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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Judith Okolo . We will remember her forever.


Obsequies For Judith:

Please find below details of her final commitment to mother earth :
Date: Friday 8th February
Graveside Service: 10am
Interment follows immediately after
Cemetery: Allu lane Cemetery 
Allum Lane, Elstree, Hertfordshire , WD6 3NN.


Service of songs to celebrate her life

When: Saturday February 2nd 2019

Time: 6pm - 8pm 

Where: Borehamwood Library, 96 Shenley Road, Borehamwood, Hertfordshire, WD6 1EB



September 16, 2019
September 16, 2019
Happy birthday my darling Achuki! The past 9 months have been incredibly painful and different without you. But I am comforted that you are in a better place with your beloved savior.

No day has gone by without my thinking about you or asking why you had to transition so quickly. Your legacy lives on and you will never be forgotten.  Continue to Rest In Peace my sweet aunty.

Love always
Yemisi

March 7, 2019
March 7, 2019
Deedeeeeee! SLEEP ON AND REST IN HIS BOSSOM , OLOWOGBOGBORO HAS TURNED THINGS AROUND FOR YOUR GOOD.
February 8, 2019
February 8, 2019
A tribute to my childhood friend
Judith it is unbelievable that you have gone to rest at the blossom of our Lord Jesus Christ. It's with a heavy heart I write this tribute because the last time I saw you it was in the year 2017 at our friend's wedding anniversary and we just had a very brief chat. When tall Franca called to inform me of your passing on to glory, I kept shouting and saying who gave you this information because it could be ‘wrong’. I told her I was going on social media to find your sisters and brother just to confirm the suppose fake news, but it was the opposite, you were a friend who knew all my siblings and I yours. I found solace in God that you knew him and lived a life in Christ.
I would like to remember the good memories we shared together over the years and thank God for the very short time you spent with us here on earth. My heart is heavy and if I feel this way, I can imagine the feeling of loss and grief in the heart of your loved ones. But as Christians we are taught to give thanks in whatever circumstances we find ourselves.
I remember your big sister who I used to call your mummy because you lived in her house from your teenage years to adulthood, she was the mother figure and big sister we all know in your life and her love for you was obvious. Odalo was our baby nephew for years till his baby sister came alone. 
Yemisi's mum her daughters and sister Rose were our big sis and nieces; their homes welcomed all your friends and I remember your excitement when your brother Joe was getting married years ago. Your nieces and nephew’s millstone was celebrant with your friend, I remember me always saying you were spoiled by your older sibling because the love was clear-cut. (Lol) and you will smile.
I found old pictures of you at my 21st birthday
(which was not too long ago---Lol) last week and it brought back all the memories, our friendship, our differences but death came calling too early, you were a friend who I met in my teenage years and we became friends till you left this sinful world, we might not talk to each other for months, a year or two but when we meet up, we pick up our conversation from where we left it and few of my friends today I met through you.
I couldn’t bring myself to tell my mum when I spoke to her last week because the passing of my Dad last July and the feeling of loss, we still struggle with. My brothers and sisters are in shock after I sent the information of your burial details to our group chat, they all had beautiful memories of you coming to visit me in our parent’s house, our family celebration, my sister’s graduation to mention a few of the good times. Am sure your mum will be shocked to see you so soon, too much to write but not enough space to talk about decades of friendship, the scripture teaches us not to morn like unbelievers because Judith is with our Lord Jesus Christ.
"Brothers and sisters, we do not want you to be uninformed about those who sleep in death, so that you do not grieve like the rest of mankind, who have no hope". 1 Thessalonians 4:13(NIV)
So, I celebrate a fulfilled life in Christ Jesus my childhood friend, only our heavenly Father knows the time and season for us all. I pray He comforts the family during this difficult time, He send the spirit of healing to heal your heavy hearts and grant those Judith left behind good health in long life.
Judith Okolo omo mama Igbo but omo Yoruba to the T…..
You will be greatly missed. 
Judith, we thank God that you are in a better place where there is no pain you are at peace.
May your soul rest in prefect peace.
Sun re oo ore mi
Funlola.
February 2, 2019
February 2, 2019
It is said that goodbyes hurt the most when the story is not finished. For us it feels as though you left far too early. It feels like our family chain is broken. But we know that the Lord calls each one by name when it pleases Him. And as He calls us one by one, the chain will link again.
February 2, 2019
February 2, 2019
Indeed this has been such devastating news but in Him we do have our peace. Your life was a blessing and the memories are treasures. Rest on beloved baby Sister. We will surely miss your vibrancy and sense of presence. You are truly loved and will be sorely missed. Adieu Judith.
February 1, 2019
February 1, 2019
I still remember the days when you here with us. But I miss you even more.
January 29, 2019
January 29, 2019
I was on my way to work when I got a call from far away in Italy that I should go on to your Facebook page. I went to your page and immediately saw that something was wrong.
I can see Judith's picture in her beautiful smiling face, but what saddened my heart was the contents “Remembering Judith.” "Sad to hear", "Still in shock" etc....!!!
I immediately called Manchester and your demise was confirmed...Uhmmmm...what a world we are living?
Death leaves a heartache no one can heal. Love leaves a memory no one can steal. To live in the hearts of those we love is not to die.
Judith...the memory of you will always be in my heart and all your friends. If by any chance you come across your bosom friend (Dewunmi) aka "Omo Mama" I believe
you can continue your friendship till eternity. I am going to miss you. SUN RE O.
January 28, 2019
January 28, 2019
My dear Aunty Judith, thank you for being a warm, kind, loving person during your time here on earth with us. You are missed, but I know you are in a better place. Rest In Peace.
January 26, 2019
January 26, 2019
She was the best client I ever had. She treated me like her younger brother. Never seen someone so friendly and accommodating like her. It was saddening wen I heard the news of ur demise Aunt Judith. U were a sister I never had. Continue to rest in peace cos I know u're in the bossom of our Lord.
January 26, 2019
January 26, 2019
Darling Judith
I have never been so short of words as in this case. Your demise has left a big hole in my heart. I pray the good lord grant you eternal rest and let perpetual light shine on you. May your soul rest in peace. ❤️❤️❤️
January 26, 2019
January 26, 2019
Sleep well on the bossom of our Lord Jesus Christ till we meet to part no more.
We Love you but God Love you more.
January 26, 2019
January 26, 2019
Words can’t explain how much I miss you my darling Anju.Continue to rest in the bosom of the LORD
January 26, 2019
January 26, 2019
Judith will be in our hearts and memories.
January 25, 2019
January 25, 2019
Even though you are gone, you have created a vacuum that no one can fill in my heart I've always celebrate you when you were here ,And I'll always celebrate you now that you are gone. I love you my twin sister and I'll always do. Rest on in the bossom of the Almghty God.
January 25, 2019
January 25, 2019
Lay down my dear friend, lay down and take a rest, shhh, worry no more but place your head upon the saviour's feet. Love you but Jesus love you best, I bid you goodnight my boo boo. Still can't comprehend the fact that you are no more. Sun ire deedee.
January 25, 2019
January 25, 2019
“Precious in the sight of the Lord is the death of his faithful servants.”
‭‭Psalm‬ ‭116:15

Father we thank you for the confirmation of your word .

All the glory belongs to you.
January 25, 2019
January 25, 2019
Your life was a blessing
Your memories a treasure
You are loved beyond words
And missed beyond measure
January 24, 2019
January 24, 2019
Judith, I'm missing you like kilode, you were a rare gem, you shined light everywhere you went. I loved you but God loves you more! You will be greatly missed. Rest in Peace my dear.
January 23, 2019
January 23, 2019
Good bye Judith.
We love you but god love you more
R.........I..........P
January 23, 2019
January 23, 2019
O aunty Judith! It is unbelievable that you are gone. The Lord grant you eternal rest, aunty Judith untill we meet to part no more.
January 23, 2019
January 23, 2019
Judith....hmmm...
I am still pondering at the news of your sudden demise not after we spoke while I was in Manchester and also exchanged WhatsApp messages to the effect that you would not be able to worship with us in church on Sunday 30th December but that you would definitely see me before 6th January being my departure date to Nigeria.
The proposed meeting was never to be as the Lord called you to His bosom.
Our dear kid sister, you are being and will forever be sorely missed.
May the Almighty God grant your soul repose in heaven and grant all family members and friends the fortitude to bear this irreparable loss in Jesus name Amen....
January 23, 2019
January 23, 2019
Aunty mii,as I fondly call you.This is not the kind of note I wish to write to you but God knows best...just know I love you so much,your free spirit,the fun gist,the love.Please rest on.
January 23, 2019
January 23, 2019
Juddy, what can I say? We spoke until the 1st of January 2018. Your gentle talk and smiles, your promise to make us all proud in 2019, our foundest times we share together will ever remain in my heart. I pray for your beautiful soul everyday as I meditate on my Rosary.
Juddy, I miss you.
Eternal rest grant to Judith Okolo O' Lord, and let your perpetual light shine upon her. May the soul of Judith Okolo and the souls of all the faithful departed through the mercy of God rest in Peace O'Lord. Amen.
Adieu Ore mi, ka sun re ooo.
January 23, 2019
January 23, 2019
Aunty Judith! This is really sad! You were such a lovely fun lady. I remember you sometimes popping by in the evenings when we were all at Wilmot Point and telling us about your funny exploits at work. Fun fun times! We always looked forward to your stories in those days.
You should not have passed so early but can we question God?
I have not seen you in a while but I have not and will never forget you.
Sleep well dear sis. Sleep well in the Lord. You will surely be missed! May your soul rest in perfect peace.
January 23, 2019
January 23, 2019
The last time I saw you was in September last year, at church, for the thanksgiving in honour of mama’s (your mum’s) life. Even though I hadn’t seen you in around two years, you still looked the same, with your radiant smile. It’s what I remember most. It’s hard to believe that when you said “goodbye” on that day, it would be the last time we would see you. There’s not much else I can say but this — Reign in peace with Christ!
January 23, 2019
January 23, 2019
Judith Okolo. Oremi lati kekere.
Am still in shock. God understand why this happened. Rest on my beloved.
I will always miss you.
January 21, 2019
January 21, 2019
Lighting a candle for the beautiful, loving, caring, generous and fearless Judith Okolo!
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Recent Tributes
January 4
Oremi. Judith rest on. I really miss our gist . You are my gist partner ♥️ . Continue to rest on my sister .
January 3
January 3
Oh how time flies Oremi antyjudeth, it was just like yesterday hmmmm. Rest on girlfriend in the bosom of the Almighty God.
January 3
January 3
It has been 5 years since you left us . We love and miss you but know and thankful that you are in a better place now.Forever loved ❤️️
Her Life

Biography

January 12, 2019

Judith Kadizue Okolo

Judith Kadizue Okolo was born into the family of late Peter Chike Okolo and Magdalene Obiageli Okolo of Umuehea, Ibusa, Delta state. She was born in Lagos Nigeria and was the last of 6 children. 

As the baby of the house, Judith was beautiful and cuddly, had a lot of pet names and was adored by all. She was fondly called Idi-ibon, fat face, Didi, and Kadizue by her older siblings and extended family. And to her nieces, nephews, grand nieces and grand nephews she was fondly called Achuki, aunty J, and aunty Judith. 

Judith attended Our Lady of Apostles Yaba, Lagos for her primary education. And Holy Child college Ikoyi, Lagos for her secondary education, before proceeding to the University of Lagos, where she earned a Bachelors degree in English. Most of her working career in Nigeria, was spent at TOTALFINAELF, currently called TOTAL E&P Nigeria Ltd after which she moved   to the United Kingdom in 2016. 

Judith was a fun loving,  free spirited woman, who chose to enjoy every beautiful tapestry of life on her terms, even if it meant exploring new territories along tough terrains. She always lived to her convictions but ensuring she had fun along the way.

Judith gave her life to Christ in her mid-life, laboured for God through church work and  loved Jesus immensely. She was a youth group member / sanitation worker in the Redeemed Christian Church of God, Revelation Parish, Rumukrushi,PortHarcourt and she was a member of the protocol department at House On The Rock (HOTR), where she worshiped when she started work in Lagos. 

She was a Christian till the Lord called her home. 

Judith was a very loyal friend and her alliances with her close friends span several years. Her friends cut across different social strata, ages, culture, geographies and religion. She was indeed a jolly good fellow and the soul of any party and conversation. She was a friend in-deed. 

Our Achuki lived to the fullest: she was fun loving, adventurous, a fashionista and extremely down to earth. She was very humble and loyal, loved fiercely, was unassuming, selfless and generous to her nephews and nieces, loving family and numerous friends.

As Christians, we are at peace with Judith’s transition to her final  home with the Lord, as we have hope. Albeit she will be sorely missed and will live forever in the hearts of: Ifeanyi & Segun Oyewo, Lauretta Okolo, Anne and John Addeh, Roselyne and Joe Ulaeto, Joe and Susan Okolo, Yemisi and Ade Ajeyori, Ayobami and Dayo Kuyoro, Michael and Pero Oyewo, Odalo and Osato Addeh, Chialuka Okolo, Olisa Okolo, Samuel-Paul Ulaeto, Omene Addeh, Sharon Okolo, her grand nieces and nephews, the entire Okolo and Esedebe families as well as the numerous lives she touched during her short stay here on earth.  

We pray that God will receive her into His bossom and grant her eternal rest with His beloved in Jesus name amen . 

Rest In Peace our beloved sister, aunt, grand aunt, and cousin, as you join Papa and Mama till we all meet to part no more. 

Recent stories
March 24, 2020
Am short of word's right now, Just remembered my friend Judith now and decided to log into my Google Account,and am seeing a memory of My friend Judith since last year 2019,pls what happened to Juddy,we lost contact since 2018, when I misplaced my phone,Is Judith really death or sick,pls somebody should pls explain to me,am confused,is her friend Boma from Port Harcourt,we we're together in Rccg Revelation parish when she was in Port Harcourt,Rivers State Nigeria.oh Judith I don't believe it ooo.pls I need her Elder sisters, Aunty Ann's,Phone number.

Still hoping it's not true Deedee

March 7, 2019

I am yet to come to terms with your sudden demise Deedee. Even though I sprinkled sand on your casket: I am still blocked mentally. 

Don't know why but I still see you in my mind's eye and now more in my dreams. 

I continue to pray for your soul my beloved. Rest in peace till we meet in heaven in eternity in Jesus name amen.  

Didi Idibon

February 18, 2019

Nwagbo (According to Papa) Adaukwu (according to Uncle Mike) Didi, Idibon, last born, baby sister (siblings) Achuki (nephews and nieces). You were born immediately after Nigeria's civil war, that informed your name Kadizue because every member of our family on both sides survived the war. Even those who crossed to the eastern part of the country all survived. Nne Omeze (Adanwimo) named you Kadizue ndu.  You brought so much joy to the families Okolo and Esedebe. In every situation, we give thanks to God. To God be the glory for the joy of having you with us for that period. We find solace that you are peacefully At Rest with our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ till we meet to part no more. It is well with your soul Baby Sister Judith Kadizue Okolo. The Yoruba adage says In death, you are the eldest. Adieu Achuki Didi Idibon!!!

Big Sister Ifeanyi

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