November 21, 2011
November 21, 2011
Happy Birthday sweet Kev. I miss you.
This memorial website was created in the memory of our loved one, Kevin Mack, MD, MS.
We hope to honor Kevin by making this a living memorial. Please use this as a "hub" to share your stories and tributes. Though you need to formally register to add anything, there is no advertising or spamming associated with registering. You may leave brief tributes below, or longer stories on the "stories tab."
A viewing was held on Tuesday evening, 6pm on July 19th, 2011 at St. Agnes Catholic Church on 1025 Masonic Avenue, San Francisco CA 94117. The mass was held on Wednesday morning, 10am on July 20th, also at St. Agnes.
A memorial service was held at 5:00 PM on Thursday, July 21, 2011 at Cole Hall, UCSF Parnassus Campus. It was simulcast to the SFGH Cafeteria and to UC Berkeley University Hall, room 150. Here is a link to the entire UCSF-based ceremony:
http://lecture.ucsf.edu/ETS/Viewer/?peid=7f8c0b04878842858a8452d33c0b0e111d
If you would like to download a copy of this event, email Amin (Amin.Azzam@ucsf.edu) and he will arrange for you to get access to it.
Kevin is buried in the Holy Cross Catholic Cemetery, at 1500 Mission Road; Colma, CA 94014.
In lieu of flowers, donations to benefit his husband and children may be made to the Kevin Mack, MD Memorial Fund through Wells Fargo Bank. Donations can be:
1) mailed c/o Amin Azzam to 348 51st Street #C; Oakland, CA 94609; or
2) made in person at any Wells Fargo Branch. If you attempt to donate at a bank branch and the teller has troubles finding the account, encourage them to click on the "confidential tab" to locate the memorial fund.
Finally, Natalie Bybee (a dear close personal family friend) would like volunteers willing to create video clips of remembrances of Kevin so she can compile them as stories for his children. If you are interested in offering a video remebrance, contact her directly at nataliebybee@yahoo.com. More details on how you can contribute have now been posted under the "stories" tab of this site.
And on the eve of the 1 year anniversary of Kevin's death, here is an email from the UCSF psychiatry department chair:
Dear Department of Psychiatry Colleagues,
A year ago, on July 14, 2011, we lost our colleague Dr. Kevin Mack. I wanted to reach out to everyone in the department, in parallel with the school to medical students and faculty colleagues, and also in parallel with the UCSF- UCB Joint Medical Program to its community, as I know that many of us were deeply touched by Kevin. He brought laughter, warmth, support, and intellectual engagement to so many of us. I invite you to spend a special moment this weekend to remember him.
The School of Medicine announces the establishment of the Kevin Mack LGBT Champion Scholarship. This scholarship will honor Kevin’s open and unwavering commitment to the professional development and emotional support of all medical students, and especially those of lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender identity. The scholarship will be awarded to one student each year in recognition of important contributions during medical school to the principles of non-discrimination and human rights that Kevin exemplified so strongly in word and deed. Details of the award and the application process will be distributed soon.
The UC Berkeley - UCSF Joint Medical Program honors Kevin's commitment and dedication to innovation in medical education with the creation of the Kevin Mack Medical Education Leadership Support Fund. It supports the advancement and promotion of innovative educational efforts with an annual faculty support award. The fund will be formally established very soon.
At a department level, we instituted at this year’s Psychiatry Faculty Education Retreat the Annual Kevin Mack Life Lessons. Bestowed upon the session that best embodies Kevin’s spirit of life, loving and learning, this year the inaugural honored session was “Teaching Critical Thinking” led by David Elkin and Gilbert Villela.
Kevin will also be remembered by a special SFGH Psychiatry Grand Rounds session each Fall in his honor. The annual event will celebrate Kevin's playfulness, creativity, inspiration, teaching and mentoring.
Also, with colleagues I am planning a special activity for department members and alums to remember Kevin each year at the Fall national meeting of the Association of Academic Psychiatry, an organization that was near and dear to Kevin.
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November 21, 2011
November 21, 2011
We miss you, Kevin. A Mass is being said today at St. Agnes in your memory and to celebrate the day you were born--and a candle is being lit for you here in Ann Arbor. You were a dear friend and you had such an impact on our lives. You live on in all of us and in your beautiful children. Our love and heartfelt prayers to Naoki, Aki, Nobu, Kim and Michael. - Vic & Kathy
November 21, 2011
November 21, 2011
Happy Birthday, my Wonderful friend! I miss you so very much, but you have given me the gift of holding your beautiful smile and love in my heart. I speak with you often during times of trouble, and you are there for me, as always. I hope you are celebrating with an abundance of Krispy Kreme Donuts in Heaven! I love you, Susan XXXXXXX
November 21, 2011
November 21, 2011
Happy Birthday Kevin. I'm glad we celebrated in PES last year, so you could know how much we all love you. We had a junk food feast in your honor last week, I made Rice Krispies. I still have dreams about you, in the last one you were critiquing someone's shoes. I miss you so much.
November 21, 2011
November 21, 2011
Kevin, your remarkable spirit, incredible sense of humor and unabashed joy for life are the memories of you that leave me feeling profound happiness and sadness at the same time today. You always had a way of teaching us to see life through its entire spectrum, and you are still doing that. Love, Vic
November 21, 2011
November 21, 2011
On your birthday, I visited with you today, my lovie. I brought you sunflowers and spent time with you...as I was leaving, I noticed the hill side behind you and sunflowers were blooming in it! I know it was your way of letting me know that you are at peace and will always be with me....I cherish you so much! My love, Susan XXXXXXX
November 21, 2011
November 21, 2011
Happy Birthday Kevin!
May peace and love be with you where you are ... Looking upon all the people who remember you and miss you.
Blessings
May peace and love be with you where you are ... Looking upon all the people who remember you and miss you.
Blessings
September 20, 2011
September 20, 2011
Dearest Kevin. I miss you terribly. I miss your laugh and your voice. I miss your company. I miss your counsel. I miss knowing that we are together in the world, loving our families and doing our work. Life feels heavy. But I feel your grace, and your love, every day, with me.
August 16, 2011
August 16, 2011
I'd like to think of Kevin as having been a close friend, but then again that was one of his many talents: making you feel like the most special person in the world. Thank you for showing me how to live a better, happier, more passionate life.
August 12, 2011
August 12, 2011
It broke our hearts to lose u,u didn’t go alone.Part of us went w/u, the day God called u home.
U left us peaceful memories, ur love is still our guide,Though we cannot see u, ur always at our side.Our family chain is broken,nothing seems the same,As God calls us 1 by 1,the chain will link again
U left us peaceful memories, ur love is still our guide,Though we cannot see u, ur always at our side.Our family chain is broken,nothing seems the same,As God calls us 1 by 1,the chain will link again
August 12, 2011
August 12, 2011
1 mo. ur gone dear nephew, the silence is deafening. The face we loved to look at...the voice we enjoyed hearing...the mind we so admired...the character we so respected... gone forever. It's still painful to accept. We all miss you so.
August 8, 2011
August 8, 2011
It was such a blessing to have known Kevin. From the day he showed up at my desk in Geneva, to our gatherings with his lovely family, and even through death, he continues to touch our hearts.
July 29, 2011
July 29, 2011
To Kevin - one of the most genuine, caring people I have known. Your ability to see the best in all- your infectious smile and zest for life are sorely missed. You have left a hole in my heart, but I am so grateful for having known you and having been part of your world.
July 27, 2011
July 27, 2011
Ah, Kevin, I just found out today and you will be sorely missed. The one person at the JMP who could always be counted on for a wide grin and infectious excitement about technology. You were a rare jewel. I'm so grateful for your presence in my life.
July 27, 2011
July 27, 2011
My thoughts are w/the Family, to his children & husband(Naoki-Aki-Nobu),friends & everyone who came to know & care for Kevin...I extend to you my deepest sympathy & I will always remembered Kevin's cheery smile & encouraging spirit of every morning @ "The Psychosocial Med Clinic"
July 25, 2011
July 25, 2011
Thank you Kevin for touching our lives with your passion, creativity, wisdom, and joy. You have been a blessing in my life. I send healing wishes to your your beloved family and to the entire community of people who love you.
July 24, 2011
July 24, 2011
Exuberance, light, energy, humor, laughter, smiles, intensity, joy, presence, passion, mentorship, and deep appreciation are just a few of the words that come to mind when I think of Kevin. What a role model and a blessing to have known him. Thank you and Godspeed!
July 24, 2011
July 24, 2011
My brother DAN said that your one of the good ones, and that you touched so many people in such a good way. "IT IS SAID THAT A PERSON IS NEVER TRUELY GONE AS LONG AS THIER MEMORY LIVES ON." MAY THE MEMORY OF YOUR LIFE LIVE ON IN THE HEARTS OF THE ONES YOU LOVED, AND WHO LOVE YOU.
July 23, 2011
July 23, 2011
I am stunned at this massive loss but also feel so deeply lucky to have known this giant of a man. Kevin was a gifted individual with a huge heart, warm spirit, and bodacious laugh. I learned so much for him as a colleague and will miss him every day. Hugs to you, dear Kevin.
July 22, 2011
July 22, 2011
When I think of Kevin I think of him with that mischievous twinkle in his eye, calling everyone "Love" and giving the BEST hugs, finding 36 hours in every 24 hour day and seeming to spend at least 35 of them caring for everyone around him. Godspeed, Kevin.
July 22, 2011
July 22, 2011
I will forever remember Kevin's smile, kindness, and the laughs shared with him. He was a wonderful man who will be deeply missed. I am grateful for having the privilege to have known him.
July 21, 2011
July 21, 2011
Kevin had just come to work with us at Global Health Sciences a few weeks earlier. I liked him a lot and was very glad he would be joining us. We only had a few brief conversations, but I knew that he was a very bright, funny, charming person. This is incredibly tragic and sad.
July 21, 2011
July 21, 2011
For almost 5 years that I have known Kevin, never once his face lacked of his warm smile. He was truly an amazingly sweet, nice and kind person. Aki & Nobu: I remember how excited Kevin & Naoki were to have you two beautiful children. Your dad was loved and will always be.
July 21, 2011
July 21, 2011
I will always remember Kevin’s warm, kind, and encouraging spirit. He never hesitated to share his gifts with us and it was truly our great blessing to receive these gifts. He was a bright and shining star and his memory will forever remain in our hearts. Love and peace always
July 21, 2011
July 21, 2011
Some of Kevin's pearls of wisdom in the assessment of patients I carry to this day in full awareness of who taught them to me. As teacher, he nourished confidence in his students, a notably rare quality! He was pure joy embodied & magnetic to his world. There is no replacing him.
July 21, 2011
July 21, 2011
Kevin was one of those rare individuals who inspired just by his presence. Through some nuanced combination of the way he talked, the way he emoted, and the way he moved about and among others, he would always manage to make me feel excited and comfortable at the same time.
July 21, 2011
July 21, 2011
Sloppy Joes-Who eats those?
I met Kevin at a lunchtime meeting at Ward 93. He brought sloppy Joe's and chips for everyone at the meeting. Sloppy Joe's, who eats those? Turns out we all did.
I met Kevin at a lunchtime meeting at Ward 93. He brought sloppy Joe's and chips for everyone at the meeting. Sloppy Joe's, who eats those? Turns out we all did.
July 21, 2011
July 21, 2011
I remember Kevin, Dr. Mack, and that smile on his face whenever I would see him walking down the hallways of SF General. Kevin never forgets a face despite time apart, a wonderful mentor to his colleagues and a great friend to nursing. My heartfelt condolences to his family.
July 21, 2011
July 21, 2011
Indeed, a simple man with kindness in his heart. A doctor, a teacher, a friend, a spouse, but most importantly, a devoted father with a great love and tenderness for his children. With deepest sympathy I extend my condcondolences to his family, patner, and children. MEL-SFGH
July 20, 2011
July 20, 2011
Kevin saw what was great in each one of us, made us feel unique and important, and then thanked us for it.
May what he saw in us live on and remind us of him. And may we value others as he so openly valued us.
May what he saw in us live on and remind us of him. And may we value others as he so openly valued us.
July 20, 2011
July 20, 2011
Dr. Mack, my high school biology teacher. You have been an inspiration to me since the first day of your class back in 1986. I have thought of your lessons of life over the years and will always remember your passion and genuine concern for your students and friends.
July 20, 2011
July 20, 2011
Kevin and I met in high school and although many years and miles have passed, he is one of those special people that you meet in your life that has goodness at his core. My life is better for having known Kevin, the world is poorer for having lost him.
July 20, 2011
July 20, 2011
I last saw Kevin in Chicago. He met my wife, Beth, for the 1st time & as you’d guess, he spent our brief time together making her feel like the most important person in the world! That is how I will remember Kevin: kind, considerate, attentive, & bursting with joy and enthusiasm. Love, always.
July 20, 2011
July 20, 2011
"And what are the stars that burn in your sky?" he asked, his own face beaming. Kevin was so effortlessly himself, he gave us the light to find ourselves. A teacher and healer in the deepest sense, he inspires us to love joyously. Blessings to his beautiful family and much peace.
July 20, 2011
July 20, 2011
Though I hadn't seen Kevin since college, I'll never forget his smile and infectious enthusiasm. If all in the medical professions could have a tenth of his compassion- we would see many more miracles. God Bless you and your family Kevin!
July 20, 2011
July 20, 2011
From the days as roommates at Kalamazoo College to meeting his adorable children a couple of years ago in San Francisco, Kevins infectious smile never waned. Some of us lead with our minds and some of us lead with our hearts - Kevin had the unigue gift of leading with both.
July 20, 2011
July 20, 2011
Kevin was beautiful and loving and always present with whomever was lucky enough to be with him. I have not seen him in a long time but will miss him like he was with me every day. He was just that lovely and has left that kind of echo in this world.
July 19, 2011
July 19, 2011
Every so often you meet someone who truly makes the world a better place. Kevin was one of those very rare people. I share the pain of all who had the great fortune to know him and I feel great sadness for those who did not have the chance to know him.
July 19, 2011
July 19, 2011
Kevin you gave so much and always from the heart. You were brilliant and humane, a rare combination. I always enjoyed my talks with you or watching you with the kids. I cried as I heard of your passing en route to a home visit. Your family is beautiful and you are loved.
July 19, 2011
July 19, 2011
Kevin's amazing smile spread joy and light in SFGH hallways and elevators. I will miss him rounding the corners, passing me by with his contagious smile. His goodness & humanity will simply be missed in our community. My prayers and loving thoughts are with his beautiful family.
July 19, 2011
July 19, 2011
A brilliant, humble, joyful, and always-inspiring colleague and a dear friend. We will never forget you.
July 19, 2011
July 19, 2011
Missing his sweet smile, wicked sense of humor and teasing French when signing out. Kevin's energy and sense of purpouse seemed always driven by a sense of service. I won't forget your love and light.
July 19, 2011
July 19, 2011
Kevin was one of my dearest friends, as I'm sure it's the same for many others. He had a gentle and kind spirit, a wonderful sense of humor, and was brilliant. I will miss him so very much, as will my children.
July 19, 2011
July 19, 2011
Kevin, unique of all the people I've met, had the gift of encountering each new person whole-heartedly, as if each person were a marvelous new world to explore. And, having found each new world, he set out to offer gifts and improvements, like a kindly Santa (or saint).
July 19, 2011
July 19, 2011
Kevin was seldom without a smile, and never without a kind word. He was a role model for so many people in every aspect of his life. Everyone who knew him reaped the benefit of his light, compassion, intellect, humor and boundless energy.
July 19, 2011
July 19, 2011
I remember half an hour I spent in your office when I was a medical student and my dear friend was gravely ill. Your insights helped me immeasurably through that time, and gave me a deeper understanding of myself and my loved ones. Thank you for all you gave to us all.
July 19, 2011
July 19, 2011
We met Kevin through Arpana and recently when he and Naoki graciously hosted Arpana and Rajiv's sendoff party. Kevin always had a big, bright smile. We are heartbroken. Sending warmest wishes to Naoki and family for strength, and with time, peace. Usha and Sumant Ranji.
July 19, 2011
July 19, 2011
We will forever miss such a sweet soul and wonderful friend to us and our children. He always had a sweet word and a joyous smile. We will miss our dinners with you, our protests with you and our talks. We cherish our memories of a such a sweet man.
July 19, 2011
July 19, 2011
Kevin was a great source of inspiration both professionally and personally. To me, he was the heart of the JMP. I remain grateful. Always.
July 19, 2011
July 19, 2011
In tribute to the impact of his friendship on my life, I will strive to keep Kevin's candle glowing by demonstrating the joy and caring for all that he embodied... every day.
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July 14, 2023
July 14, 2023
Miss you, my friend.
July 14, 2023
July 14, 2023
Twelve years ago we lost one of the most amazing men I’ve ever known. My heart is still is broken over the loss of you, my dear nephew, Kevin Allen Mack. You were sterling character of a man a brilliant doctor and a Fun and Funny, sweet loving guy. I will miss you always and forever til the day I die. And when I die I hope to meet your sweet soul in heaven. Love, Auntie Laurie
November 23, 2022
November 23, 2022
京都の大学でUCSFで君が取り組んでいた学生参画型授業に関する講演をしましたね。随分かれから時間が経ったのですが、あの教育方法は今でも課題になっています。21世紀の社会、それは多くの困難な課題が噴出し、その解決を私たちは求められています。答えのない世界に立ち向かる人々が求められている時代になっているのです。そのため、教育はそれを課題にして改革しなければなりません。貴方はその先駆者だっとと思います。わたしはあなたをいつまでも忘れくことはないでしょう。
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Loving you still!
July 18, 2019
Kevin, your light continues to shine In so many lives! I am grateful for the time we had on this earth together. You indeed will be forever missed...
July 17, 2019
Eight years now. Hard to believe. Kevin, I remember you so clearly, your compassion and your eagerness to learn and teach. Haven't seen Naoki or the kids in a long time, but I remember them fondly and expect that they will all continue to grow.
I also remember your wicked wit, and I miss that as much as your kindness.
Two Years
July 14, 2013
Yes, today is the two –year marker of the loss of our dear Kevin.
One of Kevin’s favorite books was “The Four Agreements” by Don Miguel Ruiz, and he lived by those four agreements: 1) Be impeccable with your word 2) Don’t take anything personally 3) Don’t make assumptions and 4) Always do your best.
He fought hard for marriage equality and would have been so heartened by the recent Supreme Court decisions.
Many of you contributed to the Japanese maple tree that we planted at San Francisco General Hospital in Kevin’s honor in the Comfort Garden in front of building 90 (immediately in front of the ramp to the right front side of the door) and to the bench in front of it. If you haven’t been by there for awhile, I urge to stop and take a look at the growth and strength of the tree in “Kevin’s Corner.” It is a living symbol of the life he shared with so many of us, and continues to be a source of inspiration and hope.