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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Kyle Leventhal. We will remember him forever.
April 18, 2023
April 18, 2023
Kyle, you will never be forgotten. Thinking about you buddy.
April 17, 2023
April 17, 2023
Although I never had the opportunity to meet Kyle, I can see the impact he had on the lives of those around him still flourishing. I am a member of Eta Gamma Chapter of Pi Kappa Phi at the University of Colorado Boulder. We will always continue our tradition of our Brotherhood softball game in honor of Kyle's life. I give my condolences to his family and my brothers that had the privilege of knowing him. ODH Kyle
You're in my prayers,
Owen H Lindsay
July 10, 2021
July 10, 2021
Dear Leventhal Family,

We are heartbroken to hear about the loss of Kyle. You're such a lovely family and we are thinking of you and praying for peace and comfort for each of you.

Sincerely,

The Blee Family
July 6, 2021
July 6, 2021
We loved getting Kyle’s memorial card in the mail this last week. We are thinking of all of the family and friends who are missing Kyles’s warmth, love and laughter. Sending you all strength and love.
July 6, 2021
July 6, 2021
This is a letter I wrote to Kyle at the beginning of his Junior year of high school. He was attending a 4 day spiritual retreat called Kairos, with most of his classmates. The school asked each parent to write a letter to their son to read while he is away.

October 2, 2016

Dear Kyle,

As part of the Kairos experience, Serra asked me to reflect on my relationship with you, what areas you’ve grown the most and how proud I am of the young man you’ve become. It’s a great way for me to stop and think about my ever-evolving relationship with you. Its interesting to me that my last letter to you was for your Bar Mitzvah and you were questioning your relationship with GOD. Here you are, 3.5 years later on a spiritual retreat with your classmates, exploring many of the same questions. Maybe you will remember that the word “Israel” actually means, “wrestling with God”. and that your Bar Mitzvah was a ‘rite of passage”. As you know, a Bar Mitzvah isn’t part of most societies or Catholic cultures so believe it or not, be proud that you have more “God wrestling” experience than anyone else in your class!

One of the things that I appreciate about your growth is how aware you have become of the world around you. Your interest in the world of business, politics, social injustices, the importance of taking responsibility, working hard in the classroom and on your sports teams and assessing risks and rewards has all been expanding in your life. I would like to take some credit for giving you so many opportunities to explore life by putting you into so many different environments for you to experience. But to put it into sporting metaphor that you will understand, we have gotten you season's tickets to as many different sporting events and teams in as many cities and countries as we could. But in the end, you were the one who developed the skills to put on the many different uniforms, pick up different balls and figure out how to be a star on nearly every field you stepped on. And that is not an area I will take any credit for. Great athletes like you have an underlying drive, passion to win, curiosity bug that drives them to try new things even if failure looms in the distance. I hope you continue to try out new things and step up to challenges that stand before you. Regret for not trying would be a crime with someone with your skills.

I would also imagine that you are seeing that your future is unfolding faster than you may realize. In only 18 months, our time together--that is, living in our home under our rules--is coming to end. Im sure there is an excitement about that door closing but while this door will soon close, the door of your future will be swinging wide open and it’s more vast than you can ever imagine. The options you are creating for yourself provide you almost limitless possibilities.
But it won’t be easy when not everyone is as supportive as you have here at home and in your school. You have had the good fortune to have lived where everyone loved you and cared about you. As you move into college and beyond, you will have to find your own way, find out who your true friends are and who has your back. Thats where I hope you never forget that If you have a problem, you can talk to me. Few things you will say will shock me and there is every chance, though admittedly just a chance, that I might have a good suggestion. And while the law will soon recognize you as an adult, I promise you that you still have much to learn.

As we both know, growing up can be very hard sometimes. Living in our house has its advantages and of course, it has disadvantages when things don’t go your way. But at the end of everyday, no matter how good or bad my day has gone, mistakes either one of us has made, things I wish happened or things that didn’t happen, I know you are my only son and someone I love with every bone in my body. Even as you prepare for adulthood, I’m shocked sometimes that I love you even more. The good news is that my love comes without strings, but unfortunately, life does not. If there are things you want to achieve, knowledge you want to gain or friends you want to make, it is entirely up to you.

Finally, as mom and I told you at your Bar Mitzvah, our hopes for you are high and true. 

Continue to share your love and joy with everyone you meet and that nothing destroys the kindness in your heart.

Start every day with laughter.

Your intelligence and inquisitiveness leads you to a love of learning and new discoveries.

You follow the guideposts of honesty, responsibility and perseverance on your path to your future

When the harsh realities of life throw obstacles in your way, face them head-on and never let them stop you.

Find love based on trust and friendship and you are as lucky as I am to be with someone like your mother whose passion, respect and honesty will support you through the years;

Always hold on to your innate understanding of right and wrong. You already possess a powerful trait – the courage to stand up for your beliefs.

Be an independent thinker, regardless of the temptations to follow what’s popular.

Most of all use your talents to do something remarkable so that you will make a difference in this world.

You have brought more joy and happiness to us than you will ever know just in being yourself and giving us the pleasure of watching you blossom into the handsome young man you are today.

Love

Dad
July 6, 2021
July 6, 2021
Suzanne, Andy & Alana,

Just wanted to know we are thinking of you all. Kyle will forever be in our hearts as will be your whole family.

Love,

Tony, Christine, Matthew & Noah
July 5, 2021
July 5, 2021
Suzanne and Andy,
Thinking of you this week.  Kyle was a special person from a wonderful family.
Sending you our thoughts and love,
Barbara and Erik
July 4, 2021
July 4, 2021
Dear Suzanne, Andy, and Ilana, we think of you and Kyle often and our hearts pour out to you this weekend - and always. I have loved reading the many tributes to Kyle over the past months, and one in particular made me smile - Eric Haugen's telling of Kyle at the gym when he first started training - setting the example and whipping the younger boys into shape. Those images of Kyle's enthusiasm, dogged determination, and drive keep me going during my early morning work-outs - particularly a sprint I do up a hill. Whenever I want to just quit (which is always), I think of Kyle and power through, honoring his perfect spirit, imagining him cheering us and encouraging each us up our hills, each and every day. Heart-felt love to you all.  Jennifer & Roch
July 4, 2021
July 4, 2021
Alanna, Suzanne and Andy.

Like many of your friends, our families thoughts this weekend are filled with memories of Kyle and loving support for the three of you. Though we expressed early concerns about the potential for memories to fade, I can assure you they have not. Kyle seems to be everywhere for us. We think of him with every walk down Hillcrest, with every kid being dragged by a dog down Midway, every drive past Park School, every visit to Boulder and every time my daughter's phone lights up, revealing that 4 yr old Kyle is still her screen saver. 

Last, a thank you. Your conviction to being in the present, expressing gratitude and appreciation for each other has been both helpful and inspiring to all of us.

Love to the three of you from the Wad-hontes house
July 3, 2021
July 3, 2021
Andy and Suzanne and Alana,

As we celebrate the Fourth of July, I will think about Kyle living life and enjoying it with his friends a year ago. Kyle's presence is still here and felt by so many. My heart and love goes out to all of you on the anniversary of Kyle's passing.

With Love, Marilee
June 23, 2021
June 23, 2021
Suzanne, Andy and Alana,
Nearly a year now and the loving memories of Kyle continue to bubble up in our mind. Each memory bringing a smile to our faces and a light to our day. Because that's what Kyle would do each time he showed up.
Sending you love today and everyday.
February 14, 2021
February 14, 2021
Did not know Kyle well ... but the ongoing impact he has had on so many is so clear, so beautiful, and so fully real-time present. Blessings to all of the Leventhals.
February 13, 2021
February 13, 2021
Happy 21st Birthday Kyle!! Thinking of you and sending you so much love today ❤️
September 10, 2020
September 10, 2020
Kyle,

Your leadership kindness, and athleticism added joy to all of our lives.

Enjoy the below video of your younger years playing Patriots Flag football.

https://vimeo.com/436566848 
Password: patriots

With Love,
Lynda, John & James Marren
August 23, 2020
August 23, 2020
Today is Kyle's 49th day from passing away. According to the Buddhist's beliefs, his soul has reached his next destination. If it speaks to you perhaps light a candle for Kyle. Thank you everyone for your loving support during this difficult time of loss.
August 5, 2020
August 5, 2020
Dear Leventhal Family,

Kyle and I met in Kindergarten at PTS many, many years ago and were in the same class for over a decade. I feel grateful beyond words for all the Sundays I got to spend with your son and will cherish them forever...

As you well know by now, your son impacted more lives in his short twenty years of life than most people do over the span of one hundred. Kyle was not only a loyal friend to me and so many others, but he was a happy person with one of the biggest hearts I know and a sincere love for life. While I recognize that no amount of words could ever numb this pain, I am hopeful that this outpouring of love has and will continue to bring you the comfort and strength to help you mourn and heal. As Rabbi Feder reminded us during Kyle’s beautiful memorial service, grieving is not a linear process. Be patient with yourselves. Sending lots of support and strength your way ❤️

With Love,
Audrey Isackson
July 20, 2020
July 20, 2020
Dear Andy, Suzanne, and Alana,

I am so sorry to learn about the passing of Kyle. What an awesome young man who left this life way too soon. I hope that all of the beautiful tributes help to ease some of your grief. As Kyle travels to his next destination, I am wishing for you all to see bright symbols of him throughout your days to put a smile on your faces.
May his memory be a blessing.
July 16, 2020
July 16, 2020
Dear Andy and Suz. We were with Kyle today at 1:15. We took a few moments of silence to send love to him on his journey.  There were dragonflies swirling all around!
Dragonflies have been a notable part of folklore in many countries, especially Japan. Japanese tradition views dragonflies as symbols of swiftness. The dragonfly is generally associated with the symbolic meaning of Change and transformation,
Adaptability, Joy, lightness of being and a
Symbol of the realm of emotions. Being on the lookout for illusions and deceits, whether they are external or personal ......
And Connection with nature’s spirits, fairies and other worldly realms,

He is on his journey and he is smiling away and happy. He is at peace.

I love you. I love our family. I miss you Kyle. ❤️

July 16, 2020
July 16, 2020
Kyle's spirit is soaring free...

All the cranes, notes, and a few petals from every flower arrangement are accompanying Kyle as he started his new journey today at 10:15 AM. It will take about 4 to 5 hours for his physical form to turn to dust. Tibetan Buddhists believe it takes 49 days for Kyle's journey to reach the next destination. Thank you all for surrounding my family with so much love, prayers, and support during our time of deep sorrow. As I grieve, I unplug so I can spend more time with Kyle's spirit during his transition. As my life quiets down, I look forward to responding to every email, text, message, and finding ways to connect.
July 16, 2020
July 16, 2020
Kyle.
Life after death: Your leather baseball glove is with you and you are standing in left field taking in the sun, or feeling the mist of a light rain, or noticing a soft breeze and any of these are perfect, as you scratch the dirt below your cleats and notice your friends on the field and in the stands. And with every ball that comes at you, and every ball does, like every person, a dream come true, there is an explosion of joy, like you had for your friends and family, a thrust of motion into a dive, into a hug, a joke, support for Alana, a welcome to a shy person, love. And every time it’s a snow cone catch, another smile created, another heart warmed, another spirit lifted. As you were in life, may you continue to be, uniform dirty, smile bright.

Xo Gary and Rebecca
July 16, 2020
July 16, 2020
Kyle is my best friend’s brother and my brother’s best friend.

One of the last nights I spent with Kyle, we were all star-gazing at the Donato’s campsite on the American river.  We lay on the sand by the campfire staring at the sky. We all wanted to see a shooting star, and finally, after three hours, we all spotted the same one. We shouted with pride and joy, and pointed at the now black spot in the sky with big smiles. We felt euphoric because we got to see it, but mostly because we all got to see it together.

A few nights ago, Alana and I googled what a shooting star really is. “A short-lived burst of light.”

The only way I can pull the smallest bit of hope from this horrible, unfathomable loss, is knowing that your brilliant light, light that you touched so many people with while you were living, now lives inside all of us. We are all brighter because of you.

And you will be with us always — as we make big decisions, visit beautiful places, choose people to love, raise children, listen to great music.

Thank you for sharing your light with us, Kyle — especially with my brother and my best friend.

Thank you for making me brighter, Kyle. I wish I could have thanked you while you were still here.

I love you, rest easy.
July 15, 2020
July 15, 2020
Dear Leventhal Family, on behalf of Kyle Hetzel and his family, we send our heartfelt thoughts to you all. Even though Kyle H and Kyle L only knew each other for 7th and 8th grades, I know Kyle H has fond memories of Kyle L. Being new to the school and the class, Kyle H appreciated Kyle L's warmth and open arms welcoming him to a new school and new group of classmates. We wish you all the best during these trying times.
July 13, 2020
July 13, 2020
Dear Andy, Suzanne and Alana,

I watched the memorial service with tears in my eyes, although I didn't even know Kyle. I was deeply touched by the amazing descriptions of him as a friend, a son, a brother and a nephew.
I will never get to know him personally, but through everyone's words I understood what I missed, and how lucky you are all to have had the opportunity to live beside him for a short but full 20 years.
No words can heal the pain, as you said Andy; it is the feelings, the vivid memories, the love in your hearts that will keep him alive within you, keep you strong through this unbelievable difficult time, and help you find new meanings to your life.

May you never experience such sorrow again.
May God comfort you among the mourners of Zion and Jerusalem.

Please accept my condolences and a virtual big hug,

Na'ama Yarden
(Paul's long time friend)
July 13, 2020
July 13, 2020
Dear Andy, Suzanne, and Alana:
As you know, Kyle grew up right next-door and before our very eyes. We remember him as an infant in your arms not long after you moved onto the block. Kyle was simply adorable with that cute smile and amazing head of hair! That sweet baby grew into a darling young boy who also happened to love an afternoon omelet with his neighbors. So full of life and happiness was Kyle. We remember his sweet voice on your answering machine that you kept for so many years. I understand why you kept his recording for so long as who could resist listening to his message over and over again. We recall Kyle's bar mitzvah where he was surrounded by family and friends. It was a beautiful and memorable ceremony filled with faith and love. Seeing Kyle amongst his peers was fun for us. We both noticed that he just fit right in. As the years passed, that boy we once knew was growing up to be a kind, charismatic, and loveable man. Kyle spread joy wherever he went and whomever he touched. May he continue to spread his joy and love from the heavens. We love you Kyle and will never forget you, your smile, and the twinkle in your eyes. May God bless the Leventhal/Nakamura family. 
July 13, 2020
July 13, 2020
Andy, Suzanne and Alana...

My darling Kyle,

I know you're having a great time throwing the football around with all the angels and saints. But when you do take a break (like maybe at half time), please see us and hear our prayers. 

Bless your mom and dad. Hold them close. Bring them peace and tortilla chips.

Stay close to your sister Alana. Be with her today and every day. And be with her in a very special way at Thanksgiving. Bring her warm, loving memories...and a jab or two from time to time as only a brother can.

Oh yeah, and when you see my brother, Steve, please let him know I love him and I'm doing ok. I miss him and I hope I am making him proud living a sober life.

Thank you, Kyle, for reminding us all to love and live our lives - each day, each moment like its the fourth quarter/fourth down.

Sending you touchdown wishes
And rooting for your team,
Love,
Apryll

PS. Remember, when they go to pick teams, try to get on King David's team. He's the one that did the stone and Goliath thing.

Dear Suzanne, Andy and Alana, I hope this prayer is ok. And yes, it did take more than one oragami paper. The Nakamura-Koyama cranes are on their way to you today. Its a good thing they are getting burned. If you recall. the cranes I folded for JIll's wedding and for your mom's SLC memorial were pretty disasterous. It was nice of you and Robin to pretend my cranes were ok (ha, ha). My prayers are with you all, and as I have said in the past, it's not "all we can do is pray", or "just prayer" - praying is a big deal. I think God cries with us, and smiles with us, and loves us through times like this. El Shadai - God will provide.
July 12, 2020
July 12, 2020
I met Kyle years before I had met Andy or Suzanne. Because of my background in fitness, I was recruited by the father of one of Kyle's friends to ensure that this motley crew of pre-teen boys (consisting of Aidan, Alex, Noah and Kyle) did no harm to themselves or their budding growth-spurts when embarking for the first time on a weight lifting regimen at the local 24-Hour. I arrive with the father and 3 peripubescent boys and attempt to locate "Kyle" who had already been dropped off.

Now, if you've never been to the SM 24, it's material to know that there is a hierarchy there. Social-economic status typically plays an inverse relationship to where you belong in this gym. You have to earn respect, you have to give respect and you have to demonstrate that you belong....and it is here, on the floor of the main weight room, amidst the squat racks & flat benches loaded with 45lb plates, we are met by KYLE! (I emphasize "KYLE" because even on approach his fantastic aura preceded his greeting.)

Though he was only months older than his friends, he carried himself with the confidence and maturity of the Samoan power lifters who dominated the "floor". Here was a 13-year old boy in a man's body and with a man's swagger. I was impressed!!....and quickly realized, I need not be here. This young man, who had already competed an hour of chest/tri supersets, clearly could shepherd his friends safely on their paths not only to fitness but through the politics of a testosterone filled and sometimes violent landscape.

Years later, I had the pleasure of meeting Andy and Suzanne (at the river) and within moments of making the connection, I understood how this boy/man...this KYLE(!), I had met years earlier, came to be.

He most certainly will be missed, but I have no doubt his impact and spirit will live on in all the lives he touched. I see him in Aidan, I see him in Alex, I see him in Sarah, in David, in Kira, in Andy, Suzanne, his sister, in the eyes of everyone who knows THEY BELONG and, if I'm lucky, when I look in the mirror...in me.
July 12, 2020
July 12, 2020
Dear Suzanne, Andy, and Alana,
We are so. so sorry to hear about Kyle’s passing. I remember the times we would see all of you at Howard and Jill’s or at the beach house. Our hearts go out to you in this difficult time. 
Wes, Debbie, Jeffrey, Jamie and Jordan Leong
July 12, 2020
July 12, 2020
I am so grateful for the time I shared with Kyle. Before a flight from SFO to Denver, we shared time talking and eating sandwiches; I will cherish that moment forever. Every time I saw him on campus he would give me the biggest smile and a warmth that will forever be unique to him. I will never forget his vibrant smile and the welcomeness he had for all.
July 12, 2020
July 12, 2020
Dearest Suzanne, Andy and Alana,
I am so sorry to hear about Kyle. He was a source of such joy! Words really can’t express my grief. I can only imagine how you are?! If there is ANYTHING I can do, please let me know.

My heart remains with you all!!!
Much Love,
Lisa
July 12, 2020
July 12, 2020
Cindy and I thank you for sharing your lovely son's life with us. Although we did not have the pleasure of meeting Kyle, we were honored to listen to stories and music today paying tribute to his beautiful energy. He was a gift to all around him.
We will be praying to keep his memory alive and wish Kyle peace on his next journey. "Be Not Afraid"
Love
Cindy Ormsby & Rose Sgarlato
July 12, 2020
July 12, 2020
Sunday 2:15pm Chicago time: What an incredible memorial service. Suzanne, Alana and Andy spoke with incredible passion and clarity....the energy it took to keep their composure...I am just amazed and so sad at the same time. Andy, your action step....to have everyone close their eyes and capture an image of Klye and treasure that image in our hearts....just incredible. Natalie, Jonathan, Leanna, Chewy Bear and Yogi Bear....we all were together with two laptops, sitting and listening in silence, rarely moving during the entire service in our family room. We are now looking for special paper to write our private notes to Kyle, in honor of Suzanne and respect of the Japanese culture.  We are humbled at this very moment for so many reasons. Much love and respect from the Spungen family. 
July 12, 2020
July 12, 2020
Dearest Andy, Suzanne and Alana,

We are devastated. We hold you dear and close to our hearts during this time of great sorrow. Our deepest, deepest condolences.

Much love, Anne, Lao Wong, Ying and Eve
July 12, 2020
July 12, 2020
The Unbroken

There is a brokenness
out of which comes the unbroken,
a shatteredness
out of which blooms the unshatterable.
There is a sorrow
beyond all grief which leads to joy
and a fragility
out of whose depths emerges strength.

There is a hollow space
too vast for words
through which we pass with each loss,
out of whose darkness
we are sanctioned into being.

There is a cry deeper than all sound
whose serrated edges cut the heart
as we break open to the place inside
which is unbreakable and whole,
while learning to sing.

--Rashani Réa (to me by way of Dorothy Fadiman, who reached out with this poem after hearing about Kyle)


July 12, 2020
July 12, 2020
Dear Suzanne, Andy and Alana,
I hold your family in my heart and thoughts in this difficult and overwhelming time of sorrow. May you find some peace in all the love that surrounds you. I remember Kyle's smile, his passionate, adventurous spirit and his social presence which enriched our Keys community. Un fuerte abrazo, Tania
July 12, 2020
July 12, 2020
I will always remember Kyle as being the most genuine person I had ever met. He was always willing to talk about any problems I had going on. As the years went by, I began to realize he wasn't only this way to his close friends; he was like this with everyone and he was always loving and genuine to everyone he met, regardless of how long he knew them. No matter what he did, he always went all out and left nothing in the tank, whether it was in baseball or school. I will always admire Kyle's work ethic and attitude he carried toward everything he did. He will always be loved, remembered, and missed deeply.
July 12, 2020
July 12, 2020
Suzanne, Andy and Alana,
You continue to inspire with your amazing words, spirit and outlook. You have done the shiva and service with such grace and genuineness. I'm so grateful to know you, have known Kyle, and believe that Kyle's kindness will live on forever in all the hearts that he touched. The Ravid family will always be here to support you all.
July 11, 2020
July 11, 2020
I will forever miss Kyle's kind heart and energy. It was a great fun to have him in my Mandarin class.
July 11, 2020
July 11, 2020
Kyle’s favorite poem: The Man in the Glass
When you get what you want in your struggle for self
And the world makes you king for a day,
Just go to the mirror and look at yourself
And see what the man has to say.

For it isn’t your father or mother or wife
Whose judgment upon you must pass.
The fellow whose verdict counts most in life
Is the one starring back from the glass.

Some people may think you a straight-shooting chum
And call you a wonderful guy
But the guy in the glass says you’re only a bum,
If you can’t look him straight in the eye.

He’s the fellow to please never mind all the rest
For he’s with you clear to the end
And you’ve passed your most difficult test
If the man in the glass is your friend.

You may fool the whole world down the pathway of life
And get pats on the back as you pass,
But your final reward will be heartaches and tears if you’ve cheated the man in the glass. 

I know that Kyle would be proud of the man in the glass and of everything he accomplished in 20 shorts years. ❤️
July 10, 2020
July 10, 2020
Alana,
You may not remember me but we went to school together in 6th grade. Being new to Keys I didn’t know many people, but strangely there was a younger kid who accepted me and wanted to get to know me. It was Kyle. I don’t remember many details, but the impression he made on me was that of someone far more compassionate than I would have expected. When I think of Keys I always think of Kyle. It might be small, but the impression he made on me lasts to this day.
I am so incredibly sorry for your loss, but given my experience with Kyle I imagine he must have had the same impact on everyone he met.
July 10, 2020
July 10, 2020
Dear Andy, Suzanne, and Alana,

I am broken hearted at the tragic news of dear Kyle. His bright smile and joy made him a magnet for his peers and I know he inspired many. My heart truly goes out to you in this great loss.

I wanted to share a memory I have of Kyle with you… it is a story that I have shared many times over the years with students and friends alike as it always has seemed like an example of a young person handling a challenge with strength.

June of 2013, I volunteered to chaperone the school trip to Costa Rica for rising 8th graders. The kids did a lot of volunteering on the trip with learning opportunities, but we were also able to get a few "adventure" activities in on the EcoTeach trip. So one day, we got to go white water rafting. Each raft had a guide in it to navigate the journey and I have to say, the students in my raft picked up the commands and handled the rapids like pros pretty quickly. We kept seeing other rafts getting stuck or someone falling out and having to get back in, but not us. We were kicking serious tail. Until... we hit one class 4 rapid and suddenly we spun around backward and the raft kicked up in the front (now facing the wrong direction) and as we rushed backwards Kyle, who was sitting in the very front (he was fearless and could handle it), bounced up and out of the raft. It happened so quickly and yet it was one of those slow-motion moments I'll never forget. The girls behind him, yelled out his name as I tried to see where he went in the water, so we could hep him. He had clearly been pulled under the raft into the rushing waters as we were going backward... but before I knew it, our guide, who was at the back of the raft, saw Kyle rushing downstream and reached into the water and grabbed him by the life vest, flinging him back into the raft. "Kyle are you okay?!?" I yelled over the roaring water. He took just a moment to catch his breath and then said, "That was awesome." I remember thinking I was thankful that he was so adventurous AND athletic... he truly handled it like a champ, where I'm pretty sure any of the rest of us in the raft would have been completely freaked out after that. I've told the story about Kyle braving the rapids many times over the past 7 years... not only because it was a heart racing experience, but because it shows a 13 year old boy's fierce bravery in handling whatever rapid came his way. I was and will always be inspired by his joyful spirit and courage.

Sending all of my love to your whole family today and always.
With sympathy,
Angie Higgins
July 10, 2020
July 10, 2020
Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal.

My friend Jean sent this to me today.
July 9, 2020
July 9, 2020
Rest In Peace Kyle! You were adored by many. Your legacy proceeds you. The world misses your spirit and will forever remember you.
July 9, 2020
July 9, 2020
Suzanne, Andy, and Alana,

I looked all over for a saying that would capture the profound feelings and emotions that this tragedy has provoked as I think of you and Kyle. Nothing seemed quite right. But, I did stumble across something Robin Williams is credited with having said: "Death is nature's way of saying, 'Your table is ready.'" I have no doubt that nature (God, in my mind) has seated Kyle at a great table surrounded by loving family and friends. 

Please know that we're holding you and Kyle so very close to our hearts now and in the days ahead. 

Donna, Dylan, and Lucas

July 9, 2020
July 9, 2020
My son Trey worked with Kyle at Bay Club. Trey text this to me, “Kyle was really a beacon of positivity in every interaction. He also took time to look at my art and talk to me about it which was really personal and valuable to me. I will miss Kyle for the rest of my life." He said Kyle hosted the Bay Club lifeguards at your place on Skyline. We are a Serra family with an incoming junior and Trey is at Cal Poly. We are deeply sorry for your loss and we remember Kyle and your family in our prayers.
July 9, 2020
July 9, 2020
Please know that I am thinking of your family at this incredibly sad time and wishing you all the strength that it takes to get through these most challenging days. I feel fortunate to have known Kyle during his Serra years and was privileged to watch him be such a successful, loving, and caring young man. May his memory be a blessing.
July 9, 2020
July 9, 2020
Dear Suzanne and Andy ....I have no words that can begin to tell you how sad and broken hearted all who love you are feeling for you. You are all in my heart and prayers. Andy, you have been family to Stevie since the moment you knew each other...and I send you decades of love with the hope that somehow you and Suz find strength and ways to heal.
Jan
July 9, 2020
July 9, 2020
We just came back from a beautifully intimate, emotionally and physically safe Shiva at the Leventhals. Thank you for setting up such a wonderful space to come and share stories of Kyle as well as allow us to mourn with you. I was left with this beautiful quote in mind. Kyle will be remembered because he made people feel good.

"People will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel." - Maya Angelou
July 9, 2020
July 9, 2020
Dear Andy and Suzanne, we heard this very sad news a few days ago and wanted to reach out and extend our condolences. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. - Anil & Sheryl
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Kyle, you will never be forgotten. Thinking about you buddy.
April 17, 2023
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Although I never had the opportunity to meet Kyle, I can see the impact he had on the lives of those around him still flourishing. I am a member of Eta Gamma Chapter of Pi Kappa Phi at the University of Colorado Boulder. We will always continue our tradition of our Brotherhood softball game in honor of Kyle's life. I give my condolences to his family and my brothers that had the privilege of knowing him. ODH Kyle
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Owen H Lindsay
July 10, 2021
July 10, 2021
Dear Leventhal Family,

We are heartbroken to hear about the loss of Kyle. You're such a lovely family and we are thinking of you and praying for peace and comfort for each of you.

Sincerely,

The Blee Family
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Bringing Kyle to Burning Man

August 21, 2022
You may or may not know that every Burning Man a magnificent Temple is built and the atmosphere inside is as holy and sanctified as any place I’ve been in the world. I mean that. And I’ve been in many holy sites. The spiritually and reverence is beyond description. It is raw and honest and human. There is no organization to it or dogma. It is an open sourced, full expression of personal tribulations, hopes, blessings and endless love.
Many people memorialize loved ones there, creating all sorts of shrines and celebrations of life via pictures, objects, writings and ideas endless other creative expressions.
For me, the deepest and most powerful moment of the entire festival is the burning of the Temple. Imagine perhaps 25,000 people silently and solemnly watching it all burn, transitioning from physical form into the ether…
 
After checking w/Sun & Andy (sorry Alana - we didn’t have a chance to discuss last weekend when your friends were about  - if you disapprove pls say so) I will bring Kyle into the Temple with various pictures and more. If there’s anything you wish contribute please do send to me at Lipson@comcast.net, the sooner the better and no later than 8/25/22 AM. 

if you are going the burn, please join me to create, ritualiz and memorialize together. 

You can reach me at 4152796575 if you want to discuss 

Kyle - you live on in our hearts and memories. 

The video of Images of San Luis Obispo County. Dedicated to Kyle

July 9, 2021
A heartfelt thank you to my cousin, Mark, and his wife, Cara, for composing this song that's accompanied by his beautiful photos of the San Luis Obispo area (near Kyle's accident site). We are so moved by your loving tribute to Kyle.

A year has past...

July 7, 2021
The anticipation of Kyle’s one year anniversary has been incredibly difficult. A date that  seemed to take forever to arrive. A year of firsts; each upcoming event was harder to fathom than the last. We miss Kyle’s exuberant presence in our world, his future frozen in time. The memories keep him alive in our minds eye. We are so deeply grateful for the people surrounding Andy, Suzanne and Alana, who genuinely love them and loved Kyle as much as we, Kyle’s Leventhal family, do. This helps with our grieving, knowing they are not alone 

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