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This memorial website was created in the memory of our loved one, Judy Salamon, 66, born on April 30, 1947 and passed away on July 24, 2013. We will remember her forever.

April 30, 2021
April 30, 2021
My dear cousin Judy
It's been 8 years since your tragic and untimely departure from our lives. You left a big void in our hearts. We recall your grace, passion, intellect and wit and how your presence filled the room. You are fondly remembered and sadly missed. Love, Liz and George
April 30, 2021
April 30, 2021
I remember Judy for her strong opinions, for dealing with the pain and hardships she encountered in her life, for her intellect and commitment to social justice, for her musical talent which she freely shared, for embracing life and having explored the beauty and release of being a sexy flamenco dancer.
Judy you remain in my heart.
April 30, 2020
April 30, 2020
Thinking of Judy on her birthday. Missing her big smile, her wisdom and her friendship. I truly miss you!
July 24, 2019
July 24, 2019
Dear Judy,
You are missed today as much as six years ago. Your spirit will continue to inspire us.
Carlos
April 30, 2019
April 30, 2019
Dear Judy,
Another year has passed without you in our lives, but it is good to remember your passion and elegance and continue to be inspired.
Love, Liz and George
April 30, 2018
April 30, 2018
Dear cousin, Five years since you are no longer with us. We will forever remember your grace, wit and laughter. Missing you, Liz
July 28, 2017
July 28, 2017
Fondly remembering your beautiful spirit Judy.
Love, your cousin Liz
April 30, 2016
April 30, 2016
Remembering dear cousin Judy; a ray of sunshine, an independent spirit living life fully. Taken from us too soon! May your Soul rest in peace. Love Liz
July 27, 2015
July 27, 2015
My dear Cousin Judy,
Know that you are loved and missed. We can all learn from you to be more passionate and more alive every day.
May your Soul Rest in Eternal Peace.
Love, Liz
April 30, 2015
April 30, 2015
Beaitufully said Joe Douek! Remembering my complex and passionate aunt Judy on her 68th birthday. I think of her often lastely since adopting a kitten a few months ago. Never had a cat and never really understood why she was so taken with them and their "personalities", but now...I get it! Who knew! May you rest in peace Judy and know you are in our hearts and minds always.
April 30, 2015
April 30, 2015
Judy, You live on in my mind with the energy, grace and elegance of flamenco. I remember fondly your musical talents, your wry wit, your way of expressing your opinions and emotions--letting us know with immediacy and without reserve how you felt about things. I remember your courage in forging on in life despite adversity. You have a special place in my heart and in the collective memories of our family and of your community. Glad to celebrate your birth.
April 30, 2015
April 30, 2015
Remembering my dear cousin Judy on her Birthday.
May your Soul be at Peace.
April 29, 2015
April 29, 2015
Happy birthday, dear friend. You would have been 68 today.
July 24, 2014
July 24, 2014
It has been a year... and I miss you the same. I miss our conversations and walking Echo by the beach.
June 9, 2014
June 9, 2014
My dear Cousin Judy,
Beautiful and full of Life. Forever remembered!
Love, Lizi
May 1, 2014
May 1, 2014
Thinking of Aunt Judy especially on her birthday. I am grateful to the Oakland police for their persistency in finding her murderers and giving her family and friends some closure. I hope she is at peace and knows she was loved by many.
April 30, 2014
April 30, 2014
Remembering Judy and missing her on her birthday. I hope she's resting even more peacefully given recent news. Echo and Cossette are very happy pups, and we all miss her very much.
August 21, 2013
August 21, 2013
Judy was a wonderful aunt and I'm so happy about this tribute site. All my life I knew Judy as someone who truly cared about others. We loved her: my grandparents, my mother, my father, my siblings, and I up here in Canada. Her memory is a blessing. The pictures of Judy uploaded to this site are incredible, and Lakmé is the perfect piece to convey the music in her soul. She loved life.
August 14, 2013
August 14, 2013
I am Judy's niece (Agi's daughter) and have so many memories of her. She was passionate, bright and an axitic beauty. Her passing is so tragic. I hope and pray her death is not in vain and that reduced crime in Oakland and neighborhood watches will be her legacy. She will be missed my so many.
August 14, 2013
August 14, 2013
My heart breaks to lose you, my little Sister! I could never have imagined such a tragedy! Rest in peace, surrounded by beautiful music, until we meet again!
August 12, 2013
August 12, 2013
Although I didn't know Judy personally, as I peruse Judy's memorial website, the weight & magnitude of this tragic end really hits home...as a fellow Oakland & Maxwell Park neighbor...with my 2-year old next to me on the couch feeding her baby doll & my 6 month-old in the kitchen with mommy making dinner...the life reflections still hit very close to home. We love you Judy & miss you.
August 12, 2013
August 12, 2013
Querida Judy:
Se que sabes esto ya...pero quiero repetirte en alta voz cuanto te extrana Luz-y! Aprendimos mucho de ti y siempre estaras en nuestros corazones. Gracias Judy!
August 12, 2013
August 12, 2013
Dear Judy....
  I never met you in this lifetime... i would have loved to. When i saw your picture i knew everything about you in an instant... your compassion for humanity and animals..... your big spirit and energy...
your humble Jewish roots...... Even now you are feeding the soul of the world! love always
August 9, 2013
August 9, 2013
My dear, sweet, brilliant, sad Judy how I miss you! Since I met you by the door to our first MA class in 1971/ '72 I have admired and loved you as a very very special lady. We shared a love for literature, music, opera and nature. You were so good at so many things! I remember I parallel parked with you in the passenger seat turning the steering wheel and me pressing the gas! What a loss!
August 3, 2013
August 3, 2013
I am so pleased and impressed to see the outpouring of love shown by Judy's friends and neighbors at her candlelight vigil. Eric, you did well organizing this sad but fitting tribute. As we all know, Judy could be pretty contentious, and it's great to see the great many people who honored and respected her, knowing the inherent goodness in her heart. I will truly miss her.
August 3, 2013
August 3, 2013
Judy was a beautiful and brilliant woman who led a rich and fascinating life. She spoke five (six?) languages and read voraciously. We had long, wonderful talks about everything under the sun. She was extremely chic, and shopping with her was a lot of fun. She had great style, wit, and personality. Judy was *not* a "vanilla" kind of girl. More like smoked paprika!

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April 30, 2021
April 30, 2021
My dear cousin Judy
It's been 8 years since your tragic and untimely departure from our lives. You left a big void in our hearts. We recall your grace, passion, intellect and wit and how your presence filled the room. You are fondly remembered and sadly missed. Love, Liz and George
April 30, 2021
April 30, 2021
I remember Judy for her strong opinions, for dealing with the pain and hardships she encountered in her life, for her intellect and commitment to social justice, for her musical talent which she freely shared, for embracing life and having explored the beauty and release of being a sexy flamenco dancer.
Judy you remain in my heart.
April 30, 2020
April 30, 2020
Thinking of Judy on her birthday. Missing her big smile, her wisdom and her friendship. I truly miss you!
Recent stories

Luz-y still remember you...

July 24, 2014

Judy: Luz-y still remember everything to taugth her. She is a healthy, grow girl. She is so playfull, loving and caring. Today and always you are on our mind and hearts.

Luz's- family

Love this picture!

August 9, 2013

So beautiful! I love her glamorpuss pics from her dancing days.

Dauphine comes to Alameda

August 5, 2013

I first met Judy at a shopping center in Alameda.  I was with my daughter and a friend of hers walking through the parking lot on the way to get ice cream.  We had two aging toy poodles at the time, and the first thing I noticed was not Judy, but a small white toy poodle bursting with energy walking her human companion and another small dog (Echo). The dog's enthusiasm was matched by my daughter's enchantment.  "Mama, look, that dog is so cute!"  The next thing I heard was "Do you want her?"  It was Judy's voice, and what struck me was how reminiscent the voice was of women in my extended family.  It was a surprisingly low voice for such a diminutive woman.  I was taken aback at how direct the question was.  Judy went on to marvel at the dog's demeanor around the girls.  "I didn't know how she would be around children.  She appears to really like them."  The two girls and the small dog were in a loving circle by then, and I was making a cell phone call to my husband.  I felt like I was under a strange spell that must have somehow been transmitted to my husband, who under normal circumstances I'm positive would never have agreed to adopt a dog on the spot.

That was how we first met Judy, and Cossette (previously known as "Dauphine"). Before we could figure out the logistics of integrating Cossette into our pack of two older toy poodles, Judy guided us on the paperwork, inspected our home, and insisted that we were the right home for the sweet little dog.  It wasn't until the final drop off that Judy admitted "I didn't think I could let her go.  This is a heartbreak for me."  And that's how Judy became our dog walker and friend.  I was awe struck by the strengh it must have taken for Judy to let go of the animals she fostered, and often rescued from near death experiences.  We agreed that Judy would come at least once a week to walk our whole brood.  

That was two years ago.  Since then, Judy has coaxed our older female toy poodle out of a grumy stupor and seen us through the death of our beloved Cujo, Harpy's brother.  She has always been there for us in many ways, stayed in our home when we've traveled, and come to our house for July 4th barbecues two year's running.  Judy and I always talked about grabbing that cup of coffee, so that we could continue the quick conversations we had during pet pick up or drop off when I was working at home.  Judy was obviously well educated, interesting, interested in many things, and we shared many of those interests.  We never got around to that cup of coffee, and I will always regret it.

My human and animal families miss Judy terribly.  She was a wonderful mix of fragile, gritty, and warm, and was never afraid to tell me what to do.  Rest in peace Judy.

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