Tributes
Leave a tributeAll these 2023 fellows have been studying with the director of the Karabelle Initiative, Brandi Slaughter, and using what they've learned to advance the advocacy of organizations working to make a real difference in the lives of our nation's most vulnerable kids and families.
Thanks so much to all of you whose contributions have helped fund this fellowship effort and all the rest of the Karabelle Initiative. Karabelle made a real difference for kids. By helping sustain and grow the Karabelle Initiative, you're making a real difference, too!
The latest update on the Karabelle Initiative appears here:
https://sph.umd.edu/news/update-karabelle-pizzigati-initiative-advocacy-children-youth-and-families.
Thank you all for your continuing support of this noble effort!
This unique academic effort is beginning to make a lasting difference for our nation’s most vulnerable. Thanks to all who have contributed time and treasure to helping the Karabelle Initiative rise and thrive!
Karabelle would be deeply appreciative of the continuing support for this effort that so many of you have shown.
Thanks again to all of you who continue to support this deeply important effort!
Thanks to all of you whose contributions have helped get the Karabelle Initiative off to such a promising start!
For a basic intro to the Karabelle Initiative: https://sph.umd.edu/department/fmsc/karabelle-pizzigati-initiative-advocacy-children-youth-and-families
To support the Initiative: http://bit.ly/2VinHW2
For news about the Karabelle Initiative's first training for adults working in the social services: http://bit.ly/2VipN8t
Over the past year, the University has completed a successful search process for the first Karabelle Pizzigati Advocacy Professor, and that professor, the veteran activist Adele Robinson, has been working since last winter with children's advocacy groups all across the United States to plan out the KP Initiative's initial program. The Initiative's first course offering will now roll out in the University's spring semester.
Want to learn more? Please visit the Initiative's online presence: http://publicpolicy.umd.edu/karabelle-pizzigati-advocacy-initiative-children-youth-and-families
Thanks to all who are helping to make this lasting memorial a reality!
Angela Rau,
We are truly honored to have known a so special woman.
At Sam and Nick, at her loved ones, we mean that the pain, now huge, with time, will be replaced by a sweet memory.
Your relatives from Italy
Pietro, Adriano, Fausta, Isabella, Susanna
It has been so long since we've seen you and Karabelle, but when I found her obituary in the newspaper I was shocked and grieved. She was a fantastic lady whom I'll never forget. Our shared years among us all were special ... and so even at this time of significant loss for you, just to know that she made a real difference in the lives of others, left her mark, and will not be forgotten.
There is no easy way to say anything but - we are so sorry for your loss. We send our deepest condolences to you and yours and her families. We are thinking of you at this difficult time and will always remember her.
With best regards,
Naomi & Jim Collins
I feel honored to have known Karabelle Pizzigati.
May her memory be honored for many years to come.
Carol Ann Rudolph
I will be forever in her debt as a mentor, teacher, and leader. Goodbye Karabelle. Rest in peace.
Darrius Troy
Leave a Tribute
All these 2023 fellows have been studying with the director of the Karabelle Initiative, Brandi Slaughter, and using what they've learned to advance the advocacy of organizations working to make a real difference in the lives of our nation's most vulnerable kids and families.
Thanks so much to all of you whose contributions have helped fund this fellowship effort and all the rest of the Karabelle Initiative. Karabelle made a real difference for kids. By helping sustain and grow the Karabelle Initiative, you're making a real difference, too!
The latest update on the Karabelle Initiative appears here:
https://sph.umd.edu/news/update-karabelle-pizzigati-initiative-advocacy-children-youth-and-families.
Thank you all for your continuing support of this noble effort!
Remembering Tia Toots
Remembering Tia Toots
After Memorial Mass June 22, 2015
Fred Solowey
Three minutes to cover almost five decades of friendship, years that included living through upheaval at Cornell, where we met, her becoming a teenage bride and having two wonderful baby boys, yet managing to earn her PhD, burying parents and her beloved first born—whose name is carried on by my late-arriving son—Benjamin Antonio Solowey—sharing and loving three generations of dogs, and enjoying countless days at the beach, holiday meals, a trip to Cuba, getting paid to sing Meet the Mets at the National Press Club, buying a boat with “Captain Nick,” Nick and Ixchel’s wedding in Mexico and those beautiful grandbabies, Broadway shows, the Mets and a million laughs (besides those provided by the Mets)
People understand that she faced issues of race and class at Cornell, but not the extra burden she had at Cornell and throughout her career: lots of Hoody Doody-watching white baby boomers calling her Clarabelle.
This certainly continued on the hill, where a bunch of real clowns took down her beloved committee on children, youth and families.
Actually, I never heard Karabelle speak really ill of anyone (except maybe Duke and North Carolina). Whether it was a reactionary in Congress, a kid who didn’t want to go to sleep, various Bushes, a dog with a fear of walking on linoleum or an absent minded husband who could forget about the glasses on his own Roman/Jewish nose—they all “had issues.” Karabelle knew that we all have issues.
Even she had issues:
*Sure she could be calm during a political or family crisis, but she’d fall apart and could not bear to watch during a close, important Terps basketball game.
*She was a compulsive cleaner and we had to seat her wedged in on the side of the table next to the china cabinet to stop her from washing dishes or even vacuuming during a Seder.
*She had at least one, and maybe two hollow legs and could down enormous amounts of wine and still be coherent.
*She’d laugh at all my jokes (bless her), but I never heard her even try to tell one—even when the hollow legs were full.
She wasn’t Karabelle to us. Sam, in a throwback of at least a century—maybe more—called her toots. When Ben came long in 2003, she became Tia Toots Ben has nine aunts and uncles scattered across North America, but Tia Toots was the aunt he knew best and was a rock in his life. She bought him his first bike, took care of him during our getaway wedding anniversary weekends and was always listed as our emergency contact.
Heck, Katie and I knew she’d handle an emergency better than we would—unless it occurred during a close, important Terps basketball game.
Tia was always a wonderful person to be around. She was interested in everything and everyone and made everyone feel special. And this didn’t change a bit during these last two years.
Often she was the smartest person in the room but she had no interest in proving it.
We loved Tia Toots and always felt her love for us. We have an issue with not getting 20 or 30 more years with her, but Katie, Ben and I are profoundly grateful for having her in our lives
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An Invitation
So many of us have dear memories about Karabelle. Your stories -- and reflections about her -- are most welcome here.