Memories of KEN BARRY DYCHES, (1938 - 2010)

Valentine's DAY 2023

February 3, 2023

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Living with Barry was Valentine's every day. Why? Firstly, each morning was greeted with a smile, a warm robe from the dryer, and the words " I love YOU". He had already brewed a pot of coffee, and he was ready to make up the bed even if I was not out of the bed. That was the Navy in him. Then our walk with Harlen, and the babies (some call them dogs). They were the humans, we were the dogs. Off to work, and school. The afternoons were treasures. Barry's arrival, a homecoming, with a briefcase in hand, and his suit on, broom in hand immediately, sweeping the sidewalk, and curb. Neighbors come by and say hello, and sweeping continues till every piece of dirt and paper is removed. Then, in the house, glasses iced for drinks to come, and change of clothes to more of relaxed one, and then the biggest hug one can ever imagine and the smile from GOD. One was in his arms with that hug. Now, the mixologist at work for that perfect cocktail and a quiet time sitting with the Koi. It was finally our time. You know, that special moment. A Valentine's moment.

So touching. What a wonderful, kind, generous and loving man Barry was.

September 20, 2023

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The title says it all! Thanks Donald for sharing all those lovely pics! You should post some of the gang from the gay tennis Federation. There’s a really cute one I sent you of Barry wearing an Indian feather on his head sitting on Tom Neville’s and my lap. His laugh was infectious and so, so so cute! A gentler man I’ve never known.

My heart goes out to you as you continue to suffer his loss.

Hugs,

LOOKING THROUGH THE MIRROR

December 24, 2021

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When you were born I was not there nor born. Born in Long Beach, CA., and I in Redding, CA., faith would bring our lives together in years to come. You raised by your grandparents in South Carolina, and I near Nashville, TN by my mother, her mother and dad, uncle, and aunt. How would I lives interwind into one? That story will be told on a different day. This story is about you from the time I knew you till your passing.

Your dad, a lifetime career in the Navy, and your mother, often left alone as wives in the military are to raised their children. Often left with an uncle and aunt due to your dad being relocated by the Navy. A most difficult hardship that many endure to this day. Our lives parallel in many ways. I, lived with my grandparents because my mother, a single mother worked.You and I both so loved by our parents, yet yours could never accept you unless you did what made them feel proud. Mine, always wanted me to be happy. You strived your entire life to be what your parents desired. You were successful in your achievements, and they rejoiced in your success. Their plans for you were to be a successful and accomplishment lifetime Navy Officer, marry and have children. But, you came to reality and at a crossroad and left the Navy. With your Dad’s assistance, the state of Tennessee provided resources for you to attend George Washington University where you obtained a Master’s degree in Hospital Administration. Afterwards, you were appointed hospital administrator for Tennessee Eastern State Hospital, a mental health long term care institution near Knoxville, TN. After meeting your obligation to the TN Department of Mental Health, you secured a position with the TN Hospital Association in Nashville, TN. During this period you came to realization you were gay, and started relationships with men both as friends and sometimes romantic. On one occasion, both you and Donald were invited by a mutual friend to a Christmas party. Neither of you attended, but both of you later that evening just happened to visit the same Nashville nightclub, and were introduced to each other by the mutual friend. Immediately, both were attracted to each other and bonded like “love at first sight”. That night was magical for you both, and it was the beginning of our life journey together.

Denied love by your mom for who you were, you marched forward with your life and all the challenges of family acceptance, professional life, self acceptance being gay and living a life as a married man. Never being accepted by your parents for being gay, the strain caused great emotional stress and often no relationship with your parents. The hurt was continuous, sparkling out of control at times, and finally to the point of no communication with you mother. The damaged relationship ended unrepairable, and your heart was deeply hurt to the end.

Your journey continued with Donald for forty two years, and ended with in Donald’s arm that December 29th night 2010. Both of you were fortunate to adopt Harlen, and you had your family so desired. You always maintained such dignity, love, and grace for all. Admired and loved by many, and dearly loved by Donald and Harlen. You are so missed and loved eleven years since your passing. The forty two years was a blink of an eye, and the laughter, love, can still be heard and felt today. An everlasting love and journey.

BIRTHDAYS

October 10, 2021

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Once upon a time, not far ago, a very handsome prince, son, husband, father, naval officer, hospital executive, and friend to so many walked into my life on his special day, his thirty-eighth birthday. This special person was Ken B. Dyches and I was fortunate to share him with so many for 39 years. Fortunately, we would share his last birthday, 72nd, together in a hospital before his passing. A few nights ago, I celebrated my 75th BD, and though I struggled to be happy and thanked our Lord for this blessing, I found more happiness thinking and feeling Barry's presence and reflecting on all the blessings of celebrating so many birthdays together. What a glorious and treasured birthday gift I found. My heart radiant with warmth and joy. I could share many birthday stories of love, happiness and experiences, but another time when I see you and we walk and talk together remembering who we loved dearly. Barry, however, was the most sincere and caring individual you would ever meet, and one gift he gave of himself not only on birthdays was the gift of writing some of the most inspirational cards for all occasions. Birthdays were not exceptions. They would often bring what I would come to call "happy tears". They were so heart felt, you felt an angel wrote the words GOD had spoken. Barry was a special envoy for expression of words. A truly gift from GOD, and only an angel could speak. I choose to read all those special gifts/blessings ever received from Barry on my 75th special day. More boxes of hand written cards than I imagined. I supported myself that evening with a few glasses(probably bottles) of wine. Never did I think I would have such a gigantic gift without him. I realized with these he was here and I wasn't alone. I know your cards you received are special to you and you must imagine how my heart felt and the blessings we enjoy because of his gift. How exciting to have an ever lasting gift not only for a birthday but for each day. As Barry would want me to say, love each day and each other as if it is the first. He loved you, and I know you miss him, but he is always here in our hearts and most of all his "words". I, and I know you love Barry Dyches.

BIRTHDAY STORY AT 60 YEARS

December 12, 2020

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We flew to Pairs on the French Concorde in the dead of winter to celebrate your special day. Those days were so joyous, but on the night of your birthday, our group hosted a back tie and formal dinner and party in The Crillion Hotel. So magical, and entertaining till way after the midnight hour. On this night we danced to wonderful big band tunes played by a live band.

But. the story is of YOU, when you chose to ask the hand of a wonderful and beautiful 90 year old lady. She was so delighted and admired you so, but who didn't. Most of us all sit down at our tables to enjoy the dance you were about to engage in with such an elegant dress woman.

You two had the eyes of all one hundred guest on you two. Yes, you two stole the night, and how exciting it was, but at the end of the dance you did something I never expected, and most likely others. You took her tightly toward you, and as the music ended, you gently dipped her like a pro and as you positioned her back upright, your feet got tangle, and both of you fell to the floor with you landing on top of this absolutely loving lady.

We all gasp, hoping she was not hurt, and you being the gentleman you are, you attempted to pull her to her feet, and then quicker than the eye can blink, she pulled you back down on her, and everyone laughed so hard. We realized she was not injured, and after getting you both up off the floor, she announced to the entire room of guest, "that was the best lay she had in thirty years", and gave you a sweet kiss on your cheek. What an evening????

The next day we saw her, and she said to you, should we do it again? So many memories to reflect about on your SPECIAL DAY....

TEN YEARS

November 25, 2020

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Thank YOU Barry! We have so many stories, not sure were to start. Let’s start with thanks to our Lord, Jesus Christ for the time we shared, loved, laughed, cried, and remember how fortunate we are. Still, to this day, I am so thankful for God’s blessing and I was chosen to walk with you through life. What a extraordinary coming and blessings of thanks.

TODAY, I remember, the preparation of Thanksgiving dinner many years ago. We were enjoying ourselves in our beautiful new kitchen after our house was destroyed in the Laguna Beach fire, sharing hugs, kisses, and stories preparing for our guests. Yes, we had champagne that morning, and then the fun begin. You told me, the “bird is done”, and I smiled at you, and asked for you to do the honor of removing our blessings from the oven. Well, as i turned toward the refrigerator, I saw the largest eyes staring and frozen on my eyes. I looked down, and there it was, the bird had flown out of your hands, laying looking up at us. In disbelief, we started laughing, and you said, “damn that bird is determined to fly”. I responded with, “honey it did fly, it missed the bridge” (Navy joke). You just picked it up, and with a little touch up that you were so good at, we had the bird back on the bridge. What a morning, and I remember this wonderful event every year. You were so cute, and you poured us another beautiful glass of champagne. We had so many laughs over the years after crying so much that year losing our house. We rejoiced with so many other events and experiences that GOD gave us. So thankful and blessed. How do I love thee, let me count the ways.........Donald

December 12, 2019

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I think of you and Donald so often Barry. I miss you when I'm in my garden, thinking of you when you lived on Grand Avenue in Piedmont. We had so many special times together. Jim talking with you both over the fence, the parties and the times we went out for dinner in San Francisco. Carys still thinks of you and remembers the times we would get together.
Love to you always,
Helen

Vacuum Cleaner of the Universe

December 12, 2019

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We were fortunate to meet Johanna Dunning who owned a designer store in Oakland on Grand Avenue. We found the store on one of our walks, walked in to actually order some window coverings. She was very busy on the phone, and never even acknowledged us. We left. The next Saturday, we tried again, and to ur surprise she was the most talkative individual we had ever meet. I absolutely fell in love with the most crazy German woman in the world and a husband who was more crazy than all of us put together. Anyway, we became such great and loving friends, Barry and I became the godparents of the most smartest, loveable children in the world. How they got that way, I don’t know. But we were close and still to this day we are Uncle Donald and Barry and even now with their children. However, the store was a mess, and actually not clean. Barry was a fanatic about vacuuming. (at one time we had six vacuums), so on Saturdays while visiting Johanna, he would vacuum the store while she and I giggled. Barry cleaned that store every Saturday, because he would watch us both be laughing at something that Johanna had done or NOT done. He loved his vacuum cleaners, and love us so having so much fun. He shopped for vacuum cleaners on a Europe vacation we did. Yes, we came home with a vacuum cleaner. He was the best, world’s best housekeeper. Your right, I never cleaned the house, because he would beat me too it. Our home, her store was spotless. I love you so much Barry. Thank you for everything in my life. You made it perfect. Donald

DECEMBER 12 2019

December 12, 2019

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There are so many stories, so I wish I could share, but they may be inappropriate but they were private moments. So sorry everyone; can’t share some of those special moments. They were only for us.. Anyway, one I can share. Here goes...My sister had come to visit us when we lived on Grand Avenue, Piedmont, CA. We had planned a train trip on the famous Amtrak Chicago bound train, from Oakland to Reno, NV. We had reserved a private stateroom, and was looking so forward to traveling through the Sierra Mountains, along Interstate 80, that my father had actually built 10 miles of near the summit. Well, Barry, on that morning of departure, and his persistent to maintain the best yard and grooming of all shrubs on Grand Avenue, elected to get on a ladder, and trim a tree near the front porch. Unknown to me, and I could not find him to let him know its time to go to the station, I found him 10 feet off the ground on a ladder trimming a tree. Just as I was about to go into a drama mode, a hissy mode, here he comes right at me falling with the ladder. I started to scream, and of course sister and neighbors came out of nowhere, and here was Barry on the ground. He jumped up, and stated, “ I am okay”. Wrong. He could not walk. My sister is now in drama mode, I am crying, and the neighbors are trying to help. Barry says, we are still going? I said, what? even back then “what” was used. I said we are going to emergency room, no urgent care then. He said, “we will miss the train”. You can imagine what I said. Anyway, off too the emergency room, and fortunately, no broken bones, but when I found out that and only crutches were needed, I told him to get up, we are not missing that train. Blessed his heart, he did not say a word, or blink, and got up on his crutches and tried so hard to maneuver but he got on that train. I shared this because he was the kindness person, and most loving individual in the world, and he was not going to disappoint me, nor did he ever. I got him on the train, paying the conductor to help me, got him several drinks, laugh a lot, with me saying, why were you on the ladder on the day we are going to Reno? His reply is why I loved him so much - I wanted the yard to look nice”. How can you ever be upset with someone who loves you so much and works so hard to please you. I apologized for my comments, and hug him and he grabbed me, and said, I love you more than you will ever know. He did. What a man? I am so lost without him? Hope you all understand....

Happy Birthday Barry

December 10, 2019

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It is a celebration of your life. Donald I have been spending precious time together and guess what,, You are right there with us.We can hear we can hear your laugther and words of wisdom, when we get to crazy.you will always part of our lifes. And even though you left us physically, you are never forgotten. I love you forever .

MEMORIAL DAY REMEMBRANCE MAY 27 2019

May 26, 2019

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Barry died (December 2010) almost 9 years ago (December 29, 2019).

Why did he die? His death certificate indicates heart failure which it was, however, the secondary caused of death was a factor that goes back many years to his Naval service. Barry served our country for nine years as a Lt. Commander in the Navy. Approximately eight of those years were served in Vietnam, known as the Vietnam Conflict. Congress never declared war on North Vietnam nor China who actually paid North Vietnam to conduct the war. Barry served on 3 ships during this terrible destructive, divided, and emotional war. All of his ships were exposed to a chemical known as AGENT ORANGE, used to kill the forest extreme foliage so ground troops and air could see the enemy and bomb accurately.

This was an extreme harsh chemical and at the time the government supposedly did not know the long term affect of using it and the risk soldiers were exposed too on the ground or air. Time would tell ! The effect would become known several years after use, however, the government would deny one of its horrific outcomes. Unfortunately, those soldiers exposed to this chemical were dying of cancer at a unbelievable rate. They made it through the so call conflict only to find themselves dying from the effects of the “war” and from its own nation usage of a known chemical to cause cancer, yet would deny for many years.

Barry died of melanoma brain cancer. Agent Orange remains dormant for many years and then rages throughout the body without any notice and destroys the organs of the body through the blood. Barry was always healthy, no family history of cancer, a strong individual, but once this agent showed its ugly face, he died in less than 75 days, even with treatment that eventually destroyed his immune system. The deadly orange agent circulated throughout his body into the brain, and Barry’s inoperative tumors suffocated his body. Barry gave his life for our wonderful and beautiful country like so many others who fought in all of our wars, so please remember their sacrifice to them and their families. I lost everything as others who gave themselves for us. I will always remember his sacrifice. I hope you will. He was a terrific soldier and an unbelievable gentleman.

JUST A MOMENT IN TIME

December 28, 2018

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I have no new stories; just memories. Everyday is a story memory. I miss you and never can't get you out of mind nor do I want too. You were the best, and still the best. Sometimes, I don't understand why I am here without you. You were my everything, and gave so much to so many. I hope they know how fortunate they were for the gift you gave. I know I am. Harlen and I try to celebrate moments, but they will never be the same, and though he says nothing, he misses you. He hungs me so much more now and looks at me. I think he is realizing our love for him, and how much I miss you. He is learning what love is, finally.

LIFE TIME OF LOVE

February 18, 2017

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You were my first and every lasting love. Till this day, some six years plus, you are my valentine. There are no other stories better than my entire life with you. Now, life is just life without you, but at the same time you are so near. I awake knowing you waked me. It makes me smile. Thank you. I love you and so miss you. I often think of you, Misty, and me in that hospital looking at you, tears running down my cheeks, and Misty moaning at night; we were so helpless, knowing you were so sick. You know I was there, right? We never left you until they made me that night you were no longer there. How did our lives live such love, and happiness and go so quickly? I don't know, but for me we still exist. I love you so Barry.

Feburary 14, 2017

Tanya and her Mom Sue

December 26, 2016

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Barry had a special relationship with his neice Tanya and her mom Sue.

BARRY'S BROTHER AND NIECES

December 26, 2016

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Denny, his brother and daughters, Amy and Tanya.

Tanya often called Barry and actually visited us when she was a teenager. She loved her Uncle Barry a great deal.

MISTY, THE BOSTON TERRIER

December 26, 2016

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Misty, a Boston Terrier lived with us for 30 days in the hospital, always giving Barry kisses every night till the night he passed.She gave passes to the nurses to care for Barry. She loved them for what they did to make him comfortable.

HELEN & JOHANNA

December 26, 2016

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On the right, Helen, our dear neighbor in Piedmont, CA., and next to her Johanna, our lifetime friend and who Barry enjoyed cleaning(vacuuming) her place of business on Saturday afternoons.

LAST TRIP ON EAGLE 24

December 26, 2016

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LAST TRIP IN EAGLE24 at Park City, UT.

We tried to play tennis for the last time with our dear our loving friend and her husband.

LONE PINE, CALIFORNIA

December 26, 2016

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Barry enjoyed visiting Lone Pine, CA. We made so many trips enjoying the western atmosphere, and visiting our restaurant owner friend. I made several trips there after Barry's death trying to find him I guess. Visting Mt. Whitney, the highest peak in the contenintal United States and remembering the biggest pancake I ever saw eaten by Barry made me feel closer to him after his death.

The photo shows the impact treatment was having on Barry's physical body. He wanted to go to Lone Pine after one of his treatments. Here he took my hand and told he wasn't going to overcome this and he wanted me to know I should come here often afterwards. I tried at first, but it is to difficult, but I will work on it.

BARRY'S MOTORHOME DAYS

December 26, 2016

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Barry enjoyed every moment in his motorhome. He and Donald traveled extensively in the motorhome. This photograph taken the day Barry had washed, and polished the unit, and the day that would end up the start of the end of his life due to melonoma brain cancer.

BARRY'S LOVE NOTE TO ALL OF US

December 26, 2016

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Barry sent this note each year to me on our anniversary and birthday. I read it often when my pain gets so bad I feel like why can't I just die. I guess he knew there would be hard days after our lives ended. He was right. But, reading his love, the depth of his love, brings me back from the brink of not wanting to live. And, if you are reading this note, remembered he loved you for you and your friendship. I hope it makes you feel stronger to face the day.

Love,

Donald Trisdale

BROTHER DENNY VISIT

December 25, 2016

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Barry's brother, Denny, visiting Barry in the hospital, and offering his support.

NAVY OFFICER GRADUATION PHOTO

December 25, 2016

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A wonderful moment in Barry's life, being a graduate of the Naval Academy.

SOLEMN NAVY MOMENT

December 25, 2016

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Barry is sincere and determined to get it right. As one can see from this Navy moment, he is hard at work dotting the i's and crossing the t's. I am sure it is a speech for his superior Barry is working on.

BARRY'S BABY PHOTOGRAPH

December 25, 2016

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A wonderful baby picture of Barry. Age unknown.

FAMILY TIME

December 25, 2016

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At a car wash, Barry, Donald and Misty. Clean cars, and riding around with Misty and Donald were happy times.

MOTORHOME TRIP

December 25, 2016

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Barry enjoying a moment inside our motorhome. He enjoyed every moment keeping the motorhome clean.

MISTY AND BARRY

December 25, 2016

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Barry and Misty sharing a moment in front of the Koi pond. They were never far from each other.

BARRY HAVING A FUN MOMENT

December 25, 2016

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A good time pic during some difficult hospital visits. He always tried to keep a positive spirit for himself and love of his life Donald

MOTORHOME DAYS

December 25, 2016

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Barry enjoyed every moment in his motorhome. He and Donald traveled extensively in the motorhome. This photograph taken the day Barry had washed, and polished the unit, and the day that would end up the start of the end of his life due to melonoma brain cancer.

KITCHEN REMOLDED

December 25, 2016

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Barry enjoying some new appliances from a kitchen remolded. Actually, Barry was more happy the dust was gone, and the disruption in the household during the construction than what this photograph indicates. He said, "never" again. Of course that would come true sooner than we both thought. Barry enjoyed his new kitchen for about six months before his illness begin.

SAN FRANCISCO GAY TENNIS FEDERATION PARTY

December 25, 2016

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Barry enjoying an annual party of the Gay Tennis Federation with Scott and Donald. Barry enjoyed his tennis and the friendships he developed over the years with his wonderful and loving tennis friends.

TODD SAND

December 25, 2016

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A photograph taken during a party. Todd was a dear friend of Barry and Donald. Donald and Todd worked together for years at NWA. Todd's death came as a surprise to all of us, and Barry being a trooper like he was, found enough strength to get out of bed and go with Donald to Todd's memorial. Unfortunately, Barry health grew worse on that particular day and remained in his motorhome during Todd's memorial tribute. It saddened and depressed Barry that he could not attend with Donald. A difficult day for all.

TODD SAND

December 25, 2016

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A photograph taken during a party. Todd was a dear friend of Barry and Donald. Donald and Todd worked together for years at NWA. Todd's death came as a surprise to all of us, and Barry being a trooper like he was, found enough strength to get out of bed and go with Donald to Todd's memorial. Unfortunately, Barry health grew worse on that particular day and remained in his motorhome during Todd's memorial tribute. It saddened and depressed Barry that he could not attend with Donald. A difficult day for all.

VISITING DENNY & JO

December 25, 2016

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After Barry's passing, Donald and Misty visited Barry's brother Denny and his wife Jo. Denny had visited Barry in the hospital prior to his death.

BARRY'S NIECE AND MOM

December 25, 2016

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Barry's niece, Tanya and his mom. A photograph shared after Barry's passing.

BARRY'S MOM AND BROTHER

December 25, 2016

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Barry's brother Denny, and his mom Sybil. This photograph was taken after Barry's death. Sybil would pass a year after Barry's death. Denny was the younger brother and lives in South Carolina. The photo was taken on one of my visits to see Barry's mom after his death.

MISTY, THE BOSTON TERRIER

December 25, 2016

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Misty would be the last dog that Barry, Donald and Harlen would have together. Barry received so much joy and happiness with Misty. She often went to work with him, running up and down the hall playing ball. She was near his side even the four weeks in the hospital by his side often sleeping at the end of his bed.

Misty died January 19, 2016. Like Barry's, her passing was difficult as well.

Trip to Catalina Island

December 25, 2016

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Barry in the back seat of a car enroute to the ship for Catalina Island with Donald, Scott, and Sammy. This would be Barry's last outdoor trip. It was a day filled with laughter, food, and stories that remain as wonderful memories. This day almost did not happen due to Barry's treatments that made him extremely ill days afterwards, but Barry was determined to have fun with two friends who had traveled from South Carolina to visit and lend support to him and Donald

BARRY'S HUSBAND, DONALD

December 25, 2016

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Donald shared 42 years of life together with Barry. Their life together raised one son, Harlen, and the three loved each other dearly with various four legged cainnes who were the center pieces of their life.

PROFESIONAL PHOTOGRAPH

December 25, 2016

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Barry was always dressed for success. He was very proud and left for work each day READY for the many challenges that faced him each day. This picture would become the last picture of a healthy stature. Illness would fall soon.

REUNION OF NWA Flight Attendents

December 25, 2016

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Barry joined Donald at a reunion of retired flight attendents. Many knew Barry from his travels with Donald. Their support in the days to come would always be heart felt and remembered.

Two Dearest Life Friends

December 25, 2016

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Helen (on right), and Johanna on (left) were life long friends of Barry and Donald.

Johanna and her family were the closet individual who could be a sister. She was everything to both Barry and Donald. Barry would often vacuum her store front on a Saturday visit. We would share so many memories, some good, some very funny, and some not so good, but her love and support continues still to this day. She lives in nothern CA.

Helen and family lived behind Barry's and Donald first purchased house in Piedmont, CA. Helen and husband Jim would be wonderful neighbors and share many happy memories together. Helen remains a dear and close friend. Unfortunatly, Jim passed a few months before Barry. Barry and Jim shared many military stories over the years.

A Navy Friend

December 25, 2016

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Irwin and Barry shared military experiences together, and a special friendship with both Barry and Donald.

ONE MUST READ iRWIN'S STORY OF HIS FRIENDSHIP IMAGE OF BARRY

A Light Moment DEC 2010

December 25, 2016

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A dear friend who gave us laughter when laughter did not seem possible during the darkness of days in Barry's life.

HOLDING THE SHIP TOGETHER - PAM

December 25, 2016

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Pam, a lifetime friend who was with both Barry and Donald throughout the nightmare, and continues to hold Donald's hand. She was at Barry's bedside with Donald when Barry passed as she had been for over four weeks.

The lifetime FRIEND of Barry and Donald. Pam is her name, and she lived every moment with us till the end giving up her Christmas with her family, and wonderful grandchildren. We will always love you Pam. You and Bob are angels. Thank you!

An Officer and a True Gentleman

December 25, 2016

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Barry often wore this unofficial Navy cap indicating his gift to his country, his life. Barry was exposed to agent orange on four different ships during his tenure in the Navy. He was very proud of his contributions to the military. This scene is taken at one of his favorite places, near Santa Barbara, CA.

IN REMEMBRANCE

December 25, 2016

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This live wreath was created in honor of Barry's life and his passing. It was placed on the porch of his and Donald's residence.

Flowers of Love

December 25, 2016

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Thank you all for all the beautiful gifts, flowers, and gift of love and support. They brighten Barry's hospital room with sunshine even on very dark days. God Bless you All.

Beautiful gifts FROM GOD's garden sent to Barry from friends and fellow workers who loved him, WISHING him a quick recovery

Barry from his Bed

December 25, 2016

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Today, was another difficult day. Barry begin having light brain strokes. From this day forward, we continued to hope and Barry continued to fight for his life. Barry died December 29, 2010, twenty-six days after this photo.

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