This tribute was added by Jack Osborne on February 6, 2020
Still -
You still bring smiles to my face often when the memories come. You're wisdom and friendship are still with me in spirit. Loving thoughts.
This tribute was added by Lorene Lanier on February 6, 2020
Dear Mom,

For the first time I forgot this was the anniversary of your death. I guess that's a good thing, because now I'm just happy on your birthday. Still missing you every day.

This tribute was added by Lorene Lanier on August 19, 2019
Hi Mom,

I’m driving home after visiting Jason and his family. Judi came down for a few days- the drive takes a bit longer than when you were driving :-). You’d be amazed how big the boys are! Jason has lots of projects that need finishing and could really use your cajoling....

We miss you

This tribute was added by Barbara S Vahanian on February 13, 2018
Well dearest Kathy, yes you are missed so very much in so many instances. I think of you. I remember you. Our fun. Our 'debates'. Your ultimate wisdom. No mere passage of time will ever erase your importance to us. In the Light.
This tribute was added by Jack Osborne on February 6, 2017
You still bring smiles to my face often when the memories come. You're wisdom and friendship are still with me in spirit. Loving thoughts.
This tribute was added by Judith Clark on December 22, 2016
Thinking of you so much this Christmas. Spending it with all the Lanier clan in PA. You are never far from any of us. Miss you every day.
This tribute was added by Barbara S Vahanian on February 6, 2016
Bonjour Kathy,
Am I right, is it only 5 years today? It seems like an eternity. You are forever in my thoughts for all sorts of meaningful reasons, with love,
Barbara V
This tribute was added by Barbara S Vahanian on August 19, 2015
Bonjour très chère Kathy,
I suddenly realize you will always be one year younger than I! You are in my thoughts today, dear departed friend.
With love forever and ever,
This tribute was added by Kathy Rudy on February 7, 2015
Hi kathylanier. I think of you almost everyday, still. I have developed a bone disease and have been in wheelchair for almost two years. A dozen operations on broken and disintegrating bones has brought no relief. At one point I thought I would lose my mind with grief and fear. You came to me in a dream and told me that growing up means giving back. I'm on medical leave from school and volunteer with elderly now full time. Just being with people who have been dumped in nursing homes, waiting to die. In our own way we find joy. So thank for forcing me to grow up once again, even from the other side, I know you are with me, I feel it, but I deeply miss talking to you in real life.
This tribute was added by Dara Lanier on February 6, 2015
Thinking of you and missing you always.
This tribute was added by Rene (Lorene) Hall on February 6, 2015
I still pick up the phone to call you. I still recall you perfectly from when
we were mere striplings, when we lived in the co-ops in Berkeley,
when Lorene was born, when you came to visit in a VW bus. Judi
was a truly wonderful surprise, a perfect person for you at last.
It's been four years and I'm finally writing without having to stop
and weep.  love you always, Rene
This tribute was added by Barbara S Vahanian on August 19, 2013
Bonjour dearest Kathy, 
You are ever present in my thoughts, no matter the years.
In loving memory from your friend,
This tribute was added by Judith Clark on August 19, 2011
Today I miss being able to love you, laugh with you, play with you. I celebrate a life lived to the fullest every day and every hour. For me you will never grow old---love you always, judi
This tribute was added by Betsy Emery on February 26, 2011
The world has lost an angel. A soft spoken and gentle angel. I feel very thankful that I knew her. A real lady.
This tribute was added by Rebecca Luby on February 23, 2011
The first time I met Kathy and Judy was a bbq that Jason and Dara had several years ago. Kathy and I laughed about raising children and the curve balls that fly while doing so..her patience and insightful thoughts on how to get through the tough times gave me peace in knowing in the end all would work out. She will be missed greatly even by those she only touched breifly!
This tribute was added by Pattie Beebe on February 20, 2011
I'm so sorry that Kathy is gone. I had a very nice conversation with her last month. She agreed to look at facebook and I agreed to look at paying bills online. I thought we would see her last month but it was not to be. Prayers for Judi, Lorene and Jason.
This tribute was added by Mary Joy Carlson on February 18, 2011
I haven't seen Kathy very often since our children grew up and left home. I have thought of her through the years and always remembered how cheerful she always seemed. I know that you will all miss her and hope that happy memories will sustain you.
Joy Carlson (Scott's mom)
This tribute was added by Shirley DiMatteo on February 17, 2011
I have lost a treasured friend. Kathy and I met in the early 70's and shared many adventures and a lasting friendship. Kathy touched my life in so many ways. I will always cherish those memories, Last July, I spent a lovely day with Kathy, Judi and some of our grandchildren. Kathy seemed so happy and well. My thoughts are with Judi, Lorene, and Jason. We have lost a unique,wonderful person.
This tribute was added by Noelle Vahanian on February 16, 2011
Dear Kathy,
You gave guilt no moral privileged position, nor did you see any value in pain. But what would you do with grief?
Grief born of love and care and friendship, and deep sympathy for Judi, Lorene, Jason, your family, your world of friends, a universe without you -- though through you richer, better, and in promise, hopeful.
This tribute was added by Sue Bova on February 16, 2011
Judy and Kathy were such a great team. Respectful to each other and always working side by side. I had the pleasure of meeting them at Richmark during their many projects. I enjoyed the relationship and obvious caring they shared. My sympathy to Judy and all the family.
This tribute was added by Donna Nelson on February 15, 2011
Kathy--my close childhood friend,from 3rd grade through college,my college roommate,matron of honor at my wedding..a huge part of my life until our mid-twenties, when a continent divided us.I was so glad to renew our friendship two years ago with a visit in California,and I regret that will be last time we meet.I love hearing from others what Kathy and her life have meant to so many.
Donna Nelson
This tribute was added by Mary Stuhler (Donegan) on February 15, 2011
I have thought about Kathy many, many times in the past twenty years or so. She worked with my son and me while he was attending Fairmount Children's Center. I was a single parent at the time and many times my visits with her involved speaking about my older son. Her words were always very comforting. I will never forget Kathy Lanier. May God Bless her. Mary Stuhler (Donegan)
This tribute was added by Jaime Baitsell on February 14, 2011
I think of her everyday...What can I say...She will truly be missed. LRY, May Memorial, Camping...babysitting...growing up!!! She has touched all of our lives.
Jaime Gerber Baitsell
Gerber/Osborne/Dipboye/Baitsell "Clan"
This tribute was added by Charlene Kirchoff on February 14, 2011
We have fond rememberances of Kathy at May Memorial and Unirondack. She was an amazing organizer. Our thoughts are with Judy, Lorene, Jason and the rest of your family. Char and Mike Kirchoff, Loudon, TN.
This tribute was added by Pam Sleeth on February 14, 2011
Kathy was a true inspiration to me. Without her and Judy I would not own a beautiful new house. She was tireless in her effort to help me finish my Habitat House. I think of her often when I am relaxing on my porch with my son and dog. She was a blessing to us.
This tribute was added by Marilyn Clark on February 13, 2011
I met Kathy at UC Berkeley when we were both freshmen, 52 years ago. The connection remained through thick and thin. Watching her giving behavior to all, I admired her strength, intelligence, problem solving capabilities and organizational skills. I am grateful that she has been a forever friend and influenced me greatly. Marilyn Clark in Lincoln, CA
This tribute was added by Sharon Sherman on February 13, 2011
This last year Kathy had become a constant in my life always pushing me forward in her positive supportive manner. I was already missing her thinking it strange that she had not yet made contact from California. Think of her when you pass the Salt Springs Cemetery a physical monument to her work in the community.
This tribute was added by Brian Mitchell on February 13, 2011
She treated me like a son and always made me feel at home. Sorry J (and Lorene). I'll try to catch you sometime Friday at 1017.
This tribute was added by Steve Nyland on February 13, 2011
God Bless You Kathy! You always took time to be kind to me, and I will always be grateful for having had you as a part of my life.
This tribute was added by MaryAnn Zeppetello on February 13, 2011
Judy and family, What a shock to read of Kathy's death ; taken much too early.
Although our paths crossed less in these last few years, my memories date to the 60s at MMUS and the house on Edgehill.

Kathy led a varied life and brought joy to her family, friends and community. She will be celebrated and missed by many.

My thoughts are with you.

Mary Ann Zeppetello
This tribute was added by Rosamond Rudy on February 12, 2011
I am glad that Kathy touched my life. She was a warm, refined and caring person.
It was all reflected in her contributions to life and to those she helped when they needed her. She will be missed and never forgotten
                                  Rosamond Rudy

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