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Kathleen's Celebration of Life was held Sunday, September 22, 2013 at Salmon Bay School in Ballard.

It was a wonderful event, organized by her sister Madeline with the help of so many who knew Kat.  Kat's family is very grateful for the help, and for the phenomenal turnout (over 400)


In Kat's 22 years, she touched many, many people.  We all love her.  We'll always, always, always remember her.

Please leave a tribute to Kat McCarthy.  And invite others to visit Kat's Memorial. 

In lieu of flowers, or to simply remember Kathleen, please donate to these organizations which meant an awful  lot to Kathleen: Street Soccer Seattle, Sanctuary Art Center,  New Horizons Ministries, University District Youth Center (UDYC),  or Street Youth Ministries.

 

November 12, 2023
November 12, 2023
You've been gone a very long 10 years and we miss you every day. Days like your birthday, you're missed just as much, but life stands still so we can feel you and think of you deeply. People remember you and let us know that they are thinking of us while remembering you and the incredible person you were and the plans you had for your future. We all share so many wonderful memories of you. It doesn't get easier doing life without you, but we try. I often feel you near me and know you're keeping me safe. Love mama Lisa
August 15, 2023
August 15, 2023
Kat,
  I thought time would ease the pain. It's been 10 years. It hurts a little less, but there's still a gaping hole. There's still raw sorrow and immense loss, but increasingly, other thoughts pop up. Like what a 32 YO version of you would be doing now. What you'd be like. What you'd be immersed into. Would you even be living in this country? (would you have moved back to Haiti? It's a mess now!) Would you be in love now, in 2023? Married? (Carly Israel & I talked about you at her wedding last month). 
  I imagine you'd have found happiness and that 2023 would be another wonderful year for you. You deserved, and still deserve, happiness and peace.
  I'll always love you. I thought these past 10 years would diminish the pain of my memories of you. Ha! No such chance! But now those painful memories share space with newer thoughts/dreams of how you'd be living in 2023.
  I'll love you forever, girl!
August 12, 2023
August 12, 2023
Hi sweetheart, I think about you so often, and I'm stunned that it's been 10 years since you left. I've always wished I'd known you longer, but grateful I knew you at all. Much love, Paula
November 12, 2022
November 12, 2022
Hello old friend!
Happy birthday! Geeze 32 ? I just had my 34th last week. I temporarily moved to wisconsin for my bsn program. Took years to finally get in and here i am in my thirties still in school. Im exhausted. I have zero friends here..smakes me appreciate what little i do have at home and of course… you. No one can compare and you can never be replaced. Wish you were here now. I will always miss you. If i think too much about you it just hurts.
August 15, 2022
August 15, 2022
Still missing you every day. Still blaming you for mystery fart smells. We went to the beach last night to watch the moon rise and think of you 
August 14, 2022
August 14, 2022
Kat,
 It's been 9 years. A long time, but seems so recent. Time heels wounds, or so I'm told. But how much time must pass? I try to imagine what a 9-years-older-you would be like - your life, loves, career, art, and your travels. Madeline moved to New Zealand. Where would you live, if you were drawn to places in the big wide world? Back to help in Haiti again? To build houses with your other 'Amigos de las Americas' volunteers in Nicaragua or Honduras? The world is a lesser place without you in it!
  Mom & I think of you all the time. We love you, and always will!
Dad & Mom
December 19, 2020
December 19, 2020
well another winter here n Eastern Washington cold wet cold , no real snow yet but itz nearing another yr & 1 yr older. well Nov 5th 20 i broke my bak n 3 placez, than had surgery Nov 9th , than out the 20th , THAN CAME THE NO COPD attack & congestive heart failure which 1nce agin put me n hosp that was Nov 29th until Dec 12th whata trip of eventz this all was. now I'm home wishing that I could not gone thru any of this but .... well Sam sayz hi, we miss you sumthg fierce , he still getz moody everytim sum1 askz why he has your tat ... hugz love & miss you everyday. THANK GOSH U DON'T HAV2 PUT UP W THIS COVID VIRUS CRAP ... MUCH LOVE MIJA MOMA T & SAM
August 15, 2020
August 15, 2020
KK,
Thinking of you today. The tears still come for Mom & I, esp Mom. To try to cope, we think of the positive memories, like camping, or nuturing-to-health the injured quail chicks, or your puupy & fish pets, or tree house sleepouts, or so many other things. We miss you terribly....
Love, Dad & Mom
August 14, 2018
August 14, 2018
Kat,
I'm in Kenmare Ireland w/ your Uncles, Aunt Mo, cousins and their kids (your nieces & nephews)
 Kenmare is where our grandfather (your great grandfather) grew up. We (our group of 18) will meet local cousins for the 1st time, w/ lots of discussions of family, then & now. 
On this day, I'll be thinking of you, of course. And this week, I'll be talking to close & distant relatives about you. I'll try not to get too choked up - I don't want to cut my stories short.  I'll try to stay strong for you, and proudly describe what a great
& unique person you were, loved by so many.
So up in heaven, you may hear me talking about you over the next five days, in Ireland.
I love you, always!
 Dad
August 14, 2018
August 14, 2018
Kathleen,
I can't believe its been 5 years without you. I woke up so early today with my heart so sad. I can only imagine how many more memories we would have had if you were still here. I miss you every day, especially your smile. We had the best times...i hope you think of me. Lucky for you, you have my twin sister with you to pretend to be me! I am sure she is awesome. love you forever~~Melly
November 12, 2017
November 12, 2017
Happy Birthday Kathleen! You are always loved and forever missed. ♥️
August 15, 2017
August 15, 2017
Kat, You certainly touched me with your statement as a child " I'm in the TAKE IT APART club" and your appeciation of paint spattered painting coveralls. I always read your Fathers & Mother's tributes to you and I'm touch by their LOVE for you then, now and forever. They are significant friends of mine. Thank you for having touched me too.
Patrick Maes
August 14, 2017
August 14, 2017
Kathleen,
Thinking of you today (I think of you every day, but more frequently on the anniversary).

Mom and I will meet with Debra, Ed, Zack, Kristina and Kit this evening, you may hear us talking about you!

It's been four years. Maybe the pain is diminishing, but maybe not. I was downtown last Friday and walked by your old apartment building, and memories flooded back.

Koda is doing well, but getting old. Arthritis in his back legs, he needs to be carried up the stairs nowadays. Save a spot for him up there, next to you. Say hi for me to both your grandmothers and Uncle Tom.

We will forever love you!

Dad
November 13, 2016
November 13, 2016
Dad and I flew down to Florida yesterday, on your birthday, to see grandpa. One of the engines failed on our flight, we had to make an emergency landing. Was that you? Did you do that? To shake us up maybe...you sure were good at adding excitement to things. I miss you a lot. They say "time heals"...I thought this would get easier, but as time goes on, I seem to miss you more and more. I'm going to North Dakota to support the Native Americans protesting the pipeline. I know you would have figured out a way to get there, to protest and support. I'm going on friday, I'm going for you. This is how I'm celebrating your birthday this year. I love you!
November 12, 2016
November 12, 2016
Today is your favorite day ... I remember how you would be excited dayz b4 your birthday, we miss you dearly wish thingz had been soo different but your pain free & lovin your life as your living it & that were happy 4 U. May you bless us all & keep a beautiful smile going as u know how 2 do so well ... We keep you n our hearts alwayz... Love & miss U forever luv Sam & MOMA T ( P.S. Put a smile on Sam's face 4 me 2day ) YOUR A BEAUTIFUL SOUL NOW & 4EVER MIJA.
November 12, 2016
November 12, 2016
Miss you Kathleen but we will see you again.
John 3:16
For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life.
November 12, 2016
November 12, 2016
Sure do miss you Kathleen as does Pastor Marcelin and his family in Haiti. Love Aunt Karen and family.
August 14, 2016
August 14, 2016
We sure do miss you Kathleen but we know you are with the Lord Jesus.
John 3:16
For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life.
August 14, 2016
August 14, 2016
Kathleen,
  Mom and I are thinking of you today - More than usual.... It's been 3 years now. They say time heals. I hope so. Soon?
  You are Forever Missed!
Love,
  Dad & Mom
January 10, 2016
January 10, 2016
Hello mija, well were do I began , alot has happened in last year , but not all good. But first & for most Sam & I miss you like crazy ... He's still going thru alot of guilt & regret , but I try 2 keep him on the right path & u know as well as I that isn't easy ... But I do know he tries his hardest & that's not always easy ... I been n & out the hospital alot over the past year & Nov week stay wasn't a good 1, they almost lost me from my copd , its getting serious now & my sons will be going thru another hell all of their own if something happens... I need a HUGE favor , can you send a hug or some kinda personal message to Sam 2 let him know it'll be ok ... It seems surgery isn't really an option anymore, & I try not 2 let them know how bad I really feel but now they call me " wheezy " haha & its getting harder 4 me 2 hide ... Please mija I try not 2 ask 4 much n my life but im worried about him. You were always able 2 talk 2 him & calm or @ least make him feel better about himself. I'm like all they have & in my heart I believe he knows the time is nearing and I see it in his eyes everyday!!! I love & miss you dearly , I hav2 close here I can't even think straight right now cuz I been pondering whether 2 write this or not! So if @ all possible can I just send him a hug or something 2 ease his pain he's going thru plz ... I have always loved you as well as Sam & I'm glad you knew that b4 you left us all. Prayers my precious daughter cariño Sam & Teri    " we love you from here 2 eternity " SMILE ...
November 15, 2015
November 15, 2015
Your 25th birthday would have been Nov. 12, 2015. We lit a beautiful candle you once made, and ate Chinese food. Last year it was Thai food, maybe next year it will be Ethiopian food. You appreciated all kinds of food and were my favorite lunch partner. We miss you constantly and these milestone days are a little harder than the others. I certainly wouldn't trade my memories for less pain, beautiful daughter; just know we love you and will miss you always. Love mom
K G
August 26, 2015
August 26, 2015
I was reminded of Kat today. A mutual friend of ours was pregnant at the memorial service, and today posted her daughter's birthday photos to facebook. Can't believe time has gone that fast. I was googling to try and find Kat's art but found this page instead. She is missed. My thoughts are with her family and friends this month.
August 15, 2015
August 15, 2015
Hi Kat!
I'm sitting here with your sister and Kellie at Madelines beautiful new home. Your presence is instantly apparent here. Your trinkets are all over the shelves, I recognize a lot. Your beautiful face is everywhere too. It makes me feel warm and comforted. We celebrate you for yet another year you have been absent from. Love you lots, always.
Melodie
August 14, 2015
August 14, 2015
Kathleen,
.  It’s been a sunny and dry summer so far (a drought, actually).  Two years ago today, you left us. Today it’s dark, cloudy, cold and raining. Tears are falling from the sky. There was lightening & thunder a moment ago, very unusual for our area. Coincidence? Or is it you being sad and missing us?
.  The sharp pains of remembering you are slowly diminishing with time. Maybe that’s good, but it makes me melancholy and mildly guilty. Is it okay that my pain is a little less? Is this my healing?
.  Every day, every hour I think of you. But the memories are changing. The painful memories are giving way to more happy memories of your time with us. Like our backpacking trips. Or being your instructor at the race track, where you were getting my 2002 up onto 3 wheels in the twisties of the autocross course. Or skiing & snowboarding with Tom and Madeline. Or visiting France. Or fundraising at the racetrack for your charity trip to S America. https://youtu.be/Cc9BJLstRIk Or any thousands of memories.
.  Today, I want to celebrate your life. But it’s the day of your death. So conflicted. Mom & I wish you were here. I hope you’re happy where you are, with your Grandmother Joan and Uncle Tom. Don’t feel bad for me. Celebrate your life, and all the wonderful people you loved (and loved you) in your journey with us. I’ll see you when it’s time.
. Love forever and ever,
.   Dad
February 26, 2015
February 26, 2015
Kathleen,
Not a day goes by that Mom & I don't think of you. We tell stories to each other about you. Like when you helped with wiring a switch for the pantry. Or when you went into the crawlspace with me after the new plastic was put down. Or Freddy, your goldfish. Or when you nursed the wounded quail back to health, then released them. On and on...
Love you always,
  Dad
January 25, 2015
January 25, 2015
Kat

Well Seattle Seahawks TAKE the challenge again... You know I'm a 9er fan all the way , however,  Hawks vs Patriots Can they do it again hmm... Will b an interesting game, I'm probably going to make caldo de colas ( ox tail soup ) Luv & miss you every day... Cariño Sam & Teri.
November 13, 2014
November 13, 2014
I miss you like crazy and just can't accept you not being here. I'm trying but it's painful and I'm just selfish wanting you here with us. I know you're in no pain but I wanted that for you on earth and also know you tried very hard. We all love you so much and forever. Love, momma xxxooo
November 12, 2014
November 12, 2014
KK,
. I hope you have a great birthday celebration with your Grandma (who by now you've met, I hope) and Uncle Tom.
. It's a sunny day down here on your birthday. All the people you loved and who loved you are remembering you today (and actually, most every day). Can you sense that? 
. Mom, Madeline and I will do do something together this evening to commemorate your day.
. With eternal love,
.    Dad
November 12, 2014
November 12, 2014
Dear Kathleen, I only had the pleasure of meeting you a few times, I am a great friend of your Uncle Tom ( who is also well missed ). My sister Letia went to Heaven around the same time you did. Although you are all very missed down here, it's comforting to know that you are up there laughing with Tom and Letia and everybody else who has gone ahead of us! You are safe in God's arms, nothing can harm you like the things on Earth. Love to you and give everyone a huge hug from me please!
November 12, 2014
November 12, 2014
Hi beautiful lady!! So Today is your day, " HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO U HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO U , HAPPY BIRTHDAY HAPPY BIRTHDAY HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO U. KAT " WELL SINCE SUNRISE THIS MORNING THE SUN HAS BEEN SHINING BRIGHT AND I JUST KNEW IT WAS YOU. THANK U 4 THE BEAUTIFUL DAY FOR THE SUNSHINE, EVEN THOUGH WE ARE FREEZING N THIS 24 DEGREE WEATHER 2DAY .. WE LOVE & MISS YOU DEARLY BUT YOUR AT PEACE AND THAT'S ALL THAT MATTERS.. WE KEEP YOU IN OUR HEARTS ALWAYS, CARIÑO MIJA SAM & TERI
November 12, 2014
November 12, 2014
Hey Kat,HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!
24 is a good year, that's how old I feel and I'm 26 now. Geeze I remember when we were both under 20. I had my birthday recently too as you probably know. It was great full of love. Of course you were the only one missing! I'm sure you have lots of company up there and a replacement melly for the time being. My twin sis joy is there. Does she look exactly like me?
Well I miss you always like crazy...sending my love to the beyond :)
Luv Mel
August 14, 2014
August 14, 2014
Our dearest Kat, A year WOW I'm still n aww with you being gone. Sam & I miss you sooo much we keep u n our hearts always & forever. Wish we could go to Seattle for your day but of course I have to work but I know you know we're their n heart/spiritual... We luv & miss you mija. I can't even think straight 2day, iv already messed up a couple times this morning and it's barely 8am. Keep shining over us all & keep us in YOUR PRAYERS LUV ALWAYS MIJA , CARIÑO SAM & TERI
August 14, 2014
August 14, 2014
In Africa on medical missions and remembering your sweet smile, love and kindness while serving in Haiti. I know you are with The Lord Jesus and that I will see you again one day. You are greatly missed!
In His Love, Aunt Karen
John11:25 Jesus said unto her, I am the resurrection, and the life: he that believeth in me, though he were dead, yet shall he live:
26 And whosoever liveth and believeth in me shall never die.
August 14, 2014
August 14, 2014
I love you baby girl. I miss you every minute of every day. I am always in awe of how you never gave up on 'you' and your drive to make a positive life for yourself. You too, were a very hard worker, as you once said to me. We didn't get to enjoy & benefit from your beauty and wisedom nearly long enough. You were a very special, wise and unique young woman. We look for your rainbows and guidance each day. Your family loves and misses you. Love surrounds you my dear Kathleen.
June 30, 2014
June 30, 2014
Hey U ! I was trying
2 call in & get Keith Sweat concert tickets 4 here @ sundome in yaks & when I could'nt get thru it reminded me how we called Kube 93 for a concert I never heard of but u said I'd like it , , it wuz the same weekend as daybreak star & I had 2 work so I got tickets 4 nothing. I wuz so upset.... Just a memory... LU Kat moma T. I miss you dearly so does Sam he said hello luv.
May 7, 2014
May 7, 2014
Hello Kat, spring is here and I remember when we went summer shopping. Lunch at red robin n Northgate mall. We laughed so much and people just stared. I miss you so much, and think of you very often.. I luv & miss you dearly.I got another 9erz jersey this time from
a GREAT friend " 21 GORE ". I know your happy & surrounded by alot of love, just wish we could share you, Sam said 2 tell you hello again & he sends his love. My missy is having her first litter of pups , she's due on Sams birthday. He keeps a candle lit 4 you still most of the day and all nite. We luv & miss you sooo mucho.... Cariño mija, Amor Siempre Chula
April 2, 2014
April 2, 2014
Kathleen,
   Your absence affects so many things. Consider just the month of March;
- On St Patrick's Day, we usually went Mass in downtown Seattle, organized by the Irish Heritage Club of Seattle. We'd hear the Catholic and Protestant perspective (Irish & English) of the occasion and the "troubles" in Northern Ireland. Bagpipes, the concentration of Irish, someone dressed as St Patrick, and of course, the wonderful Service.
- Madeline participated in the St Paddy's Day dash this year. You would have cheered her on!
- Madeline's 25th Birthday. A gathering at our house first. The Memorial bookcase with notes and items from the attendees at your Celebration of Life was lit up, including your picture (http://bit.ly/1iiy2a5). Did you hear the birthday guests thinking of you?  Then on to Karaoke on Greenwood. Debra, Ed, Zach, Leif, Janice, Kristina flew up, - too many to name. About 40 people total. You'd have been there, and would've enjoyed yourself immensely.
- Sadly, Dave H's uncle died in March. I'm sure you would have joined us to mourn, provide support, and attend the funeral and Irish wake.
   Kat, we miss you terribly. I know you're looking down and you're with us in spirit.  I love you always,
     Dad
November 20, 2013
November 20, 2013
K,
   Not a day goes by without thinking of you. Heck, not an hour without thinking of you multiple times. 
   Dave H called the other day about connecting a TV to cable in Kelsey’s room. It instantly brought back memories of when you and I built out his cable network (TV) and computer network (internet). We terminated cable ends with RJ45 jacks and coax connectors, tested the lines, and connected them to the main patch panel. You quickly grasped the technology and techniques. I was glad to have your help. 
   So I gave Dave guidance over the phone about his cable TV wiring. You were right here with me as I described how we wired & connected all Dave's rooms. It’s just one example of how a memory of you can pop into my mind over ANYTHING. Are you doing that?
   Like in the bald eagle story in the Stories Section? http://www.forevermissed.com/katmccarthy/#stories
November 12, 2013
November 12, 2013
Dad, it'll be ok. Don't fret and don't cry, life will always pass us by. Who are we to fret for the dead, they are gone, enough said. Love exists forever, we must endeavor.
-original from me
November 12, 2013
November 12, 2013
This drizzly morning, I walked in the woods hoping to see the owl and thinking of you, always. The sun is out now and I'm sure there was a rainbow, ever present, as you are in my heart, my dear daughter.
You would have been 23 years old on this day, 11-12-13, and one day closer to your goal of changing your life and changing the world. I love and miss you, Mom
November 12, 2013
November 12, 2013
We will miss Kathleen but hold unto the promises of 1corinth5:8
" ... Absent from the body , present with The Lord "
Love Aunt Karen and Uncle Dennis
September 22, 2013
September 22, 2013
Kat,
I want you to know that I am doing what I can - that you, connected to all of these people reaching now, are a reminder to us that we need to keep going. That things are not okay, not yet, and that we have so much to heal. You are Loved and missed <3.
September 21, 2013
September 21, 2013
Dear Kathleen. You were the host sister of our daughter Laura when she lived in Seattle.
We are very sad we never met you.
Your life wasn't easy and it was too short. We wish you a peaceful journey.
Our hearts go to Brian, Lisa, Madeline.
Rolf Gottschling and Bärbel Schumacher
September 20, 2013
September 20, 2013
Kat, I was absolutely crushed to hear of your passing. I am so grateful to have met you, even though it was in some of the tougher stretches of your life. Your joy and honesty, even in the hardship, was invigorating. I'm proud to have called you my friend. Enjoy your rest and new life! I miss you very much.
September 20, 2013
September 20, 2013
Kat- I'll always remember all the fun we had when you came down to Fort Lauderdale before going to Haiti, and I'll never forget the overwhelming joy that you radiated after trusting in Christ that weekend. You had such a unique and awesome perspective on so many things and a thirst for knowing God and serving others. Love you and you will be truly missed.
September 19, 2013
September 19, 2013
I know you will be truly missed by so many people. I feel really sad to hear about you leaving this world. In the number of times that I saw you, you were always nice to me. Rest in peace my dear. Xoxoxo
September 18, 2013
September 18, 2013
unfortunately i only knew u for a day and that was in New york for the national but that was the best 24 hours i had have had and ur carefree personality and ur always warm smile will always be in my heart the street soccer community and i myself miss u dearly already rest in peace and may the lord watch over u family and friends because they have lost a great woman and an amazing friend
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November 12, 2023
November 12, 2023
You've been gone a very long 10 years and we miss you every day. Days like your birthday, you're missed just as much, but life stands still so we can feel you and think of you deeply. People remember you and let us know that they are thinking of us while remembering you and the incredible person you were and the plans you had for your future. We all share so many wonderful memories of you. It doesn't get easier doing life without you, but we try. I often feel you near me and know you're keeping me safe. Love mama Lisa
August 15, 2023
August 15, 2023
Kat,
  I thought time would ease the pain. It's been 10 years. It hurts a little less, but there's still a gaping hole. There's still raw sorrow and immense loss, but increasingly, other thoughts pop up. Like what a 32 YO version of you would be doing now. What you'd be like. What you'd be immersed into. Would you even be living in this country? (would you have moved back to Haiti? It's a mess now!) Would you be in love now, in 2023? Married? (Carly Israel & I talked about you at her wedding last month). 
  I imagine you'd have found happiness and that 2023 would be another wonderful year for you. You deserved, and still deserve, happiness and peace.
  I'll always love you. I thought these past 10 years would diminish the pain of my memories of you. Ha! No such chance! But now those painful memories share space with newer thoughts/dreams of how you'd be living in 2023.
  I'll love you forever, girl!
August 12, 2023
August 12, 2023
Hi sweetheart, I think about you so often, and I'm stunned that it's been 10 years since you left. I've always wished I'd known you longer, but grateful I knew you at all. Much love, Paula
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August 14, 2022
Kat, 
I recently visited with your Father and Mother at a on-going Intermec gathering that started years before you assisted in my inital Interview. The formal and company level interview occurred after your interview & approval .
What I'm really saying, if you touch my life (Take it apart club, appreciation of my paint stained painter's coveralls, etc., etc.) the way you did, I am sure you touched your family & close friends thousands of times greater.

SUPERBOWL WIN....

February 5, 2014
Well SEATTLE WON THE SUPERBOWL GAME SUNDAY 2/2/2014. PARADE. N SEATTLE MAÑANA, WED 2/5/2014.... YOU HAVE BEEN SOO MUCH ON MY MIND LATELY. HUGZ LUV & MISS U CHINGOS CARIÑO

For now; for always.

January 15, 2014

Kat,
I think about you every single day and miss you every moment!! Everytime I think I am not doing well I remember you and youre amazing spirit and grace despite everything you had gone through. I still can barely even talk about you without crying. You will always be my best friend and I am sad we will not be together again for a while but I know youre always near me; watching out for me; enjoying everything you are doing and protecting us all from all the darkness here on the Earth. I have planned to name my first daughter Emmalyn Kathleen because you have meant more to me than anyone and I truly love you. I know youre always around but I cant help missing the shit out of you and wishing i could pick up the phone and hear your voice or see your face... for now for always, your best friend Aubs

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