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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Judith Okolo . We will remember her forever.


Obsequies For Judith:

Please find below details of her final commitment to mother earth :
Date: Friday 8th February
Graveside Service: 10am
Interment follows immediately after
Cemetery: Allu lane Cemetery 
Allum Lane, Elstree, Hertfordshire , WD6 3NN.


Service of songs to celebrate her life

When: Saturday February 2nd 2019

Time: 6pm - 8pm 

Where: Borehamwood Library, 96 Shenley Road, Borehamwood, Hertfordshire, WD6 1EB



January 4
Oremi. Judith rest on. I really miss our gist . You are my gist partner ♥️ . Continue to rest on my sister .
January 3
January 3
Oh how time flies Oremi antyjudeth, it was just like yesterday hmmmm. Rest on girlfriend in the bosom of the Almighty God.
January 3
January 3
It has been 5 years since you left us . We love and miss you but know and thankful that you are in a better place now.Forever loved ❤️️
January 2
January 2
Wow...!!! How time flies? My darling friend Judith, you are Gone, but not Forgotten..!!! You will 4ever be remembered. Rest on my dear friend.
January 2
January 2
Deedee, it’s 5 years and I still hurt at your absence. I still find myself wish things turned out differently for you. I know you are however at peace and resting well with Jesus. But I miss you my lil’sis.
January 2
January 2
5 years ago today, I called you but you never picked or returned my call. I miss you Achuki, keep resting in perfect peace.

I can’t believe it’s been 5 years.
September 19, 2023
September 19, 2023
Happy posthumous birthday to you my dear friend. Continue to rest in peace. Miss you dearly.
September 19, 2023
September 19, 2023
Deedee- happy posthumous bday! I couldn’t post this on Sunday cos my heart was aching strangely. I think about you when I see certain people and it hurts that you are not here. I sometimes feel your presence and wonder …. It is well.
Please rest in peace and enjoy heavenly bliss lil’sis. You have ran your race and I am sure your crown has been presented to you. See you Deedee whenever God calls. Love you.
September 19, 2023
September 19, 2023
Anty Judeth,
       Another year is gone without you I still haven’t started celebrating my birthday still. Even though my children are making plans but your absence has created a vacuum that no one could fill. You left this sinful world and left us to the struggle of life. Keep resting in the bosom of the Almighty God till we meet to part no more my love. Always love you darling.
September 18, 2023
September 18, 2023
Oremi. I missed you so much . We still spoke about you last week. 
Continue to rest on Judith . Until we meet again. Adieu!!!
September 17, 2023
September 17, 2023
Happy birthday in heaven! Another September 17 has come and almost gone. I am happy I can look back and smile about the beautiful life you lived. I know if they were birthdays in heaven you will be grooving right now. Regardless, we love you and miss you dearly. Continue to rest in peace my dearest Achuki.
January 3, 2023
January 3, 2023
4 years after and it still hurts. Words fail to describe The pain, guilt sometimes and the joys your memory brings. It’s 2023 and so much has happened, a good summary is that life is different without you, you are still so missed, always loved and alive in our hearts.

Heaven is lucky to have you and I pray you continue to rest easy. I miss you, I miss you, I miss you.
September 19, 2022
September 19, 2022
Anty Judeth according to my son happy post humus birthday to you and it’s so unfortunate that up till now I still find it difficult to celebrate my birthday alone, although people are celebrating me right now but I feel lonely and incomplete as I’m not supposed to be doing this alone, I’m so used to you and wonder why God allowed this, maybe you shouldn’t have relocated, may be you should have remained in Nigeria, maybe I should have followed you to Manchester, may be Dele should have stayed? or May be I should have dragged you into ministry? But these are the questions I need to ask you probably I can have a clue of what I should have done. It’s not easy though but found my solace in Christ. It is good to move on in life when someone dies which I thought I have, but I couldn’t move on at every 17 and 19 of every September ( Our Special days)
     A lot has happened since you left as I still find it difficult to have friends again I choose to focus on my relationship with God(ministry) my children(grandma ) my career(Manager) and you know God has been faithful.
   I love you Anju and I’ll always do keep resting in the Lord until we meet to part no more.
September 19, 2022
September 19, 2022
Heaven is lucky to have an amazing person like you. Wishing you a happy birthday in paradise!
September 19, 2022
September 19, 2022
Happy post-hummus bday Deedee. Still can’t come to terms with the mystery of your passing. Miss you lots. Still hurts to think about your loss. But I guess that’s heaven’s gain. Rest on dear lil’sis. ❤️‍
September 18, 2022
September 18, 2022
Happy posthumous birthday Didi.
Miss you every day.
September 18, 2022
September 18, 2022
Happy birthday in heaven my beautiful Achuki. You are still sorely missed. I miss you, I miss you, I miss you .

January 11, 2022
January 11, 2022
My Beautiful soft spoken Judy, you’ve been gone 3yrs now. You are missed badly but I know the greater one loves you more. May your gentle soul continue to rest in God’s bosom.
January 9, 2022
January 9, 2022
DEEDEE! IT'S BEEN THREE YEARS SINCE YOU LEFT MYSTERIOUSLY. NO GOODBYES. BUT YOU ARE ALWAYS IN OUR HEART SO DEVIL LOST THIS ONES AS WELL. JESUS IS LORD! SLEEP ON AND SLEEP WELL.
January 8, 2022
January 8, 2022
Little sister, you are still sorely missed and can never be forgotten. It’s not the same without you. Rest on beloved in the bosom and everlasting arms of our Lord Jesus Christ Amen . All is well.

Your darling big sister
Lauretta Okolo
January 7, 2022
January 7, 2022
Kadizue your sudden departure was not part of the plan.
Very painful and had to come to terms with.
Always in my mind.
Rest on Ezigbo Nwannem.
Lahu Ofunma. 
January 7, 2022
January 7, 2022
Anju,
    Even though you were gone, you still remain on my mind, up till now there’s never been anyone to fill the vacuum you left, you are forever missed love. May the Lord grant you eternal rest.
January 6, 2022
January 6, 2022
Gone, but NOT forgotten....Miss you dearly. Continue to rest in perfect peace.
January 4, 2022
January 4, 2022
Oremi Judith . Rest on my beautiful Sister.
I miss you so much . Rest on honey . The world ♥ ❤ had really changed from what we are used to. But we blessed on .
January 3, 2022
January 3, 2022
Baby Sis

So loved ,still missed and always dear to us .
Forever in our hearts never to be forgotten .
January 3, 2022
January 3, 2022
Achuki! You are still so missed. Life has t been the same but we move on. The world has changed so much and I am glad your maker shielded you from covid and all its baggage. Continue to Rest In Peace beautiful one. Love always
January 10, 2021
January 10, 2021
Juddy, its been hard. I just couldn't do it on the exact date. Hmmmmm, Rosa as you fondly call me, all I owe you now my ore is to always pray for your beautiful soul. Rest on ore mi. Keep that smile on. Eternal rest grant to Judith Okolo, and let your perpetual light shine on her. May her soul rest in peace. Amen.
January 5, 2021
January 5, 2021
From Lauretta Okolo
Judith you are still sorely missed o. The pain has not dulled. Still crying . Rest on peacefully little sister. All will be well in Jesus Christ mighty and mighty name amen .
You are forever missed
January 5, 2021
January 5, 2021
Rest on Judith just like yesterday still missing you here until we meet to part no more.
January 4, 2021
January 4, 2021
Judith Oremi. I really missed  you, with your lovely  ❤ smile ☺ and sweet ❤ ☺ voice .. continue to rest   on.
We love you but God loves ❤ you best ❤ ♥ . 
SUN RE  
January 4, 2021
January 4, 2021
Anju, this is another year without you, my heart still aches but Heaven is one star brighter, I know we’ll all die one day but your rapture came too early. I still find it difficult to have friend because no one can take your place in my heart my love, keep resting in the bosom of the almighty God till we meet to part no more.
January 4, 2021
January 4, 2021
A true friend is never truly gone. Their spirit lives on in the memories of those who loved them.
The bond between friends is beyond the mortal world. I can still feel Judith with me everyday, helping me make it through. She is by my side, and yours, forever.
They say friends are the family we choose. Being chosen was the greatest moment of my life and when Judith passed, it was the worst moment of my life because she a wonderful friend.
Friendship transcends death. Memories made will never be forgotten and created a lasting impression on those they left behind. Everyone became a better person for having such a wonderful friend.
Saying goodbye isn't for us. Instead, I will say that I look forward to seeing my friend again, each time I am reminded of her through a phrase, a joke, she prefers calling me "OKLA" . These are the things that will keep us close despite death.
The best of friends know that they were loved for who they were in life and will be remembered for their heart in their death.
Dear friends are the ones who know our hearts, our minds and choose us as their friends anyway. Even when they have passed to the next life, I still feel them encouraging me to be my best self.
Honoring a friend's death is truly about honoring their life. Despair over what may have been, but revel and reflect in what was.
I am better for knowing you, better for loving you, better for having met you. May you be as blessed in the next life, my dear friend Judith Okolo. Continue to rest in perfect peace...!!!
January 4, 2021
January 4, 2021
Deedee, my lil sis, you are still sorely missed. When I hear ‘Onise Iyanu’ I see you . When I hear ‘Olowogbogboro’, I hear you singing it. I still wonder at your death, but I understand God’s Sovereignty and that He makes all things beautiful in His time and has turned things around for your good. Continue to rest in His blossom my dear. It is well 
January 3, 2021
January 3, 2021
Ezigbo Nwanem continue to Rest in peace.
The pain of your loss is still lingering two years after you passed away but we are comforted by the Holy Spirit and the fact that you are at rest with the Lord.
Kadizue lahu ofunma.
January 2, 2021
January 2, 2021
My darling aunt, it’s been 2 years of many questions and cherished memories. Life is still not the same without you. We thought time will make the pain of your absence better, It’s not better but manageable ( thankful for that). I miss you , I miss you, I miss you and I just miss you.... my Achuki continue to Rest In Peace
May 9, 2020
May 9, 2020
So Achuki , the world has changed oo. Just like that ooo, some new virus known as Corona virus or covid 19 has changed the world and the way we live. It’s almost incomprehensible that the entire globe is on lockdown and we have to work from home, home-school and practice social distancing when we venture out . Yes social distancing is being at least 6 ft away from folks. I can go on and on but what’s important is that you are with your Father in heaven and didn’t get to experience exposure to all this especially since you cared for the most vulnerable. I miss you terribly, I miss your smile, I miss our gists, gossip calls and moSt of all I miss my Achuki. Continue to Rest In Peace - your Zezelicious
April 15, 2020
April 15, 2020
Hmm Deedee, lil sis, I still feel you around me some days, when I hear 'Onise Iyanu, it's you I remember. It gives me an ache in my heart.... I just try to imagine that you are not gone.
When I read news about manchester, I remember the day we had to get your stuff....so surreal.
When I read about Covid 19 and the devastation in nursing homes, I think of you being on the frontlines if you were still alive.....and I say to myself - God knows best. Have a good night rest in His bossom dear. Miss you though.
April 15, 2020
April 15, 2020
Just like yesterday you departed this sinful world
Until we meet to part more
April 14, 2020
April 14, 2020
Hhhmmnn Achuki. Continue to rest in the Bosom of the Lord. It’s been very tough. Gone but never forgotten.

Bamie
April 14, 2020
April 14, 2020
I miss you everyday my beautiful Achuki! I miss your smile, your voice, your perspectives, your advise and so much more. May God continue to rest your soul!
January 6, 2020
January 6, 2020
Judith there's no day without you, I still struggle with the fact that you are gone , you were such a rare gem, rest on in the bosom of Almighty God till we meet to part no more and I pray that the Lord will grant you eternal rest.
January 4, 2020
January 4, 2020
Just like yesterday judith you left without saying good still missing you here until we meet to part no more.
January 3, 2020
January 3, 2020
Judith, exactly a year ago, I got a call concerning you. I was told you were unconscious and that they needed to speak to a family member. I had a dread that it was worse news. And I was right. 5 hours later, and many calls later, in a family conference call- the sad news was broken ! You had passed on ! Sudden death! Ah !!

It is well . It is well. We have fond memories of you, especially that beautiful SMILE. Even in death- you had your smile on your face.

Continue to Rest In Peace my beloved darling lil sis . I miss you. We ALL miss you dearly. But Jehovah needed you sooner than expected. It is well.❣️Love you to eternity. Our Angel of hearts sleep on till we meet again
January 3, 2020
January 3, 2020
A beautiful soul can never be forgotten.
It’s had to believe that you have left and difficult to accept the fact that you are no more. It feels like a dream that seems to be true.
But we are holding on to the Rock of our salvation, the Balm of Gilead, Our Comforter who comforts us even in difficult times like this.
Death where is thy sting?
Continue to Rest in Peace ezigbo Nwannem.
January 3, 2020
January 3, 2020
Juddy, my friend, you are forever in my heart. Rest in perfect peace. Ore mi, I miss you oooooo..
January 3, 2020
January 3, 2020
I can’t believe it’s a year today since you left us to be with the lord . Judith you are forever in our thoughts. Gone but never to be forgotten. Always in our hearts ♥️.
September 18, 2019
September 18, 2019
Happy post humous birthday Deedee. You are sorely missed. We still hurt terribly. We take solace you are resting in the Lord and so in a better place. Rest on sweet and darling sister in Jesus Christ precious name Amen and amen.
September 17, 2019
September 17, 2019
Hmmm, this time last year you were in my house dancing and celebrating you ,little did I know that would be the last celebration we'll be having together, I've scheduled so many things to keep me busy so as to get this day off my mind but it's very difficult for me to let the day pass without saying HBD to my twins sister. I loved you and I'll always do if I'm to chose a friend again, Judith I'll choose you 1million times only pray for long life for you. Missed you so dearly . Sleep on in the bosom of the almighty God till we meet to part no more.
September 17, 2019
September 17, 2019
I wish this was another normal birthday for our kid sister Judith. Alas it is a posthumous one. Judith , you passed on abruptly in January to our shock and chagrin.
I miss you still. We all miss you terribly.
But God is Sovereign and He knows best.
So we accept His will.
Judith , continue to Rest In Peace in the bossom of our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ. Amen ❤️
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January 4
Oremi. Judith rest on. I really miss our gist . You are my gist partner ♥️ . Continue to rest on my sister .
January 3
January 3
Oh how time flies Oremi antyjudeth, it was just like yesterday hmmmm. Rest on girlfriend in the bosom of the Almighty God.
January 3
January 3
It has been 5 years since you left us . We love and miss you but know and thankful that you are in a better place now.Forever loved ❤️️
Her Life

Biography

January 12, 2019

Judith Kadizue Okolo

Judith Kadizue Okolo was born into the family of late Peter Chike Okolo and Magdalene Obiageli Okolo of Umuehea, Ibusa, Delta state. She was born in Lagos Nigeria and was the last of 6 children. 

As the baby of the house, Judith was beautiful and cuddly, had a lot of pet names and was adored by all. She was fondly called Idi-ibon, fat face, Didi, and Kadizue by her older siblings and extended family. And to her nieces, nephews, grand nieces and grand nephews she was fondly called Achuki, aunty J, and aunty Judith. 

Judith attended Our Lady of Apostles Yaba, Lagos for her primary education. And Holy Child college Ikoyi, Lagos for her secondary education, before proceeding to the University of Lagos, where she earned a Bachelors degree in English. Most of her working career in Nigeria, was spent at TOTALFINAELF, currently called TOTAL E&P Nigeria Ltd after which she moved   to the United Kingdom in 2016. 

Judith was a fun loving,  free spirited woman, who chose to enjoy every beautiful tapestry of life on her terms, even if it meant exploring new territories along tough terrains. She always lived to her convictions but ensuring she had fun along the way.

Judith gave her life to Christ in her mid-life, laboured for God through church work and  loved Jesus immensely. She was a youth group member / sanitation worker in the Redeemed Christian Church of God, Revelation Parish, Rumukrushi,PortHarcourt and she was a member of the protocol department at House On The Rock (HOTR), where she worshiped when she started work in Lagos. 

She was a Christian till the Lord called her home. 

Judith was a very loyal friend and her alliances with her close friends span several years. Her friends cut across different social strata, ages, culture, geographies and religion. She was indeed a jolly good fellow and the soul of any party and conversation. She was a friend in-deed. 

Our Achuki lived to the fullest: she was fun loving, adventurous, a fashionista and extremely down to earth. She was very humble and loyal, loved fiercely, was unassuming, selfless and generous to her nephews and nieces, loving family and numerous friends.

As Christians, we are at peace with Judith’s transition to her final  home with the Lord, as we have hope. Albeit she will be sorely missed and will live forever in the hearts of: Ifeanyi & Segun Oyewo, Lauretta Okolo, Anne and John Addeh, Roselyne and Joe Ulaeto, Joe and Susan Okolo, Yemisi and Ade Ajeyori, Ayobami and Dayo Kuyoro, Michael and Pero Oyewo, Odalo and Osato Addeh, Chialuka Okolo, Olisa Okolo, Samuel-Paul Ulaeto, Omene Addeh, Sharon Okolo, her grand nieces and nephews, the entire Okolo and Esedebe families as well as the numerous lives she touched during her short stay here on earth.  

We pray that God will receive her into His bossom and grant her eternal rest with His beloved in Jesus name amen . 

Rest In Peace our beloved sister, aunt, grand aunt, and cousin, as you join Papa and Mama till we all meet to part no more. 

Recent stories
March 24, 2020
Am short of word's right now, Just remembered my friend Judith now and decided to log into my Google Account,and am seeing a memory of My friend Judith since last year 2019,pls what happened to Juddy,we lost contact since 2018, when I misplaced my phone,Is Judith really death or sick,pls somebody should pls explain to me,am confused,is her friend Boma from Port Harcourt,we we're together in Rccg Revelation parish when she was in Port Harcourt,Rivers State Nigeria.oh Judith I don't believe it ooo.pls I need her Elder sisters, Aunty Ann's,Phone number.

Still hoping it's not true Deedee

March 7, 2019

I am yet to come to terms with your sudden demise Deedee. Even though I sprinkled sand on your casket: I am still blocked mentally. 

Don't know why but I still see you in my mind's eye and now more in my dreams. 

I continue to pray for your soul my beloved. Rest in peace till we meet in heaven in eternity in Jesus name amen.  

Didi Idibon

February 18, 2019

Nwagbo (According to Papa) Adaukwu (according to Uncle Mike) Didi, Idibon, last born, baby sister (siblings) Achuki (nephews and nieces). You were born immediately after Nigeria's civil war, that informed your name Kadizue because every member of our family on both sides survived the war. Even those who crossed to the eastern part of the country all survived. Nne Omeze (Adanwimo) named you Kadizue ndu.  You brought so much joy to the families Okolo and Esedebe. In every situation, we give thanks to God. To God be the glory for the joy of having you with us for that period. We find solace that you are peacefully At Rest with our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ till we meet to part no more. It is well with your soul Baby Sister Judith Kadizue Okolo. The Yoruba adage says In death, you are the eldest. Adieu Achuki Didi Idibon!!!

Big Sister Ifeanyi

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