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This memorial website was created in memory of
the one and only Lacey Jayne Watson.
  • Magical unicorn
  • Rockstar auntie and superhuman sister
  • Amazing friend and partner
  • Punk as f*ck
Please leave a tribute, add photos, and share stories, so that we may continue to carry Lacey in our lives. 

Messages of condolence for Lacey's fiancé - Justin, parents - Dave and Donna, sisters - Brooke and Melissa, nephews, nieces, and extended family are also welcome.


Lacey chose to keep her illness progression private and it was her desire that the news of her passing not be shared on social media. Out of respect for Lacey, and her family as they mourn her death, we ask that you respect her wishes.

In lieu of flowers, please make a donation to a cause near to Lacey's heart:

"In an age of performative cruelty, kindness is punk as f*ck. Be punk as f*ck."
— Daniel Abram, author
March 12
March 12
Our family tradition is to light a yartzeit candle on the anniversary of our loved ones passing, every year from now on. Lacey will be remembered in this way by her Uncle Wally & Aunt Jayne as long as we live. She was truly special. On Lacey’s birthday today, we send our love and best wishes to David & Donna Watson. May Lacey Jayne Watson’s name always be a blessing.
June 10, 2023
June 10, 2023
As the youngest of three, I remember Lacey holding her own as a 2 year old. She insisted her sisters treat her as an equal and she be included in their activities. She knew what she wanted from a young age. When she was 9, her family moved to West Seattle where we lived. Within weeks, she made friends with all the neighborhood children and became their leader. As her aunt, I watched her find her passion for music and develop her personal style. I admired her confidence, her warmth (she never lacked for friends), intelligence and down to earth/upbeat spirit. She became a manager of a Fabric/Crafts store before she completed high school and I then knew she would be successful in anything she pursued (and she did as we all know). Of course she would be a leader too. Close family/friend relationships and professional success was not enough. Lacey also volunteered to make this world a better place. I not only lost my wonderful niece (although I have so many great memories), the world lost a very special person who still had so much more to contribute.  
June 10, 2023
June 10, 2023
Our dearest Lacey Jayne Watson is a streak of light across our Universe that can never be extinguished. I am her Uncle Wally, brother to her mother Donna. When Lacey came into the world, I was a young man just trying to figure out how the world works. Even as a young girl Lacey presented an upbeat, happy-go-lucky persona that was infectious and inspiring to those around her, including me. When I got married to her Aunt Jayne, and we then had three of Lacey’s first cousins, Daniel, Anna & Joshua, Lacey became part of all our lives. She organized the kids in the neighborhood and was the center of virtually everything going on. She loved her sisters Brooke and Melissa beyond measure. She also provided her parents Donna and Dave with an engaging and unique spirit that was limitless and uplifting. Lacey could seemingly do anything she focused her mind on. I was personally awed by her ability to absorb music while also engaging the business world in a very technical and legally confusing environment. No matter what the challenges were facing Lacey, she pushed through the darkness and provided light for everyone around her. This is the life skill I learned from Lacey. I am now retired, and my children have all established their own families, but we have all been touched by Lacey’s presence. She still lives in my heart and will be there as an inspiration for the rest of my life. Uncle Wally
June 10, 2023
Lacey came into our lives when she and our daughter, Sarah, became friends at Denny Middle School. We didn't see her often, but over the years we considered her our virtual daughter -- her name right below Sarah's on our Christmas list of people receiving peanut brittle and potica. Lacey will forever be remembered in our family for her loving and supportive friendship, her amazing drive and determination, and for introducing the concept of "squidgy bits" to our food lexicon! She is greatly missed.
June 7, 2023
June 7, 2023
Lacey was an amazing friend, without judgement and filled with forgiveness.
She commiserated and helped any way she could.
She was insightful and a hard worker, smart and dedicated to achieving her goals.
If you knew her you couldn't help but be drawn in with her zest for life, generosity and ability to rap a Dr. Dre tune exceptionally.
We are lesser without her around and will be forever loved, and missed.

June 6, 2023
June 6, 2023
I knew Lacey as my sister's BFF, sidekick, and a colorful light (even in the goth look). She was up for anything and a steadfast friend. I admired the fun adventures they cooked up. She was there through ups and downs over many years. I hope she knows how loved and cherished she was.
June 3, 2023
June 3, 2023
It is impossible to articulate what the world lost when Lacey left us. A brilliant mind, charismatic, an amazing human. To say I will cherish our time growing up together is an understatement. I will miss you forever Lacey Jayne. Fly high and I look forward to the day we meet again.
June 3, 2023
June 3, 2023
I met Lacey through a friend. We met a few times and to be around her was to experience joy. She had an incredible sense of humour and I laughed a lot. She will be missed by so many.
May 25, 2023
May 25, 2023
I was frequently told Lacey "has all the best words". I am sure she took them, so we all just have to settle.
Lacey was exceptionally generous, and I'm thankful I got to meet her.
While I'm not sure she was ever truly a birder, as I was told they all have a list, but hers was "bird, bird, chubby bird, bird". She is the only person to threaten me both with themselves and dietarily at the same time.
She was so charming and nice in just the short period I got to meet her.
She will be remembered.
May 1, 2023
May 1, 2023
What a joy it was to be around Lacey! Since I'm Rachelle's mom, my interaction with her was a little different than her friends, but I loved every minute of "Lacey-ness". Her quick wit and sense of humor always left me with side splitting laughter. I've never met anyone with such a powerful combination of the two and I'm grateful for every experience.

I also (naively) asked her about her job and received an articulate and impressive explanation that educated me on the intricacies of imports and their impact on the global economy. I understood everything she said (well, at least some of it). Obviously, her breadth of knowledge was amazing but what was even more remarkable was her passion and excitement with what she was doing - she was literally glowing. It was contagious and wonderful to witness. I was proud for her!

What a fantastic, creative, smart and powerful package. And what a horrible and tragic loss. It's too soon and unfair and I don't have any words to make that less painful for anyone. But I think this website will help. You've all done an amazing job and I hope everyone finds some comfort and joy in the thoughts that will be expressed here.

Lastly, I believe part of her unicorn, rockstar, superhuman, amazing friend/partner, punk as f*ck spirit lives on through the thoughts and actions of those that love her.
May 1, 2023
May 1, 2023
I first met Lacey in High School as the late joiner from a different middle school. My initiation to the friend group was being introduced to them with their calling card bands. “ Who is that?”, I asked. “ Oh that’s Emily, she’s Foo Fighters. Over there is Amanda, she’s Everclear. Pitzen, she’s Beck, Rachelle is Bush & Graham is the Beatles.” “ Who’s Lacey then?” “ Oh, Lacey is the Sex Pistols.”
Lacey was at first skeptical of me. “ I don’t think she likes me very much.”
"Oh, Lacey? She does that to everyone, just give her time.” I think we finally became friends when Lacey realized that I would happily make myself look like an idiot in order to make her laugh. I very much enjoyed amusing her & wouldn’t give up trying to make her chuckle so she finally adopted me into our friendship. After that were many fond memories of hangouts doing funny things, listening to music, cheering games, going on band trips, going to shows, campouts, bowling, driving around West Seattle at night, and of course many more laughs.
One of our funny high school hallway bits was to make impressions of Leon Phelps ( The Ladies Man) which somehow between Lacey and I involved a can of yams. So then afterward she and I would sign off to each other with love yams or in my yam heart.
Lacey is so many things to me and to so many people. She was fierce and sometimes would tell me the things I didn’t want to hear but needed. She gave great advice and could see things clearly where I could not. She was funny, whip-smart, and had great comic timing. She was private and stoic about things she was not fond of. She was vivacious, layered, dynamic, delightful, passionate, and stylish. Her hair was bright, her outfits and jewelry were always creative and her heart was huge. How I will miss her laugh. Her ability to make the moment electric. I guess I still don’t believe a spirit like hers could ever be gone.
In one of our last conversations, I said something about her relaxing. In true Lacey fashion, her response was “ Lace don’t do the relax. C'mon. Too punk rock for that nonsense!”.
Oh, Lace, what a corker you are. Love you to the moon and back.

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March 12
March 12
Our family tradition is to light a yartzeit candle on the anniversary of our loved ones passing, every year from now on. Lacey will be remembered in this way by her Uncle Wally & Aunt Jayne as long as we live. She was truly special. On Lacey’s birthday today, we send our love and best wishes to David & Donna Watson. May Lacey Jayne Watson’s name always be a blessing.
June 10, 2023
June 10, 2023
As the youngest of three, I remember Lacey holding her own as a 2 year old. She insisted her sisters treat her as an equal and she be included in their activities. She knew what she wanted from a young age. When she was 9, her family moved to West Seattle where we lived. Within weeks, she made friends with all the neighborhood children and became their leader. As her aunt, I watched her find her passion for music and develop her personal style. I admired her confidence, her warmth (she never lacked for friends), intelligence and down to earth/upbeat spirit. She became a manager of a Fabric/Crafts store before she completed high school and I then knew she would be successful in anything she pursued (and she did as we all know). Of course she would be a leader too. Close family/friend relationships and professional success was not enough. Lacey also volunteered to make this world a better place. I not only lost my wonderful niece (although I have so many great memories), the world lost a very special person who still had so much more to contribute.  
June 10, 2023
June 10, 2023
Our dearest Lacey Jayne Watson is a streak of light across our Universe that can never be extinguished. I am her Uncle Wally, brother to her mother Donna. When Lacey came into the world, I was a young man just trying to figure out how the world works. Even as a young girl Lacey presented an upbeat, happy-go-lucky persona that was infectious and inspiring to those around her, including me. When I got married to her Aunt Jayne, and we then had three of Lacey’s first cousins, Daniel, Anna & Joshua, Lacey became part of all our lives. She organized the kids in the neighborhood and was the center of virtually everything going on. She loved her sisters Brooke and Melissa beyond measure. She also provided her parents Donna and Dave with an engaging and unique spirit that was limitless and uplifting. Lacey could seemingly do anything she focused her mind on. I was personally awed by her ability to absorb music while also engaging the business world in a very technical and legally confusing environment. No matter what the challenges were facing Lacey, she pushed through the darkness and provided light for everyone around her. This is the life skill I learned from Lacey. I am now retired, and my children have all established their own families, but we have all been touched by Lacey’s presence. She still lives in my heart and will be there as an inspiration for the rest of my life. Uncle Wally
Her Life

Lacey Jayne Watson

April 24, 2023
Monumentally kindhearted badass, rare gem of a human being, woman of infinite facial expressions and almost as many hair colors, distinguished business person, karaoke queen, sudoku wizard, amateur musician, West Seattle legend, daughter of Dave and Donna, sister of Melissa and Brooke, all-star aunt to Matthew and Braydon, life partner / lobster / fiancée to Justin Pace, and best friend, confidante, and one-woman cheer squad to Rachelle, Amanda, Sarah, Sarah, Emily, and countless others.

Early Childhood

April 24, 2023
Lacey Watson spent early childhood in New York state and North Carolina, the youngest of Donna and “Big Dave” Watson’s three daughters. Moving around the east coast, she grew up alongside her big sisters Brooke and Melissa in a close-knit extended family that included Dave’s four brothers (Drew, Dan, Darren, and Dustin), Donna's two brothers (Wally and Michael), and numerous first cousins. Her family helped cultivate Lacey's sense of humor, flair for storytelling, and ability to stand out from the crowd. As a youngster in upstate New York, she was once (allegedly) chased by a roving pack of wild turkeys and lived to tell the tale.

The Formative Years

April 24, 2023
The Watson family settled in West Seattle in 1993. Lacey attended Denny Middle School where she established lifelong friendships with a group of, well, for lack of a better term, band nerds. She played clarinet in the school band where she was required, against her better judgement, to wear a cumberbund and bow tie for school concerts.

Music was a constant in Lacey’s life and played an outsize role in her self expression. With a passion for music and unique ability to accomplish whatever she put her mind to, Lacey taught herself guitar, bass, piano, and probably some other ones that we just can’t remember right now.

Her musical explorations were frequently reflected in her unique fashion sense and hairstyles, including Nirvana (hand illustrated t-shirts, flannels, and converse tennis shoes), Hole (bleached blonde hair, ripped tights, and heavy eye liner), the Sex Pistols (spiky hair, leather bracelets, and a padlock on a chain necklace), and several others. 

Though her hair color and playlists were ever changing, she was consistently and dependably one of the kindest, smartest, funniest, silliest, creative, joyful, resilient, open, loving people you could ever hope to meet if you were lucky enough to cross paths with her. 

Lacey was a source of endless love and laughter to the people she met. Along with forging lifelong friendships in the halls and classrooms of Denny Middle School, Lacey first met the love of her life, her lobster, and eventual fiancé Justin Pace. 

In high school, Lacey continued to explore and express herself through music and her one-of-a-kind style. She played clarinet in the marching and concert band at Chief Sealth High School, and continued her study of guitar, bass guitar and piano.

Lacey consistently broke the mold and refused to be categorized. She joined the cheer squad in her junior year, and put on a damn good show thanks to her superior rhythm and sweet moves, not to mention the fact that she was the only goth cheerleader most people would ever meet.
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Who allowed you to be this beautiful? Who allowed you to take my breath away?

May 1, 2023
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It's not a spreadsheet, but as you knew, a bulleted list was high on my list of favorite organizational tools.

I am so grateful for
  • every memory we made and the Lace-aggerated versions of those adventures you recounted for others while I protested through my laughter
  • the 5-10 versions of each selfie we took because you couldn't keep still, I could make a flip book from them and I'd look the same but you would have a different pose in each one
  • your knack for positioning yourself behind me at just the right angle to make my head look ginormous
  • your willingness to try just about anything I suggested from dozens of Sounders games, to season tickets to the 5th Avenue Theatre, to kayaking, and indoor skydiving, and so many others
  • the front row seat as your confidence grew when you found your professional passion and took the Customs Brokerage world by storm
  • the trust you placed in me to ask for help when you needed it
  • your smart-ass, witty, whip-smart humor
  • your fierce love
  • your radiant light
Lacey Jayne Watson you had all the best words, and you've left me a little speechless. I love you.

Your Sunshiny Face

April 30, 2023
Lacey and I were hanging out one day circa 2010 and we ended up talking late into the night. I don’t remember exactly what we talked about, probably everything—silly to serious—life, love, family, friendships, music, anything. It was one of those great big conversations with a friend that’s so good that you don’t want to go home and go to bed. So we didn’t.

We stayed up all night and ended up watching the sun rise from the dock at Seacrest Park. The sun came up and it was suddenly blazing hot. We were melting in the new day, so we dipped our toes in the saltwater to cool off, and I snapped photos while we squinted against the light. We both got sunburns and a few more freckles. It was one of so many joyful moments and memories I have with her. Goddamn, Lacey, I miss your sunshiny face. 

The Magical Unicorn

April 30, 2023
Lacey is the only person who can hold the title of Human Who Actually Made Me Throw Up From Laughing. She is also the one person who dropped everything for me as I mourned a personal loss and brought pizza, loves, and the patience to watch a golden girls marathon while I grieved. She had the ability to be everything to everyone she loved. Lacey was easily the funniest person I’ve ever known, but she certainly also owns the record of most bad ass, most thoughtful friend, best concert companion, car DJ champion, and phenomenal human. There are too many memories from 30 years to choose from to share, but they live in a beautiful space in my heart made only for Lace. Love you, miss you, my beautiful magical unicorn friend.

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