Big Karl,
You were the best father in law a girl could ask for. You embodied so many qualities I admire; patience, unconditional support, and such pride in your family. Though you were a man of few words, if one found the right trigger words you were rewarded with a big smile and a great conversation. It's been 18 years since I was introduced to this wonderful family, and never for a minute did I not feel warm welcome and acceptance from you. I loved how uncomplicated you were, you were a "what you see is what you get" kinda guy. You were so easy to be around, and it was the little things in life that made you happiest. I was so proud to give you a granddaughter and I know how fiercely she loves her Opa. She knew she could get you to buy her contraband candy every visit. I knew every visit you and I would go to the Amish market, we would sample the foods, and then you would trapse around the craft area with me. You couldn't have been less interested in the crafts and merchandise but you never once complained, never rushed me. Maybe we didn't share a lot of heart to heart conversations but we bonded none the less. Over a fresh hot delbuno roll, a Carmen sub, or rolling our eyes when mama lenz would lovingly nag you. :) you made me feel important by always doing that stuff with me, making sure we fit it all in during our visits. We always marveled at your ability to find a comfy chair and nod off wherever you were. :) you always took our teasing in good humor, knowing it all came from a place of love.
My life is fuller for having known you, for having married into your family. Thank you for raising such a smart and funny man that I am happy to call my husband. You gave him the solid foundation of a fantastic childhood. You helped give him the qualities to be the wonderful husband and father he is. He always knew you had his back and was proud of him.
You will be missed, but what you have created and nurtured here on earth will live on.