ForeverMissed

This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Lance  Ciaciura, 28, born on December 24, 1974 and passed away on May 2, 2003. We will remember him forever.

May 2, 2022
May 2, 2022
I see you every day before I walk out the door. Your shirt is half tucked and you're holding my hand. I remember how kind you are and i miss you man. I would have n will get a harley just to vibe n ride with you. I use the lesson of your life as well as others to guide me and remind me any day could be my last. Life is so precious. To anyone reading this may you be blessed with many more days. You will never be forgotten Lance. Ever. I'm thinking its time for a tattoo what do you say I love you
December 25, 2021
December 25, 2021
Thinking of you Lance. Not just at Christmas time, your birthday - Happy heavenly birthday Lance! Hope you and Grandma Lee are having a nice time together ❤ Sending my love to you both. Can't believe its been 18 years?! We miss you!
December 24, 2021
December 24, 2021
My dearest Lance, I'm wishing you a happy birthday my son. It's been too many years since I've been able to get one of those pick me off the ground hugs that I loved so much. What I wouldn't do to feel that again.
Life is forever changing, some days are good and some not so good. As for me, I'm doing really good, others are really struggling mentally, physically and emotionally. I'm at a loss as to how I can help them. I know you would have known exactly what to say and how to make things right again. So I ask you Lance, could give me the strength and knowledge to know what to say, and help make a difficult season of life good again? There's so many what ifs, should be's and if onlys.
The past can't be changed, if it could you'd still be here. I love you Lance so very much.
May 2, 2020
May 2, 2020
Loved. Missed...never forgotten. This day is always bitter sweet. The people and love you had on this earth remains. I think about you constantly. I remind myself no matter what I am going through I am blessed to be here and must make the best of every moment. I love you. Always and forever
December 24, 2019
December 24, 2019
I have learned a lot from losing you. Your impact on so many lives and the pain your loss causes. It helps me to be a better man and make good choices every day. And to always be weary when on 2. It's the other people we gotta worry about. I know you've been there for me when it counts. I know I have Angel's in heaven looking down and helping me when I need it most. I wouldn't be here today if that wasn't true. May 2nd is forever in my heart. You will always be missed and never ever forgotten. I love you Lance.
December 24, 2019
December 24, 2019
It doesn't feel like 16 years has passed since you were taken far too soon. Children have been born and lifetimes have been lived since you've gone. So many things have changed. I hope you're having a heavenly feast today as you watch over us all. All our love and cherished memories remain here on Earth. Until we meet again. Love from one cousin to another.
December 24, 2019
December 24, 2019
Man it's been a long time and it still feels like yesterday I miss you man! I miss everything you did for everyone around you ,you were the anchor holding so many people together and since you have moved on nobody has been the same.....I'll keep being everything you showed me even if it's by myself....happy birthday brother I fucking miss you!
December 24, 2018
December 24, 2018
Happy 44th birthday dad, each year i grow farther from you, say hi to Christian for me <3
May 3, 2017
May 3, 2017
Another year my son grows another year away from you. Bitter sweet. Missing you always cousin. Remembering you today - Love Jonny
December 25, 2016
December 25, 2016
Merry Christmas Lance! and Happy (belated) birthday! 13 years has gone by?!
This time of year always reminds me of holidays at Grandma Lees with my cool cousin Lance. You are missed and thought of often. Say hi to her up there and let her know we miss her too. Another year gone but never forgotten :'(
May 3, 2016
May 3, 2016
Forever missed. Never forgotten. Lil Jon turned 8 today! A day of love and celebrating is always a day of remembrance and appreciation. Im humbled by the lesson I learned from losing you and live my life in your honor. Hopefully she's right there next to you so you can watch together as #LYLA unfolds. I love you Lance! I Love you grandma! I Love you all.
May 2, 2016
May 2, 2016
I miss you more than words can describe, your missed daily and I don't think that will change ever!
December 25, 2015
December 25, 2015
I miss you man I know every time I'm in need of some guidance you are there listening and helping and once again you have come through you have never let me down and I'll never stop missing you you were my best friend my brother my mentor in life I looked up to you for the person you have all ways been. Your no longer with us down here physically but I will all ways look up to you! I really miss you
December 24, 2015
December 24, 2015
HaPpy BiRtHdAy 41years ago today I gave birth to a baby boy who changed my life, I wish with every ounce of my being that you were still here.... I miss you more than word can say, you are forever in my heart and soul. I love you always and forever, Mom
December 24, 2015
December 24, 2015
I love you Lance. I miss you and patiently wait for the day we are reunited. I hope there are Harleys and tattoo parlors in heaven. We have soo much catching up to do. Might end up inking my whole body when we link up. Meaningful creations that I want you to administer. Nothing would make me happier then to sit in your chair and talk for hours while you make me a masterpiece. Not sure if I'll do it while I'm here still. Feel like it was supposed to be from you. We'll see. I have BIG things coming in the future. Tell grandma she's inspired me. #LYLA2016 and beyond. I love you Lance! Peace!
December 24, 2015
December 24, 2015
Happy Birthday Lance! You are missed so much by so many people. Your presence is amplified during these concentrated moments and time sets in a bit more. Taken too soon and missed forever! Sending my love.
May 3, 2015
May 3, 2015
What does it look like in heaven
Is it peaceful and free like they say
Does the sun shine bright forever
Have your fears and your pain gone away

Cause Here on earth it feels like everything... good is missing, since you left
Here on earth everything is different, there is an emptiness

Oh-oh, I,
I hope you're dancing in the sky
I hope you're singing with the angels choir
I hope the angels, know what they have
I bet it's nice up in heaven since you arrived


Now tell me, what do you do up in heaven
Are your days filled with love and light
Is there music? is there art and invention
Tell me are you happy and more alive

Cause Here on earth it feels like everything... good is missing, since you left
And here on earth everything is different, there is an emptiness

Oh-oh, I,
I hope you're dancing in the sky
I hope you're singing with the angels choir
I hope the angels, know what they have
I bet it's nice up in heaven since you arrived
Since you arrived
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Miss you so much! Love ya forever.
May 2, 2015
May 2, 2015
Thinking of you, Lance. You are not forgotten. Love and prayers for your family. Nothing fixes it, really. It will be fixed some day, just not here.
December 25, 2014
December 25, 2014
Merry Christmas. Hope u got your boloons that we sent to heven yesterday!!!
December 25, 2014
December 25, 2014
Lance, you are in my thoughts and are loved and missed. Love and hugs for your family.
December 24, 2014
December 24, 2014
happy Heavenly birthday. Prayers for you family
December 24, 2014
December 24, 2014
It's hard to believe 40 years ago today me and your aunts, Sandy & Judy, were sitting in Grandma and Grandpa living room clinging to the telephone waiting for it to ring with the news of of your arrival. I remember thinking you were the best Christmas present ever! My nephew, my brother, you were taken too soon from us, but no one can take my memories and love for you away from me. You will forever live on in my heart. P.S. thank you for being my guardian angel and riding along the open roads with me and Tom. I know you hear my prayers each time we get on our bike. Love Cheesa
December 24, 2014
December 24, 2014
Happy Birthday Lance!! It still doesn't feel real and you're always on our minds and in our thoughts! Missing you! Enjoy your heavenly celebration with Grandma and Grandpa! XoXo
December 23, 2014
December 23, 2014
Happy Birthday Brother!!!! Miss you sooooo dam much!!!!! Things have changed so much and a lot for the good and somethings aren't so great right now and I know you are around and I know that you know, guess we all grow up sometime lol!!! Anyways, I love you and wish you and everyone around you a Merry Christmas and Happy birthday Bro!!! P.S. Tell Dime I said yo!!! See ya later bro!!! Love you!!! m/_ _m/
July 10, 2014
July 10, 2014
I just recently heard about the tragedy. And while I only knew Lance for a while back in High School, I considered him (and the whole crew) the Best Friends I have ever known.

- Darnell
June 9, 2014
June 9, 2014
My Angel, My Lance, Missng you so much today and always, ther hasn't been a day that goes by that I don't think of you, wishing you were here.All the dreams we had and never able to experiance. The love you had for your family, your babygirl and life......it breaks my heart, each and everyday. You are forever in our hearts, I miss your big teddy bear hugs off of the ground.Forever and ever always ♡
May 2, 2014
May 2, 2014
What a beautiful day... missing you more then ever as I get ready to embark on an artistic journey into tattooing. Keeping it in the family n as close to you as I can. I love you cousin n miss you everyday. You are shining your light on us today n helping to cleanse the earth when it rains. I feel your spirit in the wind n on my face when the sun shines bright.
Lil Jon turns 6 today n just lost his first tooth.... Such a wonderful life to live with family, friends n strangers. Thanks be to God for every day we wake up. Blessed are we n forgetting that will never happen. You are forever missed n never ever a lost memory. You've taught me so much n helped me to be a better person. We were alike in more ways then I ever knew. Wish we could have been together for Easter Sunday 4/20/2014 ;)
I know your are resting in peace for I can feel it n believe it. I cannot wait to reunite with you again when my time comes. I love you Lance. I love you Aunt Cathy n the rest of our family. And to anyone that knew n loved my cousin Lance - Thank you n I have love for you as well.

Promoting positivity, love and laughter always...I will help change the world for the better. Comedy is my savior n my life.

                      Love always,
                      Jonny 2Lobes
May 2, 2014
May 2, 2014
Thinking of you, especially today, Lance. I really like the song on your site. It reminds me of my own son, gone too soon. I do not understand why the young die too soon. It seems God takes the best. Some day I will know all about it. Until then, know you are loved and missed, always. Love, Mrs. Barnett
December 26, 2013
December 26, 2013
Happy Birthday and Merry Christmas Lance! This time of year I think about you more - memories of celebrating your birthday with Christy during the Christmas Eve celebration at Grandma Lee's. I know you two sit together now and that gives me joy. We miss you each and every day. Hugs n Kisses from here to there!
December 25, 2013
December 25, 2013
Happy BIRTHDAY Lance :-) We love and miss you very much.
December 24, 2013
December 24, 2013
Happy birthday, old friend. I had a dream about you the other night. You never speak in my dreams but you always have that half-smile, sneer-grin thing going on, so I know everything is a-ok.
December 24, 2013
December 24, 2013
Happy birthday cousin! I met an old band mate of yours the other day. He was towing a vehicle to our shop. So many lives touched n so many people with memories. I wish I had many more of my own with you...I live my life so that I will make it to where you are so we can continue sharing experiences again someday. Forever missed and never forgotten. Love you always. Jonny 2Lobes
May 2, 2013
May 2, 2013
10 years and my heart continues to break. I'm sick to my stomach today's anniversary has been extra hard. It feels like yesterday. For years it was only you and me, our life changed when we met the man who became your dad. We were a family, then came Kristin and our family was complete. We'll never be a complete family again. <3. I miss you with all my heart, I want our family back, tears.
May 2, 2013
May 2, 2013
Lance Ciaciura. To the cousin that I never got to fully know. Our time was short but your memory will last forever. I pay tribute to you and know that you are still with us in spirit everyday. And one day we will meet again and get continue our journey together again where we belong. I truly miss you and the opportunities we are deprived of. Tattoos, motorcycles and music we will share...
May 2, 2013
To my one and only brother, I wasn't the best at telling you that I love you, as we were too cool for that in our young days. I wish I would have everyday. Everyday you are gone , I hope you know that you were my best friend and I loved you to the moon and back! Keep watching over our family. With love, you're only sister
December 24, 2012
December 24, 2012
Happy Birthday Brother!!! Miss you and love you!!!!
May 2, 2012
May 2, 2012
Wow...9 years. Every year that passes I just cannot believe the time that has gone by. I also see today as joy b/c of the lives that have been given to us on this day since your passing. My nephew, 4 years ago, and Landon, your nephew, 7 years ago. I know you gave us those gifts to continue to remember you and never forget that you are watching over us! We love and miss you cousin! Always!
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May 2, 2022
May 2, 2022
I see you every day before I walk out the door. Your shirt is half tucked and you're holding my hand. I remember how kind you are and i miss you man. I would have n will get a harley just to vibe n ride with you. I use the lesson of your life as well as others to guide me and remind me any day could be my last. Life is so precious. To anyone reading this may you be blessed with many more days. You will never be forgotten Lance. Ever. I'm thinking its time for a tattoo what do you say I love you
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December 24, 2020
Gone but never forgotten. I think about you often. Anytime I'm on my motorcycle. It keeps me grounded and humbled. I feel I have a guardian angel that watches over me and helps me when I need it. I've never experienced the wobbles and shakes at 150mph and I feel you may have something to do with that. Maybe not but I like to think you are there with me when I'm taking risks and making sure I see another day. The impact you have left on my life is tremendous. Your absence in physical form is not felt in spirit. I love you cousin. Now and forever. You are forever missed. See you on the other side cuz.

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December 24, 2020
Christmas is always a time I remember Lance. Not just because it's his birthday but for all the great memories we shared at the holidays. Celebrating at Grandma Lee's. Memories I will always hold close to my heart. Being one of his younger cousins he never made me feel like it was uncool to hang out with us and I really appreciated that. Lance was always one of the cool cousins and someone I looked up to. Merry Christmas and Happy Birthday Lance!

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