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This memorial website was created in the memory of our loved one, Judy Wood, 67, born on June 27, 1945 and passed away on November 15, 2012 after an eight month battle with cancer. She fought to the end. We will remember her forever.

November 15, 2022
November 15, 2022
It's unimaginable to me - and nearly unbelievable - that you've been gone for 10 years. I feel you with me so often. Thank you for giving me so much while you were alive that I can continue our conversations and still hear your voice and your advice all these years later.
November 15, 2021
November 15, 2021
It's hard to believe that nine years have passed. I feel strongly connected to you through the ether, through the knowledge that your energy is still with me. I wish I could pick up the phone and call you, but I believe you can hear me in some way I don't really understand. I love you and miss you, always.
June 27, 2020
June 27, 2020
You'd be 75 today and more than anything I'm struck by how much I want to call you and tell you everything that's happened since you've been gone. I often imagine what creative names you'd come up with for DT or how you'd find a creative solution to smoke breaks with a mask during the pandemic. And I want to tell you all about the book, and yet it only exists because you no longer do. I love you and I take your memory with me everywhere I go.
June 27, 2018
June 27, 2018
Another birthday, and I miss you as I do everyday, only even more so. Every year I say I can't believe how much time has passed since your death, and it's never less true that it was the time before. I take your memory with me everywhere I go. I love you more than ever.
November 15, 2017
November 15, 2017
I can't believe it's been five years since you were with us. So much has happened, and there's so much I wish you could see. (Of course there's plenty you'd be glad you didn't have to witness, too.) I love you and I miss you, always.
June 27, 2017
June 27, 2017
Today would have been your 72nd birthday, and the 5th since you've been gone. It's hard to believe so much time has passed. I wish I could share wth you all the things that have changed since your death. I can only imagine what you'd make of President Trump, just for starters. I haven't been to visit your tree and your bench in a bit over a year, but I make cairns for you everywhere I travel, and I'm posting a few from this year today on your birthday. I know you can't read these words, but it makes me feel better to type them anyway. I love you, mom!
November 15, 2016
November 15, 2016
So much has changed in the time you've been gone, and yet I can hardly believe four years has passed. I feel like just yesterday I could have picked up the phone to talk about all the things that have happened. I will always love you and miss you.
November 15, 2014
November 15, 2014
Miss you, Judy. It's so hard to believe that I have not been with you for 2 years. I am writing this from my new iPhone 6, and since you were the "Apple Queen" I can't help but think that you would be happy about that.
November 15, 2014
November 15, 2014
I miss you every day. Today Will and I walked in the Navy yard, then visited your tree and bench, then toured the Eastern State Penitentiary, where a guard told a funny story you would have loved. I also learned that you took Lottie, Lisa and Rich there for Halloween one year. Then Aunt Susan, Uncle Harold, Barb, and Mark had dinner with Will and me at Downeys and we remembered you with stories. You are with me every day, but I miss you always.
November 15, 2013
November 15, 2013
I miss you so much. It's so hard to believe a whole year has gone by. I think of you every day. As we approach Thanksgiving, one year later, I'm grateful to have been your daughter, and so grateful for your life. The world is not the same without you. I love you.
November 15, 2013
November 15, 2013
Thinking of you and missing you Judy, as it's hard to believe it's been one year ago that you left us all. Tonight after work Shirley and I are mtg up at one of your favorite spots "Art After 5" & how appropriate as we had so many FUN times "Painting the Town Red" together on Fridays after work! Take care my Very Good Friend, until we meet again! With Love, Donna
June 27, 2013
June 27, 2013
Thinking of my sweet sister on her birthday. I miss you, but I am so glad that you are not suffering! You never complained through it all. I know that I could not have been that way. Your bench looks beautiful and I love benches. Harold makes fun of me, but I stop at every bench I can. I think it is so peaceful to sit on a bench and look and hear what's going on around.
May 12, 2013
May 12, 2013
Today is our first Mothers Day without you, and I miss you more than ever. I know we weren't big on celebrations, and were rarely together on Mothers Day, but today is so different without you. I love you!
April 30, 2013
April 30, 2013
I knew Judy just briefly; a very kind and decent woman. I did not know of her passing until today, my condolences on her passing
March 1, 2013
March 1, 2013
To Judy~~So many laughs from high school to our days at St Stephen's, and now I find out that you are with the Angels!! God bless your family~~I know they miss you!!

From all your friends from Feasterville, please smile down on us!~~we need it!!
November 23, 2012
November 23, 2012
It has been an enormous privilege to have known you, to have laughed with you and to have seen you with that wonderful loving family that you gave to us all. You will be forever in our hearts, our minds and our thoughts. Michael
November 23, 2012
November 23, 2012
Dear Judy, you were fun, you were amusing, you were adventurous, you taught us many things, and you always made us smile. But above all you were brave. You let nothing deter you from your goal of beating the illness that took you from us. Nor did you let it in any way diminish that light that you allowed to shine for us.
November 22, 2012
November 22, 2012
Happy Thanksgiving! You are in our thoughts today!
November 22, 2012
November 22, 2012
This Thanksgiving I am grateful for the life of my mother, and for the support and love of all those whose lives touched hers and were somehow changed. I am enormously saddened by losing her, but I am thankful that a corner of the world was richer for her presence, her quirkiness, and all she brought with her. It has been one week since she passed. This Thanksgiving is for her.
November 21, 2012
November 21, 2012
Judy, I am having trouble finding the right words to pay tribute to you. I love you. I miss you. Thanks for being a fantastic aunt. You helped me discover who I am and how to be. You could always show me how to tilt my perspective and see things differently. You had charm and grace and spirit that brightened my life. Blessings
November 21, 2012
November 21, 2012
Judy, you were such an amazing aunt. You had a great way of putting everyone at ease. You were the most empathetic person, you could always relate and understand. I have many memories of you but your bright smile and postive loving spirit shine the brightest in my mind. You taught me to fight and persevere. There is not enough room to explain what you have meant to me. I Love you
November 21, 2012
November 21, 2012
When I was in Philly, you were my greatest friend. I love you and miss you. Kamau
November 21, 2012
November 21, 2012
Judy we loved you and we and we still do. I Azariah remember how we would always stand up for each other. Your fight was long and your heart was strong and you will always be remembered. I will love you forever, I will like you for always, and as long as forever in my heart you will be.
November 21, 2012
November 21, 2012
We are very heartbroken at Judy's passing and are very sorry that we can't be with you during this difficult time. I remember the first time I met her at the Imagine It! Museum. We shared a conversation about jewelry. We will always remember holidays and special occasions spent with her. She was a very generous and kind-hearted woman. Our prayers and thoughts are with you and your family.
November 20, 2012
November 20, 2012
I only had the pleasure of meeting Judy once in person. My wife and I met her and Elizabeth for lunch on South Street, and it was a wonderful and patently entertaining meal. I regret that I didn't have the pleasure of more of her company, and the world is less charming for her passing. Love to Elizabeth and the family.
November 18, 2012
November 18, 2012
I was profoundly saddened by the news that your mother had passed away.  The last time I saw her, probably two years ago, she was in good spirits and looked well, so the e-mail from Donna about her death came as a shock. I am horribly upset that I did not know the gravity of her illness, since I would have wanted to spoke with her. I am sure that you know that I so enjoyed the many years at Pe
November 18, 2012
November 18, 2012
Judy, it was such a pleasure and honor for me to know you. Your humor and kindness will always be remembered. Rest peacefully.
November 18, 2012
November 18, 2012
Judy, you will be sorely missed. It did much for morale to have you take on seemingly intractable tasks and fix them with such good humour and warm smile. Your memory endures with me, even as full retirement finds me working from home.
November 17, 2012
November 17, 2012
Hi Judy!
Thank you for your hospitality, your greatness and your help. You were my neighbor, my colleague and proud to say my friend.
November 16, 2012
November 16, 2012
I can't describe the enormous sadness I feel at losing you. Your fight was a long and difficult one that took up with courage and incredible persistence. You will always be my hero.
November 16, 2012
November 16, 2012
Judy, wise and brave woman, showed me how to enjoy each moment in life. We shared wonderful times with Donna and members of the CRRWH. You will be always with us.
November 16, 2012
November 16, 2012
Judy was a real sweetheart. I will always remember her willingness to help out on so many projects. More than anything, her ability to tackle any challenge with a sense of humor was a joy. She was also so proud of her children and grandchildren!! We will miss her very much.
November 16, 2012
November 16, 2012
What can I say about my sister---I will miss her. She was kind and gentle and caring. All who knew her have fond, funny memories of times together. My family loved her and will miss her. We are glad that she has no more suffering.
November 16, 2012
November 16, 2012
Your mom may be gone, but will live inside you always. She lives on through you, Becky and the boys. The sadness is so great now but hope that soon it can be replaced with smiles when you think of the love you share and good times you all had together. I know it meant the world to have you by her side these last 6 months.
November 16, 2012
November 16, 2012
Judy was alot of fun and we had many good times together with Shirley and other coworkers during these last 15 + yrs we've been friends, both inside and outside the office. Girlfriend nights out on the town, Art After 5, restaurant week, etc & Judy was the 1st one to ever take me to South Street. I will miss you Judy and I'll cherish the memories , Love you!!!
November 16, 2012
November 16, 2012
You were the best mother -in-law a guy could ask for. I'm grateful for all the time you were able to spend with me and my kids. I'm especially gonna miss your warm personality around the house for the holidays. You helped make the family complete. Your legacy will live on through your exceptional daughters and grandkids. 
Love you...

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November 15, 2022
November 15, 2022
It's unimaginable to me - and nearly unbelievable - that you've been gone for 10 years. I feel you with me so often. Thank you for giving me so much while you were alive that I can continue our conversations and still hear your voice and your advice all these years later.
November 15, 2021
November 15, 2021
It's hard to believe that nine years have passed. I feel strongly connected to you through the ether, through the knowledge that your energy is still with me. I wish I could pick up the phone and call you, but I believe you can hear me in some way I don't really understand. I love you and miss you, always.
June 27, 2020
June 27, 2020
You'd be 75 today and more than anything I'm struck by how much I want to call you and tell you everything that's happened since you've been gone. I often imagine what creative names you'd come up with for DT or how you'd find a creative solution to smoke breaks with a mask during the pandemic. And I want to tell you all about the book, and yet it only exists because you no longer do. I love you and I take your memory with me everywhere I go.
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Reading Glasses

November 16, 2015

Yesterday, I remembered you by taking goofy pictures with Sid and your reading glasses. I think you'd have liked this photo especially because of the surprised look on Sid's face. I love you and miss you, Mom!

Me, Becky and Casey, with your bench and tree

June 29, 2013

Mom, today we held a dedication and memorial for you. We dedicated your bench and tree, which were donated by your friends, colleagues, and family. You would love the spot. It is just on the river side of the Italian Fountain, which is outside the west entrance of the Art Museum, and next to the Water Works. Lots of your friends from work came, but this picture is of Becky and me with Casey. We made sure he knew how special he was to us, because of how special he was to you. I miss you and I love you and though you have departed this life, I feel your presence very strongly, and it makes me happy to know that through this tree you live on, and through this bench you continue to help others. I really don't know how to say goodbye to you, so I won't. I will just say I love you. 

Dedication and memorial - June 29, 2013

June 29, 2013

Today we held a dedication and memorial for Judy, my mother. We dedicated a bench and a tree that were donated by friends, colleagues and family, to Fairmount Park Commission and placed near the Philadelphia Water Works, outside the west entrance to the Philadelphia Museum of Art. This photo is of my partner Will and me standing beside the tree. Hanging from the tree is a collection of paper hearts on which were written lots of things that people remembered about her. Perhaps the most common sentiments had to do with her helpfulness to others and her sense of humor and optimism. People also remembered her style: the funky reading glasses, the unique food choices. (We had peanut butter on hot dogs back at Aunt Susan's, and everybody loved them!)

Many people took photos, and I'm sure soon there will be more uploaded here.  

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