June 17, 2021
June 17, 2021
TRIBUTE TO MY HUSBAND AND FRIEND JOSHUA ADEGBEMILE AJADI DADA
Shared by Surviving Children of Rev... on June 10, 2021
It is a difficult task for me to compose who you were to me as I think about you; but you were my friend, my confidant, my priest, my pride, my partner, and my joy. Coming to know you and to walk with you was a mystery because my parents never allowed any male to visit me nor to come toasting around our house in my early days to the extent that such young man may be beaten or insulted whenever they visited, but you were the only person who was never molested nor maltreated from my home and my siblings, and you stood every test faithfully. I never thought of marrying anyone close to my vicinity because of the way my parents handled me since I was from a Muslim family: but you transcend every male, I ever met in my life!
You were a true lover of God and a lover of truth. You made the Bible your standard in every way as you served the Lord. You were very active in your duty to God. Your faith in the Lord was so strong and unwavering and you were a lover of peace. You helped me to grow in love over my old nature of anger and God so blessed me by giving you to me. I can never forget your contributions to my life.
Even though we quarrelled many times, yet you never allowed people to know anything about our inner room issues and relationship. You were a man of great humour and fun. You never gave your life to thinking nor did you bother about quarrels. You made sure we never carried over quarrels for days unresolved. You easily apologized when we quarrelled and you always brought a joke from every issue - thus we never had any cause to invite friends or family members to settle any quarrel among us, since we easily agreed.
You had a big heart that accommodated so many into our home with your meagre salary, yet without complaint nor worries. You were a very hard-working and loving man who always loved to give and to assist any needy person around you. So many children (the good, the bad and the ugly) were brought to the house for me to nurture due to your act of love but you were a man who always kept your pain from others. Even when you were sick, you rarely showed it except it became very obvious.
I never forgot how you took care of me for several months when I was sick and indisposed on three occasions in recent times. You cooked and personally took care of me! Even when your children wanted to employ a nurse for me, you objected but chose to be my nurse until I regained strength and was able to walk again. No house chore was difficult for you to perform – even in your old age - just to make me happy. You would pound yam, go to the market, and you would make any type of food that I desired.
I would have died before you, but you did all possible to support me until I survived my trying moments. Although you were a disciplinarian and a true teacher, yet we always agreed together in training our children. You never allowed us to suffer, and you provided in whatever little way you could without owing debts. You were a rare man to imagine!
I cannot stop talking about your love, the joy, the laughter, the struggles, the pains, and the disappointments we shared all these 60 years that we have known each other. I miss you dearly, but I take solace in the joy of the Lord and in the fact that you are now with your maker until we meet again at the resurrection morning. Sleep on my darling husband and my love.
Juliana Olayoonu Dada
Your loving wife
Shared by Surviving Children of Rev... on June 10, 2021
It is a difficult task for me to compose who you were to me as I think about you; but you were my friend, my confidant, my priest, my pride, my partner, and my joy. Coming to know you and to walk with you was a mystery because my parents never allowed any male to visit me nor to come toasting around our house in my early days to the extent that such young man may be beaten or insulted whenever they visited, but you were the only person who was never molested nor maltreated from my home and my siblings, and you stood every test faithfully. I never thought of marrying anyone close to my vicinity because of the way my parents handled me since I was from a Muslim family: but you transcend every male, I ever met in my life!
You were a true lover of God and a lover of truth. You made the Bible your standard in every way as you served the Lord. You were very active in your duty to God. Your faith in the Lord was so strong and unwavering and you were a lover of peace. You helped me to grow in love over my old nature of anger and God so blessed me by giving you to me. I can never forget your contributions to my life.
Even though we quarrelled many times, yet you never allowed people to know anything about our inner room issues and relationship. You were a man of great humour and fun. You never gave your life to thinking nor did you bother about quarrels. You made sure we never carried over quarrels for days unresolved. You easily apologized when we quarrelled and you always brought a joke from every issue - thus we never had any cause to invite friends or family members to settle any quarrel among us, since we easily agreed.
You had a big heart that accommodated so many into our home with your meagre salary, yet without complaint nor worries. You were a very hard-working and loving man who always loved to give and to assist any needy person around you. So many children (the good, the bad and the ugly) were brought to the house for me to nurture due to your act of love but you were a man who always kept your pain from others. Even when you were sick, you rarely showed it except it became very obvious.
I never forgot how you took care of me for several months when I was sick and indisposed on three occasions in recent times. You cooked and personally took care of me! Even when your children wanted to employ a nurse for me, you objected but chose to be my nurse until I regained strength and was able to walk again. No house chore was difficult for you to perform – even in your old age - just to make me happy. You would pound yam, go to the market, and you would make any type of food that I desired.
I would have died before you, but you did all possible to support me until I survived my trying moments. Although you were a disciplinarian and a true teacher, yet we always agreed together in training our children. You never allowed us to suffer, and you provided in whatever little way you could without owing debts. You were a rare man to imagine!
I cannot stop talking about your love, the joy, the laughter, the struggles, the pains, and the disappointments we shared all these 60 years that we have known each other. I miss you dearly, but I take solace in the joy of the Lord and in the fact that you are now with your maker until we meet again at the resurrection morning. Sleep on my darling husband and my love.
Juliana Olayoonu Dada
Your loving wife