Julia and I were best friends in high school. I was one of the very few of us who went from Catholic grammar school into the wild world of public high school. She befriended me, but I don't recall when, and she and Nancy were like sisters to me. Julia's parents were my "second parents" and provided a safe place for me when the childhood I was living was hell. I am forever grateful to them for being normal parents. We spent so much time together shopping, sunbathing, swimming in her parent's pool and so many more things. Later in life, we became friends again and it was like no time had passed whatsoever. We talked on the phone daily. She was all but retired and I hoped she wasn't lonely. Our phone calls were comfort. Our parting was not anticipated and it has been sad ever since. We loved our kitties, and she even named one of mine after I described him to her. I'd just rescued two (after the other 7)... She suggested "Sundance", and I still have him and he's still dancing lightly at 17 on his crippled legs (from birth it seems). I loved that she loved her kitties, too. Madonna was one of her beloveds. To see the photos of her with a beautiful white long-haired kitty is fitting, as it is elegant, sleek, pure and innocent. I have missed my friend over these long years, but I hope she now knows that love never ends and I have never stopped loving her, my Scorpio best friend. I send my love and condolences to all of you family and friends of hers. I'm still in utter shock and tears... She left too soon. Visit me and let me know you're OK in your beautiful, colorful butterfly wings. So long for now - we will be together on the other side someday. Love never ends.