LAWRENCE A. PETER, 1945 - 2019
Lawrence 'Larry' Peter passed away Sunday, April 14, 2019, at his home surrounded by loved ones. He was 74.
Larry was born in Cincinnati, Ohio on April 9, 1945 and spent his early years there. After receiving bachelor's degree in psychology from the University of Cincinnati, he attended Ohio State University and earned a master's degree in social work. He knew very early in life that he wanted to pursue a profession that would help others. That career began with Children's Services of Cincinnati.
In 1976 he moved to Tucson, Arizona. During the next 42 years he provided behavioral therapy and counseling services to children, adults and families as a member of group medical practices, and after 1997, through his private practice.
Larry lived a life with purpose and touched many during his short time on earth. He will be remembered as a remarkable, compassionate man who had a zest for living and a disarming sense of humor. Above all Larry understood the important things in life - the beauty of nature, the great outdoors, and living a life centered around the ones he loved most - his family and friends. That is his legacy, and he will be greatly missed in this world.
He is survived by Gayle Townsend, his wife of 24 years; daughters Kimberly Mayfield and Shannon Kent (Carey) of Tucson; granddaughter Ashley Andrews (Josh) of Show Low, Arizona; grandchildren Courtney and Chase Kent; great granddaughters Avery and Lainey Leech; Joe Townsend of Tucson; Derick Townsend and Tori Townsend Jordan of Austin, Texas.
A Celebration of Larry's Life will be held Saturday, May 18, 2019, from 9:30 am to 11:30 am at the Oro Valley United Church of Christ, 1401 E. El Conquistador Way (see directions below). In lieu of flowers please consider a donation in his name to the No Place for Hate Initiative of the Arizona Anti-Defamation League https://support.adl.org/give/174715/#!/donation/ch.or to The Nature Conservatory at https://support.nature.org/site/Donation2?df_id=15...
* Go north on Oracle Road to 10,000 N. Oracle Road (the entrance to the Hilton El Conquistador Hotel). Turn right onto El Conquistador Way and follow it for 3/4 of a mile. The entrance to the church will be on the left, just outside the gated entry to La Reserve.
After the service please remember to gather on the outdoor patio where we will inscribe tributes to Larry on river rocks that will be used for a memorial garden.
Tributes
Leave a tributeAfterglow
I'd like the memory of me to be a happy one.
I'd like to leave an afterglow of smiles when life is done.
I'd like to leave an echo whispering softly down the ways,
Of happy times and laughing times and bright and sunny days.
I'd like the tears of those who grieve, to dry before the sun;
Of happy memories that I leave when life is done.
Helen Lowrie Marshall
And, as we would sing together to Monty Python's "I'm a Lumberjack":
Larry's "a lumberjack and he's O.K. He sleeps all night and he works all day.
He cuts down trees, he eats his lunch and goes to the lavatory. On Wednesdays he goes shopping and has buttered scones for tea...." Thanks, Larry for singing and living along with me and the many who have known and loved you. Good night, my friend.
All my Love, Jill Bullock
Dear Gayle - Let us continue to love our families, nature and the world, continuing with the exuberance of Larry.
God bless you, dear sister.
You took me on many a "forced march", although I as grew older, the forced marches became wonderful hikes. And cross country skiing! You saw the abysmal failure that I was at downhill skiing, so you turned me on to hiking on skis. We hit some beautiful trails on the mountain! You introduced me to the amazing adventures that could be had through books. You taught me that it is ok to be silly (but I have never been as good at it as you were!) You taught me how to be kind and to love animals. You allowed me to have dogs, cats, and horses - even though you were horribly allergic to them all! Oh, and snakes. And rabbits. And Guinea Pigs, birds...and rats. You went to watch me at horse shows. You took me to heavy metal concerts! You introduced me to John Denver, to classical music, to silly tv shows like the Smothers Brothers and Monty Python. You blessed me with your gift of listening. You taught me to be accepting of people, even when I didn't understand or agree with them. Most importantly, you taught me how to love. How to accept others for what and who they are. How to forgive. You showed me how important family is, how deep that love goes. You always loved us, no matter what. You loved us. Thank you for being my daddy. My Papa, Pops, Padre, Dad, Daddy. I love you. Thank you for being in my life and blessing me with so much of yourself....
Next to our children, our biggest passion was travel. We created bucket lists from time to time, and overseas travel always topped our list. So we made it a point to see as much of the world as we could and pursued it with gusto - starting with our first trip to Thailand in 1995 and ending with our last trip to the Netherlands in 2017. Our favorite places were the Provence region of France and the Tuscany countryside in Italy where we often rented a villa or home with family and close friends. Larry especially liked Stockholm, Amsterdam, and of course, Paris.
No matter where we went It was a given that Larry would always make friends and keep them laughing with his zany sense of humor. I was always his biggest fan and enabler.
He also loved fine art, and we visited museums and cathedrals wherever we went. We made art a centerpiece of every home we lived in. There was scarcely a bare wall to be found.
But being outdoors was always his favorite 'home', so hiking, fishing, golf, skiing and camping filled many of our days in the White Mountains. Larry loved everything in nature.... the mountains and streams; star-filled nights around a campfire; wildflowers in Spring; Summer monsoons; the adrenaline rush of skiing all day. His greatest joy during the last summer of his life was sitting on the back porch of our cabin in Pinetop and listening to the wind in the pines.
I was truly blessed to have had Larry for 24 years of my life...yet I wanted him forever. He was the love of my life. I will miss him terribly.
Leave a Tribute
Afterglow
I'd like the memory of me to be a happy one.
I'd like to leave an afterglow of smiles when life is done.
I'd like to leave an echo whispering softly down the ways,
Of happy times and laughing times and bright and sunny days.
I'd like the tears of those who grieve, to dry before the sun;
Of happy memories that I leave when life is done.
Helen Lowrie Marshall