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Eulogy March 13, 2021 - Carmel Mountain Ranch Estate

March 14, 2021
What a perfect setting for this day of remembrance for Judith Ann Passalacqua, my Mother.

Judi would have loved being here. Well she is here. We embody her memory and that is a powerful force.

A special thanks goes out to Tony, Kristina and her husband David for hosting us today. I also want to thank Marie for caring for my mother.

As Tony would say, “your Mom was a hugger and kisser1” Anyone who knew Judy would consider that a very true statement.  My mother loved life, family and friends and wouldn’t miss an opportunity to hug and kiss on you. Watch out if you weren’t as affectionate! 

I miss that part of her so very much. So much more of a profound gift she leaves all of us in the midst of this pandemic. And what a smile Judi had. A smile that would pierce your soul. You couldn’t help to be touched by her grace.

Alzheimer’s showed little mercy on Judi. We have lost many in our family to the ravages of this decease. but even though she was profoundly aware of the possibility that she too could be faced with this diagnosis, she was determined that it would not define her. 

During her 74 years on Earth, she shared with us gifts of love, passion for life, courage, determination and at times struggle and heartache. What I am most in awe of was her ability to always hold a sense of wonder, a sense of adventure and gusto for living with intention.

I love you mom.  Thank you for giving me the gift of life.
March 14, 2021
I miss you so much my dear wife. I am heart broken. I wish that I could hold you in my arms again even only for a little while. I know that you are no longer suffering and for that I am happy. I tried my best to take care of you and to make sure that all of your needs were met. I know that sometimes you didn't want to do what I needed you to do but I hope you know that I was just trying to take care of you and do what was best for you. I don't hold any grudges towards you, and I would take care of you all over again even knowing what would be in store for me because I love you so much. Thank you for loving me as much as you do. 
I know that the days ahead of me will be challenging but it will be easier knowing that you will be at my side in spirit to help me through this. 
I love you Judi

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