It’s hard to imagine life without Larry. He’s been such a big part of our existence for the past 35 years. He was always supportive.
In the early days, Larry was Wayne’s boss and mentor. Larry had a special knack for providing opportunities to those around him that thrust them into the limelight. Larry volunteered Wayne to lead a three-month study to lay out options for the future of the entire nuclear weapons complex and brief it to the Director’s Advisory Committee. It was an audacious challenge. Larry had an infectious enthusiasm for whatever he was working on that was contagious to those around him and made such challenges welcome. But everything was not just business. Larry and Sylvia regaled us with delightful parties at their house where we got to know their other friends and family.
Over the years, what started as a work relationship grew to include weekend trips to Strawberry to enjoy Larry’s historic family cabin on the Stanislaus River, getting up early on Monday mornings to drive back to work. Larry also introduced us to the joys of Pinecrest Lake, first by inviting us to their newly purchased cabin there (which he wanted us to buy) and then by calling two years later to tell us a nearby cabin was for sale on the lake. We bought it. Soon Larry delivered an 8x10 picture of our cabin, with Wayne’s face superimposed on the Pope hanging in mid-air, blessing the cabin. We also traveled with Larry and Sylvia to China, Lake Powell and Antarctica. Sylvia’s sister, Mercedes, frequently joined us, adding to the fun and excitement. Of course, there were occasional upsets along the way. In the middle of the night at Lake Powell the wind broke us loose from our moorings. We were awakened by a big thud as the boat hit a rock squarely between the two propellers. Larry remained cool and collected throughout it all. After securing the boat more carefully that night, we cruised on in the following days to enjoy glorious sights, including kayaking into deep slot canyons lined with red rock. Not surprisingly, Larry and Sylvia became our favorite travel companions.
After Larry’s retirement, we also started a tradition of going to breakfast at 8:15am, followed by walks along the arroyo, whenever we were all at home on Saturday morning. We updated each other about our travels and developments in our families. Wayne and Larry would also discuss the current state of national security affairs and the latest happenings at the Lab. After a gap of several months, one of these breakfasts lasted through lunch and an ice cream snack in mid-afternoon because we had so much to catch up on. Over all these years, we came to recognize that Larry and Sylvia had adopted us as part of their extended family. There could be nothing better! A week before Larry died I couldn’t get my boat to start to get to our cabin across Pinecrest Lake. Larry loaned me his boat and he and Sylvia invited me to stay overnight at R2, their second river cabin. On the spur of the moment, Sylvia prepared a delicious dinner. The next day Larry and Sylvia came to the marina carrying deck chairs to sit on the gangway while they watched and offered support as I struggled to start the boat.
Larry remains a big part of us and we will always remember his quick wit, his enthusiasm for new adventures, his intense caring and support for everyone around him and the many laughs and love we shared.
Jacki and Wayne Shotts