Memorial Service
Sunday, December 13, 2015
2:00pm - 4:00pm
Banfield Funeral Home
420 West State Road 434
Winter Springs, FL 32708
Please join family and friends for a memorium and tribute to Kathy. If you have pictures you would like included in the memorium slideshow please email pictures to chris_91c4@sendtodropbox.com by Dec. 5th.
Tributes
Leave a tributeAs the last enemy,death,is to be brought to nothing.
With all the memories that can't escape us or be taking away from us, I know in my heart that you are resting in peace with your sweet mom by your side looking down on us with a smile and an easy-spirit of freedom that we on earth can't quite fathom in its purest form. God bless you Kathy, may we all celebrate you to the fullest during this Holiday season of thankfulness and fellowship. -Jen Livingston
I knew you as a kind hearted person.
You have left us early but are traveling to a better place.
You will be sorely missed.
Nobody really knows the special connection we shared, not only while I worked for Epoch, but also in the years after you left. It’s okay. They don’t have to know. We do. God does.
I find myself upset, regretting how I understood your struggles, yet I did not reach out even more. Could I have said or done something differently in recent months that would have left me feeling like I had shared it all with you? I know you know I loved you (I still do). I know you loved me too. We said it more than enough to have it woven into the fabric of our friendship.
Yet, why do I feel like I failed at saying or doing more? Why do I feel like that big hug I was supposed to get from you the next time we saw each other has forever left a hole in my heart? Why do I feel like there was so much remaining for you to do…for us to do together?
I stop every so often to cry as I type this to you. Keep in mind, I’m writing this after delaying (yet again), waiting for the perfect words and caring too much about what other people think.
Why should it matter what they think? This is about our relationship. You were my last eMom. We never did figure out if it should switch to iMom, after our other two options were definitely out of the question.
As I spend time giving extra thanks to God this week, I thank Him with all of my heart for the gift of you in my life! I thank the Lord for the many ways He used you over the years to bless my family.
I’ve told you over and over again, but perhaps not enough or not recently enough. I checked our last communication and am glad it was in recent months, but why couldn’t it have been in recent days or weeks?
Why didn’t I know you were sick? Why didn’t you call, text, message, or email me? Why didn’t you tell me something was wrong, like you did in the past? I would have been there for you again. Did you think you would bother me? I could have prayed. We could have talked. We could have just sat in silence trusting God to make sense of this all.
I’m still saddened because the Holy Spirit had such a stirring on my heart to reach out to you the week (that I know now) you were in the hospital. But I didn’t listen to Him. Instead, I doubted. I delayed, again, waiting for the perfect words and timing.
Why didn’t I find out?
Granted, who would have known to call me?
I respected you and honored the confidentiality of all we shared with each other. I would not have been top of mind for someone to reach out to me (or my mom) sooner.
I have to trust that God knows exactly what is best for all of us. On that note, despite the way we brought sparkle to each other with reminders of our faith, prayers, and Joyce Meyer’s teachings, I regretted never asking you outright if Jesus was your Lord and Savior.
I need to know you are in Heaven. It’s an absolutely real place that the lost and hurting choose to ignore, because that would mean hell is real too. It is.
I anguished about it. That is until God reminded me of some of the things you wrote me, the way you received what I shared with you, something you told my mom, and the way the Lord led me to your page after your passing. I was on a quest to find you in the presence of our Heavenly Father. In doing so, I found the most beautiful picture from one of the pages you liked…
I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me!
That’s right, my beautiful friend. I often reminded you of how talented and strong you are with Him! Your purpose on this earth impacted more people than we will ever know!
You may not be here to see everything God continues to do in my life, Nick’s, and my mom’s, but there is one thing I will never ever doubt. It’s how I would not be the person I am today and have the opportunities I do, if it had not been for the extremely special and powerful way God used you to bless me!
Remember what we say in our family, I love you as high as the sky and as deep as the sea! You are forever a part of me!
Oh yeah, I guess you’re right. I am the bomb.
I am totally rhyming! :p
Truly, you’ve thanked me many times over the years for being there for you, but I thank YOU and love you with all of my heart!
May God calling you home be a reminder for us to cherish the moments we have with our loved ones, to not doubt or delay, embrace who we were made to be, stop caring what people think, don’t wait for the perfect words or timing, or hold back on reminding people that there is only one God, one Savior, one way!
As you have fun dancing it up with Jesus on the streets of gold, it’s my turn to say…
I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me!
Well what the f does one say. I am sure you are at peace. I can think of so many great Morgan stories and your laughter. You will keep me smiling thinking of you.
Love,
Uncle John and Aunt Linda Heishman
It is so hard for me to believe that you are gone. You were an inspiration to so many. I know that you are now with your Mom in heaven and at peace.
It still has not processed in my mind that I will never see you again. I am going to miss sleeping over your house and all of us playing pranks on Steve. I'll miss having great times at Colorado Fondue with you. The last time I saw you was when we played Monopoly for hours and it was funny because I was winning. I am going to miss your presence so much. We share many laughs and great memories that I will cherish. I wish I could have seen you one last time. I love you!
Love,
Lacy Rose
Where do I start? I have so many beautiful memories filled with laughter and joy. I am going to miss all of the little adventures we went on, from when you took Lacy Rose, Bella, and I to get pedicures and manicures to the moment we played charades in the living room. So many memorable moments we shared with the family will never be forgotten. The last time I saw you, I just received my permit and you wanted me to take you out for a drive. I am going to miss all of the phone calls just talking about life and having funny conversations. I am still shocked that I will never get to hug you and hear your voice again. I know you are beyond happy in Heaven. I will love you forever.
Kisses,
Ivy Grace
I will remember your loving smile when you were here in July. I told you I loved you and you gave me a big hug! I will miss you!
Much love,
Nana
I'll cherish the memories of family gatherings we shared. You left us way too early, my heart breaks. You gave to others and your light will shine on brightly in the memory and hearts of the lives you touched. I'll miss your laughter and smile. I'll miss you. May you soar in Heaven with your new wings! It's a comfort to know my girls will have another guardian angel.
Love and kisses,
Caroline
It is a shock to believe you have left this world but we know you are flying close. I will remember all the times at Mawmaw's for Christmas Eve, and the times I was able to share with you. I will miss your laugh and care. We love you!
Love,
Amanda
Terry & Sandy
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Faith
On a couple of road trips with Kathy, we spoke about Faith, note I said Faith, not religion. Oh sure, we spoke of our name tags of Catholic and Protestant,but those are only name tags. Faith in God and His Son, Jesus dying on the cross for our sins, being the sacrificial lamb for us is something that you accept or don't accept. Your choice, Faith is a free gift. Where were we? Church? No...We were sitting at a bar, she with her Martini, I with my glass of wine with Paul, an Owner/Asset Manager with his Jack an Coke. (God looks at the heart, man looks at the outside). You see managers, asset managers and owners do a lot of praying, especially those of us who have faith in God because we ask to receive. Trust me, when one is in charge of multi-million dollar properties, we do a lot of praying, I know I did and then put feet behind those prayers! To an Owner/Asset Manager who has a strong faith in God, he was very open to share with us about what faith meant to him. I think God spoke to all three of us that night how simple the gift of faith, friends and business associates can interact in our daily lives.
I knew I was in for trouble when .....
When my Manager, Brenda recommended me to be promoted to Manager - I was so happy and proud. But I knew I was in for trouble when Kathy told Brenda "if she doesn't work you have to come back"! No pressure!! My first road trip with Kathy was to help with accounting problems at a property. When Kathy woke me up at 4:30 in the morning to look at reports .... I knew I was in for trouble! We went to so many properties to audit and there were so many late work nights and fun times. One summer my daughter and I drove with Kathy to SC to help with a grand opening. Kristine was school age and out for summer. I knew I was in for it when Kathy figured out she could put Kristine to work serving sno cones and hot dogs! Yep, many working road trips with daughter in tow that summer. I knew I was in for trouble when Kathy made me her assistant and my first two properties were one of our only tax credit properties and our only 40 year old property whose owner was an accountant! And I knew I was definitely in trouble when my promotion to Regional meant 7 properties all at once! But we did it together and I learned more than I could have ever hoped to learn any other way. I knew I was in for trouble when Brenda retired and Kathy thought I was going to be the organized one with all the phone numbers! Haha Over the years we worked hard together, traveled many trips (work and fun) together, achieved many goals together and became friends together. Kathy you pushed us all hard, sometimes to limits, but you pushed us to be our best. Together we found creative solutions, had fun doing it and most of all (in your words), "Got it done"! You will be missed forever and God bless you.
Cabin
This was our smoke filled cabin in the mountains out of Boulder, Co. This is my last story or Kyle will be thinking we never worked! Actually put in some long hours out there but an experience I would not trade for the world. Miss you and you will always hold a special place in my heart, my friend forever.