Lady Onwuamaegbu, (1928 - 2019) - ForeverMissed.com Online Memorials

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90 years old
Born on October 3, 1928
Passed away on February 22, 2019

This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Lady Onwuamaegbu. We will remember her always.

Tributes

March 19, 2019

Date: 23/03/19
A TRIBUTE TO OUR GREAT MUM, OGBUESHI. B.L.U. ONWUAMAEGBU
by Chigbo Ibeagha, Ph.D and Mrs. Hope Ibeagha
When the Chief Judge of Anambra State, Justice Ijem Onwuamaegbu, phoned me as regarding the demise of our mother, I was so shocked to the extent that the situation that I found myself was better imagined than described. In fact, I was dumb-founded, overwhelmed, confused, mesmerized, hypnotized, warped, tattooed and flabbergasted. I was so shocked to the extent that I suffered a temporary eclipse of the brain. This ugly situation was engineered, sponsored and catalyzed by the fact that few weeks ago, during her 90th year anniversary, she briskly walked to the lectern and read one of the lessons without glasses. After reading, she walked and sat on her seat without any help. She was involved in every aspect of the celebration. Now, to hear that she died after a very brief illness is unimaginable!
She proved to be my Mum way back in 1970 and 1971. During this period, she treated me as one the oldest child, the oldest son, of the family. We used to discuss freely with one another. She would travel with me in her car (vuxhall) to the University of Nigeria, Nsukka, for supplies. We used to go to large business outfits like K.C Chellarams, John Holts, P.Z, A.J. Leventis to buy different types of goods to stock our stores.
Occasionally, Daddy would travel with me to different places like Lagos with his Mercedes Benz 190. Daddy encouraged me to study hard to the extent that two years later I was able to pass my G.C.E. “A” level examinations of the University of London and the H.S.C examinations through private studies. Thereafter, I was admitted through direct entry, to the University of Ibadan and with a Federal Government Scholarship.
Mum, you were really an institution, an icon, an enigma. You were an embodiment of simplicity, humidity, kind to a fault, good natured, magnanimous and unassuming; you were always ready to forgo personal gains to satisfy others around you. Mum was of transparent honesty: such was the character of our dear Mum. Mum, we are celebrating your fruitful life of hard work, discipline, ingenuity, courage and reverence for God. Mum, you had always shunned slothfulness, laziness, idleness, dishonesty and hypocrisy. In short, Mum was a convinced, committed and an uncompromising Christian. Thus, I can boldly say that a gem is lost to us on earth but she had already been admitted as a member of the heavenly academy. In fact, an “Iroko” tree has fallen. Mum, who will fill the vacuum you have created? In fact, who can replace you? Who has the courage, kindness, discipline, uprightness, daring and commitment that you had? Your departure came when we needed you most. Mum, we grieve your death because we love you. We will surely miss your company.
Mum, did you really think of your grand and great-grand children before you decided to leave them orphaned. So, no more free biscuits and bobo for them. Mum, you can see that they are still crying because they did not have the chance to say the final good-bye. They are here just to see whether you would change your mind to return to them alive! They are still wondering whether you would agree to carry them on your laps just one more time. They are still gazing and also wondering whether it is true that you have temporarily gone away from them. As you passed on, we still have not lost hope, for we hope to unite at the resurrection of the righteous, in Jesus’ name. Amen.
Thus, as we go through the valley of weeping, through the valley of sorrowing and pain, we take succor in knowing that you know the Lord and that our loss will be your gain. We shall surely look beyond the night of sorrow to welcome that blessed day, a glad tomorrow, when the dark night would have passed away, and the God of all comfort will uphold and sustain us till we meet at the golden place of rest and perfect peace, “for I am persuaded that neither death nor life, nor angels nor principalities nor power, nor things present, no things to come, nor height, nor depth, nor any other creature shall be able to separate us from Jesus Christ our Lord (Romans Chapter 8: 38-39)”.
Adieu, Mum
Mrs. Hope Ibeagha (Daughter)
Chigbo Ibeagha, Ph.D (Son).

March 19, 2019

TRIBUTE TO MY “MUM! MUM!” – THE QUNITESSENTIAL “LADY” – by Nneka Adi-Mbonu (Chief Registrar, Emeritus)
Mum! Mum! (That was the special name I had for you). I write this with untold gratitude to God Almighty for your beautiful life; though tempted to ask of God to have you just for a while more.
Ogalanya nwanyi, it was just like shock waves were sent out with your sudden long trip to everlasting life with your maker. However, the God you dutifully served, living true to His word (1 Corinthians 10:13), in His mercy, granted us all His ever-sufficient grace to bear your passage.
What can we not thank God for?
• The countless and ceaseless blessings from God which suffused your glorious life.
• The manifestly accomplished children and grand-children trailing you. The special miracle in Aunty Ije’s life was God’s well-thought out parting gift to you. You left with so much joy!! Glory be to God.
• The life of service in God’s kingdom through which you honoured God with your family. Gladly God honoured you with over 90 glorious years.
Rest on Mum! Mum! It is well with your soul. Your stately carriage, confidence and matter-of-fact life are already being missed. We shall meet on that glorious morning when the Lord comes for His own, by His grace.

March 19, 2019

A TRIBUTE TO MAMA M ,OGALANYA NWANYI,
LADY UZOAKU BESSIE ONWUAMAEGBU
Mama,Ogalanya Nwanyi as we fondly call you, Mama the 23rd of February was a nightmare to me, I still cannot accept it but a las it is true.
I was shocked when I read Emy’s message about your passing on. I didn’t understand it and started calling Onwa to come as he was down stairs. I flew down the stairs to meet him and broke the relatively bad news to him.

“Daddy, Ogalanya Nwanyi Anwugo!!!. He just fell into a nearby chair and couldn’t talk.
Mama what happened? You couldn’t even call me, there was no message for your 3rd daughter, Patty. Mama you normally call me on the phone, at times some days you call me about 3, 4 times a day.
Mama, you just slipped into a world of no return without a word for me, not even to Ijem
Mama, “imetaro kwaya, Ijem imetaro kwaya”. You couldn’t even reach us from Wednesday to Friday when she breathed her last.
Mama,be it as it may, our live together was blissful. We were a source of joy to each other. Our muctural visits are quite enjoyable and normally lasts not less than two hours. We understand ourselves.
Mama, we will forever cherish your memory. Ochili anyi Ozua, as you fondly call my husband is missing you with all our children.
We are here to bid you farewell.
Adieu mama, Adieu Ogalanya Nwanyi,
Adieu Nne Acting Chief Judge, Adieu Nne Doctor,
Adieu Nne Major General, Adieu Nne Chinwe
Adieu Nne Ucheorah.
Mama, we love you. Jee Ije gi nke oma
The G.U.O’s, your Children and Neighbor
Chief Dr. Sir& Dr. Lady G.U.Okeke (MON)
(Ochili Anyi Ozua) & the Family

March 18, 2019

Condolence Message from Chief Sir Gab Onwugbenu (KSS), Iju Nnewi
Ezinne, Mama Ije, Ogalanya Nwanyi! Your death is like a balloon that disappeared suddenly in the air and will not come back to be enjoyed by little kids.
Nne’m Ochie, I can never forget my first contact with you, as far back as 1954, when your late cousin James Egemonye sent me on an errand from Lagos when you were teaching at St. Andrew’s School, Obosi.
Mama, your motherly concern and care for me has been indelible in my heart. It was your motherly advise in 1966 that made me drop the ambition of buying a house in Port Harcourt, which could have become an abandoned or seized property after the Biafran war.
Mama Ije, Onye ndumodu enwero oyili, naa n’udo!
Mama Ije, Nne’m Ochie ji nwadiana kpolu ife, zuo Ike Na ndokwa. Amen.
Chief Sir Gab Onwugbenu (KSS)
Iju Nnewi

March 18, 2019

I called her Mama Ije and since her demise, have missed her in our close sitting positions, at All Saints Cathedral, where we worshipped. Lady Onwuamaegbu was strong, confident and took the front seat on any matter she believed in - family, church activities, worship and fashion. Hers was elegant and very becoming. Her daughter's friends became her friends automatically and with an uncommon ease related with all in endearing ways. She was forthright in many pleasing ways. We mourn your exit and it is obvious , your daughter, our dear Chief Judge and her siblings will miss you sorely. Consoled that you lived well and long and took a dignified bow to be with your creator, we pray for the peaceful repose of your dear soul in the bosom of God, Adieu Mama Ij, Adieu Lady Onwuamaegbu.

March 18, 2019

A Tribute to Mama
Mama, we all have a limited time ion this ephemeral planet. In your short sojourn you gave birth to, and raised, a wonderful gentleman and selfless leader - Major General Emeka Onwamaegbu. For this, wonderful gift to Nigeria and humanity, we are forever indebted to you.
Mama, I am sure you made your imprint in the sand of time as wife, mother, aunt, church leader and community elder. In General Emeka and your extant endeavours, your footprint will forever glow.
May God grant your family the fortitude to bear this loss. It is well.
Prof Usman Tar
Director, Centre for Defence and Documentation, Nigerian Defence Academy, Kaduna.

March 18, 2019

A Personal Tribute to A Truly Amazing Lady - by Charles Spiropoulos
I was very saddened by the news of Lady Onwuamaegbu's passing. I always called her Auntie and mourn the loss of her particularly motherly and encouraging presence. I do, however, also celebrate her life which was a long and well-lived one.
To me, Auntie was always one link to my own mother whom I lost at a very young age in life. She had been a friend whom my mother was most fond of, and that fondness was returned in equal measure. Auntie being the person that she was, passed on the fondness that she had for my mother to us.
In all the years that we were growing up she asked after us and was ever so delighted to see us. I always felt the warmth and love of a mother whenever I saw her, and I will always cherish the memories of her loving kindness, her gentle encouragement and her wise counsel.
I know Auntie has gone to a better place and this knowledge provides some comfort, in addition to the fact that she was a lady of great faith. She really was a truly amazing lady who I will always remember as indefatigable.
The legacy Auntie leaves behind in her wonderful and accomplished children and grandchildren reflects the amazing person that she was. I am honoured to stand with them to salute her proud memory.
Rest in peace Auntie. You will forever live in our hearts.

March 18, 2019

TRIBUTE TO LADY BESSY UZOAKU ONWUAMAEGBU (OGALANYA NWANYI) - by His Worship Oby Erinne
How does one begin to write about a woman that was larger than life?
What words can sufficiently capture her personality?
Ogalanya nwanyi was a woman of many parts.
She was indeed a quintessential mother, both to her biological children and all that came across her.
The milk of human kindness overflowed from her. She never hesitated to go out of her way to lend a helping hand, especially, those little things that matter.
She was a lover of beauty and never passed by anyone or anything pleasant without appreciating same. Her dressing and carriage, ever so graceful, bore witness to her love for beauty and class. You should see her Jewelries-Poshness personified!
She spoke her mind, albeit the truth and never had the stomach for pretenses-my kind of woman!
She was generous especially when it had to do with the things of God and the Church.
When we were celebrating her 90th birthday on 27th December 2018, we did not know that would be her last outing.
We are however consoled by the fact that she lived a very fulfilled life and God blessed her indeed.
I commiserate with my Lord, Hon. Justice Ijem Onwuamaegbu, The Hon. Acting Chief Judge of Anambra State and the entire Onwuamaegbu family. May your solace be in our Lord Jesus.
Mommy will sorely be missed.
Continue to rest with the angels, Ogalanya nwanyi.
His Worship Oby Erinne

March 18, 2019

LETTER OF COMMISERATION by Ven. Obiora Uzochukwu

13th March, 2019.
Hon. Justice Ijem Onwuamaegbu & Family
My Lord,
LETTER OF COMMISERATION
We received the news of the death of your beloved mother, Lady Bessy Lilian Uzoaku Onwuamaegbu (Ogbueshi Ogalanya Nwanyi), the wife of late Hon. Justice Obumneme Onwuamaegbu, a onetime Chancellor of the Diocese on the Niger (1985 – 1989) who passed on to glory on [Friday, the 22nd] day of March, 2019 at the age of 91 years and we write to commiserate with you. My heart goes to you and the entire members of Onwuamaegbu family at this time as you celebrate a fulfilled life and time of a loving mother.
Lady Uzoaku Onwuamaegbu was a committed Christian, an “unapologetic Anglican”, a great chorister with a sonorous contralto voice. She was a member of the Mothers’ Union, Women’s Guild, a Lady Knight of St. Christopher in 1982. She was also the foundation President of Lady Knight of St. Christopher, Diocese on the Niger and Cathedral Committee member for more than 10 years. She is a mother of Honour, Patron of former Debora Women’s Group and Patron of Gracious Women’s Group before her death. She was a member of the committee that successfully planned and catered at the major event of the dedication of the Cathedral in 1992. Due to all her contributions & commitment to the church both at home and abroad, she was awarded Cathedral Life Member on Sunday 2nd October, 2016
Lady Uzoaku was a community builder, a two time Jerusalem pilgrim, benefactor of many churches and she was known for her generous donation to churches and those in needs.
The Cathedral Life Members, the Women Ministry and the entire members of All Saints’ Cathedral will miss Lady Uzoaku dearly especially her sense of humor but we take solace in the fact that she has gone to be with the Lord.
On behalf of my family, the Dean of the Cathedral, the Cathedral Committee and entire members of All Saints’ Cathedral, I extend my heartfelt condolences to you and pray that Almighty God grants you the fortitude to cope with the gap created by her passing on to glory.
Ven. Obiora Uzochukwu
Sub-dean

March 18, 2019

TRIBUTE TO A WONDERFUL MOTHER - by Onyekwelu Okafor
Stunned! That is the emotion I felt/experienced when Chioma, told me that you were in the hospital. Mama, we had just celebrated you only two months ago and I was not done reveling in you wealth of sound judgment, clear sight and continuous encouraging spirit. You were strong up until the last minute. Your love, care and complete trust in me are part of the memories that have kept me going for years. Mama, you were an example, not only to your biological family but to many, including me.
What do I keep as my most cherished memory of you? Is it your words to Uncle Joe when you asked me to go and train under him in 1990, an advice that has brought me many blessings till today, or your extreme kindness to me while we were celebrating you in December, 2018. Or is it the good hearted children and grandchildren you have brought into this world? Mama, your life was full of lessons, doggedness, achievements and empathy. If I know nothing else, I know that you are resting in the bosom of the lord.
I miss you Mama but I know that the Almighty God wants some of your awesomeness in heaven with him. Adieu Mama,Go well Ogalanya nwanyi. May your kind soul rest in peace.‎‎
Onyekwelu. ‎

March 18, 2019

TRIBUTE TO AUNTIE BESSIE - Lady Regina Ezenwa, FPSN
LADY BESSY ONWUAMAEGBU
OGBUESI OGALANYA NWANYI.
A classy lady extraordinairè. A cake designer primus inter-pares. Auntie Bessy's cakes were the best of the best, really delicious with outstanding decorations. Each tier of her wedding cakes had a meaning! Somewhere along the line, she stopped commercial baking but her food was always yummy. She personified the wife of the 1950's, the total woman who was an excellent cook and home maker, as well as a pillar of support to enable her husband achieve his greatest potential. In spite of the societal restrictions, in which the then wife was behind the scenes and not really in government offices and the corporate world, few of them still stood out to achieve the best of their own potentials in that world. Aunty Bessy was definitely one of such.
Strict, firm, strong and independent, bold and outspoken, she was a great mother and an active builder in the Church of Christ, especially the Anglican Communion. Now we know from whom Ijem got her building acumen for people, materials and structures.
As young girls, she was one of the women we admired. As younger aging women, she was still one of the women, aging gracefully, that we admired.
Auntie, you always had words of immense encouragement for me. I remember when I arrived Oba the day before the celebration of your 90th birthday last December, you proudly reeled out many of my talents and excellent characteristics to those around you, especially how I had taken after you and baked excellent cakes and like my own mum made beautiful dresses but had to stop to focus on the Pharmacy. You even remembered my wedding day! I blushed enjoying all the words of praise especially from you, an epitome of womanhood. Auntie, Adieu! We will miss you! I have the assurance that you were ready and you are marching on with the saints triumphant in the bosom of Jesus Christ whom you lived for as Lord and Saviour.
Lady Regina Ezenwa, FPSN

March 18, 2019

Tribute from Hon. Justice Onochie/Lady Uzoma Anyachebelu
        ANAMBRA STATE JUDICIARY
                          Hon. Judge’s Chambers
                          The Judiciary
                          High court of Justice
                          Anambra State, Nigeria
15th March, 2019.
Hon. Justice Ijem Onwuamaegbu
The Hon, The Acting Chief Judge
Chief Judges Chambers
Judiciary Headquarters
High Court of Justice
Awka.
His Lordship
RE: LADY BESSY LILIAN UZOAKU ONWUAMAEGBU (DECEASED)
IN RE: CONDOLENCE MESSAGE
We write to express our sympathy and condolence on the death of your dear mother. We understand that she died on the 22nd February 2019 and was blessed with more than 90 years on earth. The circumstances of her death revealed a smooth and peaceful journey. We could conveniently say she truly slept in the lord.
We thank God for her life and times. It is always difficult to come to terms with the exit of a dear mother especially one as unique as Ogalanya Nwanyi. She was a committed and faithful Christian. A principled woman who truly impacted discipline on the children together with those that came in contact with her.
Death will always be sad. We feel the sorrow but will not sink under its oppression.
Ogalanya Nwanyi was truly loved by most people who associated with her. She was always dignified in her approach. The death of people whom we love brings sorrow and pain. But if our loved ones knew the Lord, our loss becomes their gain. We are convinced that she truly knew the lord and so we thank God.
Please extend our greetings to all who mourn this great soul, as we pray that her cherished soul truly rests in peace.
Hon. Justice Onochie/Lady Uzoma Anyachebelu

March 18, 2019

Adieu Grandmum! by Barr. Lynda Chinwuba
I was filled with a sense of great loss at the news of your death but I consoled myself knowing that it must have been the will of God.
You were so radiant and peaceful on 27th December 2018 during your thanksgiving service at Isu Oba. Who could have known that it was to be your last public outing?
You showered me with so much love and care during my official assignment in Onitsha. You sent light refreshments to the Land Revalidation Committee as your support for the exercise that they referred to you as "my grandmum". Indeed you were a good "grandmum", a loving mother, a gentle soul and above all, a very humble woman despite your social and family background.
To sum up, you were "a Candle in the Wind".
May your peaceful soul rest in the bossom of the Lord........Amen
Barr. Lynda Chinwuba

March 18, 2019

Tribute by Hon Justice Nwakibie G. U. Ononiba
Hon Justice Ijem Onwuamaegbu
Chief Judge
Anambra State
Judiciary Headquarters
Awka.
My Lord,
GLORIOUS DEPARTURE TO ETERNITY OF LADY OGBUESHI BESSY LILLIAN UZOAKU ONWUAMAEGBU (OGALANYA NWANYI)
The passing on of your beloved mother has opened my eyes to the true meaning of the expression ''Glorious Exit'' usually associated with all sorts of people whether they died suddenly in their 40s or 50s.
I see no any other way of explaining the fact that Ogalanya Nwanyi celebrated her 90th birthday anniversary in a grand style on the 27th day of December, 2018. She was bobbling with excellent health and nobody would have imagined that in less than 2 months she will no longer be with us in this world. This is what I Called GLORIOUS EXIT.
I can not think of anybody who is more blessed than Lady Bessy Onwuamaegbu.
She expressed this fulfillment in her titled name Ogalanya Nwanyi ;yet she remained humble and dedicated to her Christian faith.
As a matriarch of illustrious family of Onwuamaegbu she has so many stars shining on her. For example, her late husband Obumneme Onwuamaegbu was the first Igbo man to obtain PhD in Law from the University of London. He was Attorney General of East Central State and finally a High Court Judge. Amongst her children is a Medical Doctor working in Britain; Rtd Major General in Nigerian Army and a United Nation Diplomat.
I dare say that this is a family that will be difficult to beat in intellectual excellence.
What I expect to see at Isu Oba on the 23rd of March, 2019 is not mourning for Ogalanya Nwanyi but a great send off party for this great woman.
Hon Justice Nwakibie G.U.Ononiba,OON
Chief Judge Anambra State Rtd.

March 18, 2019

Tribute to an Awesome Aunt - by Ajaegbo Obiajulu Egemonye
I received the news of Mama's passing with immense sadness. Words can not capture the fullness of her life.
I remember with fondness, her many visits to our house. She always brought us what she called ''Achicha'', which is how I learnt that Igbo word. Her warm and loving presence will be greatly missed by myself and the entire Uncle Joe's family.
Adieu Mama Ije, Adieu Auntie Bessy.
Ka Chukwu Okike nara mkpuru obi gi n'ndokwa,
Amen.
Mazi Ajaegbo Obiajulu Egemonye, (Abianomume II).
London, U.K.
March, 2019.

March 17, 2019

TRIBUTE FOR LATE OGBUESHI LADY BESSY LILLIAN UZOAKU ONWUAMAEGBU (OGALANYA NWANYI) BY ST JOHN THE APOSTLE ANGLICAN CHURCH, ISU OBA.
The Parish priest, workers, PCC and the entire congregation of St John’s Church, Isu-Oba mourn the death of our dear mother – Lady Ogbueshi Bessy Lillian Uzoaku Onwuamaegbu who has gone to be with the Lord. Until Mama’s Transition, she has been a veritable instrument in the hands of the Lord to cradle our Church – St John which has today metamorphosed into a big 3 Church Parish.

Lady Ogbueshi supported her husband – The late Hon Justice Obumneme Onwuamaegbu who was the Attorney General and Commissioner for Justice, East Central States of Nigeria and the Chancellor, Diocese on the Niger in making sure that St John’s Church was established in 1986 due to distance and other hazards going to St Paul’s to worship.

Mama donated millions of naira for building of this church edifice and parcels of land for its expansion. No one will be in doubt that the money used to stand this structure was raised during Mama’s 80th birthday thanksgiving Service.

Ogbueshi was a special gift to us here, together with every other members of her family. She and her entire household had continued to nurture this church till now.

Ogbueshi, your memories will continue to remain evergreen in our hearts. We cherished your magnanimity and philanthropy. Mother of many, Sponsor of many and supporter of the needy; you saved towards the upbringing of the less privileged irrespective of affiliations. We shall miss you.

During your 90th birthday celebrations last December 27th, you were shinning like morning stars, little wonder you were saying good bye ironically, though peacefully to the glory of God.

And I heard a voice from heaven saying blessed are the dead who die in the Lord henceforth, Blessed indeed, says the Spirit, that they may rest from their labours, for their deeds follow them. Rev 14:13.

Henceforth, we bid you good night the gallant Lady Knight. Our hope is strong in Christ who is the first fruit of all who had died and yet to die in Him.

Now to Him that is able to do exceeding abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that worketh in us, unto Him be glory in the Church by Christ Jesus throughout all ages, world without end. Amen.

Mr Ifedili Ubadi
P.C.C Secretary

Rev Henry Nwachukwu
Vicar

March 17, 2019

Tribute to Lady Bessy Onwuamaegbu (Our Auntie Oba)
                    By Susan Odunukwe (Niece)
It’s with gratitude to our Almighty God for a life well-lived that I write this tribute to my Auntie. Most of what is contained in this tribute had been written and has already been shared with you at your 90th birthday in December when it counted the most. I am thankful to God that you lived to see and enjoy your 90th birthday bash put together for you by your children. It was a befitting occasion and a memorable one...It had your signature written all over it. My cousins, their husbands and our children that came from the U.S. knew how much this celebration meant to you as you had announced it a year in advance and so we made it a big deal too appearing at your celebration in our own way, wearing our aso ebi ready to personally deliver our tributes to you. I am certainly glad to be part of your special day!! Auntie, even at your old age, you never missed a beat…You were a force to be reckoned with…You remained vibrant and independent to the very end making your presence known with your flair for fashion never complete without your flamboyant bling...bling!!
“Auntie Oba” as we still call my Auntie Bessy to this day, is respected for her strength, hard work, generosity and feared for her “sternness.” There are several attributes that I greatly admire about the Egemonye women… Look around you…Have you noticed anything? Wherever the Egemonye women are married into, they make their presence known contributing immensely side by side with their husbands in building their new families. Auntie Oba, you were without a doubt; on the very top of that list. I am sure that your contributions to the Onwuamaegbu family have not gone unnoticed. Not only have you contributed immensely in helping to develop the Onwuamaegbu family, but you have also contributed in making a significant difference in the lives of the Egemonyes. You have never forgotten where you came from and have assisted when there were family members who were experiencing financial hardship. All the Egemonyes can attest to the fact that you are known to step up to the plate even when you have not been given advance notice about the situation. You were so proud of being from the Egemonye family and made it known every step along the way; passing those same values to your children who have since joined in contributing to the welfare of the Egemonye family. I have personally witnessed some of those good needs. We were with Emmy at the Nnewi USA (NUSA) annual convention last July in Houston when Emmy stood up and proudly announced his relationship with Nde Nnewi professing the love that you have for the Egemonye family and Nde Nnewi. He concluded with a huge charitable donation to NUSA on your behalf. What an honor!! I am also aware of the numerous donations and gestures by you and your children (my cousins) in supporting different charitable endeavors throughout the years. Auntie Oba, you have safeguarded the interest of the Egemonyes and as an “Ada”, you have represented us well and made us very proud!!
As indicated in your birthday tribute, you have certainly exemplified the thoughtfulness and generosity demonstrated by Mama Nnewi…You perpetuated her legacy by the numerous projects that you had undertaken during your lifetime including church and leadership projects. Even during your birthday celebration, you refused all gifts rather asking for those donations to be made directly to the church…What a godly and selfless act!!
As the last of my dad’s sibling to pass, I have had time to reflect on the legacy that you, Uncle Ben, my dad, Auntie Grace and Uncle Joe have left and in so doing, I feel the vacuum and more so since I had just recently spent time with you at Nnewi at the church on December 30th and afterwards at Chukwuanu’s house. When I escorted you to your car for your return to Oba on that day, little did I know that this would be the last time that I would see you. Auntie Oba, you would be sorely missed…We have not stopped talking about your departure…To my cousins, Ije, Meto, Emmy, Chinwe, Ucheora and Chomy may the Lord continue to strengthen you. As you reminisce about your mom’s life, may you be reminded of her legacy and all the ways that you have contributed in perpetuating that legacy.
Auntie Oba, thank God that you ran …. finished your race… and in the process have left an indelible mark! As believers, we know that you are up in heaven… looking down and probably issuing orders “do it like this…and do it like that…”

MAY YOUR SOUL REST IN PERFECT PEACE AUNTIE OBA

March 17, 2019

TRIBUTE TO MY BELOVED AUNT LADY BESSY UZOAKU ONWUAMAEGBU " OGALANYA NWANYI "- THE MUMMY WITH A GOLDEN HEART - Chibueze Onwuamaegbu
Your life was a testimony of God's goodness and your love toward humanity. No wonder people who went to acquire more material wealth still found themselves liliputing when stood shoulder to shoulder with you, Why? your real wealth was within you in your Golden heart out of which flows ceaselessly streams of love to humanity.
One cannot love without giving. Right from the time you came into the big family, you made it your goal to touch every life by giving out something tangible. With your benevolence and philanthropy, you touched many lives in the community and church beyond.
Through your giving you popularised the song "A na ewepu O n'abata." A Big heart Of Love Of Love and Forgiveness: Although you were quick at detecting fault quick to rebuke as a good teacher, quick to correct quick to forgive the offender without waiting for apology. You refuse to clutter your with grudges and forgiveness.
A GOOD DISCIPLINARIAN; You discipline with a lot of love in your heart. I appreciate the equal treatment you gave to your Late nephew CHIDO and your children while they grew up together, you gave them exciting and hilarious childhood. I enjoyed every moment of my stay while I visited. Hardly will any outsider know that CHIDO was not your child. MAMA CHIDO!!!! GREAT COUNSELLOR
You would always say the truth in love. My Family was richly blessed through your counsel which helps us to navigate through the the storms of early stage of our marriage. My Wife remained eternally grateful for your Motherly love encouragement and wise counsel.
ADIEU - THE MUMMY WITH A GOLDEN HEART!!!!!!!
ADIEU - THE MUMMY WITH A GOLDEN HEART!!!!!!!
PASTOR CHIBUEZE ONWUAMAEGBU AND FAMILY

March 17, 2019

Dear Uche and Chi, Please accept my deepest condolences on the passing of your much beloved mother and grandmother. Take heart in the fact that she lived a long and accomplished life. May she rest in perfect peace.
Obiora Okafor

March 17, 2019

Letter Of Condolence - ANAMBRA STATE LAW REVISION COMMITTEE
Hon. Justice Ijem Onwuamaegbu, Ag. Chief Judge,
Chief Judge’s Chambers, Judiciary Headquarters,
High Court of Justice, Awka,
Anambra State.
My Lord,
RE: Letter Of Condolence
We, the entire members of Anambra State Law Revision Committee express our deepest condolence to you and the entire Onwuamaegbu Family on the recent transition of your beloved mother, Lady Bessy Lillian Uzoaku Onwuamaegbu (Nee Egemonye) Ogbueshi-Ogalanya Nwanyi at the enviable age of 90 years.
We give glory to God that your mother lived an exemplary life and left a worthy legacy of illustrious sons and daughters, such as you, the Ag. Chief Judge of Anambra State and the Chairman of the Anambra State Law Revision Committee.
Lady Bessy was truly an inspiring figure, a dedicated mother and a faithful Christian.
Once again, accept our condolences.
Yours faithfully,
Dr. T. C. Osanakpo, SAN Patricia I. Igwebuike, Esq
Alternate Chairman Secretary

March 17, 2019

Tribute by Hon. Justice Irene Uzoamaka Ndigwe
The Hon Acting Chief Judge
ANAMBRA STATE JUDICIARY
My Lord, I write to commiserate with you and members of your family on the call to glory of your beloved Matriarch, Lady Bessie Onwuamaegbu (Ogalanya Nwanyi). “For if we live, we live to the Lord, and if we die, we die to the Lord. So then, whether we live or whether we die, we are the Lord’s.”- Romans 14:8
Ogalanya Nwanyi you lived in Christ and even in death you are with him, and so our comfort comes from the confidence in knowing that you have always been of the lord and nothing can separate you from his loving protection and light. You have merely gone on to be closer to our Lord.
Gracious in your ways and loving to all who knew you, your absence will undoubtedly be felt, but your memory will be honoured as we continue to exercise and carry forward all that we learnt from you; And in honouring you we will continue to Celebrate your commendable legacy in the children you so raised.
May God accept Mama‘s soul and grant you and your entire family the fortitude to bear this irreparable loss. You will forever be in our hearts.
Yours sincerely 
Hon Justice I.U. Ndigwe

March 17, 2019

Condolence Message - from Dr E.C.Iwuji
As one (with my daughter and grandson) of those privileged to have witnessed and participated in the memorable celebration organised by her children for her 90th Birthday Anniversary, the news of Lady Bessey Lilian Uzoaku Onwuamaegbu’s death, so soon after the Event, was not only unexpected but also a shock. It must have been doubly so for her children and relations. On behalf of my family and I, I wish to express our deepest sympathy to Ucheora, his siblings and the Onwuamaegbu family in their grief. In retrospect, you (late Justice Moses and Lady Bessey’s children), should be proud and thankful to God for the loyalty and honour you did to your mother, by arranging such a lavish celebration for her. The sweet reminiscences of the Event must be with her wherever she is now resting. This, and the very fulfilled life she lived, should be some consolation.
Dr Eleazar C. Iwuji, KSC

March 16, 2019

Tribute to Mama Oba - by Anele & Chidii Ebizie
Ogbueshi’s brief illness came as a big shock. It is still unbelievable especially after having seen her last December at her 90th birthday party. Mama was the star at her Birthday party. She was nothing like you would expect a 90-year-old to look like or act like.
She had the wisdom and the numbers, but she was not an ‘old’ woman. Mama was most remarkable, she was in command, she was strong, eloquent and totally in control. It is hard to believable that she has gone. I can still see her the day after the party, as she directed and gave presents and party treats to relations and friends as we left.
Ije, Emmy, Uche and family, you were all amazing. You organised the best party ever. I wished and was sure we would come back to Oba in 10 years for another amazing party. As it turned out you gave Mama the greatest and best send off any one could ever wish for.
Well done Ije ‘Oke Ada’, thank you for taking care of Mama. We all know how independent Mama was. Take comfort in the fact that she was not alone, she lived with you and you looked after her to the very end.
Ogalanyanwanyi, Ogbueshi. Mama Oba, you are one in a million. You were very caring. I remember how you took care of us those many years ago in Enugu. You made our wedding cake at no cost to us. You and Dad (Obuneme) honoured us with your presence at our wedding. Even in your old age you never failed to give us presents when we visited. I still have the dried fish you gave me in December. Mama fare well and rest in perfect peace.
Anele & Chidii Ebizie

March 16, 2019

TRIBUTE TO MAMA ANYI, ISI ADA UMU EGEMONYE
LADY BESSY LILIAN UZOAKU ONWUAMAEGBU
OGBUESHI – OGALANYA NWANYI.
It is so difficult to write about you.
This is because nobody can cover all the perspectives that you stood for in our Family.
Despite your age and any health issues accompanying the ageing process, you were always present in all the meetings of Umuada Egemonye.
Put into quantitative and qualitative terms, you were the most active and visible Nwada of the Egemonye Family. Our family meetings were very important to you and you took them very seriously.
Even in the religious activities that concerned the Anglican and other churches at Akaboukwu, Uruagu and Nnewi, your support to them was always source of joy to you! The blind saw your good deeds and the deaf equally heard them.
Mama anyi, Mama Oba, you took the entire Egemonye Family as your children! You always inquired about everybody. As far as you were concerned, Egemonye Family was the Ultimate. Egemonye Family was the best.
You made sure that no member of our Family spent every year’s Christmas on an empty stomach.
This practice you have sustained for a very long time.
You encouraged our children to get educated. You endowed some money for University Scholarships for this purpose. You equally explained to us that education enhances mental capability, attitude and behaviour.
You challenged the Egemonye Family a few years back to build a better and befitting Family Hall. You supported us financially towards this project!
By mid-December 2018, I visited you at your residence at Onitsha to congratulate you on your 90th Birthday and to brief you about our Family Hall.
You were happy with the photograph of the extent of our Family Hall.
You further advised that everything humanly possible should be done to bring the project to conclusion. Few days after that my visit, fire gutted your house at Onitsha. But God saved you from that calamity. Still your 90th year Birthday was still celebrated on 27th December, 2018.
Your generosity to us was legendary!
You opened your hands to us without any inhibition! You gave to us cheerfully, freely and happily. Your propensity to give cannot be described!
You lived a completely fulfilled life.
You told all those who interacted closely with you that you didn’t need anything from anybody. No gifts nor presents of any sort!
You were a virtuous woman. A woman of sagacity! You were unapologetically proud of your heritage!
It is only the Almighty God above that knows why your Home Call by this time! But no one can query Him!
We, the entire members of the Egemonye Family mourn and miss you.
But we are gladdened by the fact known by everyone that you left your bold footprints in the sands of time.
Rest in peace Mama anyi, because your legacy will live after you.
Fare thee well,
Ogbueshi – Ogalanya Nwanyi,
Mama Anyi, Isi Ada Umu Egemonye.
Nnoruka Egemonye
Chairman, EGEMONYE FAMILY MEETING

March 16, 2019

CONDOLENCES ON THE DEATH OF A MATRIARCH - Ogoo & Emeka Ngige, SAN
Friday 15th March 2019
Hon Justice Obumnaeme Onwuamaegbu Family
℅ Gen. Emeka Onwuamaegbu (Rtd)
Isu Village, Oba
Idemili South LGA
My beloved General,
CONDOLENCES ON THE DEATH OF THE MATRIARCH OF ONWUAMAEGBU FAMILY, LADY BESSY LILIAN UZOAKU ONWUAMAEGBU (NEE EGEMONYE), OGBUESHI OGALANYA NWANYI
On behalf of my family, I write to convey our sincere condolences to the entire Clan on the demise of your Matriarch, Lady Bessy Lilian Uzoaku Onwuamaegbu (Nee Egemonye) who slept in the Lord on the 22nd of February 2019 at the age, 90+.
As aptly captioned in her obituary poster, Ogbueshi Ogalanya-Nwanyi’s life was a fulfilled one. She enjoyed, among others, longevity, good health, prosperity, successful children and grandchildren, religiosity and happiness.
Just last December, we all celebrated her 90th birthday in grand style. A week to celebrate the historical ascension of her daughter, Ijem to the leadership of Anambra State Judiciary, she exited gracefully. Truly Ogalanya- Nwanyi came, saw and conquered. In line with the Biblical quotation in 2nd Timothy Verse 4 she fought a good fight, finished the race, religiously and dutifully kept the faith and expectantly by His Grace will surely collect the crown of righteousness which the Good Lord has in stock for the righteous.
May the Good Lord grant your family the fortitude to bear the loss of Lady Bessy. She will be sorely missed by the family members.
May her gentle soul rest in perfect peace! Amen
Yours Sincerely
Sgd
Ogoo & Emeka Ngige, SAN
Ikemba N’Alor

March 16, 2019

TRIBUTE TO A SUPPORTER/ PILLAR TO MY FAMILY - by Sir Samuel Onuchukwu
" There are always people you meet in your life that change you and your path " - MASON COX
    I Sir Samuel Onuchukwu (IFE DI N'OBA 1 AKU ILILI N'OBA) on behalf of my family express my condolence to the onwuamaegbu family over the death of mama.
   I can't forget her advice to my wife when we newly wedded. "When you go to the ogbete market (Enugu) to buy a knife, buy two knives keep one at Oba and one at Enugu "And she went on to say " Never forget to build a house in Oba before building in Enugu " with this candid advice and lots more I was able to build my family and a home at Oba.
ADIEU! ADIEU!! ADIEU!!! MAMA
JEE NKE OMA
                        Signed
                Sir Samuel Onuchukwu
                  (IFE DI N'OBA 1) on behalf of my family

March 16, 2019

Forever In Our Hearts - by Vero Osanakpo
Carl Sagan's quote...'To live in the hearts of others is never to die' comes true again as I remember Lady Bessy Onwuamegbu, fondly known and addressed as Ogalanya Nwanyi .
To a small group she was addressed as OJIUGO. I recall with joy my first encounter with Mama about 27years ago as a young mom, after introductions had been made, she pulled me aside and wanted to be sure she heard correctly where my husband was from...she then told me that Nnewi women who were married to non- Nnewi men are known as Ojiugos... Powerful Ada!! I gladly keyed in and addressed her respectfully as Ojiugo.
So I was Ojiugo to her and she (Ojiugo) looked out for me. She was one of our first guests when we moved into her neighbourhood years ago. She took note of my husband, recognised and exchanged pleasantries with him whenever their paths crossed. She was delightful, though she said things the way she saw them, it didn't matter whose ox was gored. She was courageous about the truth! Fond memories of her are etched in our hearts.
We are grateful to God for her beautiful life, she was blessed with long life (Ps9l vs 16), with children and grand/ great grand children (Ps 128 vs 6), the works of her hands were blessed like the woman of Proverbs 31. Most importantly Ojiugo had a sound mind till the very end. Her elegance on the 27th of December, 2018 at her 90th birthday celebration, (two months before the final call), is a testimony of His grace and will remain evergreen in the minds of people. To God be all the glory.
Death, however is very painful especially the death of a dear parent, but we are assured it is not the end but the beginning of a glorious life in eternity. Our prayer is that God in His infinite mercy consoles her family and grants her soul eternal rest in heaven. Amen
She will be missed but fondly remembered.
Ndoo nu umu wadiana.
Mrs Vero Osanakpo

March 16, 2019

TRIBUTE TO MA’AM LADY BESSY ONWUAMAEGBU (OGBUESHI-OGALANYA NWANYI)
Dear mother it really feels hard to come to terms that we will miss your charm, glowing, open mindedness and inspiring spirit with which the Lord blessed you and you shared them with us. Yes, these virtues we cannot share and receive from you again, so we celebrate your life - a fulfilled life.
You’re an epitome of courage, industry and kind-heartedness. We that you left behind will endeavour to trade the path of good attribute you showed. You were never a proponent of indolence, always preached against it and encouraged any willing soul in getting their hands on things to get busy.
We always looked up to you as role model when occasions arose that somebody had to be told what they had done wrong; you always said your mind regardless and naturally it would be the right thing to do. But many a man would choose to sit on the fence instead of coming out clearly with his opinion regarding the matter.
Mama, talking about your proficiency in cookery, we learnt a lot about what constitute healthy eating that is a necessity for good living. This might have even contributed to your longevity as God had given to you.
Our dearly beloved mother, if it is possible and our desire too, we would have wished you stay having invited all that were present last year December to your 100th birthday because we love you but God loves you more hence the home calling. We will meet again.
ADIEU MAMA
Okey ,Ogo & family

March 16, 2019

Tribute to a Quintessential Lady and Mum, by Hon. Barr Tonia Tabansi-Okoye

Mum was such a graceful lady, even In old age, that she made old age seem so easy ,comfortable and less scary.
Her smile that never seemed to leave her face was so disarming, that I never ceased to admire her.
Mum was a mother to me and other of Ije's friends in the late eighties when we were very young lawyers cutting our teeth in legal profession. We enjoyed her company and loved her jokes.
She took us, Ije's friends, as her daughters and treated us as such.
It was with her that I came to appreciate the saying that - age is only but a number, and that one is as old as one feels. She was young at heart and that reflected very much on her out look in life.
She was a beautiful soul, kind, hospitable, generous, and full of love for mankind.
My regret is that I could not make it to her ninetieth birthday celebration on the 27th December 2018. It would have been a wonderful opportunity to hug her once more and bid her farewell.
Adiue Mum, Adieu Ogalanya Nwanyi. May your kind and generous soul rest in perfect peace. Amen
Hon. Barr Tonia Tabansi-Okoye

March 15, 2019

Condolence Message - Fidelis & Florence Ejikeme + Family
To the Owuamaegbu Family, Isu-Oba.
At the recent nonagenarian celebrations and weeks after, our matriarch, mother and grandmother was so radiant and full of life to the joy of all. But, in keeping with life's mysteries, it has pleased God to summon her to paradise at this time.
We are so sorry for your unexpected loss. Please accept our deepest sympathies, while we pray to God to comfort you Ijem, Meto, Emmy, Chichi, Ucheora and the entire family. May He welcome her soul in heaven.
Ndo nu.
Fidelis & Florence Ejikeme + Family,
Okuzu-Oba

March 15, 2019

ADIEU MAMA by Senator (Sir) Annie Okonkwo.
To everything there is a season, a time for every purpose under heaven: Ecc: 3v1. For the living know that they will die, but the dead know nothing, and Life is but a pilgrimage of mortals who after their sojourn on earth must return unto the Creator and indeed our real life is that which is accorded to us in the thoughts of other men by reason of respect or natural love.
Howbeit, Life can never stay the same, no matter how we try. Our hands can never stop the clock of life from ticking by but love remains unchanged in the care of sorrowful hearts, for as the love of this life surrenders, the love of memory starts.
Words seem so feeble in moments like these because no matter how we try console ourselves, it cannot fill the big vacuum you have left in our lives. To my inlaws, all I can say is that you should take heart and remember that she lived an exemplary life worthy of emulation. I believe that she died a happy woman having raised a generation of men and women of class. Please note that I share your pain.
I therefore urge you to remain steadfast, faithful and expectant because at last, there would be an eternal reunion that neither time nor death can separate.
On behalf of my family, kindly accept our heartfelt condolences and the assurances of our deepest sympathies.
Yours Sincerely
Senator (Sir) Annie Okonkwo.

March 15, 2019

Message of condolence by LLB class of 1977 , University of Nigeria Enugu Campus
Message of condolence to Hon. Justice Ijem Onwuamaegbu Chief Judge of Anambra State, on the death of her mother Lady Bessy Lilian Uzoaku Onwuamaegbu from her University of Nigeria Enugu Campus LLB classmates.
My dear Ije
It is with a heavy heart but at the same time with gratitude to God that I write to convey to you and your family on behalf of your UNEC classmates (class of 1977) our profound sympathies on the death of your beloved mother Lady Bessy Lilian Uzoaku Onwuamaegbu.
Her demise no doubt has created a void in your family but we thank God that she was able to nurture you and your siblings from cradle to responsible adulthood and that you were able to celebrate her 90th birthday with her not too long ago. From all accounts she was the epitome of discipline, diligence, elegance and generosity of spirit. We know that she will be greatly missed.
While the love of a mother is irreplaceable we urge you to look beyond her demise and be comforted by the good life she led and the many inspiring legacies she has left behind.
It is our prayer that the good Lord will comfort you and your family in your time of loss and that the Almighty in his infinite grace and mercy will grant her perfect peace as she reposes in the bosom of the Lord forever.
“For though I am absent in body, yet I am with you in spirit, rejoicing to see your good order and the firmness of your faith in Christ.” Colossians 2:5
Prof. Isabella Okagbue
On behalf of the LLB class of 1977
University of Nigeria Enugu Campus

March 15, 2019

THE EXIT OF A MUMMY-GENERAL - by Barr & Engr.(Mrs.) Emeka Onyeka (Ezennia)
The Onwuamaegbu family
Isu Village,
Oba.
Dear My lord & Ucheora,
We received with shock the news of the demise of our dear big mummy, Ogbueshi Ogalanya Nwanyi. It is difficult to put in words our feelings upon the news, considering the timing with the appointment and celebration of our learned jurist, Hon. Justice I. Onwuamaegbu as the new Chief Judge of Anambra State. Quick to our minds notwithstanding, was her sound Christian life.
Although, death is an inevitable point of no return which every sprinter in this race of life must get to, it cannot however, erase the committed principles of godly living she imparted in all her children and extended families which today speak for itself.
Ogbueshi, was a devout soldier of Christ, a committed Lady – Knight in the Anglican Communion and, a dogged fighter for good causes and Christian values as evident from the consistent amiable dispositions of her children. She will no doubt be deeply missed by her children, the entire Onwuamaegbu families, including some of us that cherished her sound principles.
I pray that our good Lord will grant the entire Onwuamaegbu families the inner strength to bear this irreplaceable exit.
Barr & Engr.(Mrs.) Emeka Onyeka.
(Ezennia) 12th March, 2019

March 15, 2019

Tribute to an icon by Ngozi Onwugbenu Okolo
Aunty Betsy lived a fulfilled life, you were a virtuous woman, an epitome of excellence, courageous, bold and outspoken on all issues, no matter whois involved.
Any time there is an issue in my family and aunty Betsy is invited, her views and opinions are never challenged because she will truthfully hit it on the nail.
This is not a time to mourn, rather, it is a time for celebration of life, thanking giving gratitude to God for a life well spent. Aunty, you will surely be missed because of your great qualities too numerous to mention. You have always been a protective person especially where your relations are concerned. Aunty, "ina eme nwanne and ima nwanne "
I could remember in the 70s whenever you visit Lagos from Enugu, we always look forward to the most delicious bag of popcorn with strong aroma thatyou always bring for us. I couldn't make it to your 90th birthday but I hoped to see you when I come back, expecting your usual broad smile as you hug calling as usual ooh Ngo, ooh nwadi.
We love you but God loves you more, Ogalanya Nwanyi jee nkeoma as you rest in the bossom of the Lord. ADIEU GREAT MOTHER.
Ngozi Okolo Onwugbenu

March 15, 2019

Tribute to OGALANYA NWANYI by Lady Nneka Ugwunze and children
The entire family of Late (Sir) H.N. Ugwunze are sadden about the passing of our great auntie, Lady Uzoaku Onwuamaegbu (who we fondly called “Mama”), but grateful to God for a life well spent.
We are struggling to find where to start recounting your impact in our lives and family as a whole, we can barely find the words to express your deep love for us….. From the way you cared for our late father, Sir Boko like you, our aunt and uncles fondly call him (may his soul rest in peace). Your role during the burial of our late father can never be over emphasized. You stepped in the role of “our grandmother” which you didn’t have anymore. Words of encouragement and wisdom from you to us during the event, particularly, how you stood by our mother, Lady Nneka Ugwunze, made our lives a lot easier. Always a feature in our lives, offering her guidance, support, advice and prayers when needed.
The love and kindness you showed to everyone around you has to be experienced to be believed. Always giving money and gifts, such that you were nicknamed “Ogalanya Nwanyi”, translated to English to mean “Rich woman”. You were by no means the richest person, but a kind-hearted person who loved to share the blessing of God in your life with others. You adopted our mother and showed love and affection that one gives to a beloved offspring. Your acts of thoughtfulness and kindness were done so many times, enough to be noticed by us (her children), that it became a part of us to always remind to go check on mama. We are grateful to God for the little opportunity HE allowed us to love and care for you too.
Mama taught us the power of gratitude. Getting a gift for her can be quite challenging because there’s no gift she could not get for herself. So it always surprised us, to see how grateful she was for the gift. She had a dance called “Ana ewepu, Ona abata” translated in English to mean “The more you give, the more you receive”. She would dance with joy and tell everyone around about the gift. The dance has become a “thing” we do, when we get gifts in our homes.
Her humility is legendary. We are always surprised to see her using public transport, sitting quietly with other passengers. Blessed by God with good health and a sound mind. Emeka remembers visiting her in London to show her his fiancée (now wife), and how she entertained them. Walking them to the station after the visit, they struggled to keep up with her very quick gait for a lady of her age (in her 80s). They remarked that they wish for God to give them that kind of good health and a sound mind when they get to be her age.
She will be sorely missed. Death is a journey that we all must make and the Almighty has said that it's your turn to make the journey, as well, they say “All good things must come to an end”, we had wished for this to be an exception. Nevertheless, we are thankful to God for bringing you into our lives. We will always fond memories of the precious times we spent together.
Rest in Peace dear Mama!!!
From: Lady Nneka Ugwunze and children.

March 15, 2019

Tribute to MAMA from Shelley Chukwuka Odina .(Ada Ichie Ugoeze 1 of Oba ).
Ogalanya Nwanyi , Mamayi .When I heard about your 90th birthday last December, I was overwhelmed with Joy and gratitude to God for a very very fulfilled life . Haven been away in London for a long time now , I missed that occasion of joining you to thank God for his blessings , Love , Favour and Grace towards you ; but i was there in spirit and my brother told me how glorious it was . I fondly remember you visiting Ijeabalum when we were at Elelenwa in 1965 /67 . We always enjoyed your special cake . I would always go to Kingsway stores Port Harcourt to look for more to buy . Mama I had always admired your confidence , elegance and forever smiling face.. Yours is a life of fulfillment. As the bible says there is power in the tongue.; when you named your daughter Ijeabalum little did you know that you had affirmed that your coming to Oba will yield tremendous positive results . You had maintained a good family and trained your children to attain their highest potential in life . Today even though it came just after you left , your little Ijeabalum is the Chief Judge of Anambra state . I am sure that you and her dad Late Justice Obumneme Onwuamaegbu will be so proud of her .Lord we thank you for all your blessings on mama and pray that you grant her Eternal Rest through Christ our Lord Amen . Adieu mama .

March 14, 2019

TRIBUTE TO MAMA by Chibros family
It is with heavy heart that I write this, but this is not to mourn you but to celebrate you. To celebrate a life well lived.
You had a kind heart and you you passed it on to your children. It was very evident because in the event of my dad's untimely death, you all cared for and nurtured our family that we never lacked. Your home was always open to us. You were a no-nonsense person and you always said your mind. I still remember visiting with Chioma and you instructed that we should make sure we return everything the way we met it.
I also remember your trademark dance whenever you received any gift;
a na ewepu, o na abata,
e ewepu ewepu, o bata abata,
mana e wepuro ewepu,
O gaghi abata.
Mama, we celebrate you, we thank God for your life and may your gentle soul continue to rest in peace.
Farewell Ogalanya nwanyi.
Mrs Chioma Obi (nee Oguchi)
For Chibros family.

March 14, 2019

TRIBUTE TO MY LOVING AND CARING GREAT GRANDMA by Hon. Justice G.C. Anulude
Mummy it is with rude shock that I received the sad news of Your demise, Mummy You were indeed a Mother of inestimable jewel. You played the role of a mother in my life particularly when I lost my biological mother.
You showered me with so much love manifested by the delicacies you used to send across to my father and I.
Your motherly love was so pure to the extent that you bought me exact clothes as you bought for your daughter.
Mummy, though we mourn your earthly exit, we glorify and thank God Almighty for the gift of longevity and good health upon you. Your exit is indeed glorious, having made it up to 90 years+ on earth, indeed this is a rare grace among mortals.
Death is inevitable for mortals, we take solace in the fact that you lived a fulfilled Christian life just like you showed it the last Sunday before your demise when you gladly danced to the alter for Thanksgiving.
I shall leverage on the evergreen legacies you left behind for better tomorrow.
Adiue Mummy
Rest in the bosom of Our lord.
Hon. Justice G.C. Anulude
Admin Judge Anaocha Judicial Division.

March 13, 2019

A TRIBUTE TO A SPECIAL AMAZON by Chief/Lolo Bright Egwuenu
A mother's love is irreplaceable,as such the demise of Mama ayi Late Ogbuefi Ogalanya Nwanyi would have evoked a torrent of painful emotions for us and Onwuamaegbu family. Mama was a special woman whose exceptional life left bold imprints on the character and personality of her children. Mama's death came as a shock to us because we were with her on Sunday 17th Feb.  in the church, she was dancing as if she knew that she will not see another Sunday service, Not knowing that it will be the last we will be with her.
Mama lived a very purposeful and fulfilled life and at death she reminds us of the words of the scripture Job 5: 26 "You shall come to the grave at full age, as a sheaf of grain ripens in its season "
Mama really played her role enviably well as a true mother a committed Christian and community builder,she served both God and humanity. Creditably,Mama was a caring and loving mother and her demise has left a big vaccum in your family and humanity at large. We pray the good Lord to grant your family the fortitude to bear this great loss and give you all the strength to carry on the Legacies she has left behind. May her gently soul rest peacefully in the Lord's bossom Amen.
Adieu Ogbuefi
Adieu Ogalanya Nwanyi
Jee nke öma
                     In condolence
            Chief/Lolo Bright Egwuenu
                 Ezeabata Oba

March 13, 2019

TRIBUTE TO LADY BESSIE UZOAKU ONWUAMAEGBU
FROM
SIR ENGR. DR. VICTOR M. CHIWUZIE
The entire Chiwuzie family and indeed the entire Isu Village of Oba, Idemili South LGA celebrate the life lived by Lady Bessie Uzoaku Onwuamaegbu. However, her demise to many of us, is like a huge rock has fallen on us; but we take solace in the fact that she celebrated in a grand style her last “Ofalla” on December 27 2018 to mark her 90th birthday and God’s blessing of longevity.
Mummy was a great motivator and mentor to many of us who are looked upon as community leaders. As a retired teacher ad leader of the Diocesan Lady Knights, she exemplified discipline, commitment to responsibilities, principle, neatness modesty and high standards. She had this attitude of “do it yourself”
During my wedding ceremony over four decades ago, in 1978, she facilitated approvals by Government for supply of all “essential commodities” and personally hand carried many cartons of drinks from the warehouse.
I will never forget that she made our elegant wedding cake free of charge and she and her husband, Hon Justice Obumneme Onwuamaegbu who was my baptismal godfather chaired my wedding reception.
Good night mummy Ogalanya Nwanyi. I pray that you sleep peacefully now but to wake up in the waiting hands of the Almighty God to be ushered into your heavenly mansion.
We, the entire members of Chiwuzie family wish you great reception in the heavenly realms and pray that God will receive and bless your purple heart.
Sir Engr. Dr. Victor M. Chiwuzie, FNSE

March 13, 2019

Tribute To A Loved Aunti, Ogalanya Nwanyi, by J. Celia Uzoewulu
It’s still too hard to believe Ogalanya Nwanyi is no more! Thank God for The lovely elegant picture of you that is engraved in my mind’s eye with your breathtaking beautiful dress with matching hat at your 90th birthday Church Service on 27th December 2019. Instead of aging with years you looked so beautiful, tantalizing like lilies in the field, no wrinkles, walking straight with your shoulders up. She read her Bible passage with very strong voice, in English, without any mistakes or directions and amazingly read it all from her handset.
My ever radiant Auntie, Ogalanya Nwanyi as I usually called her, is an epitome of ladyhood-her comportment, carriage, classical dressing, methodical with high sense for details and highly disciplined-no mocking around, called a spade a spade.
Can I forget her love and affection showered on me throughout my years in Onitsha before my retirement from Service. Her home was my second home, much welcomed and part of it. Always, ‘Cee do you want this or that’ and I would reply ‘no auntie I don’t want any’ but she must force me to go home with something. I would then shout ‘thank you Ogalanya Nwanyi’ and ran away!! Mango season was the worst period for me-one would think I have mango orchard behind my house because there were always mangoes in my kitchen sent by auntie, Ogalanya Nwanyi on regular basis until end of mango season. I recall to mind her kindness and generosity to me after my retirement. Her daughter, Ijem, my babe, now the First Female Hon. The Judge Chief of Anambra State hosted a party in my Honour. All the edibles including lots of fresh fish served that day were paid for by my auntie, Ogalanya Nwanyi in my honour and she was there to the end - live.
Her kindness and love for me always, always reduces me to uncontrollable tears!! Few days ago I was congratulating her daughter, Ijem now
Our first Female Chief Judge of Anambra State for being courageous while she was paying tribute to the memories of her deceased mum, mama Oba, during her swearing in ceremony in Awka. She said that when one of the serving judges told her a Jugde broke down in tears as she was doing that , she knew immediately it must be her ‘madam’ auntie Cee!!! Naughty girl!
Auntie, my Ogalanya Nwanyi, I will always miss you dearly-your memories will always remain ever green in my mind. Adieu great one-you lived a glorious life and God who knows the future from the present called you to rest when the ovation was loudest! I thank God for your life and the sweet memories you left behind.
Rest in perfect peace in the bosom of the Lord, your creator
Uzoewulu J. Celia

March 13, 2019

TRIBUTE TO OGALANYA NWANYI – LADY BESSIE ONWUAMAEGBU, by Chief Mrs Chinwe Ngonadi
Vibrant and articulate, Mama Ijem, was a woman you could not ignore. She lived a good life which she loved so much. Mama was stylish and intelligent. We celebrate a life well lived to the glory of God.
Mama , I remember vividly when I used to spend some of my holidays in your home at Enugu as a young student. You treated me as your own daughter. You were tough but considerate and kind.
Your love for church hymns was phenomenal and you were a great singer and lover of music. I sang at your 80th Birthday and you insisted that I sing for you at your 90th. I couldn`t because of the bad cold I had that morning. Mama, I promised to sing at your next birthday which incidentally has turned to be your burial. You are celebrated not mourned mama, and I will sing for you at your funeral no matter how short. You made it clear to whoever that needed to hear that you do not want a messy life and that is exactly what came to you as you passed on with your body intact. Ijem is devastated, Emmy is so so hit by your sudden demise, Ucheora is so distraught, Chinwe and Meto I think are feeling so sad too. Your grandchildren are so sad especially our intelligent Chioma (Ije`s daughter) who is so devastated by your demise. Ogaranya nwanyi, fashion icon, ever bubbly and outspoken – Jee ije gi nke oma and may you go the way of all saints triumphant.
You were a mother to many of us and you brought up great children that are celebrated in Nigeria today. Ijem our ebullient CJ, you took exceptional care of mama in her life time till her death, jide obi gi aka, Dr Meto ndo inugo Emmy Nwanne nmadu, the Peoples General, you love mama so much and took care of her brace up and accept the reality that mama is no more, Chinwe nne biko gbaghalu ficha anya mmiri, Ucheora obere nwa mama ndo o biko.
Hurray Ogalanya Nwanyi, Rest in Perfect Peace.
Always remembered by one of your adopted daughters Chief Mrs Chinwe Ngonadi
FNAE (Ugegbe Ojoto)

March 13, 2019

Farewell To Ogbueshi Ogalanya Nwanyi - by the family of late Sir Gilbert Onwuamaegbu “Nnanyelugo 1”

The song that comes to mind when thinking of Mama Ije, Ma'am as we interchangeably call her is “My Way” by Frank Sinatra. She was one of those rare breeds that you expected to live forever. So many great superlatives are apt to describe Ma’am and none will do her justice:
Trailblazer
Frontier woman
Pioneer
Visionary
Lady
Fiercely independent
Strong
Magnificent
Rich
Wise
Razor sharp wit
Uncanny and indelible sense of humor

The description that encapsulates Ma'am for us as the "guardian tower of strength." Ma'am’s presence was felt and seen. She loved and protected us all with a force of her Herculean will. You did not mess with her family and this warm, reassuring protective cloak extended to all who were fortunate enough to fall within Ma'am's exclusive orbit, particularly her children and us nieces and nephews.

Superbly educated when women were only seen and not heard, Ma'am held her own with toughest of men. She pioneered nutrition before it became the rage. She stood tall and spoke out. She championed the downtrodden and elevated so many. She also said the darndest things! She bravely expressed in magnificent words things we were all thinking but too timid to blurt out. Ma'am was unapologetic because she had truth on her side.

Ma'am lived and died on her own terms. Expected to live till the end of time, we are still something numbed by her passing. How else was she to get the last and most glorious laugh? Who else throws herself the birthday bash of the century, thanks and praises her incredible children for giving her the best "living funeral," directs her children that "if anything happens" they must celebrate her life and not mourn, then proceeds to check out days after?! Only Ma'am could have, because she was able to bend time to her magnificent will!

We join our cousins, Meto, Ije, Emmie, Chinwe and Ucheora in celebrating the great life that Ma'am lived. We do so because Ma'am's suggestions are edicts. You obey on pains of a withering look that turned mortals into stone. We celebrate because she was right. Like, we are going to start disagreeing now!

We thank Ma'am for her love, towering strength, grace, wisdom, cutting wit, hysterical sense of humor, her passionate protection of us, for the example she set for our daughters and above all her unwavering faith in the Almighty.

God awaits.
Uncle Mo awaits.

Ije oma, Ogalanya Nwanyi!

Chief Nnaemeka Onwuamaegbu “Kpakpando”
For and on behalf of the family of late
Sir Gilbert Onwuamaegbu “Nnanyelugo 1”
(Lady Harriet, Nnaemeka, Eziamaka, Chinyelu, Ngozi, Nonso, Obii, Nkemjika, Zuam, Onyinye)
(Grandchildren and Great Grandchildren)

March 12, 2019

TRIBUTE FROM CHINWE IYIZOBA JCA
This is not a time for mourning! It is not a time for “I am sorry”! It is a time for celebration of life, thanksgiving and gratitude to God for a life truly well lived. Mama lived well in the true sense of the word. She was born well, she married well and was blessed with loving and successful children who took excellent care of her until her very last breadth. Her spiritual life and generosity was legendary! Pray, what more can anyone ask for? God allowed mama to witness her funeral ceremony in the grand celebration of her 90th birthday barely 2 months before her homecall. I visited and saw mama the day before the grand event as I was unable to be there on the day due to a wedding in the family. Mama was radiant, strong and vey happy. She even sang and danced for me. My regret is not taking a picture with her on that day.
My Lord CJ, as you and your siblings took such good care of mama and showered her with so much love, so shall your own children love and take care of you! May mama’s gentle soul rest peacefully in the Lord Amen !
Chinwe Iyizoba
Justice Court of Appeal

March 12, 2019

TRIBUTE TO AN ICON - by Oby, Chinenye, Ifeoma & Ifeatu Eruchalu
‘’OGALANYA NWAANYI’’ Mother in Israel, an epitome of excellence, beauty, virtuous wife, a perfect complement of her husband (Justice Obumneme Onwuamaegbu) of blessed memory. Supportive, caring, a home maker and builder, a mentor, role model per excellence, a fashion pace setter, an admirer of creation, who adds value, worth and essence in God’s creation, seen in her life style in terms of discipline, transparency, honesty, reliability, hard work and diligence. Mummy had zero tolerance for uncultured, wild manner/ behavior/ attitude, unruly life style and will not waste time to address such issues or call to order anyone found guilty of such anywhere, anytime, no matter who is involved, she had no apology to render for such cautions.
Mummy, you lived a fulfilled life, you were a diamond, a jewel of noble character rare to find, your type is seen once in a millennium and passes across the planet once in a life time. The heavens themselves will blaze the death of such a princess. I can imagine the celebration and welcome accorded to you in your home calling in a grand style, ripe age of 90+.
Mummy, our friendship spanned over decades of years, you touched, nurtured, mentored, groomed, encouraged and tutored me all these years of my widowhood. My closeness to you helped to heal the wounds of early widowhood, for you formed a shield, shelter, place of refuge from time to time when the emptiness, loneliness of widowhood became devastating, traumatic, helpless and hopeless. You lent tender caring soothing hands, comforting words that built up my self-esteem once more. My young daughters were always thrilled, excited, fascinated whenever they visited your house to see how orderly and well-kept your house was. You had zero tolerance for dirtiness and scattered environment, so they must obey and comply to rules when they visit. Mummy, pages will not accommodate my times, experiences, memorable and teaching periods I had with you. The seeds you sowed and invested in my life will bear bountiful fruits that will bless my generation and even generation after me. Posterity will attest to this that you are a woman of substance, made of a sterner stuff. My last days with you were enriching, memorable so the devil lost out completely for I was divinely guided and was not taken unawares …Praise God!!!!
Rest in perfect peace in the loving hands of your creator who fearfully and wonderfully made you a master piece of his creation.
Adieu fashion woman per excellence.
Your daughter and children Oby, Chinenye, Ifeoma & Ifeatu Eruchalu.

March 11, 2019

HURRAY AND PRAISES INFINITE TO GOD FOR A LIFE WELL LIVED - Chief Magistrate (rtd) Dr. Mrs. Ngozi Okoye
It is with joy and nostalgia that I write these words of comfort to my other siblings/life long friends Ijem(maama to me), Meto,
Emmy, Gugua and Uncle Cholly(as we fondly call him), at the transition of our beloved mummy, Ogalanya nwanyi, ever radiant Lady Bessy, Uzoaku Onwuamaegbu. Indeed mama lived a fulfilled life and died at a very ripe age, in the way I know she wanted to go. A teacher of no mean order and a caterer, the likes you don't have these days! She baked the best cakes then which her daughter Ijem, our new Chief Judge inherited. I very proudly boast that Ijem baked my wedding cake in 1983 and was my Chief Bride's maid. Mama nurtured her 5 children so well that they all reached the pinnacle in their chosen professions. Yet she was not boastful. She celebrated her 90th birthday last year December. Those of you that attended it will testify to it's grandiose setup and the charity work that the family showed. Mama was celebrated. She couldn't have asked for more. She witnessed her funeral so I know she died a happy death. Being buried just few weeks of her beloved daughter being sworn in as the Chief Judge of Anambra State. She may not have witnessed it but she knew about it. Our uncle Emmy rose to the highest rank in the Nigerian Army. Meto is a renowned practising medical Dr in London. Uncle Cholly reached the pinnacle of his carrier in the World bank and Guguam lives and works in London. Please join me in bidding mama farewell and a peaceful repose of her soul with her creator. Bye mummy untill we meet to part no more. His Worship Chief Magistrate (rtd) Dr. Mrs. Ngozi Okoye

March 11, 2019

TRIBUTE to STRONG MAMA by Kenny Njelimus
Ogalanyanwanyi ,Ogbueshi, mama Chief Judge Anambra State ,Nwanyi di mma,marakwa ihe ochoro na ihe o na eme mgbe Nile.
Mama you left wonderful and great children with great heart.
Mama you lived your life with carefulness in all,
Mama you never allow anybody to pity you or help you as an old woman because you were always strong .
Mama you had the spirit of I CAN DO IT all the time.you are strong that you stay far to see & know who is coming in to your house.
Mama you are strong that you still drive at old age if you are not stopped.
Mama I realised your Strongness when I wanted to help you to walk to where lawyers wife are staying at my mum's burial (who is your friend) but you told me to leave you that YOU CAN WALK.
Mama you are a CARING mother which I experienced when I lost my mum& still experiencing from you daughter. I never forget your soft words you told me which made me to stop crying .
Mama you fought the good fight and finished your race.I will leave this hymn for you because u love singing.
**Fight the good fight with all thy might
Christ is thy strength and Christ thy right
Lay hold on life ,and it shall be
Thy joy and crown eternally.
***Run the straight race,through God's good grace
Lift up thine eyes and seek his face ,
Life with its way before us lies,
Christ is the path and Christ the prize.
ADIEU Mama
ADIEU Ogalanyanwanyi
ADIEU Ogbueshi

March 11, 2019

TRIBUTE TO MAMA - by Chinyere Ufere
I remember the first time I was introduced to you, Mama. You were so warm and charming and won me completely and instantly.
It didn't seem like a first meeting, it was like we'd known for ages.
Mama to know you, is to love you. You were virtue personified. A great woman, who loved God, nurtured a fervent relationship with Him, and served Him faithfully to the best of your abilities. It is only natural for these wonderful attributes of yours to rub off positively on your children and those around you. Thank you for being such a shining example of what a Woman of Substance should be. I'll live to cherish those brief but very special moments I was privileged to have shared with you.
Adieu Mama!
Rest well in the Bosom of the Lord
Chinyere(chin-chin loving) Ufere

March 11, 2019

Tribute to a great mother of one of us - by Laetitia Akinlami
Mama Ije anyi ,
You were by extension our mother in the House until the Lord ,the great giver of life called you to Himself which is the other side of life and the life that is eternal. We mourn your absence and your strength which we see in your daughter Ije CJ and which we also drew from and will continue to draw from . We mourn you along with your great and loving daughter but we mourn as those who have hope that someday we will meet to sing the everlasting song of glory in the glorious presence of our saviour Jesus the Christ of God who had shown us the way and in whose truth we journey. Mama, you were a wise woman who built her house upon the rock and so strong is the house and the peace of those who dwell therein cannot be shaken .Sleep on great woman . Maranatha !!!.

March 11, 2019

I GRIEVE WITH YOU by Chidube CC Mojekwu Esq
The Hon. Chief Judge of Anambra State, Hon. Justice Ijem Onwuamaegbu.
I saw as posted by Hon. CR in DCRs WhatsApp forum on 9/3/19 an obituary picture and burial events of LADY BESSY LILIAN UZOAKU ONWUAMEGBU. I made enquiries and discovered that she is Your Lordship's mother.
Accept my deepest sympathy as Your Lordship goes through the agony of loosing such a beloved part of Your Lordship being.
May the Almighty grant Your Lordship the fortitude to bear the loss and moments of grief. Dust we are, to dust we shall return. To every thing, there is time. God's will is supreme and we can only give Him glory for His graces on us are more than our deprivations.
I pray God to always guide Your Lordship in the ways of "OGBUESHI OGALANYA-NWANYI".
From Your Lordship's golden heart, I have no doubt that God is doing that in Your Lordship's life.
Take heart Mummy.
His Hon. C.C MOJEKWU
DCR (HIGH COURT & RETURN OF CASES).
Chidube CC Mojekwu Esq

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Mama darling, it's the third anniversary of your passing and it seems just like yesterday. How time flies. I am lighting a candle all day in memory of you and just thanking God for the gift of an awesome Grandma like you for a whole 37 years. I hope you like the wreath we placed at your grave today.

Mama, you lived well. You fought a good fight, you ran the race and you finished the race exceptionally well.

Three years may have passed, but I still think of you and miss you every day.

Thank you for everything you taught me. Thank you for being not only my Grandma, but also my friend whom I could count on in good and bad times. Your love and support were unconditional and unwavering.

I love you so much. Mama, in life I loved and honoured you. In death, I will continue to love and honour you.

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Mama darling, continue resting in the bosom of our Lord Jesus Christ. Amen.

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Happy Easter in Heaven, my darling Mama.

Thinking of you today as I do always.

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Bessy Lilian Uzoaku Onwuamaegbu 1928 – 2019

March 18, 2019

Lady Bessy Lilian Uzoaku Onwuamaegbu was born to church-teacher parents, Mr. Gabriel and Mrs. Mercy Ucheakpunwa Egemonye of Uruagu, Nnewi on Wednesday, 3 October 1928. Her mother was all set to leave for the market when she went into labour. The baby girl she bore at noon was consequently named 'Uzoaku' (Road/Path to Wealth). Her personality would reflect the urgency of her emergence as she proved a brisk, purposeful person. 

Bessy was the third of five children, and her siblings were Benson, Dennis, Grace and Joseph. Losing her father at the age of eight, she was sent to Agbor to live with her cousin, Mrs. Rose Udegbu, wife of an Anglican Headmaster, who would assist in raising her. One of her enduring memories from that period was learning to make ‘garri’ from scratch. That skill would prove invaluable in the deprivation of the Civil War. After two years, she returned to Nnewi on her mother’s urging, spending 1939 in her hometown. She daily walked six miles to and from the Central School, Nkwo Nnewi, and another ten miles on water-fetching trips to and from the Obiakoloma stream. The water-drawing treks, when undertaken in the moonlight, were termed 'Mmili Onwa'.

In 1940, Bessy went to live in Aba with Reverend and Mrs. U. Boyle – the Sierra-Leonian couple who built the present St Michael’s Cathedral, Aba – and from there she attended St. Monica’s College, Ogbunike. She subsequently proceeded to the Teacher Training College in Old Umuahia for three years, then worked as a teacher in Warri and Obosi. On completion of her post teacher-training bond of 4 years, Bessy got married to Moses Obumneme Onwuamaegbu, then the Principal of lheme Memorial Grammar School (IMGS) Aro-Ndizuogu, Imo State. Moses’ siblings were Isaac, Hannah, Gilbert and Jemima. Their marriage produced five children: ljem, Meto, Emeka, Chinwe and Ucheora. At the time of her death, she’d had ten grand children – Chioma, Osazuwa (d), Christine, Paul, Grace, Karen, Femi, Natachi, Obi and Kosi – and had two great-grandchildren, Nathaniel and Joshua.

With her marriage, Bessy joined the staff of IMGS as a teacher. Four years later, the couple left for the UK where she studied Catering and Dietetics while her husband obtained his Law degrees, finishing as the fourth Nigerian to earn a PHD in Law.

On their return to Nigeria, they settled in Port Harcourt. Bessy worked as an officer at the Shell Petroleum Development Company as a contract staff, and subsequently at the famous Kingsway Stores. Five years later, on the outbreak of the civil law, she and her family moved to Oba. The war stripped them of virtually all their possessions, including their properties in Port Harcourt due to the ‘Abandoned Property’ policy of Rivers State.

Facing up to the challenge of starting life afresh, Bessy and her family settled to Enugu. She manifested her entrepreneurial skills, establishing businesses in baking and retail. In 1972, her husband was appointed the Attorney General and Commissioner of Justice of the East Central State, which has since become the five states: Abia, Anambra, Ebonyi, Enugu and Imo. In that early postwar era, Lady Onwuamaegbu took up an appointment with the East Central State Government as a health sector catering officer.

Her husband was appointed a judge of the State High Court in 1978, and in 1980 the family moved to Onitsha where he was sitting. Bessy joined the staff of General Hospital Onitsha where she worked until she retired.

Upon retirement, Bessy immersed herself in service to the church and humanity. She was after all the offspring of evangelists, raised partly in a vicarage in Aba. She worked on many church committees and projects in a leadership capacity, including the Lady Knights of the Niger Diocese – comprising the ladies of Awka, Nnewi and Enugu Ladies – which she led for several years. She was a Patroness of both St Paul's Anglican Church and St John the Apostle Church Oba.

Bessy’s generosity and philanthropy were legendary. Her donations to the church included two marble pulpits at St Paul's Oba, and Holy Trinity, Uruagu. She gave much towards the building and establishment of the new St John the Apostle Church, Oba. Encountering a widow in Oba, and learning that she and her children would shortly be rendered homeless, Bessy funded the construction of a three-bedroom house for the vulnerable family. She also routinely paid the school fees of many young people whose education was threatened by lack of means. Considered a fashion trendsetter, Bessy clothed many women around her in the latest fashions over the years. She loved to bake and from her Port Harcourt days through the Civil war, Enugu and Onitsha phases, was often sought to make wedding cakes for couples across eastern Nigeria, some of which she did gratis.

An effervescent soul, Bessy championed the rights of all in society. Although never keen on flying, her sense of adventure saw her visit various countries on different continents. She loved to drive, a passion developed in an era when few women could be found behind the wheel on Nigeria’s highways, and which she pursued well into her eighties – until prevailed upon by her children to give up. No mean feat in Onitsha.

Fiercely independent, Bessy was methodical and fastidious, remaining strong, lively and articulate to the end. She passed away after two days of illness, On 22 February 2019 – a day to the 30thanniversary of her husband’s demise. Her remains will rest beside his in the premises of St John the Apostle Church, Isu Oba, which they had both striven to establish.

Apposite to an appraisal of her life are the resonant verses of the Bible’s Book of Proverbs, chapter 31.

A wife of noble character who can find?
She is worth far more than rubies.
Her husband has full confidence in her
and lacks nothing of value…
She opens her arms to the poor
and extends her hands to the needy…
She is clothed with strength and dignity;
she can laugh at the days to come…

The imperishable lines of William Wordsworth are also apt of Lady Bessy Onwuamaegbu:

A perfect woman, nobly planned

To warn, to comfort and command

And yet a spirit still and bright

With something of angelic light.

May her valiant and serene soul rest in perfect peace, Amen.

My condolences

March 20, 2019

my condolences to the onwuamaegbu family.we are all mortals here on earth.

Mama's vist in Nov 2018 - by Uchenna Onwuamaegbu Ugwu

March 11, 2019

Mama came to my office in November to bring her birthday party invitation for me but I was not around.

She repeated the second time and I was in the office, I was overjoyed to see her, we walked through the mall together and, in my usual manner with her, I asked her how she was feeling. She said "I am feeling blessed at 90."

After using the bathroom she gave the cleaner a tip. With joy, the cleaner said "Mama, God bless you ma" and Mama replied, "No, God has blessed me already. I am 90 years now, I walk on my own and eat what I want to eat and I see clearly, so, the right thing to ask is for 'God to bless me More.'" The cleaner replied and said "God bless you more, Ma!"

I am so glad that my Children and I have always visited Mama and I am so glad that I shared some memorable times with her especially on the 27th Dec 2018.

My only regret is that I never got the chance to do that long-planned interview with her to record her life experience for us to learn from.

I will never procrastinate again!

The reason I will celebrate mama is that she had always expressed a wish to go peacefully when the time came- without any sickness that would leave her a burden or at the mercy of anyone. She often said ... when the right time comes, I will go to my maker peacefully.

Mama Rest In Peace.

Uchenna Ada Onwuamaegbu-Ugwu

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