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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Laurence Liu, 69 years old, born on May 2, 1945, and passed away on January 21, 2015. We will remember him forever.
January 21, 2023
January 21, 2023
Time is flying by so quickly that I can hardly keep up. I miss you very much and hope that you've heard my conversations with you. Remember my promise to you that I would take Andrew to Lake Como to meet you? I'm hoping this is the year I will fulfill that promise. But before that, we have to go through a lot of pain of growing up. I know you've been following the progress but I really need your help through this. It's been a rough road filled with much laughter and sorrow. The last 2+ years have been very challenging, at best, and has set him back quite a lot. I keep my faith and envision a grown, happy, healthy & successful person. He's very much like you in many ways, good & bad. I'm at a crossroad and don't know how to help. Like our relationship, I fear that I'm not giving him what he needs despite my best efforts and how I know to be supportive. I realize that we all want to be heard in a different way and I'm not sure if I'm providing the right support...just like when you & I were having troubles. I know now that we did not know how to support each other in the ways the other person needed to be supported. Please help me! I miss you everyday and truly wish you were here with us!!
January 22, 2019
January 22, 2019
I can't believe it's been 4 years. Not a day goes by that you don't come into my thoughts somehow, somewhere. The other day, as I was coming back from dropping Andrew off at school, I spotted your old car! You sold the car, yet, it was on the same street as me, same license plate, as if following me. I tried to follow you but I was in the wrong lane. At that moment, I felt that you have been with us the entire time...watching over us and helping us through every difficulty and celebrated every success. I know you are here to witness every milestone we reach. You are very much here with us.
January 21, 2019
January 21, 2019
I was scrolling the Contact list on my Iphone yesterday for a freind whose last name is Lee. Strangely, Larry's name popped up on the screen. It is obvious that I had not edited out his name from the list. I could not explain why I had kept it but in seeing his name gave me an undescribeable feeling that he is still with us. RIP my friend.
July 1, 2015
July 1, 2015
Happy Father's Day! This is the first Father's Day you missed. I promise I will always remind Andrew what a great father he has. You will always be his role model for strength & perseverance in the face of adversity. Andrew will always remember how much you cared & loved him. I will continue to tell him stories of your life, of our times together, of your successes & struggles. You will live on in our memories! Thank you for being our guardian angel.
April 25, 2015
April 25, 2015
I first met Larry many years ago and found that we shared a love of chamber music. He was a very good friends. I knew him during many ups and downs in his life. When he moved away from my part of the country I was sorry. Because of conflicts I was unable to attend his wedding. I used to visit with him in San Francisco each autumn. It was a highlight of my year. I miss him very much and was pained by the increasing problems with his health.
February 27, 2015
February 27, 2015
Larry was a very accomplished person, a renaissance man. But what impressed me most was his strength towards the end of his life. He was calm and gracious, and did not show any bitterness or frustration. He cared a great deal about Chris, Andrew, his family and friends. A true lesson for me. May he rest in eternal peace.
February 18, 2015
February 18, 2015
Throughout the funeral services last Saturday, I was not surprised to hear about Larry’s intelligence and what an achiever he was. What surprised me was that I actually had something similar that paralleled in our lives.
For starters, we were both born in Shanghai. We both came to Hong Kong in the mid 50’s and attended Pui Ching though he graduated with all sorts of “Excellences” and “Distinctions”. But the similarities did not stop there. I remember on a hot and humid August night in 1962 we and several other Sunrisers took the famous junket on the SS Cleveland bound for San Francisco to further our studies. He went to Massachusetts and I Arkansas. After college, Larry went to work for Princeton and Stanford managing multi-million dollar endowments and I went to work for Woolworth - the Five and Dime.
That was when I realized Larry and I were not similar. He was a thoroughbred and I a jackass!
Finally, the most striking similarity was that we were both struck down by the debilitating disease, Parkinson’s which slowly took Larry from us.
I will miss him.
February 18, 2015
February 18, 2015
It was my privilege to know Larry. He is a smart man (I still remember him telling me how big an atomic bomb is while we were in high school). He is a charming, witty, gentle and caring man. He helped to instill in me the love of classical music. He encouraged me to study philosophical questions. He challenged me to think more deeply about my religious belief. He helped me to understand the power of passion.

Both of us came to the US after high school. I went to the west coast and he went to the east coast. We met again at Stanford and shared a house in Palo Alto. We had a good time together. He was my best man when I got married in 1978, and I was his best man in 1999.

It was very unfortunate that he acquired Parkinson’s decease. But against long odds, he fought his debilitating illness with courage and determination, and he never lost his sense of humor. He did not live a long life, but he lived a beautiful life. By knowing him, my life was greatly enriched.
February 17, 2015
February 17, 2015
I had my only conversation with Larry when I was in California in 2002 for my brother's funeral service. Even though it was only through a telephone but his gentleness already expressed itself fully in the conversation. I still can remember vividly his voice even now, a voice which we will miss.
February 16, 2015
February 16, 2015
Thank you for touching my life in such a profound way. I will always remember all the good times we had.
February 16, 2015
February 16, 2015
I shall always remember his gentleness and forbarance of his physical conditions. He just calmly explained his difficulties and got on with life bravely, a guy with a great inner strength!
February 16, 2015
February 16, 2015
Larry and I were both from Shanghai. Unfortunately, we did not have a chance to meet each other there, but we did have a same goal to attend Pui Ching in Hongkong.
In PC days, he attended Class of Light, and I attended Class of Faith, our
class rooms were cruelly seperated in the North and South by class rooms
of Class of Love and Class of Hope. 
Next time, we met some 30+ years after PC graduation in1962, we were
hosting a dinner for out-of-town classmate, Elizabeth Houang in SF Bay Area@ Flower Lounge with other Bay Area Sunrisers.
As organizer for our class 48th Reunion in Vancouver in 2010, I was grateful that Larry came all the way from SF Bay Area to attend. We tried
all our best to take good care of him during the Alaska Cruise.
I certainly missed him.

Parker Chin
Canada

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January 21, 2023
January 21, 2023
Time is flying by so quickly that I can hardly keep up. I miss you very much and hope that you've heard my conversations with you. Remember my promise to you that I would take Andrew to Lake Como to meet you? I'm hoping this is the year I will fulfill that promise. But before that, we have to go through a lot of pain of growing up. I know you've been following the progress but I really need your help through this. It's been a rough road filled with much laughter and sorrow. The last 2+ years have been very challenging, at best, and has set him back quite a lot. I keep my faith and envision a grown, happy, healthy & successful person. He's very much like you in many ways, good & bad. I'm at a crossroad and don't know how to help. Like our relationship, I fear that I'm not giving him what he needs despite my best efforts and how I know to be supportive. I realize that we all want to be heard in a different way and I'm not sure if I'm providing the right support...just like when you & I were having troubles. I know now that we did not know how to support each other in the ways the other person needed to be supported. Please help me! I miss you everyday and truly wish you were here with us!!
January 22, 2019
January 22, 2019
I can't believe it's been 4 years. Not a day goes by that you don't come into my thoughts somehow, somewhere. The other day, as I was coming back from dropping Andrew off at school, I spotted your old car! You sold the car, yet, it was on the same street as me, same license plate, as if following me. I tried to follow you but I was in the wrong lane. At that moment, I felt that you have been with us the entire time...watching over us and helping us through every difficulty and celebrated every success. I know you are here to witness every milestone we reach. You are very much here with us.
January 21, 2019
January 21, 2019
I was scrolling the Contact list on my Iphone yesterday for a freind whose last name is Lee. Strangely, Larry's name popped up on the screen. It is obvious that I had not edited out his name from the list. I could not explain why I had kept it but in seeing his name gave me an undescribeable feeling that he is still with us. RIP my friend.
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March 6, 2015

Larry had a natural, quiet graciousness about him all his life. He was intellectually very sharp. At the same time, he listened intently to what you had to say... took time out to consider and gauge what you said... then reflected your thoughts back to you in a rich, yet concise manner that added to your own overall understanding. This magnanimity and intellectual generosity just came naturally for him.

Larry's quick intellect takes me all the way back to our student days at MIT, when he and I, and John Yuan, shared an apartment in Cambridge one summer. Larry excelled in physics and math, as I recall. We were all taking courses that summer, but the difference was that, while the rest of us diligently pursued the requisite lectures and coursework, Larry mostly slept through them, or skipped classes altogether. Yet, come exam time, he crash-studied the night prior, then nonchalantly went in and aced it!

But Larry wasn't always studious; far from it... let me share with you this further experience from that summer in Cambridge. One sweltering evening, David Chu came over to hang out at our apartment. A noisy group of "frat rats" were out on the sidewalk, 3 floors immediately below, drinking beer and generally making a nuisance of themselves. I'm not sure if it was David or Larry who first floated the idea... We doused the lights in our apt, waited a few minutes, then heaved several water balloons out the window. They struck with precision, eliciting several screams of surprise and astonishment, then anger. They must have looked up; but only the 2nd floor windows were lit... we heard a rushing rumble of shoes to the 2nd floor... banging on the door... some frightened squeals from the 2 female student residents inside, who must have then called the police. About 2 minutes later, Cambridge police officers showed up, ordered the unruly band of grumbling (and wet) youngsters out of the building, while we cowered in the dark one floor above, and held onto our mouths and stomachs for dear life.

Many years later, when I was working in finance in New York, and Larry in investment management in Princeton, he would periodically show up in town lugging his violin. We'd have lunch or dinner together, engage in some shoptalk on investments, and debated the pros & cons of portfolio models; then he'd be off to play with his quartet, to which he was very dedicated.  There goes the polymath among us, I would think, a true renaissance man.

Larry, you left us too soon. I shall truly miss you.

JC

Photos and Remembrance of Larry

February 16, 2015
by PC Mar

Our FF Brother Larry Liu returned to Hong Kong in the mid-1990's for a very short time, maybe one or two years.  Of course, he was in HK when he was in primary and secondary school, but after MIT, he mostly stayed in the US.

As an FF Brother, he was always welcome to any of our HK Lodge events and functions, though I don't recall seeing him at many of those functions and gatherings.  In scouring through our photo archives, amazingly I found two photos that had Larry in them, and they are posted here.  The event was the Annual Ball, with the theme, Shanghai Dreaming, and the dress code was either formal or traditional Chinese dress.  In the photo of the singing of the FF Song, some members could be seen in strange outfits (like cross dressing as a female), and that is because the singing of the FF Song occurs after we have put on a skit as entertainment, and some of the members are in their skit outfits.

One other time, I ran into Bro. Larry in Central in HK, and he and I went to dinner at the Ningpo Residents Association restaurant in Central.  While at MIT, I vaguely recall sharing an apartment in Cambridge, Mass. with Larry and others like Daniel Pang, Wei Tak, and one other.  I always marveled at Larry's brilliant mind, and how he never seemed to have to study while I and others at MIT had to hit our books and notes every chance we had.  

The last time I saw Larry was in 2010 in NY at the FF Centenniel Reunion, and there was a special dinner organized and hosted by Bro. Stanley Chang and Sis. Jean.  I walked back to the NY Hilton Hotel after the dinner with Larry and during the walk, he told me much about the advancing stages of the ailment he was dealing with.  By then, he was already looking frail and weak.  

Though my interactions with Larry were not that much, I shall remember him in a very fond and warm way.  May the Lord bless and keep you and your family, Larry.  

(Added by edit:  At the dinner I had with Larry in HK, we talked about music, and in particular we talked about JS Bach's Jesu, Joy of Man's Desiring.  Larry was aghast at my temerity of suggesting that I could dance a Viennese Waltz to this, the most famous of JS Bach's compositions.  So as a remembrance of our talk about this piece, here is a link of my playing an easy version of this title.

< http://www.tangoll.com.hk/Jesu-PCM.mp3  >)

Po Mar 

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