñoso con todos nosotros. Tus largas cartas a través del correo electrónico. Cómo dijo el sacerdote en tu misa. Lloramos ahora por nosotros que nos quedamos sin ti -físicamente. Tus primeros 80 años! y de aquí hasta toda la eternidad....ahora forever young! como siempre fue tu espíritu aquí en la tierra.  Esta no es una despedida sino un "hasta luego" ...y como siempre terminaban nuestros escritos...Love .  Que seas muy feliz allá ✨ y diles a todos que también los extrañamos mucho. Cómo me dijo Marcela...siempre queremos más de Dios. Muchas cosas se quedaron pendientes por vivir...pero un día las continuaremos

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