Wow! Wow! Wow! It's just over a year that you relocated to the heavenlies but memories of you are still fresh. You will always be fondly remembered for your kindness.

Great Grand Ma J, thanks be to God for the exemplary life that you lived. Indeed you are a ‘Mother in Israel’.

Long before I met you, I have heard so much and known you by your fruits through my beloved Aunty Iyabo and Uncle Michael Larinde.  I was not disappointed when we eventually met in Rome, Italy. I was supposed to ‘Grand Ma Sit’, but you were actually the one who was ‘babysitting’ me. You outperformed beyond my wildest dream for a Grand Ma of your age. You cooked and took extreme good care of me. I enjoyed the evenings of ‘tutoring’ on American politics and other current affairs issues. Great Grand Ma J, your memory was so sharp and you reminded me of Moses whose strength and eyes were not abated despite the age.

Thanks be to God that you have been made righteous through the blood of our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ. You will continue to be in my heart always. As it is written, '......the righteous shall be in everlasting remembrance.' (Psalm 112:6), Great Grand Ma Juliana will be in everlasting remembrance.

I’m sure you’re already enjoying the praise and worship in Heaven before the throne of the Almighty. Well, keep cheering the rest of us still on our journey on. We too will make heaven just like you where we’ll meet to part no more.

May the Holy Spirit continue to comfort and strengthen the family.

You’re Blessed Great Grand Ma J

Dupe & Dayo Fagbenro

Maami today marks a year since you left us for a well-deserved rest in the bosom of Abraham. None-the-less, your memory lingers on more than ever. You were so beautiful, gracious and loving that your departure has left a vacuum in the family. I will always remember you for so many things, amongst them:

1. Your reassuring smiles, warmth, comforting words, unparalleled compassion for me and anyone fortunate enough to look into your soulful, doe-shaped eyes.

2. Memories of the last days I spent with you in your hospital ward – your last days - characterized by sleepless nights, full of twists and turns, yet laden with unforgettable periods of punctuated humor.

3. Your loving spirits and caring attitude. These were greatly displayed in your hospital ward where you tried to comfort other patients when you yourself were in pain.

4. Care and thoughtfulness about your children and their offspring. My mother will always be remembered for crucial roles played at strategic points of my life and that of my family.

5. Our chats while you were taking your therapy in the nursing home. The two months I spent with you in the hospital, trying to encourage you and make light of your suffering.

6. Your validation of who I am in Christ. You helped me believe in myself. You dared me to dream. You always told me the truth and not necessarily what I would like to hear. I hope you knew how much your opinion meant to me.

You are greatly missed mother and I will always love you. It has been one long year without your close companionship, wise guidance, loving and caring attitude as well as patience to listen to my deep thoughts on all issues.

Maami, thank you for all your sacrifices for us all, you will always linger in my memory.

Your daughter,

Hauwa Iyabo Larinde

Ali & Bose Garba, Indiana USA

Our Dear Mama,

We will continue to remember you with a fond smile as the mother, grandmother, and friend who shared her laughter, tears, and dreams through the years.

You lived a godly span of years and enjoyed them all. Laughed a lot, cried a little, you have seen a thousand sunsets. From the time you were a nurse in Kano, Nigeria through your later years in Chicago, you brought so much joy to our lives. You were always there when needed. You performed our traditional wedding ceremony in Nigeria, always called and asked about Maria and Asabe with prayers and blessings. The memories of the years have turned over slowly, like the pages of a book.

Mama, we know you are with The Lord, but in our hearts you will always be alive.  Someone wrote these true words. "A person really never dies while there are those on earth who loved that person . . . One is never gone as long as there are those who remember with fondness . . . and as long as memory evokes a wistful smile. All those who have loved, and who have been loved, have earned a piece of immortality."

You have earned it Mama. Continue to rest in the bosom of The Lord, until we all meet to part no more.

Love Always.

Mr. Wale Oladeinde, Chicago USA

Mama as we all call her is a pleasant and sweet person. Soft spoken with tender loving care. her prayers and thoughtfulness. Always welcoming and accommodating. She advocates no alcoholic drinking but with understanding, she allowed people being entertained.

Genuine love for all. We shall miss Mama greatly.

Sure    Sure   Sure   Mama 'J'

Olubunmi Dan-Ekhator, Editor/Co-CEO, AFRO Life Pan African Magazine Rome; Italy.

Testimony about Mama Juliana Olufunmilayo David' life

The news of mama's death came like a bolt out of the blue because we were all hopeful that mama had pull through and the worse was over. Myself and family had joined with family and well wishers around the world in prayers for a speedy recovery. In spite of the demise, I have no doubt that mama Juliana David had gone to be with the Lord; in fact she is at the bosom of the Lord right now. This assurance is against the backdrop that mama was steadfast in clinging to her Lord who saved her soul. Even at prime, I remember those her days in Rome, in the cold, rain and searing heat of the summer she would join with brethren at our local church (Rome Baptist Church, RBC) to worship. In our prayer group - Agape Group, during some of our all night prayer meetings she would be there. It is also heart warming that mama raised worthy children to the Lord. I can never forget how affable mama was; she would refer to me as her son. On my 50th anniversary thanksgiving on March 29th, 2015, she still called me from her rehabilitation bed to rejoice with me. She was good through and through. I, on behalf of my family, join the family, relatives and well-wishers around the world in celebrating Mama Juliana David for a life well lived. To God be all the glory.

Dan Ekhator, Publisher/CEO, AFRO Life Pan African Magazine, Rome-Italy

Mama, fondly called great Granma by Osayi and Uwa (my children) was a mother to all. She was a charming, committed, and caring woman. She was a pillar in her family; she braved the odds to single-handedly raise outstanding children. She was always willing to help; she would ask whenever we were in the kitchen, "Is there anything I can do for you?" Even though we said no, she would insist. Sometimes we had to practically "drag" her out of the kitchen. She helped with old recipes sometimes. Mama never let her age steadied her down; she was a woman of faith: When she was with us in Rome she would walk a kilometer from where we parked the car to get to church. She never missed a service, even stayed up for night vigils. Mama would admonish me when our children were younger: "Make sure they write the English language well too not just speaking it."  (We live in a non-English speaking country). She never forgot to send the children goodies whenever Aunt Iyabo visited her. She always insisted on sending them things no matter the extra luggage aunt had (laughs).

 Always with a smile. I remember her sonorous voice. Whenever we speak on phone she would ask "Omo mi nko?" (How’s my son?) That's my husband. Then "Awon omo mi nko? (How are my children?).

Mama will surely be missed. We thought we would see you again in Rome but alas your Lord called you home! Rest on Mamma! We love you but He loves you more. Good night ma! Buona notte! Buon nuit! O daro ma! E sunre Mama dada!

Dr. C. Adeyemi & Mrs. G. Olufunmilayo Akiwowo, Chicago USA

Remembering Mrs. Juliana Olufunmilayo David

Mrs. Juliana Olufunmilayo David, fondly called by her children and close family friends as simply Mama “J”, was a kind-hearted, soft-spoken God’s gift to humanity. We had the opportunity to know her over the past 15 plus years and considered her our adopted mother.

Throughout the years Mama “J” was so full of joy of life and was the most truthful mother, grand- mother and great grand-mother. Although she never cared too much for the Chicago area winter weather, nevertheless, she handled all of the adjustment challenges she faced in her new American cultural environment very well during her years in the US.

We are happy to be one of Mama “J’s” adopted couple! A highly respected and patient adult in our community who never address us by our first names, albeit her age status rightfully qualified her to do so; with Mama “J”, it’s  always “baba ibeji” or “mama ibeji”!! She demonstrated agape love and total respect for others she came in contact with, young and old.

We remember how Mama “J” cared so much about the welfare of everyone around her, her sweet smile and constant encouragement for others to “mu suu ru”  (i.e. exercise patience), or “e ma b’inu” (i.e. don’t be angry) whenever she helped others in resolving conflicts in heated or highly charged discussions.

We remember the many good times we had with Mama “J” and her family during Christmas at our home. We will surely miss her absence from this year on.

Mama “J”, we remember and love you but we’re glad you’re in a better place in the bosom of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ.

Rest in Perfect Peace

Professor Uthman Erogbogbo, Chicago, USA

"Mama J" - Sweet Mother: A true mother that commanded respect, love and admiration of all just for being angelic, loving and caring. She was truly transparent, soft and genuine invoking the image of a loving mother. Always welcoming everyone with such pleasantries that only a true mother can give. Sitting with "Mama J" espoused a genuine feeling of sitting with your own mother. Biologically not mine but miraculously still mine. A very fair and just mother, always asking about your wellbeing and that of family and loved ones individually. " How are you my son? How is my wife? How is my Joy? And so on........... Everyone belonged to Mama and genuinely she asked with such sincerity and love. Yes, Mama was an angel amongst the living and now she has returned to join her peers. She will be sorely missed. Fly high Mama with the Angels, you have earned your wings. We will remember you in our prayers for you deserve the best. May the Almighty accept you into His bosom and grant you a mansion in Paradise. Sleep well Mama. The world has lost a giant.

Ms. Olayinka David, Kano, Nigeria

My life, my love, my mother.

My dear precious mother has gone home to be with the Lord. This piece is about a woman that is kind, generous, strong, honest, humble and a wonderful mother. We asked GOD for a miracle when she was ill, the miracle came, maybe not the one that we would have liked, but it came. GOD still performed a greater miracle by ending her personal home on earth for a greater mansion in heaven. Maami I will miss you, you are one of the most caring, and loving mother.

Life itself is of little or no significance except for the impact it has on others’ lives. Maami you have impacted on us and many others.

Your life style was simple and an epitome of humility, this life style is what I took to and prayed to be my inheritance from you and not wealth.

Maami I still see you in the spirit, I have even seen and I know words cannot express what you have meant to me all these years. You are the true definition of a mother. Rest in perfect peace Maami, I Love you and always will, till we meet again at Jesus feet.

Good Night! Maami!

Pastor and Deaconess Paul and Oye Faleti, Lagos Nigeria

Thank you for the gift of love.

Now you're sharing it up above.

You had many things to say,

All in a caring way.

You always saw good in everyone,

No matter what they've done.

You were always the one we could all lean on,

Even though it must have felt like a ton.

You were always the strength of the family.

Now we must let you rest calmly.

We say goodbye,

As tears roll down our eyes.

I know your place in heaven has a good view.

You're telling God,

I need to keep an eye on a few.

I know you will always be in our hearts and minds.

So Grandma,

I must go, but I'll never forget you're one of a kind.

Ibrahim Kailani, Port of Spain, Trinidad and Tobago

My tribute to my mother.  MOTHER of mine. Besides God, you gave me hope, life and love and I owe you everything I have to you. Mother sweet mother of mine. Mother of mine When I was young, you showed me the right way things should be done Without your love, Where would l have been? Mother, sweet Mother of mine. Mother, you gave me happiness, much more than words can say, I pray that your gentle spirit be in perfect peace till we meet at the feet of Jesus.  Mother of mine, oh sweet mother of mine. Love you so much, Thank you Mother of mine. 

Oyenike Hannatu Osogbue, Lagos NigeriaTribute to a Great Mother - Mammy

Gold is never found on the surface of the earth, so are great mothers like you. A very special mother indeed. The news of your transition to glory was neither shocking nor sudden because you have reached a ripe age. Your life meant many things to many people and different things to different people but all in the positive. You were a truly mighty mother having raised all the seeds that God gave you or brought your way in the course of your journey on earth.

You were very caring, loving. considerate, accommodating and committed to the well-being of all around you. You valued and encouraged every child to reach out for the best; you led like a general with full focus and determination. Yes, your life counted so much and made others to count too. Like the rain, you refreshed and enlivened all, and like the sun, you gave light and brightened the pathways of all that came your way.

Your legendary legacies are innumerable, I love you so much and wished to continue having you but the journey of life is such that has an end for and to all living beings. I will miss your cares, wisdom, counsel, etc., but my consolation is anchored on the fact that you are in the bosom of the living God and we are among those that have hope. So till we meet to part no more, I will say goodnight Mama, rest most peacefully in heaven. Adieu Mama, Adieu Mammy.

Segun, Moji, Daniel and all Sisters, Ayo, Motunde & Bose, Indiana USA

Maami as she was popularly called by all the children. Maami is a caring mother. Her caring personality probably stems from the fact that she was a nurse for so many years. Her caring attitude was one of the reasons Moji went into the nursing career. Maami loves all of us her children, she will always refer to us as Eyin omo mi. always very concerned about how each one of us is faring and how we are progressing in life.

Above all, Maami is a Godly woman, prayer warrior and God fearing.  She lives by example.

We are really going to miss her in the flesh, but we know she is in the bosoms of the Lord

Maami we love you dearly, but God loves you more. Sleep well, sweet mother.

Mr. Toyin Larinde, Chicago USA

My Grandma and my best friend

God has blessed me with the opportunity to live with my Grandma for the last few years since I moved to Chicago and I am very grateful for that. She was my grandmother and best friend. The last few years I have been able to spend countless time with my beloved Grandma from accompanying me downtown to attending Easter plays at church to just taking her with me as I go to do some errands.

Grandma has a great sense of humor and I had the opportunity to listen to countless stories of hers life but the three things that I will remember most about my Grandmother was her love for God, her spirit of thankfulness, and her giving heart. As she woke up and before she went to sleep, Grandma usually would spend time in her bible and she would always tell us, “When two or three are gathered together in my name, there am I in the midst of them” and would insist we all in the house pray together. No matter how small the task be it helping her make her bed or getting toothpaste for her at Walmart Grandma would always remember to tell me, “Toyin thank you for helping me make my bed “, “Toyin thank you for helping me get that tooth paste” or “Toyin thank you for getting me that food” and she would always end it with God bless you. Out of the little money she had she would consistently give me money to send to her children all around the world that were on her heart and also causes like Saint Jude’s children and the Our Daily Bread Christian Devotional. 

Thank you Grandma for spirit of generosity and thankfulness that God has blessed you with and the living example that you have given to me to follow and that I will never forget. You are dearly loved and missed.

My earliest memory of Grandma was one that came to mind on the day of her death, though I did not know that she passed at the time.  I remember her arriving at the airport from Nigeria when I was about 5 or 6. I also remember being excited to see her and running towards her. I don’t recall whether or not I cried out “Grandma!” upon seeing her, but what I do recall is that her arms were wide open to receive me and she had a big, vibrant, welcoming smile on her face. It is this particular memory that I believe exemplifies the warmth and love that was ever a part of her, and that my world and the world at-large will sorely miss in the months and years to come.

What do I mean by “warmth and love?” Well, to start, she was generous, at times to a fault. Whether tithing to the church, donating to a charity, or blessing grandchildren with a little pocket money, the “International Bank of Grandma” was always open. St. Jude Children’s Hospital should have named a wing in her honor for all of the funds she sent them over the years. Needless to say she did not begrudge giving, but freely gave of what she had to all that had need.

I believe that she was able to give so easily due to her relationship with God. We grandchildren would always joke among ourselves that if anyone of us were going to heaven, Grandma would be at the head of the line. We said this because we were witnesses to the hours weekly she spent reading and studying the Bible, praying incessantly, and singing hymns whenever the mood took her. In an age where most people were finding excuses not to attend church, Grandma was always eager to go, at times waking us up when our alarms or internal clocks failed us. I did not use the word “relationship” lightly; the Word teaches us that He is a rewarder of those who diligently seek Him, and I believe that few could meet the standard that Grandma set.

The depth of her caring, especially for her family members, was fathomless. This was not only seen in her generosity and her prayers over us, but also at times in her admonishments. There were times when I did not meet her expectations, yet instead of berating me, she tended to implore me to do better. She was so adept at expressing the pain of her disappointment that she could make one cry with gentle words, an achievement that others could only accomplish with vitriol or corporal punishment. Yet though she may wound, she bound up at the same time, bestowing words of blessing that encouraged me and others to keep pressing forward.

I feel like I could fill up several pages with ways that Grandma touched my life and those of others. I have not begun to speak of her sense of humor (hint: oyinbo have no business climbing up mountains), or of her wisdom that came from a lifetime of experience, or of the deliciousness of her weekly after-church Sunday meals at the compound on Church Road in Kano, but no matter how much I type I will forever fail to do Grandma justice. She was one of a kind, and I am proud to be her grandson. To Grandma: I love you, and I miss you terribly, yet I know you have gone ahead to help prepare the way for us all.

Toyin Ogunlaiye. Lagos, Nigeria

MAAMI O, J MAMA

What shall I say unto the Lord? All I have to say is thank you Lord. For the life my mother lived I say thank you.

J Mama, as I fondly called her was a Mother in Israel. She was selfless and brought us, her children, up in the way of the Lord. She loved to sing hymns and psalms. I will miss her prayers over the phone.

J Mama loved to read and watch television. She was very knowledgeable about happenings around her.

I will miss her greatly, but I am comforted with the fact that she is resting in the bosom of her Lord.

Goodnight J Mama, I love you but God loves you best.

Goodnight Ma.

Tunde Ogunlaiye, Lagos Nigeria

Sweet Mother

Sweet memories abound, but I choose to celebrate the hands that nurtured the ‘love of my life’.

J Mama! The soft-spoken matriarch whose quiet dignity and eloquent decorum conquered many, they say even the strong and rebellious. Single-parent, but with dexterous hands prepared my garden well fragranced and beautiful. I bless her gentle soul for nurturing and giving me my wife and my friend.

A mother indeed, J mama shaped and nurtured many children, apart from her own, with discipline, love and care. She resolved early in life “as for me and my house, we will serve the LORD”. And as a pilgrim she travelled the ancient path of the LORD all her days that we might follow her foot-prints.

Ma mi, may He that is altogether lovely beautify your gentle soul for all eternity.

Akintayo David Ogunlaiye, Lagos, Nigeria

Grandma to me was the embodiment of purity. Her life painted a perfect picture of what it means to love and to be a true Christian. Although I didn't get to spend a lot of time with her because of distance, I will always cherish the brief moments of conversation we shared. I look at my mum and her siblings and I am filled with respect and admiration; it takes a super woman to single handedly raise a lot of responsible children. I thank God she lived a long and fulfilling life. She will always have a special place in my heart. I have no doubt that she's in heaven looking down at all of us, smiling. Rest in Peace Ma.

Mr. Sope Ogunlaiye.Lagos Nigeria

A Tribute to My Precious Grand Mother.

As I look back within the short period grandma spent with us in Nigeria, four years ago, she gave joy, happiness and inspiration to all. Most people say you don’t get to know the true character of a person unless you have lived with them for some time but grandma's case was different. In the few months she spent with us she actually couldn’t hide the fact that she loved and cared for her children and us, grandchildren very much.

Grandma was one of a kind; she was like a book of poetry, beautiful page after page. And in her very last second on this earth before her golden heart stopped beating God put His loving arms around her and whispered “come to me”.

God broke our hearts only to prove that He takes only the best. Grandma you're the best and your legacy lives on in the lives of so many, and it lives on in me!

May your gentle soul rest in peace in Jesus name Amen.

Oluwasayo Ogunlaiye.Babcok University, Inishan, Nigeria

A Virtuous woman

My grandma was an excellent person whom I admired in many ways.

She was morally upright, trustworthy, charitable, respected, prudent, Wise and even more.

She was a woman of class, dignity and distinction.

Grandma, thank you for shaping my mother through whom you have shaped my life. You truly lived; not only for yourself but for us all.

I remember the last time you came to Nigeria; you were fun to be around with. Unlike most elderly people you did not depend on others, but chose to do certain chores by yourself. You were very peaceful, no wahala (trouble) what so ever.

These are some few memories I have which will last forever in my heart because they have shaped my outlook in life.

Thank you ma, for being part of my life. You will be greatly missed.

Dr. Michael Abimbola Larinde, Rome Italy

It is not an easy task to say enough about a woman who is an embodiment of all that is good as espoused in the virtuous woman of the book of proverbs (Proverbs 31:10-31). I first met Mama Juliana David in May 1974 and this encounter has led to an enduring relationship as I eventually became her son through my marriage to her daughter, Iyabo, in 1976. I could still not come to term with the fact that Mama has departed barely after clocking 90 past Easter Sunday. Our Virgil around her hospital bed in the last three months had brought out the best of her faith. At the time of our evening devotion, she would inject her melodious voice into Christian songs being played from my I pad.

In collating tributes received about her, the following recurring adjectives/phrases/description keep propping up - God-fearing, Christ-centered, unconditional love,  loving, sympathetic, jovial, adoption of diverse people as her children "omo mi"; genuine love, charity, prayer warrior, strong, honest, humble, soft-spoken matriarch, discipline, accommodating, legacies, embodiment of purity, the best, morally upright, trustworthy, charitable, respected, prudent, class, dignity and distinction, fun to be around with, affable, charming, committed, and caring woman, “mu suru”  (i.e. exercise patience), or “e ma b’inu” (i.e. don’t be angry), commanded respect and allied expressions. With all these traits, it is little wonder that she had been adopted as mother, grandmother and great-grand mother in all places she had travelled to or lived. Even in her last days, both at the hospital and rehabilitation center, Mama did not seize to get adopted as parent or grand-parent by nurses, care workers and fellow patients. A really moving incidence was when Mama, herself in pain, walked over to another room where the patient was crying and calling for the attention of nurse/care worker. With my wife and son trailing her behind to see what she was up to, she entered the co-patient room to console her. Like the biblical Dorcas, Mama was full of good works and charitable deeds. We have lost a gem. Mama, you will be missed. We love you but Jesus loves you more. Rest in perfect peace.

It can be said that mama had fought the good fight, finished the race, and remained faithful. We love you dearly and you will be missed. Mama, until we meet on resurrection day. Adios!!

M

Seun Larinde, Texas USA

y Tribute to the Great Matriarch

Wahala ti de. That phrase will always stay stuck in my head. It is one of the sharpest memories of my grandmother. We were in Nigeria visiting for the summer and had spent the night at one of my aunts' house. We would always come back to my grandmother's house during the day. We came up the stairs and she said that phrase, proceeded to greet each of us with that warm smile of hers - knowing full well we would soon start turning things upside down. I don't know why that memory has always stayed with me but I do remember how happy we always were to be there. 

I'm not the best with words or writing to express adequately how I feel about my grandmother. But this I do know. Grandma was one of the best people I have ever known. She was the embodiment of a selfless spirit. Her life was a lesson to all on how we should live. Always gentle, kind, loving, and giving but still stern and firm at the same time. I love you grandma and will really miss you.

I am glad I had visited you a week before you went to the great beyond and had chance to lift up your spirit. I left your bedside with mixed feeling - not knowing what would come next but hoping that the Almighty will give some more time for me to travel back to see you. Alas, our God has a better plan for you. I don't think I fully realized the impact that you had on me till now. Selfishly, I wish you were still here with us. I wish my kids would have gotten a chance to grow up with their gram gram. I wish I had made more time to spend with you to tell you how much I love you. I know you are in a better place now and I hope when you look down on earth from heaven and see me and my life, I will continue to make you smile. Thank you for all the prayer and for Blessing us all with your exemplary life. The example I will try to follow.

Love,

Your eldest grandson

Zee Marongwe, Chicago USA

My Dearest Grandma......

Thank you for being my mother, my grandmother, and my best friend. Taking me with you wherever you went, literarily like your 'handbag '. For drying my tears, believing in me when no one else would, for loving me unconditionally and teaching me the way of the Lord, Grandma I thank you.

You lived a God fearing life, putting God first in all that you do and teaching me to do the same. Therefore, my dearest Grandma I know you are resting in peace in the presence of our

God Almighty; reunited with all those that have gone before you including my Mother.

I pray that God continue to have mercy on your soul and give you eternal peace and rest.

I will forever miss you Grandma; I know you are with me as my God appointed guardian angel and at Gods appointed time we shall meet again never to part.

I love you Grandma..... I know... You love me so much more."

Your Granddaughter, Zee Baby

Mrs. Olufunmilayo McRae, Athens Georgia USA

" Hi Grandma,

It's your namesake here looking for words to express how much you mean to me, but there are none. The legacy that you have left will never be forgotten.  You were the perfect example of how to put God first, how to love fiercely and unconditionally, how to cherish family, how to give of yourself selflessly, and how to be a shining example of all of the fruits of the spirit. I always knew that even if no one else was praying for me you still were, and you are in heaven now still interceding  on the behalf of all those who you love because that is the kind of faithful and genuine person that you are. I know that God has called home one of his most cherished creations to reward you for a life exceptionally lived. You have spent your life working so dutifully for others and it is finally time for you to peacefully rest, but I can't help selfishly wishing that I could hold on to you forever, that the love and joy you bring to my life would never end. I now realize that it will not end.  You are still the same amazing example to me that you always were.  I will bear your name and carry your spirit in my heart for as long as I live. I know that when I have children you will be guiding them through me and when they have children you will be guiding them as well, for a life well lived and an example well set is NEVER forgotten. I love you and I miss you Grandma more than words can say, and I know that we will meet again someday in the sweet by and by. Till that day and forevermore, rest well knowing that your life truly honored God and blessed those around you.  In that way you have changed the world.

Love, your granddaughter, Olufunmilayo  

James Oluwaseun Akintonde, Florida, USA

My earliest memory of Grandma was one that came to mind on the day of her death, though I did not know that she passed at the time.  I remember her arriving at the airport from Nigeria when I was about 5 or 6. I also remember being excited to see her and running towards her. I don’t recall whether or not I cried out “Grandma!” upon seeing her, but what I do recall is that her arms were wide open to receive me and she had a big, vibrant, welcoming smile on her face. It is this particular memory that I believe exemplifies the warmth and love that was ever a part of her, and that my world and the world at-large will sorely miss in the months and years to come.

What do I mean by “warmth and love?” Well, to start, she was generous, at times to a fault. Whether tithing to the church, donating to a charity, or blessing grandchildren with a little pocket money, the “International Bank of Grandma” was always open. St. Jude Children’s Hospital should have named a wing in her honor for all of the funds she sent them over the years. Needless to say she did not begrudge giving, but freely gave of what she had to all that had need.

I believe that she was able to give so easily due to her relationship with God. We grandchildren would always joke among ourselves that if anyone of us were going to heaven, Grandma would be at the head of the line. We said this because we were witnesses to the hours weekly she spent reading and studying the Bible, praying incessantly, and singing hymns whenever the mood took her. In an age where most people were finding excuses not to attend church, Grandma was always eager to go, at times waking us up when our alarms or internal clocks failed us. I did not use the word “relationship” lightly; the Word teaches us that He is a rewarder of those who diligently seek Him, and I believe that few could meet the standard that Grandma set.

The depth of her caring, especially for her family members, was fathomless. This was not only seen in her generosity and her prayers over us, but also at times in her admonishments. There were times when I did not meet her expectations, yet instead of berating me, she tended to implore me to do better. She was so adept at expressing the pain of her disappointment that she could make one cry with gentle words, an achievement that others could only accomplish with vitriol or corporal punishment. Yet though she may wound, she bound up at the same time, bestowing words of blessing that encouraged me and others to keep pressing forward.

I feel like I could fill up several pages with ways that Grandma touched my life and those of others. I have not begun to speak of her sense of humor (hint: oyinbo have no business climbing up mountains), or of her wisdom that came from a lifetime of experience, or of the deliciousness of her weekly after-church Sunday meals at the compound on Church Road in Kano, but no matter how much I type I will forever fail to do Grandma justice. She was one of a kind, and I am proud to be her grandson. To Grandma: I love you, and I miss you terribly, yet I know you have gone ahead to help prepare the way for us all.

Binta and James Akintonde and Family, Chicago USA.

As for man, his days are as grass; as a flower of the field, so he flourishes. For the wind passeth over it and it is gone: and the place thereof shall know it no more'. Ps.103 Verse 15-16

She lived a full life: - a life full of love and compassion and left a legacy of unconditional love. She regarded all friends and acquaintance of her children as hers and meaningfully calls them "Omo mi" [My Child]. Mama J' as she is fondly called, adopted many children in her lifetime who lived with her and were nurtured in the way of the Lord. Her home was always opened to anyone that needs uplifting until they could stand on their own.  Her smile was always from her soul. She harbored no hatred due to the abundance of genuine love in her. She was a true Christian who exhibits this through her words and deeds. She was an epitome of giving and would willing share her last cent believing that God will provide for tomorrow.

She taught us to guard against wasteful living and to take cognizance that there are others lacking basic things of life; exhibiting Christian virtues and to be always ready to lend a helping hand. She equipped us with tools to carry on in life by extending love to one another in all we do.

We thank God that our Mother, Mrs Juliana David who has paid the inevitable debt that we all must pay; as painful as that is, we are glad in the Lord for she slept in Christ. So we do not mourn as those without hope: for we know there is a resurrection morning.

Sleep well 'Mama J, we shall always miss you but happy that you are with the Lord whom you served with your whole heart and soul.

Mrs. Iyabo Larinde, Rome Italy.

Maami was my friend, my confidant, my comforter, my adviser and one of my strongest role models, who truly showed me what a sincere woman of God should be. Our relationship was warm, affectionate, and extremely close to the very end of her days. She has labored selflessly with no complaint for all of us and I use this occasion to pay tribute to her for her kindness, selflessness, thoughtfulness, compassion as well as her willingness to drop whatever she was doing to be available and accessible to you, to give a listening ear no matter what you needed or wanted.

I praise God for giving me a mother like her. She knew how to correct with love when one fell short of her expectations and how to encourage when she felt one was on the right track. My mother had been a rock of inspiration in my life as well as a great delight whenever she visited my family in all the locations we have lived.

Our relationship (spiritual and emotional bonds) has developed deeper and even stronger in recent years. These ties that bind us together were even more accentuated towards the end of her life. We always enjoyed discussing the issues of our Christian faith, studying the bible, praying together and singing old time Christian songs with each other. I owed my singing experience to my Mom who blazed the trail by being in the choir and encouraging us to do likewise.

When the news first broke of her hospitalization in the first week of February and it was thought that she was going to give up the ghost, my husband and I went into deep prayer trusting in the Lord to safe her soul from premature death. Because of the uncertain and critical situation, I rushed to Chicago to be by her side. The last 3 months of her life were particularly both dramatic and traumatic for me as hope took us on a roller coaster with many twists and turns never being able to see even a little into the future of her health, just living day by day. None-the-less, it was a period of time that God gave me the grace to strive to pay back some of the love she had lavished on all of us from our youth and far beyond.

When my daughter called from Maami's death bed to tell me that she was gone, it was like a bad dream from which I could not wake up from and forget. Yes, one could say she lived to a ripe old age, but I still can't help feeling like her beautiful bright light truly left this world much too soon. Well, Maami, e sun re o till we meet again. Your good memories will linger in my heart forever.

Saturday of 16th May 2015 will always be remembered in the anal of the family of Papa Moses Olashore David of blessed memory. This was the day when David family members in diaspora converged in the windy city of Chicago to bid farewell to the family’s Matriarch – Mama Juliana Olufunmilayo David – who made her triumphant exit to heaven. As the Shakespearian expression “The heavens themselves blaze forth the death of Mama” as the glory of the Lord could be felt in the aura of both church and the interment proceedings.

The Festival of life service was conducted at the Gatling chapel, Halsted street in Chicagoby by a team of Ministers from the Jesus House of Chicago (JHC) - a Redeemed Christian Church of God (RCCG) in the USA. Pastor Ayo Akere who led the service emphasized the need to “number our days” and "work out salvationwith fear and trembling". He encouraged the congregation to take the step of salvation so as to have a glorious ending as the late Mama whose life is being celebrated.

The internment followed immediately at Oakland Memory Lanes, Dolton, Illinois after which well-wishers were entertained at a Repass in a nearby convention Centre. The Repass was graced by local and international dignitaries with the head of the David family, Mr. Nelson Olayiwola David as the Chief Host.

The late Mama David was indeed a crowd puller in death as she had always being in live with guests coming in from United Kingdom, Italy, Nigeria and various parts of the USA - Chicago, Maryland, Washington DC, Houston Texas, Indiana, Wisconsin, Minnesota and Mississippi. There were a lot of tributes – spoken and written about Mama - during this festival of life to confirm what many already believed about her good and enduring legacies. Accolades poured in from people from all walks of life, diverse origins and across age barriers through phone calls and other communication media. 

Mama when left, it was a great lose to everyone who knew you. Our hearts sought out the memories of you and all the ways that you have influenced and impacted our lives. 

A year has passed by but it seems only like yesterday that you went to rest with the Lord. Your unconditional love will never be forgotten. You treated all like yours and we know you will continue to look down upon your loved ones, listening, watching and sending your love.

Mama, just remember one thing as you sit and rejoice beside the Lord, you will be there to greet us on that joyous day when we shall meet to part no more.
 

Love Always,

Ali and Bose Garba

Late Mrs. Juliana Olufunmilayo Hauwa David was born in 1923 to pa.J.R.B and Mama Suzzanah  Lami Lottu, both of blessed memory. Pa Lottu was a tailor by profession and Mama remained his faithful wife for very man years. 

Mrs. Juliana David was the fourth child in a family of eight children. The others were Yahaya, Shittu, Grace, Ebun, Abraham, Clement and Hephzibah (Bisi).

Mrs. Juliana David attended the prestigious Holy Trinity School and was later appointed as a nurse in the then city hospital (now Murtala Mohammed Hospital). Among her contemporaries in the hospital were Mrs. Esther Ogunniake; Mrs. Emile Ita, Hajiya Asabe, Mrs. Vincent, Madam Agnes Baikie,Mrs.Dije Bagudu Omar and many others. Although she was not the eldest in the family, she played a major role in organizing and giving good leadership to the family. She was a very considerate person, always cheerful with a pleasant sense of humor. 

For very many years until she passed on, she remained the only surviving child of the family. She carried the burden of having to live alone not only without her parents, brothers and sisters but also her husband, very graciously and with gratitude to God. Mrs. Juliana David was literally the adopted mother of my late wife. She planned and executed all the wedding arrangement of our marriage in 1961. She remained our one and only "Auntie Julie". 

She had a happy and fruitful life with her husband, late Pa David. She had many children with him; she passed on in the good care of her daughter in the United State. Auntie, you were a good mother, a good sister, a good friend and a very good gentle lady. May your soul rest in peace in the bosom of the Lord, may he grant you peace and comfort in your resting place, Amen. 

On behalf of your brother Adamu and Daughter Yaraba and Baikie Family

Forever we would be missing you because of what you have planted in us your children and which is having the fear of God .Your words "qouted".I remember sometimes in my closet your gentle words that always makes me feel you care for everyone and the role you played after losing your sliblings among all of the children from the great home 33 Emir road.The root.Mama Na dan gida Lami Taila,you show everyone love and most especially me(DELE AGBA)omo Boyo.Miami we love you and miss you but am happy you are resting at the blossom of thy Lord.RIP.

OMO BOYO.DELE.