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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, my darling father, Kayode Fahm. He was aged 53 years old, born on January 13, 1965 and passed away on June 23, 2018. We will remember you forever dad...


COMMEMORATIVE CEREMONY DETAILS

A commemorative ceremony was held in honour of Kayode's memory on

DATE: THURSDAY 12th July, 2018

VENUE: MUSON CENTRE (AGIP HALL), 8 / 9  Marina, Onikan, Lagos, Lagos Island

COLOUR THEME: WHITE & SHADES OF BLUE



MY TRIBUTE TO YOU DADDY...

My father, my biggest inspiration and my best friend. 

My heart is broken from this tragedy. 
I don’t know what I will do without you. I will miss hearing your voice every day, your funny stories and laughing over our favourite movies and plays. I will miss sharing my creative and intimate thoughts with you and being able to ask for your advice. I will miss performing for you and seeing your smile beaming back at me and you getting up to hug me before I’d even finished each song. I couldn’t have prayed for a better father. 
You always taught me the importance of creating a life that would outlive you and I’m proud to see that you accomplished that. 
You taught me so much about character and integrity, developing and being dedicated to my craft, pursuing my dreams and living a life of wellness. 
Your legacy will live on through your motivational teachings, compassionate charity work and the gift of your artistic craft that you shared. A role model to so many and my very own superhero. 
I love you daddy and I will miss you...
Your baby,
Tolu

TRIBUTES FROM FAMILY & FRIENDS

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Many thanks for sharing your stories and tributes in honour of my Dad's memory.




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April 23
April 23
Just remembered today and it’s still crazy to think that you cannot be found anywhere on this planet
You were such an inspiration to many people.
They say no one truly dies until their name is spoken for the last time
This is not the last time Mr Kayode Fahm
January 14
January 14
Life is about moments. Great moments. Happy moments. Moments of praise. Moments of wonder. And in your case Mr Fahm, moments with great people. We can still see your smile, and I know we will hear your laugh again.
January 13
January 13
Kayode's legacy of kindness, wisdom, and passion continues to inspire. Forever remembered, forever missed.
January 13
January 13
Another birthday.

I’ll always bless the LORD for the day you were born, my First Love. xxx
January 13
January 13
Thinking of you today and every day.

Happy Birthday to a wonderful father and irreplaceable friend.

Xxx
January 13
January 13
Remembering you on your birthday D1. Your legacy still lives on…
January 13
Happy PH Birthday Kayode. I remember your words of encouragement, how you'd enter the office with that
contagious smile..... what a blessing you were to me. I pray for comfort for your daughter. Your memory lives on!
October 6, 2023
October 6, 2023
My goodness, i cant believe what i am seeing. You have been gone for 5 years Kayode and i didn't know. Still in shock. I was driving pass Ikoyi this afternoon and i thought about you and i said i was going to look for your number and chat you up cos its been way too long, this is me googling you to see if i can get your number or anything on online and i see this rude shock. Life indeed is short.
To your daughter and Nana, i am just one of his friends that he impacted with good advices and helped me to gain some clarity on my work path. He was such a nice person , full of energy . It is well. Rest well Kayode Fahm . God will continue to protect your loved ones you left behind. Still in Shock
June 27, 2023
June 27, 2023
My Unforgettable friend...
Continue to Rest in God's Bosom
June 23, 2023
June 23, 2023
My First love,
I’ll always bless the Lord for you.
Our girl is doing you proud.

Rest in peace. x
June 23, 2023
June 23, 2023
We thank God for your life Kayode as we remember you today. We thank God for the many people that your life touched and is still touching through your baby, Leyla (Tolu). She’s doing well and you will be very proud. Nana is holding the fort well ️
June 23, 2023
June 23, 2023
June 23rd continues to be a tough day in my calendar…five years on, it feels lighter though. Tolu and Nana; today my heart is knit with yours as we remember Ky…what a life he lived!! Still in awe, still in reverence, always loved.
June 23, 2023
June 23, 2023
D1…If you could just see her now, you’d see the vision of her that you saw well before anyone else did, playing out beautifully before you.
That seed of belief and purpose that you planted in her all those years ago, is now beginning to blossom and bear good fruit…
Sleep well…
June 23, 2023
June 23, 2023
5 years.

Still loved.
Still missed.
You will be celebrated in my life.
You will be remembered in my heart, a treasured gift.
Until we meet again…

Rest in Peace, Daddy
Always beside me, always within.
<3
May 5, 2023
May 5, 2023
Uncle K - aka Mace Windu. It's been 5 years and I still think of the memories I shared with this amazing human. He was my mentor and friend, we spoke about martial arts, music, film, finance, and life. We were meant to work on a movie project when you were suddenly taken from us. I only found this page cos I just thought of you randomly 5 years later. I hope wherever you are, you're shining as bright as you did here in this world. Bless your soul and thanks for the many lessons. Till we meet again - Rest well my friend.
February 14, 2023
February 14, 2023
Your memory lives on dearest cousin... something happened today and I just couldn't help but feel so grateful for the few times we had together. Rest on dear Cousin...
January 14, 2023
January 14, 2023
Happy Birthday my First love,
Still blessing the Lord for the day you were born ❤️
January 13, 2023
January 13, 2023
Thinking of you today.
The gift of your life, your words, your wisdom.
The impact you continue to have on so many.
Still my favourite superhero,
Happy Birthday Daddy

<3
January 13, 2023
January 13, 2023
Happy birthday in memoriam D1.
May the memory of your life always be blessed
January 13, 2023
January 13, 2023
We remember you today and the impact you made on earth. We are so blessed to have your family, Leyla and Nana in our lives
November 22, 2022
November 22, 2022
We were lucky to have you
for the time we did
Very very very very few have your discipline and your character Ky
And you made it the challenging look so easy
All my love all the time
To Sister Nana x
and Tolu x
Thank you for all the love on this page ,He deserved this x
Sending you my very best ,and my very highest
All my love ,
All the time
xx
david.fahm@hotmail.com
October 19, 2022
October 19, 2022
Dear Mr Fahm, I think about you often. I thank you for introducing me and my brother to the world of classical guitar. For always being so kind, present and thoughtful. Going to Muson to do my guitar lessons with you growing up is a memory I will always cherish. Even though I don't play guitar any more, I cherish and thank you for introducing me to the craft. My brother plays guitar exceptionally well now, so I thank you for bringing this into our lives. I hope one day I will be able to play guitar with my future children and share stories of how you impacted our lives. Rest in Bliss!
June 23, 2022
June 23, 2022
I carry your heart with me, I carry it in my heart.

Rest In Peace, Daddy.
Forever missed, forever loved.

Xx
June 6, 2022
June 6, 2022
As I listen to Julia Florida today I am remembering Mr Farme fondly. He introduced my children to this beautiful piece and opened the world of classical guitar to them. Gosh how we miss him. I so hope that wherever he is, there is beauty and the joy of music!
January 14, 2022
January 14, 2022
Happy Birthday
My Unforgettable friend..
Miss our great conversations and your smile..
Rest on ...
January 13, 2022
January 13, 2022
Happy Birthday my First Love,
I’ll always thank the Lord for the day you were born.

Continue to rest in peace. xxx
January 13, 2022
January 13, 2022
Just played 'Lagrima' on nylon string guitar, one of your favorites. RIP
January 13, 2022
January 13, 2022
It is always so heartwarming to listen to you play on your birthday. Today, I'm listening to you play 'Julia Florida' and celebrating the progress we have all made since your transition. Time is a healer. You are never forgotten, buddy!
January 13, 2022
January 13, 2022
Happy Birthday to the greatest.
One in a million.
My best friend.
Thinking of you today and everyday.
Xxx
January 13, 2022
January 13, 2022
On this day, your birthday, I’m remembering the great times we shared, bro. Always missed and never forgotten. Peace
November 14, 2021
November 14, 2021
I met Kayode at the Muson Center, Lagos some time in 2005. He had a guitar with him and had been playing. I asked if he could teach me and that was how we became friends. We had a good friendship and shared meals both at home and abroad. Kayode was always so encouraging. He was like a big brother who really wanted you to succeed in your endeavors. I shared my fears and worries and he always gave his listening ears. I got to hear about his wonderful daughter and felt his love for her. He was so proud of her. Kayode I am sorry I found out like this and I wish I had kept in touch after my move to the States. I cared and admired you, your ways and discipline. Thank you for caring. Rest In Peace dear friend. Till we meet again.
October 23, 2021
October 23, 2021
My Boss, I was shocked went I had that you are gone.I can’t live and forget went am earring you calling my name Sundayeeee,each time I see you going out for gym.each time I see you answering my greeting as if am your Boss.Anyway God knows why? May your Soul Rest In Peace.
June 28, 2021
June 28, 2021
My brother. my friend may you continue to rest in Peace. l imagine you looking down on us from beyond with your usual smile . We miss you dearly.
June 24, 2021
June 24, 2021
Still find it hard to believe that you’re not here anymore. Having met when we were both 11 years old, you were a big part of my formative years and I miss bouncing ideas, experiences, news and advice with you. We would have been talking football now.

You have left a strong legacy, your daughter being a shining example of this. Life goes on but I will always remember you. Peace and love to you, your family and friends.
June 24, 2021
June 24, 2021
Never to be forgotten, a friend indeed Kayode, you. I played Cavatina today, in remembrance of you. Memories of you are blessed.
June 23, 2021
June 23, 2021
Three years today buddy. I constantly remember you and when I do, I say a little prayer for you. May you rest easy bro and ride with the angels to Paradise. Amen
June 23, 2021
June 23, 2021
From D2 to D1…
Just to let you know….We are winning!
All the “small victories” are beginning to add up; just like you knew they would…. :D
June 23, 2021
June 23, 2021
Remembering you today and every day. Wishing you were here.

<3
June 23, 2021
June 23, 2021
I will always thank the Lord for your life, my First love. The gift our daughter you left behind continues to make you proud. Rest in peace. x
May 7, 2021
May 7, 2021
To the daughter and family of Kayode Fahm ,am his friend from Cape town South Africa am so sad about the news that he is know long with us may his soul rest in peace I will miss his kindness and very loving person his laughter his smile ,to his daughter he was speaking about you all the time hope that you your daddy loved you so much don't even forget that hoping that his father is doing well also may the Lord Jesus Christ be with you always.
January 18, 2021
January 18, 2021
Still miss you bruv. Say a prayer for you everyday. Continue to rest well in peace. Amen
January 15, 2021
January 15, 2021

My friend, the shock is still as fresh.
Your life was certainly impactful.
May you continue to rest in perfect peace.
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April 23
April 23
Just remembered today and it’s still crazy to think that you cannot be found anywhere on this planet
You were such an inspiration to many people.
They say no one truly dies until their name is spoken for the last time
This is not the last time Mr Kayode Fahm
January 14
January 14
Life is about moments. Great moments. Happy moments. Moments of praise. Moments of wonder. And in your case Mr Fahm, moments with great people. We can still see your smile, and I know we will hear your laugh again.
January 13
January 13
Kayode's legacy of kindness, wisdom, and passion continues to inspire. Forever remembered, forever missed.
His Life

Kayode's Early Life – Growing Up

June 26, 2018
by T Fahm

Although born in Nigeria, Kayode left the country when he was just 1yr old and spent most of his early childhood growing up in Zambia with some brief stints in Kenya and Tanzania. His father was a UK qualified barrister and had taken up an appointment as a senior legal advisor to the Zambian Government. This was the golden age of his family life with expatriate privileges and so much carefree fun and adventure and it was also during this period that Kayode discovered Marvel Comics and the superhero. 

At the age of seven, Kayode was sent, together with his siblings, to boarding school in England. Kayode and his older brother attended a prep school in Wiltshire called Prior Park where Kayode was introduced to a broad range of disciplines, one of which was music and the violin. Kayode took to the violin and played it right through to his late teens and up to grade eight. It was during this period that He also happened upon a fictional book in the library called Master of Kung Fu. Kayode did not proceed to the senior secondary school in Somerset like his brother did but attended a grammar school in London called St Marylebone which, being in the city, opened up different opportunities.

Kayode began to earnestly take up martial art studies side by side with his academic studies from the age of 11 inspired by the legendary Bruce Lee and the seventies Hong Kong cinema. He studied Wing Chun Kuen with Master Victor Kan, Muay Thai and Tae Kwon Do with Master Ken Wah and Wu style Tai Chi Chuan with Master Peter Chen Kayode also took up the viola from the age of 13 and played it side by side with the violin for about 5 years and researched and imbibed Bruce Lee’s Jeet Kune Do concept in every aspect of his life. 

After sitting and passing his GCE O and A-levels, Kayode decided to study Mathematics at Imperial College, London University. When He left for University Kayode decided that he had become somewhat bored of classical music and really did not want to play the violin or the viola anymore despite the fact that his school music teacher had told him in earlier years that he would end up a musician. During his undergraduate college years, Kayode started listening to Modern Jazz and Jazz Fusion and discovered artists such as Earl Klugh, Pat Metheney and Bob James, Kayode also taught Wing Chun Kung Fu and Kick Boxing after lectures and became interested in weight training.

1986 – 1995

June 26, 2018
by T Fahm

Kayode graduated from Imperial in 1986 with a B.Sc in Mathematics and a diploma from the Royal College of Science. Rather than do a Masters, He decided to join Arthur Andersen to gain some practical life and work experience and to start earning some money. Despite exposure to the Audit, Tax, Insolvency and Consulting divisions, Kayode found the work quite uninspiring and tedious and the long journeys (jobs) away from home (including the dojo and the gym,) quite unbearable. He left AA the following year to join Morgan Stanley as an associate in their derivatives division. This was his first exposure to the capital markets and to finance, as opposed to accounting, and Kayode really enjoyed the more dynamic environment and culture and especially took to the battlefield that was the financial markets taking place on the dealing room floors. 

After watching Wall St, which had just come out, starring Michael Douglas, Kayode realized that taking calculated risk was the best and quickest way for him to achieve financial independence and pursue his dreams; he decided at this point that he wanted to ‘Trade’. This would prove elusive at Morgan Stanley, which was a blue blood firm with a very competitive culture. The opportunity would present itself 4 years later at Goldman Sachs, which Kayode joined in March of 1990. Goldman was just entering the European space and presented an amazing culture of excellence layered with humility and very effective teamwork. His outstanding performance soon after joining caught the attention of one of the Chief dealers in the Fixed Income division and Kayode was offered a position on the money market trading desk and later given the sole desk mandate to take proprietary positions (i.e. take outright risk) on currencies and fixed income instruments up to 2 years. Additionally, after many years of listening to guitar music, Kayode decided to take up the guitar, first learning the steel string method, which included chords, pentatonic scales and soloing, and later, when Kayode met Spanish guitarist Fernando Briones Villar, the classical approach, which was a major turning point in his life. Kayode had a very successful career at Goldman Sachs executing some of the largest transactions at the firm at the time, including two one Billion US dollar trades, and was made an Executive Director in 1994 at the age of 29. During this time, Kayode was also asked to speak regularly to new entry level MBAs from schools such as Harvard, Stanford and Wharton on the Capital Markets and how to trade them and held quite a number of stretching, relaxation and fitness classes, after markets had closed, in the in-house gym to help traders to better manage their exposures.

1995 – 1999

June 26, 2018
by T Fahm

Kayode was head hunted from Goldman Sachs by the National Commercial Bank of Saudi Arabia in 1995 to set up a Hedge Fund based out in Jeddah to trade the international capital markets on a global macro basis. This was a Greenfield start-up that involved setting up the business architecture, including the IT and Operational platforms, as well as the middle office, including Risk Management and Financial Control. The final step was to hire a team of seasoned local and international proprietary traders. With the stress of building and running a business, including managing people, the guitar became an outlet to escape, forget and express his feelings; his teacher Fernando had returned to Spain so Kayode commenced private studies with the late Richard Hand, of the Hand / Dupre guitar duo, who Kayode was introduced to and started visiting once a month for lessons in London. 

Kayode would study with Richard for almost 14 years. Also during this period, he attended many leadership and people management training programs, workshops and seminars and ran many in-house and industry-wide capital market training courses. Kayode also taught mixed martial arts on weekends at a local sports club. This four year period in Saudi was the most challenging of his career, Kayode did not have the Goldman Sachs infrastructure, including tips from mentors and superiors to help support and guide him and very volatile financial markets tested his discipline and resolve, as well as his leadership and character, right to their core. It was an edifying period of immense personal, professional and spiritual growth.

Recent stories
January 31, 2019

Kayode Fahm was  one inspirational personality I longed to meet since the first time I read an article he wrote on career development in the now rested magazine " BOTTOM LINE" . I am very  shocked to have discovered today he passed on last year while I was researching on internet and came across someone else bearing his surname ( Abdulraheem Fahm of Visionscape). I suddenly remembered him and just typed Kayode Fahm into the browser search to check on what he is up to now and the first link that came up was this memorial site.  I can't just explain the motions now but rather than being demoralised I found greater motivation from the opening quote .You were a gift to this generation , to Nigeria, Africa and the world.  You life is an inspiration in being deliberate.,focused and passionate about the things we care and love. It is painful I never had the opportunity to meet you but I will always find consolation in the  legacy you have left behind for the world. May you worthy deeds keep resonating  to inspire all your admirers to leave the world a better place.RIP Mr Kayode FAHM.

Remembering Ky by Jack Kontou

October 13, 2018

I still can’t believe the news I received from my friend Paul (ky’s training partner).

Total shock, so, so sad.

I met ky back in the early 90’s in the gym training and we became friends from sharing the passion and love for the martial arts. We had many great conversations about martial arts and combat when he came to visit me at my Kung fu school. We also shared and exchanged many Kung fu films which we both loved. He had such a passion for life.

I will always remember he was a giant of a man with a smile to match.

Rest in peace my friend, you will always be remembered,my condolences to the family. Jack Kontou.


September 8, 2018
MR KAYODE FAHM, we meet in the church [The Elevation Nigeria]. then we became friends, he was a man of his word, a man with a large heart, a complete gentleman, always want the best for me and everyone around him. I remember when Tolu his daughter send him a song she was writing and working on, asking her daddy to listen to it and choose the best, we listen to it together and pick the best before I traveled when I came back you ask me to come and see you before you travel, I could not make it because I was tired and you said you understand, I told you we will see when you come back, I never knew that was going to be the end.
Mr. Kay, you told me you are going to Portharcourt, from there to London and back to Nigeria. I was wondering I did not hear from him since he told me he was traveling, I was trying to connect with him on social media but not successful after sending message, no reply, then I bump into this on google, OMG, am still in shock  I never knew that will be the end.

Tolulope may Almighty God comfort you and your Mum. May his gentle soul rest in peace

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