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"In Loving Memory of Kenneth Montgomery"

Kenny Montgomery still had the first guitar he ever owned, hanging on the wall in his music room. He was twelve years old when he got that guitar. He'd already been playing for six years on borrowed guitars. 

Kenneth Paul Montgomery died April 5, 2012. He was 3 weeks shy of his 84th birthday. "Kenny" was born in Shawnee, Oklahoma. He played music everyday. Even when his shoulder ached and the doctor said he had worn the cartilage to the bone, Kenny would not stop playing lead guitar on his beloved Fender Stratocaster. He said it kept him young. One minute he was juicing the blues on his Strat, the next minute he'd strap on his 12 string and soar with Marty Robbins. 

When he was 80, Kenny discovered the iPod and Pandora. His grandson, Eric Hardin, introduced him to the world of electronic wonders. Kenny would welcome family and friends into his music room. With a big smile, he'd proudly proclaim, "Today I'm going to be playing along with some friends of mine." His fingers were almost too big for the iPod controls, but he eventually mastered the new device, and with the delight of a child he'd settle into his favorite chair and listen for the next song. He could play everything, from Chet Atkins to Eric Clapton, from Muddy Waters to Les Paul. 

Kenny's musical career started in a tent revival. He was six years old when he picked up a guitar and started playing along with the choir. His father, the Preacher, took this as a sign to spread the gospel throughout the land. They traveled in a Model T to small towns in Arkansas, Texas and Oklahoma. They'd set up in a brush arbor or an old schoolhouse. Kenny would strap a pie tin on his overalls as a collection plate and stroll down the aisles strumming his guitar. But in his mind's eye it wasn't an old schoolhouse, it was the stage of the Grand Ole Opry. And he was playing to a packed house of country music loving fans. 


By the time Kenny was a teenager he had joined a western swing band, the "Triple M Boys". Dude Rawson, age 86, played fiddle and sang. He says the first time he saw Kenneth was in a revival. "He was quite a showman and one fine guitar player. He'd take his left hand and come up over the finger board and play upside down like that." Kenny went on to play with the Oklahoma Playboys. They had their own radio show every Friday night at 5:00 PM. The band's name was a tip of the cowboy hat to everyone's western swing hero, Bob Wills and His Texas Playboys.


Kenny played lead guitar with many old time country music singers and musicians, like Freddy Hart and Leon McAuliff, Bob Will's sensational pedal steel player. He also played with Jack Guthrie, Woody Guthrie's cousin. Jack had a number one hit song, "Oklahoma Hills Where I Was Born." 

Kenny remembers: "I was working at the Hob Nob in Oklahoma City. Jack played there off and on for a year. He sure could hold his own. We were playing on the bandstand. We probably played something the fellow didn't like, or we didn't play his song. I don't know what happened. But here come a big salt shaker sailing across the room and just barely missed Jack and me. I don't know whether it was meant for me or meant for Jack. Jack said, 'Whoever threw that salt shaker would he come up here and let me know?' A guy walked up to the bandstand. Jack hit him one time and knocked him to the floor. The guy came to in a little bit and went back to his seat and sat down. No more commotion after that. I didn't know at the time that Jack was already sick. He passed away that next year of Tuberculosis. He went out singing and swinging." Kenny was 19. Jack Guthrie was 32. 


Over the decades Kenny entertained countless fans throughout Oklahoma and later, California, where he moved in 1956. He turned down several opportunities to go on the road with big name country entertainers like Hank Thompson and Wynn Stuart. Kenny loved country music, but there was one thing he loved even more - his family. 

One time while playing in Vegas with Jack Reeves, Glen Cambell's cousin, Kenny returned home after only one week, and proclaimed he was never going on the road again. He said the fast life was not for him. Kenny preferred to play in smaller clubs near his home in Upland. During the week he worked as an electrician in the aerospace industry. On the weekends, he played fiery lead guitar at the local honky tonks and clubs with Jack Reeves and The All-Americans, and after that, with his long time singer and dear friend, Jerry Haney. 


This year Kenny and his beautiful bride, Marysue, were celebrating 60 years together. Kenny loved to tell the story of how they met. "I thought she was the most beautiful girl in the world when I saw her singing in a choir. I asked a friend who she was and where she went to church. I changed my church and started going to her church. So the next Sunday, after church was over there were about six guys trying to talk to her and I thought, here's my chance. Of course I was playing in the band, the church band, which helped some. Being a musician that helped me out. It wasn't my good looks because I never had that. So the next Sunday, I walked up to her and said, 'How would you like to go out and get some ice cream.' And she said, 'Okay.' And six guys standing around said, 'What happened here? Who is this guy?' About six months later we got married." 


Kenny always tears up and flashes his signature smile when he gets to the final part of the story. "We've had a very enjoyable life together. Seems like I've been married all my life. All my success I give to her." 


Kenny counted himself one of the lucky ones. His grandson, Christopher, a fellow guitar picker and songwriter, asked him recently, "If you had it to do all over again, how would you do it?" Kenny immediately answered with a smile, "Oh, I'd do it the same. I wouldn't change a thing if I had it to do all over again. I'd do it the same."

(Kenny loved to make music and his music lives on. We invite you to explore this site as you listen to great Blues and Country Music, including Kenny playing banjo, guitar and piano, while his dear friend, Jerry Haney, sings, or while Kenny jams along with the likes of Bob Wills, Merle Haggard, George Jones and Junior Brown.

This Memorial website will remain forever as a place for friends and family to visit with our beloved Kenny. We can meet here and share a smile, a tear, or a song. There are so many great stories to tell about this beautiful man who touched us all.)

April 15, 2012
April 15, 2012
I want to thank you, Uncle Kenny, for being such a wonderful inspiration for the love of music in my life. In all my growing up years I remember you sharing songs and playing your guitar (with my dad in tow...he loved that so much!) anytime we were together as a family, and that was pretty often in those "cousin" years. Your legacy and love continues on...here and in heaven.
April 14, 2012
April 14, 2012
Aunt MarySue, Cousin Lynn and all my other Uncle Kenneth cousins, my heart and soul goes out to each and every one of you. Some day I wish we could all get together. MarySue was wonderful when I lost my Mother (India), her sister, and I wish I could be there for all of you too. Uncle Kenneth was a wonderful & loving man. I remember his musical talent & always singing for us. Love, Jeannie
April 12, 2012
Karen our thoughts and prayers are with all your family. We are so sorry for your loss. Love Val and Jerry miller
April 12, 2012
April 12, 2012
Message from Terrie Redding:
I am so sorry to hear that you lost your dad, I know how much you love him and how much you will miss him. Hope you and your family are all doing alright in spite of your loss... I think of you so often. Please give everyone a kiss, including you.
xxoo terrie
April 12, 2012
April 12, 2012
From the Burns family:
Lynn – we share in your sadness because Kenny was a delightful gentleman and musician. You showcased his talents at your home in a beautiful, gracious setting. You must know that he was so very proud of you.
April 12, 2012
April 12, 2012
Message from Terrie Ann:
Love you all. My heart and prayers are with you.
April 12, 2012
April 12, 2012
Message From Robert Bell:
He was a special guy. He was very proud to be your dad. I loved to listen to him tell his family stories. It's hard now but joy will come later because of the parts of him that still exist in you.
April 12, 2012
April 12, 2012
From Lara Shamas:
I am so sorry to hear this sad sad news. Our deepest condolences to you, Richard, Austin, Hannah, Neesie, and the rest of your family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
April 11, 2012
April 11, 2012
From Melanie Brewer:
Sorry, Lynn, for your loss. His independent and artistic spirit lives on in you-- And, yes, I am sure the angels are welcoming him to the biggest and best hootenanny up in heaven that there ever was.
April 11, 2012
April 11, 2012
Message From Laurie Vance
My heart goes out to you .. I am sorry for your loss.
April 11, 2012
April 11, 2012
Message From Margie Morrison
I'm so sorry and so sad about your dad. He was an incredible man  The prime example of living life to its fullest. Sending lots of love. xoxo
April 11, 2012
April 11, 2012
Message From Michael Neff
I'm sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family
April 11, 2012
April 11, 2012
Message From Abby Saeg
Yes, we will always love our daddy's! He was great man.
April 11, 2012
April 11, 2012
Message From Tammy Vodvarka
I am so sad to hear your Daddy passed away my dear friend. He wore a beautiful smile every time I saw him. This is how I will always remember him. I love you
April 11, 2012
April 11, 2012
From Marcella:
He has, and will always have a most infectious spirit and beautiful vibe about him. He was so much fun to hang out with and play music with... It is so true at what everyone is saying.. "The angels want to rock out with Ken" I just know it to be so!! My strength and big love goes out to you and the entire family.
April 10, 2012
April 10, 2012
From Gene Bowen:
I loved your Dad and have the fondest memories of playing music with him. What a great soul he was in his boots and cool shirts and a hell of a good lead guitar player. I was always dosed with elation after our musical soirees together. My love and condolences to your family now that your dad is playing in the Angel Band.
April 10, 2012
April 10, 2012
As Lynn's neighbors and friends, we were so very fortunate to have known you, Kenny. We will miss your quick smile, bright eyes and positive encouragement you gave William as you so lovingly included him in your musical jam sessions. We are forever grateful for having known you and three generations on Constance Avenue are saddened by your passing. Gloria, Bruce, Siana, William and Vince
April 9, 2012
April 9, 2012
My dearest Kenny,
I love you like my own father, and you always treated me as one of your own. I will never foget your amazing talent, wit, and all the laughs we shared. I am truly blessed to have had you in my life. MarySue, Craig, Lynnie, Karen, Denise and all, my heart aches for your sadness and grief. We have all lost a treasure.
April 9, 2012
April 9, 2012
Karen and Montgomery family,
So sorry to hear about Kenny. I always remember how proud Karen was of her Daddy and how much she loved him. May your memories of him help comfort you. You're all in my thoughts at this difficult time.
Love, Lisa
April 9, 2012
April 9, 2012
As neighbors to his grandchildren Austin & Hannah, Kenny always welcomed us like family. Going over to Lynn's when Kenny and Marie Sue were there became a party with non-stop rockabilly music by Kenny. He encouraged our son's guitar ambitions by including him in impromptu duets. Kenny was a master musician whose fingers could recreate requested songs in a singer's choice of key.
April 9, 2012
April 9, 2012
Dear Ken, you lit up many lives and I was one who had the pleasure to know you. It was the little things you did that made everyone smile, and you always did it with a smile. You graced us with your piano and your special made corn beef hash. You will always be remembered.
Love the Park family
April 8, 2012
April 8, 2012
I love you, Daddy. So many people love you. Your music, your smile and your gentle country elegance will grace us every day. Thank you for blessing my life.
April 8, 2012
April 8, 2012
Oh Karen. Your dad was such a gentle soul. I remember spending the night with you (on 6th St.) many, many times, and he was always such a happy man. My love to you and your family.
April 8, 2012
April 8, 2012
Ken!
You were the best father in law "EVER" I'll miss you every day and will always remember your love and smiles. Your inspiration for me to take out my sax and play songs with you won't be forgotten. I promise to play more often and will always think of you when I do.
April 8, 2012
April 8, 2012
I recently visited an art gallery where there was a fabulous electric guitar that truly was an art object on exhibition. The moment I laid eyes on that gem, thoughts of Kenny came rushing into my mind and how he would have enjoyed looking at that instrument, talking to the artist about it, and perhaps giving it a twang or two. My sincere sympathy to you all -- love, Mumsey
April 8, 2012
April 8, 2012
Lynn my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time. You are loved, and you are not alone. Ever. Love, Julie
April 8, 2012
April 8, 2012
Thursday April 5th from Upland: My Dad, 84 this month is taking life's journey to Heaven today. I think God needs him to teach the angels how to love, even moreso. We'll miss Dad's precious smile and all he did each and every day. Our hearts are so sad, but this we know: When God calls, you have to go.........perhaps He also needed a new lead guitar player. I just don't know, I believe so.
April 8, 2012
April 8, 2012
Kenny, 
My love of quality Country Western Music comes from hearing the music through your "guitar." Joyous family gatherings from childhood to adulthood; I always looked forward to the music. You were dearly loved and I will miss you.
Dorothy Beer
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Here is my online conversation with one of y dad's favorite singers - the great, Cajun, Grammy Award winning, Jo-El Sonnier: 

Dear Joel,

My Dad died 3 years ago. Kenny Montgomery was 83 and grew up picking cotton and broomcorn on a farm in Oklahoma. His daddy was a preacher. When Kenny was 5 he picked up a guitar and started playing along with the choir. His Papa fell to his knees and said, "Thank you Lord, we will use this gift to spread your word." From then on whenever Papa preached, Kenny played lead. But always, in his mind's eye, this wasn't a poor tent revival he was playing to - it was an adoring crowd at the Louisiana Hayride!

Kenny never made it to the Hayride or the Opry, but in our hearts he was a legend. I loved my dad. I loved his stories and his music. One of my my favorite times was sitting with him in his little back bedroom that he called his "music room." He'd turn on Pandora and say, "Now, I'm going to play along with some friends of mine."

The last year of his life, I started recording these little "sessions" on my iPhone camera. We'd talk, laugh and cry, but mostly I'd listen to the hero of my life do what he loved doing most - playing the guitar, making music, making memories.

I live in Santa Barbara. Every year we have a film festival in January. For this year's festival I want to put together a short documentary honoring my dad and his music. The last words he spoke were a chant to my mom, the love of his life. He whispered "me you, me you, me you. That's what they always said to each other. But before the end, when he could still get out a whole sentence, he motioned Marysue to his side and said, "Honey, don't sell my guitars."

That's the title of my film. My Dad loved Lefty Frizzell. He especially loved your take on Lefty. One of his favorite songs is your "I Want to Be With You Always." I would love to include this song in my film. There's a touching scene where "Always" comes on Pandora. He introduces you and starts playing, then at the end of the song he says, "I like this guy."

May I have permission to include your song in the short documentary? I'm not sure how these things work and if I need to get permission from Lefty's estate as well. Nor do I know how much this usually costs. So any guidance would be much appreciated. Have you ever performed in Santa Barbara? We have some terrific venues here. The "Sings Like Hell" series at The Lobero Theatre is outstanding and of course there's The Santa Barbara Bowl. I'm getting ahead of myself here - but in a perfect world - we include your "Always" in the short doc, then when the film premiers in January, you come out to Santa Barbara, perform at the Lobero, and I include that in the future 1 hour documentary where, in a sense, Kenny really does get to play with some "friends of his." PS I was blown away by your performance on "True Detective." Any other TV performances coming up? Thank you for your time and for sharing your talent with the world. Sincerely, Lynn Montgomery  
Dear Lynn,

Wow, what a great story. My recording of the song belongs to Mercury records and they would be the one to give you a license to use the song. I don't have anything to do with that part of the business because I don't own the rights to the recording. I would love to see the film when it comes out. I bet I would have loved your father, he sounds like my kind of guy.   Dear Jo-El, 

Thank you so much for getting back to me! Yeah he was a great guy. Would have been his dream to play with you. I will contact Mercury. Any plans for a Santa Barbara tour? We'd love to see you perform. I even have a beach house you and your wife could stay in to sweeten up the deal. I'll keep you up to date on the project. My dad loved your music. Now I do too, just another gift he bestowed on me! Do you have any tips on how best to approach Mercury about the song license? How much do songs cost to use in this fashion? Thank you Now I have to call My mom and tell her you wrote right back! Lynn   
Lynn,

I have no idea about the charge but I doubt it's very much because it's such an old song. Just ask for someone in the license department and they will help you out. I'd love to come perform in Santa Barbara if I could get booked there. What did you do with your dads guitars? They had to have really meant the world to him.   Hi Jo-El,   We still have all 18 of his guitars - including the very first one he ever owned when he was 12. The guitar he played at the revivals starting when he was 5 was a borrowed guitar. Kenny got his first own guitar at 12 and kept it all those years - hanging on the wall of his music room - it is still there. Here is a link to the memorial site I made for him. Your song is playing.   http://www.forevermissed.com/kenneth-montgomery/#about   Kenneth Montgomery (1928 - 2012) - ForeverMissed.com This online memorial is dedicated to Kenneth Montgomery. It is a place to celebrate his life with photos, stories, music and more. forevermissed.com  
Dear Lynn,

Wow, I am truly honored and humbled. I would have loved to have met this man. And when my time on earth is over and I get to heaven, he will be one of the first people I look for. I would love to have sat and picked with him. Treasure his legacy and his guitars, I sure would . Unfortunately my father didn't play guitar and he was very poor so he didn't leave me any instruments to remember him by. You are very lucky to have pieces of him still with you. If he loved his guitars the way I love my accordions and my guitars, they were like his children and should be treated with utmost respect and love.   Dear Jo-El,

Thank you. They will be. I am sure your children will love and honor your accordions and guitars, but first you have about 40 more years to make music with them!! I hope and pray this is true. May I use your quote about this in my film?  
Lynn,

Sure you can. I only have one son, we lost our oldest son in 2000 at the age of 21. But he loved my instruments and understands the importance of them so I think they will be in good hands when I can no longer use them. I'd love to think I have another 40 years but 10-15 is more realistic if I'm lucky. One thing I know for sure, life's too short, no matter how long you live.   Jo-El,

Amen. I am sorry about your son. There is no place to put that kind of grief - just one day you realize the first feeling you have when you think of them is a small smile rather than a ready tear. My dad always thought he'd live to 100 even though he lived with half a heart since he was 60. In the end his heart was the last to go - his Doctor said his heart had made so many new connections on the back side where they couldn't see - and that is what had kept him going so long. Amazing thing - the heart. It keeps on growing in ways we can't see.  

11/02/2015 10:30PM

I senta note to my friend Peggy Jones who books the Sings Like Hell Series at the Lobero Theatre in Santa Barbara. She would love to talk with you about booking a show. Here's a link to their site: singslikehell.org   We've been going to the series for years and have seen great shows from people like Greg Brown, Lucinda Williams, John Hiatt, Randy Newman, Tracy Chapman, Rufus Wainwright. When I mentioned you to Peggy, she quickly emailed back and said - "I'm in!" This years film festival is Febr 3-13. It would be great to coordinate Sings Like Hell with the film festival.  

11/03/2015 5:00PM

Hi Jo-El, I've been working on the music licensing today for "I Want To Be With You Always." It's on your "LA Sessions" album and it has Sonnier International listed as the Publisher. Does that mean your company holds the rights to the recording? I didn't have any luck yet getting through to the right person at Mercury but the 3 people I spoke with didn't think they could help me. I'm on to person #4 tomorrow! I contacted BMI about the songwriting. I was told by filmmaking friends that clearing music is not easy. I hope it's easier for musicians when you want to perform or record someone else's song. Any thoughts about "Sings Like Hell?'   Well it looks like you are correct, I do own the rights to that recording but the publishing does belong to Lefty. So I can give you permission to use the song. I'll need to check with my publishing people to see about the license fee. I don't handle that part of the business. I will have my agent contact the lady about the venue you sent me. Thanks for the tip on it.   Thank you for your help.  

11/05/2015 9:23AM

Hi Jo-El, First, I want to tell you how much I love your new song "Healing Song." It made me cry - so beautiful and powerful - and all the musicians - what a treasure to get them all together! My husband and I watched the video several times. I went to the Arcadiana Foundation site to make a contribution. Is there a particular charity you recommend or is a general donation best? Your work in putting all that together reminds me of one of my favorite quotes, "Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the world; indeed, it's the only thing that ever has." Margaret Mead. Great news on the licensing front: I got in touch with Peermusic who owns the publishing on Lefty's song and they gave me permission to use it for just $250 a year. Let me know when you find out the fee for licensing the performance. I'm very excited about this project and your generosity of time and spirit and your heartfelt connection to my Daddy have inspired me. Love, Lynn
January 31, 2014

One in a million.

September 16, 2012

 I'm so glad to have had the opportunity to meet this wonderful person. I remember every time he used to come to his daughter, Lynn's house, he was the nicest guy ever. Kenneth was very loving with me and my brother. He always gave us really good advice. Unfortunately he can't give me those advices any more BUT since he is another star in the sky he is guiding me and sending me those warm hugs that he used to give me with the light of that brighter star.Thank you God for giving us the opportunity to meet this special person......ONE IN A MILLION! We are going to miss you.

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