2001 Kathi
Kathleen Conklin Higgins
  • 38 years old
  • Date of birth: May 6, 1968
  • Place of birth:
    Watertown, New York, United States
  • Date of passing: Apr 2, 2007
  • Place of passing:
    Watertown, New York, United States
Let the memory of Kathy, her strength, her laughter, her loving heart, be with us forever
This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Kathleen Conklin Higgins, 38, born on May 6, 1968 and passed away on April 2, 2007. We will remember her forever.
Memorial Tributes
This tribute was added by Wanda Larkins on 13th November 2017

"Hello Kathi. Just remembering the last time I saw you at the cookout. You are missed"

This tribute was added by Dakota Weaver on 12th November 2017

"Hello mom! I am sitting here and figures I would take the time to write you a note since it has been a while. I am doing good right now. I am working and going to college. I am getting a degree in business administration as well as human services. It is a lot of hard work but it is worth it. I am not sure what I want to do with my degree but if I am not able to start my own business I am sure that I will be able to get a job sw a manager somewhere and that is  beter than working fast food all the time. I work with Jason Matthews now. He got hired right after  Ieft for my heart attack. Yea, I had a heart attack and almost died. They rushed me to ST. Joes. It was scarry. I have lost 45 pounds since then though. I am getting things taken care of so I am able to get the Gastric Bypass surgeery. I am going to have to take a semester off from college to do it and get some type of DSS help. Good thing my insurance pays for it. RIght now I am living on mill Street and it is nuts over here. There are drug raids alot and there are always cops here. It is getting annoying. But it is what it is. I love you mom. I will be by to see you soon."

This tribute was added by Dakota Weaver on 6th May 2017

"Today is one of the rough days as we look at your birthday and wish it was the way it used to be. April, Janyce, Danny and I would be walking into your room with your breakfast and Joannas coffee. The way things were before all of our lives changed. Everyday I sit here and cant help but think what would mom tell me to do or what would mom think if I do this. I know that I am sad today as most of the rememberable days.After you passed, there were several people told me that you get over someones death but i am not getting over it. I am not convinced. It hasnt happened. For a while I thought maybe if i forget you it would be all better but that didnt work. I could not forget. Looking back on it I thought life was rough living at home with you and Joe but i have come to learn that it wasnt all that bad. Yes there were days that I didnt like it and was mad at oth of you but when that was was mainly when you guys were trying to raise me to be a respectable man. Forgetting you is not something that I want to do. I need your memories in my life. Wheher or not you knew it before you passed I did and do love you. Not a day goes by where I wish there was a magical time machine where i can go back in time and change the things I did before you went into the hospital. Even before that to the point where I moved out. The reality is that I cant and I know that I love you and always will. You will always be a part of my life eventhough you are not here because I know that you are watching over all of us. You are in heaven looking at us and guiding us. You are there with your dad, mom brothers that have passed and aunt Selene. You are in a place where most of us want to be and i want you to know that it is all good down here. the family may have gone there separate ways but we all love you very much. May the memories of MY MOMMY remain in our hearts forever. They are ones that we can cherish and love."

This tribute was added by Joanna Higgins on 2nd April 2017

"Ten years. Ten very long years you have been gone from us. From your friends, From the kids. And, from me. Things have changed so much during that time, it would be hard for you to believe. The kids are grown, some are doing OK and some not so much, but I know that they all still miss you terribly and wish you were still here. I'm the same way. I miss you so much and wish you were here to share my life with. But you were taken way too early, and that is the way life is sometimes. Life goes on, but it hasn't been fun for ten very long years. I love you, sweetie. Thank you for being in my life."

This tribute was added by Dakota Weaver on 2nd April 2017

"Hi mom, its Kotabug. Its hard to imagine that it has been ten years as of today that you passed. It has been a struggle for all of us and as time goes by it does get easier but the pain never goes away. I miss you right now more than ever. Everything is nuts with me being on parole. I am working and going to college now also I am no longer at Hearthstone. I have a girlfriend that is living with me now and she is going to college and working also.Her name is Katie. She is a very amazing woman and the love of my life. You would love her. I know you watch over all of us every day and that you love us dearly. I love you even more today then the day you passed. I am always thinking about you and love and miss the times that we had. Love Always, Kotabug"

This tribute was added by Dakota Weaver on 8th June 2016

"Hi mom its Dakota. I wanted to leave a note and let you know that everyday without you is getting harder and harder. Everyone says that it gets easier as time goes on but I think that is something they say to make themselves feel better. I left u a smoke at the cemetery the other day. I was going to c granny and grampa comklin but its been so long that I am not sure where they are buried. Im sure they know that I tried. I am asking you to touch the hearts of everyone that has touched mine. Even the ones that I am not able to c right now. Parole has ordered that I cut all ties with hearthstone and as you know my family as well. I am working on getting all of this sorted out. Please watch over everyone that I love for me and give granny a kiss for me. Love ya mom and we will talk soon. Love Kotabug"

This tribute was added by Wanda Larkins on 6th May 2016

"Happy Birthday in heaven Kathi, I remember the fun we had at the last cook-out. Love your cousin Wanda"

This tribute was added by Joanna Higgins on 30th September 2015

"Hi Sweetie. We have grandkids, a bunch of them. And I know that you are looking out for them. The kids are each having their individual struggles, but in time I am sure that they will be OK. Your mom is also struggling, please touch her in her dreams and let her know that you and the family up there are OK. I love you and miss you so much. Forever, Me"

This tribute was added by Raeven Moon on 2nd April 2014

"I love you so much mom, the past 7 years have been hard without you. It seems like every year gets harder without you here but I know you're watching over us and you're with Aunt Selene, Uncle Rick, Grampa, Roscoe and Pebbles. I swear sometimes Elijah is talking to you when he is supposed to be sleeping. I never told you but you are my best friend and my hero. I love you mommy.  Your putzbuttz"

This tribute was added by Joanna Higgins on 26th November 2013

"Happy Thanksgiving, Sweetheart!  Love you still and always, Me :-)"

This tribute was added by Joanna Higgins on 2nd April 2013

"Sweetheart, it doesn't seem like six years since that awful day. Awful for us that remained here, but great for you because you were free from the pain and you got to meet God, Jesus and your loving family and friends that had passed before you. I love you, and miss you terribly. Your loving husband, Joe"

This tribute was added by Mel Bishop on 29th July 2012

"Kathi aka female  was my veriest bestest friend in da hole werld.. ( as we used to put it )   LOL she was and still is a treasure in my heart and mind. I had never been so close to anyone. We were at some points inseperable.. Mutt and jeff.. the short and tall of it.  My female, my best friend my heart sister and chain sister. we 2 were as one. I love you female         your woman"

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