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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Kathleen Conklin Higgins, 38 years old, born on May 6, 1968, and passed away on April 2, 2007. We will remember her forever.
April 2
April 2
Hi sweetie,
Seventeen years is a long time passed, and my life hasn't been the same with you not in it. Our time together was short, but it was fun. Thank you for being there with me.
Love always,
Me
April 2, 2023
April 2, 2023
Hi sweetheart. It's been 16 years, yet it feels like it was yesterday. That final day at the hospital, with your family and friends who wanted to say goodbye. Our kids, whose hearts were broken. The sounds from those infernal machines and then the deathly stillness when those machines were turned off and disconnected. You were surrounded by love. I hope that you felt that as you left us behind.

There are people here who still love you and miss you beyond belief. You mattered. In our lives, in this world, you mattered. With love, me.
April 2, 2022
April 2, 2022
Hi Sweetheart. It has been 15 years since you left us, and we miss you more and more every day. I hope you are at peace. Love you forever.
May 6, 2021
May 6, 2021
Happy Birthday, Sweetheart! You are very much missed.
April 2, 2021
April 2, 2021
So much life has gone on since you left us, sweetie. Things you would have loved to have seen, and things that you would have fought like hell to prevent. But life has moved on. Everything has moved on. Except me. Your love has kept me anchored, but has also kept me from moving on. But I need to try, it has been too lonely here with you gone. I have finally taken some baby steps in that direction, and some day when we see each other again I will let you know how things have gone. Just know that it's OK for me to do this, so maybe the ache inside me will finally go away.
April 3, 2019
April 3, 2019
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May 6, 2018
May 6, 2018
I will always remember the fun times we had at the family cookouts.
May 6, 2018
May 6, 2018
Hi sweetheart. today you would have been 50 years old. My heart aches when I think of that. All of this time we could have been growing old together, but instead I am just getting old. You left way too soon, but I know that you had to go. You were just in too much pain and you weren't going to get any better. You had too much to offer the world and were too good a person to have to leave so early in life. I miss you so much that it hurts to even think about it. We were good together, and we will be good together again, one day.
April 2, 2018
April 2, 2018
Hi Sweetheart: We came to see you today, Selene, Danny, Braddock, and I. The snow finally melted so we could get in to see you. We bought and planted some yellow roses for you because spring is the time for new growth and you haven't gotten roses for a long time (not my fault though, I don't have your address and I don't think the florist can deliver up there anyway). Selene and Dan are doing pretty good, you would be so proud of both of them. And you would absolutely adore Braddock. In fact, we are pretty sure that he has been talking to you sometimes. Out of the mouths of babes, they say. We had a nice Easter dinner yesterday, but without you and your mom, it just isn't the same. Love always, me

PS - two things I forgot. I started a GoFundMe campaign to try to raise money to buy a headstone for your mom. I hope it succeeds because she deserves more than a cheap label. Also, on the drive home from the cemetery the other day, I pulled off the road and wrote a poem for you. I hope you like it.

"Eleven years have come and gone,
but the memories, they still linger on.
Of holding hands, and snuggling tight,
to keep us warm those frigid nights.
The kids are grown and on their own,
and I am waiting here, alone,
until the day we meet again
and in each other's arms, we'll be. Amen".
November 13, 2017
November 13, 2017
Hello Kathi. Just remembering the last time I saw you at the cookout. You are missed
May 6, 2016
May 6, 2016
Happy Birthday in heaven Kathi, I remember the fun we had at the last cook-out. Love your cousin Wanda
September 30, 2015
September 30, 2015
Hi Sweetie. We have grandkids, a bunch of them. And I know that you are looking out for them. The kids are each having their individual struggles, but in time I am sure that they will be OK. Your mom is also struggling, please touch her in her dreams and let her know that you and the family up there are OK. I love you and miss you so much. Forever, Me
April 2, 2014
April 2, 2014
I love you so much mom, the past 7 years have been hard without you. It seems like every year gets harder without you here but I know you're watching over us and you're with Aunt Selene, Uncle Rick, Grampa, Roscoe and Pebbles. I swear sometimes Elijah is talking to you when he is supposed to be sleeping. I never told you but you are my best friend and my hero. I love you mommy. Your putzbuttz
November 26, 2013
November 26, 2013
Happy Thanksgiving, Sweetheart! Love you still and always, Me :-)
April 2, 2013
April 2, 2013
Sweetheart, it doesn't seem like six years since that awful day. Awful for us that remained here, but great for you because you were free from the pain and you got to meet God, Jesus and your loving family and friends that had passed before you. I love you, and miss you terribly. Your loving husband, Joe
July 29, 2012
July 29, 2012
Kathi aka female was my veriest bestest friend in da hole werld.. ( as we used to put it )  LOL she was and still is a treasure in my heart and mind. I had never been so close to anyone. We were at some points inseperable.. Mutt and jeff.. the short and tall of it. My female, my best friend my heart sister and chain sister. we 2 were as one. I love you female     your woman

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April 2
April 2
Hi sweetie,
Seventeen years is a long time passed, and my life hasn't been the same with you not in it. Our time together was short, but it was fun. Thank you for being there with me.
Love always,
Me
April 2, 2023
April 2, 2023
Hi sweetheart. It's been 16 years, yet it feels like it was yesterday. That final day at the hospital, with your family and friends who wanted to say goodbye. Our kids, whose hearts were broken. The sounds from those infernal machines and then the deathly stillness when those machines were turned off and disconnected. You were surrounded by love. I hope that you felt that as you left us behind.

There are people here who still love you and miss you beyond belief. You mattered. In our lives, in this world, you mattered. With love, me.
April 2, 2022
April 2, 2022
Hi Sweetheart. It has been 15 years since you left us, and we miss you more and more every day. I hope you are at peace. Love you forever.
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April 3, 2019

Last time we got together was at a cookout. Miss you RIP

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