Denise,
I never met you or your husband, Leif, but I lost my love on January 15th, 2011, in a similar way. My heart goes out to you and your sons. My only words of comfort are your love left this life like mine did, doing what they love. I am not the kind of person that will give your platitudes. But, take comfort in th fact that he passed from this life in a place that he loved.
Annette