I just heard about this horrible tragedy, I am sorry I have been out of the loop on all of this. I think about you often and had wondered how you were..
Robert found me on Facebook but I never expected this to have befallen you. My heart is heavy with sadness.

Happy Birthday My Sister. I miss you more than I ever imagined possible. I soo wanted to pick up the phone & call you today.. that's the hardest part aside from seeing the pain of loss in the eyes of your babys & grandbabies.. I know your in a much better place than those of us here who love & miss you dearly. Happy Birthday! Love, Your Sis.

It's been a long year, learning to live without you here. I never realized how hard this would be. I just try to find comfort in knowing that your still here in spirit, in ways I can't always see. You have a lot to be proud of, your children have your strength & all your beauty.